I felt the urgency to write this article because
of the skyrocketing divorce rate, which has reached over
75% in California
alone. The federal government stopped recording marriage statistics in
the year 2000 because it was a telltale revelation of the
moral
destruction of our nation. Divorce is a horrible sin that perpetuates
for a lifetime. The root cause of divorce and all sin is pride. The middle
letter of the words pride and sin is the letter “i.” People are
stinking proud these days, lacking sincere humility that only comes from being
close to God. The Lord is meek and lowly (Matthew 11:29).
It's very important for every person, especially you ladies, to understand that our entire American society is against the Holy Bible. UNGODLY COUNSEL is everywhere around us in society! From television to psychiatrists, doctors, colleges, police, court system, family, friends, and even to many bad churches— America today has serious problems with accepting the Word of God. This is one main reason why people continually want another Bible revision that fits their sinful whims and wicked lifestyle.
Psalms 1:1 teaches that God blesses those who choose His counsel, instead of listening to the idiots who don't believe the Holy Bible. Ungodly counsel is any advice that goes contrary to the Bible. American society is plagued with bad, ungodly, advice. You ladies are foolish if you seek advice on your marriage from some pants-wearing hussy who doesn't live by the Bible. Of course they're NOT going to give you godly advice. Godly advice comes from godly people, i.e., born-again Christians who love God and the King James Bible.
The apostle Paul said that he travailed in prayer until “CHRIST BE FORMED IN YOU.” Galatians 4:19, “My little children, of whom I travail in birth again until Christ be formed in you.” I feel the same way toward all my web visitors. I desire and pray for you to be saved, and to be conformed into Christ's image, which is discipleship. It's not how much faith you have that matters, but how much you apply your faith. Many people have issues with Self Acceptance (MP3 by Pastor Jeff Owens).
Please understand that there's OFTEN a drastic difference between GOOD counsel verses GODLY counsel. A well-meaning person may see some verbal abuse in your marriage and recommend a divorce. That would seem like good advice to many people. However, that is UNGODLY advice. The Word of God teaches faithfulness, forgiveness and unconditional love. Divorce is rooted in self-righteousness, a refusal to forgive and hatred. Lawyers know that divorce court is more filled with hatred than a murder trial. It's our stinking pride as Americans. Television is saturated with humanistic garbage—wicked philosophies that cater to the selfish pride of Americans.
McDonalds advertises, “You deserve a break today!”
No, the Bible says that you deserve to burn in
Hell forever. Burger King says, “Have it your way!” No, the Bible says to obey
God. Do you see how humanistic and ungodly our society has
become? I would have loved to live in America back when all the stores lowered
their shades on Sunday to prevent window shopping. In the old days it was
normal for most people to attend church. Television, DVD players and
electronics have spoiled and ruined our country. It was a much better country
back in 1946 when only 6,000 American households owned a television. By 1952
that number skyrocketed to 22,000,000 American households with televisions!
All Of Satan's Apples Have Worms
Divorce is UNGODLY counsel. It is a sin for any woman to tell her husband that she doesn't love him anymore (or vice versa). Ungodly fools use love as a criteria for divorce. They reason that it's ok to divorce your spouse if you don't love them anymore. That is bad advice from the Devil. Satan was the first psychologist in the Garden Of Eden. The serpent gave Eve some ungodly counseling. Today we have serpents like “Dear Annie,” “The View” and “The Oprah Winfrey Show” to give ungodly counseling. Most people are walking in the way of ungodly counseling. God is not blessing them. In fact, they are cursed, abiding under God's wrath.
The main reason for divorce these days is because of feminist indoctrination that teaches women to become intolerant of less than perfect husbands. The God-ordained masculine authority of husbands and fathers is continually demonized by feminists as a form of abuse. Whereas God said that a man has the right and duty to RULE over his wife (Genesis 3:16), the wicked court system in America oppresses Christian men who try to rule their families. Whoremongering men, homosexuals and pedophile Hollywood producers are praised, honored and celebrated by a decadent and Godless American public; while preachers are attacked, maligned and torn down all over the internet, newsmedia and television by God-haters. The wicked world has nothing but compassionate sympathy for heathen celebrities, and nothing but hateful contempt for Bible-believing Christians. Jesus told us in John 15:19 that the world hates Christians because it hates Christ.
Liberal, leftwing, Godless, wicked people are exploiting the Bible to fit THEIR agendas. Abortionists, homosexuals and drunkards twist the Scriptures around in an evil attempt to pervert what the Bible really teaches. Drunkards lie and say that Jesus changed water into intoxicating booze. Homosexuals lie and say that same-sex marriage is a form of love and since God is love they are not doing anything wrong or sinful. Abortionists lie and say that a fetus is not a human being yet. Human nature is inherently evil. People ALWAYS try to justify their decisions to sin by perverting the truth. A wife who files for divorce lies to her children about the father, trying to make it look like it's all his fault. God sees the truth and will judge accordingly (Proverbs 24:12; Hebrews 4:13).
It is tragic that so many divorces are caused by ungodly counseling which a wife receives when she is at odds with her husband. Oftentimes this ungodly advice comes from other feminist women at shelters, from layers, from friends, from mothers, or even from carnal people at church. The marriage is under attack nowadays more than ever. If a wife is not totally committed to her husband and to being loyal to her marriage VOWS (promises), then she is likely to destroy her own marriage by filing for divorce, involving a lawyer, or hurting her husband (Proverb 14:1, "Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands"). Oh how America is plagued with foolish women who divorce their husbands and destroy their homes.
The Devil has Americans feeding 100% real meat to their dogs, while we feed
our children chicken nuggets with 50% meat and the rest fillers and
chemicals. Pepsi beverage company is putting aborted fetus cells in their
flavorings. Kraft is also going to start using the fetus flavor enhancers.
It's inhumane and insane! Satan inspired people to do crazy things. The show
Fear Factor is demonic. It's disgusting the things that they do. God never
intended for people to eat scorpions, pig testicles and donkey rectums.
Yummy!
A Proper Attitude Toward Defiant Sinners
The
Bible teaches in Psalms chapter 15 how not to change. One of the principles
is to look down upon wickedness and honor those who fear God. Psalms
15:4, “In whose eyes a vile person is contemned; but he honoureth them that
fear the LORD. He that sweareth to his own hurt, and changeth not.”
Americans have been influenced by agendacized television to accept evil and
embrace wickedness. Same-sex marriage, abortion, torture of alleged
terrorists, dismantling the U.S. Constitution, banning gun ownership,
allowing illegal immigration, and a bunch of other immoral evils are being
promoted by television as good things.
That word “contemned” in Psalms 15:4 means “to look down upon.” We're not supposed to CONDEMN people, but we are supposed to CONTEMN their sins (notice the similar, but different, spelling of the two words). A proper Christian attitude toward sinners is to love them as people, but look with disgust and disdain upon their sins. We are not to accept their sins and associate closely with them, lest we become tempted and go into sin ourselves. One mono plus one healthy person equals two sick people. The false teaching that we'll never reach people for Christ unless we compromise and tolerate their lifestyle is ungodly advice. The Bible teaches to contemn the wicked. I am disgusted with homosexuals. I love them as people and am nice to them when I meet them, but I don't hesitate to openly express my disdain for the lifestyle if asked. We ought never hate anyone, but we also shouldn't go along just to get along. Jesus ate with sinners, but He didn't go with them while they were rioting and committing more sins.
Homosexuals quickly feel-the-waters when meeting new people, to see where we
strangers stand. I met a nice man on the bus in West Hollywood (while
getting surgery in 2009. His name was Mario and I liked him as a person. He
said that he lived in San Francisco for 12 years and had no problem with
homosexuality. I immediately knew that he was testing me, to see if I was
queer or where I stood. I replied, “Well I do!” I do have a problem with
homosexuality. A black woman gave me a hateful glare. I had spoken my
conservative mind without apology. We continued to talk and I was kind to
him and he to me. Eventually I got off the bus and we waved to each other. I
never saw him again. Lesbians and homosexuals are some of the nicest people
I've met as well, depending who you meet, just like anybody else. Everybody
is different!
Don't Throw Away Your Marriage In A Moment Of Anger
Articles like this guarantee that I'll receive
e-mails from angry feminist women, but the truth needs to be said. Women
need to learn to DO NOTHING when they're angry at their husbands. When
your decision maker is broken... don't make decisions! The judges,
lawyers, and other so-called "professional" people involved in your divorce don't care
if you throw your marriage away, they just want the money. It's everyday
business as usual to them. Many of them are divorced themselves and out
of spite want all the company they can get, so they readily advice others to
divorce, divorce, divorce. Well,
divorce is a horrible wicked sin!
Marriage is NOT an agreement, it is a commitment. When you were married, you made promises to God and to your spouse (for better, for worse; in sickness, and in health; for richer, for poorer; 'til death do us part... and for you wives, "to obey"). Increasingly, people don't even think twice about breaking their marriage vows (what's one more sin, right?). American society has been desensitized concerning the sinfulness of sin. Whereas homosexuality used to be a sin, now it's called an "alternate lifestyle." Whereas drunkenness used to be called a sin, now it's mislabeled as “Chemical dependency.” Abortion is now called “a choice.” No, it's a child, not a choice!!! The child has no choice. Bless God, sin is still sin! Alcoholism is a sin! Homosexuality is a sin! Abortion is a sin! Casino gambling is a sin! Hollywood movies are a sin (promoting sexual immorality, blasphemy against God and violence)! Divorce is a wicked, dirty, rotten sin!!!
God hates divorce. Hebrews 13:5 teaches that God NEVER forsakes or leaves His own. How sad that so many professed "Christians" willingly forsake their own spouse during the "for worse" times of the marriage. It's wrong! It's wicked! I don't care what your husband or wife does, you have NO RIGHT to break your wedding vows. Do you know what the hallmark character trait of a great Christian is? They stay! They don't quit! They never forsake their God, their wife, their friends, et cetera. We are living in a spoiled generation of adult brats who complain and gossip about everything.
Whaaah!... like a big baby...
he got a banana, but I only got an orange. Whaaah!... I
didn't like the way she looked at me. I'm not kidding, the American
people are borderline clinically paranoid these days. Everyone has
lawyers and lawsuits on their mind. Everyone has been brainwashed by the
government and newsmedia to fear walking down the street. Everyone is
stressed out about so many things. What ever happened to the simple good
old days. Think about it... 100 years ago people had time to enjoy life,
before the modern age of mass communication and travel. Nowadays, with
all of the modern-day conveniences, no one has time to do anything anymore. How ironic!
Your Marriage Verses The Evil New World World
In these last days, a husband and wife need to be STRONG in the Lord and in their knowledge of God's Word. Satan wants to destroy your marriage, so he can ruin your home and another family is destroyed. In fact, it's an agenda of the New World Order. Gregory Brock Chisholm, the first head of the World Health Organization taught back in 1954 that world government could only happen if children's values were changed to hate their parents, despise country, lose their individualism and abandon all Biblical faith in God. The occult-driven, Masonic, Zionist, Marxist, Communist, globalists have succeeded by banning the Bible from our nation's classrooms since 1963. Television has indoctrinated America's youth in lessons of gross immorality, heathendom and apostasy. Television is the enemy of all unrighteousness (MP3 sermon clip by Evangelist Lester Roloff).
Young people today just don't know how beautiful the old time religion was, living by faith and enjoying the presence of God's Spirit and the blessing of the truth of God's Word. If the truths of the Bible don't burn your heart with great joy, you need to get right with God. The old-time religion is dead! Same-sex marriage could never become the law of the land if the old-time religion were still alive.
Especially you wives who like to run to shelters when you get angry at your husband. You are often walking in the counsel of the ungodly in such places. You are amongst other wives who are angry at their husbands and are "experts" on how to hurt your husband and "fix him good." These parasitic homewreckers viciously prey upon tired and mentally weak wives who just need a break from life. A marriage these days has MUCH pressure. With manufacturing jobs fleeing the country, wages decreasing, bills increasing, insurance coverage decreasing, premiums increasing, the workplace becoming increasingly hostile (especially towards Christians), little whores everywhere (dressing like they're too poor to afford clothes) and so much more... it can create a lot of tension in a marriage.
If you are reading this article, then I plead
with you to renew your marriage vows with God and your spouse. Simply
tell your spouse, "I love you and just want you to know that I'm with you for
the rest of your life." Don't say it if you don't mean it! Don't
you dare say these words and then run out the door next week. By the
way, I think it is pathetic that a wife can run out the door every time the
going gets tough, but a husband has nowhere to run from his job, pressures,
frustrations, or a troublesome wife who won't fulfill her marriage duties.
It's just not fair. Shame on the wife who keeps running back to mama.
Meddling in-laws are one of the main causes of divorce. When your child gets
married, their spouse ought to be adopted by you as your child too. God sees
them as ONE in a marriage union, and so should you. They are a team. When they
fight, don't you take sides. It's not your business. Meddling in-laws often
cause divorce, hatred and lifetime sorrow.
Satan Always Volunteers To Destroy, Never To Build
The feminists demand equal rights, but only when it's convenient for them. Where are the men's shelters? Where can a man run to get away from all the pressures of life? Suicide? A man has no place to run, but there are shelters all across America where women can run to (and they do). It is an obvious testimony as to the foolishness and hypocrisy of feminism. The fact is that women need shelters because they are the weaker sex (1st Peter 3:7). Men are under attack. As Al Pacino says in the film The God Father, “Women and child can make bad decision, but not men.” Men are under attack, because the evil monsters behind the subversion of our nation (Satan's servants) fully realize that the family is the basic unit of any civilization. If the Devil can destroy Christian homes, then Satan has control over society. Satan's greatest enemy is a strong, happy, Christian family who have faith in God.
Furthermore, there are Public Defender offices all across America that will help a women get a divorce for free, but the man has to pay $15,000 for a lawyer to defend himself. Don't you understand?... the whole American system is setup to destroy your marriage and your family. Satan loves divorce. The best way to destroy a home is to attack the weakest area... the wife. If Satan can destroy the mother, then it's easy to ruin the husband. You women are being targeted by Satan in an attempt to destroy your husbands. Divorce is a primary cause of adulterous relationships and apostasy. I recently received an e-mail from a women who's first husband divorced her and then married another.
She was devastated so she married a man who had been divorced twice already
seeking companionship. She said he was abusive so she divorced her
second husband. Then she writes me asking if it's ok to remarry. I
told her she sinned by leaving her second husband and needs to go back to him. If he's abusive, then he needs help. She surely does not have to live
with an abusive husband, but she is commanded by God not to divorce him. There is NOT one Scripture in the entire Bible that gives a wife permission to
divorce an abusive husband. And I'll say something else here, a lot of
woman greatly exaggerate the term "abuse." Like I said, we are living in
a spoiled rotten generation of little adult brats who complain about
everything. Just because your husband cancels your credit card is NOT
abuse.
Are You Walking In The Counsel Of The Ungodly?
Are you running to these shelters in an emotional panic, looking for sympathy? What about your husband? Do you clean the house? Do you love him? Do you tell him you love him? I worked with a man who said his wife NEVER says "I love you." That is not good. If a husband and wife are not best of friends after 10 years of marriage... then something is very wrong. This does not mean that there won't be fights and problems, it just means that you should both be closer to each other than anyone else. Nothing is worse than a wife being closer to her mother, pastor, or a friend more than her own husband. It is disloyalty as far as I'm concerned. A wife should have eyes for her husband only in every way. By the way ladies, NEVER allow any man other than your husband to place his hand on your shoulder (or anywhere). It is wrong. Protect what belongs to your husband. And you husbands do the same.
I didn't write this article to be unkind, and I'm certainly not a male chauvinist. I have simply noticed over the years that many wives run to shelters and are subject to godless wicked advice from total losers that are destroying their own marriages. Wake up! If you really want to get mad ladies, then know this... your own government deliberately created the feminist movement to destabilize society and convince you to murder your own baby through an abortion.
Chinese women weren't as gullible, so their government forced them to stop having children by sterilization and mandatory killings. In contrast, the American women were enraged when they were told that their body didn't belong to them, so they demanded the RIGHT to be able to get an abortion (and they got it in 1972). So while American women continue to eagerly murder their children in the name of "women's rights," Chinese women are prohibited from having more than two children or else face deadly consequences. Either way, the population is reduced.
By the way, population reduction is also a sin. There is plenty of land and food in this world. God never taught us to stop having children. Do the math and you'll find that every human being on the planet could fit into the state of Texas. The problem is evil government and the greed of mankind.
So ladies, be careful... that's all I'm saying. Don't sacrifice your future on the alter of the immediate. Think! If your husband has physically beat you, then you both need counseling and
help. Most husbands get angry for a reason. I'm not condoning
domestic violence at all, I'm just saying that wives are often to blame for
their husbands anger in the first place. You BOTH need counseling, a
referee. If a wife won't cook, clean, or do her duties... what can the
husband do? Where can he turn? He can't. He can't write his
wife up or suspend her. He can't fire her for poor job performance. So what does a husband do? A loving husband will try to help her.
There Are No Perfect Marriages
A loving husband will try to find a way to make things better. But your
husband is a human being too and he will get angry sometimes (most husbands
do). Then when his wife runs out the door, the husband is looked down
upon by others as the bad guy... an abusive husband. Women who run to
shelters are automatically treated as "victims," but what about the husband at
home who patiently asks his wife month after month to clean her house and cook
him some nutritious meals (but she doesn't). She doesn't work a job
outside the home, and doesn't do her work inside the home.
This is very wrong and an injustice towards her family. All across America, hardworking men are often the silent victims of wives who won't be a mother to their children or a wife to their husband. Please don't misunderstand me, domestic violence is evil and wicked in every form; but it's high time for wives to start being honest with themselves and accepting their share of blame for their husband's anger. What makes your husband mad? What have you done to reconcile the matter? You have no right to demonize your husband if you're not fulfilling your responsibilities as a loyal and hard-working wife. A lot of women make their husbands angry by spending too much time on the phone. Ladies, stay off the phone! You probably gossip too much already.
If you're angry with your husband, that is ok; but not a divorce. You don't need a lawyer. As my pastor used to say, "If either one of you were a good Christian, then this wouldn't be happening." It takes two to tango. Let it go. Let it go. Let it go. Love your spouse, forgive. Do you know that Jesus told Peter that he is supposed to forgive his brother seven times seventy. That's 490 times a day! In other words, unlimited forgiveness. If you're afraid to go home, ok... but no divorce! Give it time, ask your husband to meet you at a private counseling session with your pastor or someone you can trust (someone older who's had a successful marriage over the years).
Respect your husband's desire for privacy. Few husbands want to go for counseling. Make it easier for him. Look ladies, arguments are a part of being married. Hopefully, you can both learn to COMMUNICATE more to avoid arguments. The biggest problem in many marriages is a lack of communication. Feelings are like a boiling steam kettle, if you don't let the steam out... it will come out one way or another. Why wait until your pot boils over? Talk to your husband now, give him a heads up. Give him a chance to make things right before you call out the National Guard. I believe it is sinful for a wife to hide things from her husband, things that he would want to know about.
It undermines a
marriage relationship when a couple hides things from each other. How
sad that so many spouses have lost their trust for each other. Some
wives even have a secret bank account at the advice of their meddling mother
or a feminist friend who keep advising her what to do when the marriage fails
(and it probably will). Too many men and women have a "one foot already
out the door attitude." We should never plan for failure when it comes
to our marriage commitment.
Avoid The Counsel Of The Ungodly
The bottom line is that we are commanded in the Bible not to walk in the counsel of the ungodly (Psalm 1:1). Divorce is ungodly advice. I once heard a pastor say that he has never recommended for anyone to get a divorce, but he clapped when some people did. That was wrong for him to say that. I would never rejoice over ANY divorce. Sadly, marriage has become more of an economic vehicle these days for people to ride upon (two jobs = more money). Many women who are seeking a husband want to know how much money he has in the bank, where he works, and what he has to offer her. No wonder so many marriages are failing. What ever happened to genuine love?
I once knew a young Christian women who wanted to marry into money. She had developed a bitter attitude towards authority. She was sincere, but a lot of people hurt her emotionally. Some women were jealous and cruel in their words toward her. She didn't know how to deal with it all. She became bitter. She got away from the church and started hanging out with worldly losers, working in a fancy sports nightclub. She decided to have sexual relations with a professional athlete she had met. He was already married. The foolish woman sincerely thought the man would run off with her and leave his wife. Foolish young girl. He had his pleasure defiling her and then moved on. That young woman had a nervous breakdown which lasted for years. She had given her virginity to a pig. How tragic! How wicked!
By the way, professional athletes are nearly synonymous with sexual immorality in America. So many professional athletes are wicked whoremongers! Oh how America needs men of God to preach the Word of God once again from it's pulpits, on the streets, on the internet, in newspapers, everywhere a voice can be heard for God. Where are the men of God? The great need in our nation today is preaching preachers! Pastors and evangelists don't preach anymore! Bible preaching will always be offensive to the ungodly world and backslidden believers!!!
God will forgive anybody and what's in the past can't hurt you forever, but its reproach may carry with you until death. The hardest person to always forgive is our self. That's the hard part. But if God is willing to forgive us, then we should also forgive our self. Romans 8:34, “Who is he that condemneth? It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us.” Cruel people, self-righteous hypocrisies, will remind you of your faults, mistakes and sins until the day you die. They do this because they are jerks, filled with hatred, jealousy and self-righteousness. God knows how to deal with such types of people (Romans 2:1-2).
