Biblically, divorce is NEVER the right thing to do! If you are not a
born-again Christian, you have no reason to read my article, because Satan is
your father, and you have no spiritual protections against anything (Ephesians
6:12). Many unsaved people want a happy marriage, happy children, and all the
benefits of a Christian family, but without obeying the holy Bible. It won't
happen! You cannot let your children do what they want, never discipline them,
never teach them God's Word, and then expect them to grow up to become normal,
healthy, moral, adults. JESUS MAKES THE DIFFERENCE!!! Why do you think America
is in such a big mess today? You are witnessing the consequences of three
generations being raised without the holy Bible,
since
1963. Their are fewer Christians today (percentage wise) in the history of
the U.S. than at any other time. Our prosperity has ruined us. Deuteronomy
6:12a, “Then beware lest thou forget the LORD.”
People have no moral compass anymore. Americans
do whatever they think is right in their own eyes (fornication, abortion,
public nudity, gossip, hatred, divorce, et cetera). So, I am speaking to
Christians who care. If you are not a Christian, then either you have never
heard the Gospel, or else you just don't care, and the Word of God cannot help
you. If you are a women and you already have a defensive attitude, without
even reading my article, then you have a wrong attitude, and need to GET RIGHT
WITH GOD! I say that kindly, but truthfully. Most people are not right with
God, and it shows in their attitude.
What's the significance of vowing “'til death do
us part” and “for better for worse” on your weeding day, if you have a right
to bail out and quit when things go bad in your marriage? We are such a nation
of liars. Lawyers are notorious liars. They'll do just about anything for
money, while attempting to justify in their own wicked heart. I hope you are
not like that. The truth is that you think what you think, and nothing that I
say is likely going to change your thinking, with few exceptions. Do you care
what God thinks? You should my friend, you really should. The wicked world
does not fear God (Romans 3:18), nor do they regard His Words in the holy
Bible. The ungodly world is cruel to each other. Hopefully, you are a
born-again Christian and are exemplifying Jesus in your life (Galatians 2:20).
Titus 3:3,“For we ourselves also were sometimes foolish, disobedient,
deceived, serving divers lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy,
hateful, and hating one another.” When professed Christians hate one
another, they are behaving like the Devil, not Jesus Christ. I have decided as
a believer to forgive, love and be kind to everyone.
I have started this article with several comments
on obeying God, and being a born-again Christian, because your attitude is
everything in a marriage. Your marriage is destined to fail if you think like
a heathen woman, being selfish like Janet Jackson, who sings the terrible song
titled, “What
Have You Done For Me Lately?” A godly woman asks herself, “What Can I Do
For My Husband?” I have learned in life that many women have a wicked feminist
attitude, predisposed to criticize men, which is what heathens do! Many women
have been hurt, betrayed, abandoned, and taken advantage of by wicked men, so
they have a chip on their shoulder, and are spending the rest of their
miserable life hating men in retaliation. I feel sorry for you, if that is
you. There is a better way my friend. I promise you, that you will never truly
be happy in life, until you get saved and then follow Jesus Christ, finding
the man who God created you to be a “HELP MEET” for. You'll most likely find
him in a Bible-believing church. Where else would Christians meet? You have to
be very careful on the internet, because there are many wicked people and
deceivers online.
An Authoritative Husband is Not Abusive
There are many different opinions of what
“abusive” means. We live in an insane, unbiblical, ungodly, society today that
considers it “abuse” for a husband to track his wife's whereabouts, to tell
her who she cannot associate with, and to tell her what time she needs to be
home. I've read the legal brochures, I know what I am talking about. THEY ARE
WICKED PEOPLE! Genesis 3:16, “Unto the woman he said, I will greatly
multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth
children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he
shall rule over thee.” You just read it... God tells the woman
that her husband SHALL RULE OVER her!!! If you are a married woman, your
husband is your master. If you have a problem with that, you don't have a
Biblical Christian mindset. Don't get mad at me, God said it. Ephesians
5:22, Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the
Lord.”
Psalms 10:4, “The wicked,
through the pride of his countenance, will not seek after God: God is not in
all his thoughts.”
Psalms 12:8, “The wicked walk on every side,
when the vilest men are exalted.
Psalms 37:35 and 38, “I have seen the wicked in
great power, and spreading himself like a green bay tree. ... But the
transgressors shall be destroyed together: the end of the wicked shall be cut
off.”
May I say, if your husband is abusive, hitting
you, leaving is one thing, but divorcing is another. The Bible teaches in 1st
Corinthians 7:10 that if a wife “departs” (not divorces) from her husband, she
is to remain unmarried the rest of her life. To remarry is adultery (Matthew
5:32). Jesus Christ was willing to suffer for us. He is our example. In this
selfish generation, it is not surprising that lawsuits and the divorce rate
are so high. People have become intolerant of each other. Christ was willing
to suffer for us, literally being crucified to death...
“And
being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became
obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.” —Philippians 2:8
Now, I'm not saying that a wife ought to let
her husband beat her, but you are not right with God if you have a chip on
your shoulder, and are ready to file for divorce at the first sign of abuse.
God knows your heart, and the truth about the circumstances. If your husband
is getting angry at you, and he is being abusive, that is wrong, period. But
why is he getting mad at you? An ungodly feminist would say it doesn't
matter. Only a fool would say that it doesn't matter why a husband gets
upset. Are you being lazy? Are you lying to him? Are you going behind his
back, gossiping on the phone, not following his instructions? If you are the
reason why he is angry, then you have a weak complaint against him. An
ungodly earthly court may not care about a husband's right to be obeyed by
his wife, but I assure you that God does care about a husband's rights.
If you don't believe that a wife should OBEY
her husband, then you don't believe the holy Bible. A foolish woman will
paint the scenario of a mean husband and a slave wife. That is not what God
intended. I realize that there are situations like that, and God does not
approve of any type of abuse, ever. Some husbands are abusive thugs. They
deserve to be divorced. I am not defending them! But you do not have
a right to walk out the door and quit, when you have been lazy, not cleaning
the house, not being what he needs you to be romantically, not telling him
the truth, not caring for the children, not being a good mother or wife!
A Letter from a Web Visitor
I recently received the following e-mail from a gentleman in July of 2006...
Hi David,
Fear not, it is not for myself! I wanted to ask what you thought about
divorce in the Biblical sense.
I have a work colleague; initially she and her husband are Catholic, however
I have been in deep discussion with her and whereas she already had lots of
Catholic points that she never agreed with, she now really understands the
ills of Catholicism. But her family, to my knowledge, are regular
Christians.
They are married for 10 years; however, her husband, a Spaniard, is a
horrible husband. He constantly puts her down, dishonors her, treats her
awfully, keeps strict control over her, and has also had numerous affairs
(he hasn't left her, but sleeps around). She is at the stage where she just
doesn't want to be married to him anymore, and the marriage is loveless.
However, her parents are of the frame of mind that she should rather stay
married and be miserable, than be happy and a divorcee! Her parents-in-law
are trying to emotionally blackmail her too by saying that her husband
emigrated to South Africa to be with her (they also previously lived in
Spain together).
I have already told her what Jesus said in Matthew 5:31-32:
[31] It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her
a writing of divorcement: [32] But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put
away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit
adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth
adultery.
But digging deeper into this, what does this really mean? Jesus is basically
saying that God has already seen man and woman unified as one flesh, and
that can never be broken; but adultery appears almost to be an opt-out
clause. But, another way of interpreting this is, as you wrote on the
website, that divorce is still not an option, however the innocent party
will not commit adultery by re-marrying, as the guilty adulterer has already
done that and thus caused her to divorce and "commit adultery".
(I also showed her your article on divorce)
Does this mean that she could get a divorce? She has tried hard to reconcile
and feels guilty because of the children and because of the divorce-stigma,
but also loveless - this man is mentally abusing her, has often cheated on
her, and she is on anti-depressants as a result of it!
There are also two children involved; I know from my own experience that two
hateful parents together badly affects the child, and it is affecting their
children too.
Finally - if she does get a divorce, are there any Crisis Centers or
missions, and some tips? The wages she gets here are too low to really rent
a place and support two children - and the husband is very liable to return
to Spain (and thus avoid maintenance payments). With her parents' frame of
mind, one wonders if they would allow her to stay with them (in the South
Coast) after a divorce; she has nobody else. I would help her out, but am
battling to rent a small 1-bedroom apartment, and barely have space for my
wife and I!
So, what would the best advice be? I would think she could divorce with a
clear conscience, but what would happen cometh Judgment Day?
Thanks,
****
I'm going to share with you the things I told him
and much more. Divorce is an ugly thing. A happy marriage equals happy
children, which equals a happy home. Divorce is NEVER the answer. I was in a
store the other day and saw big headlines where a famous celebrity publicly
said she had “married a monster” to justify filing for divorce. Shame on her
for being a self-righteous hypocrite. Like she is so perfect. No, she's a
dirty, rotten, sinner like her husband, she just doesn't realize it as most
sinners don't. If you think about James 2:10, it should cause you to weep
for all sinners, including yourself, and thank God that by His mercy and
grace He sent Jesus into the world to
SAVE SINNERS!
Here's an article I wrote, showing that there
are NO Biblical grounds for divorce...
http://www.jesus-is-savior.com/Family/Marriage/grounds.htm
There are NO Biblical grounds for divorce. Jesus
never gave anyone the permission to divorce because of adultery, which is
clear from his statement in Matthew 19:6, “Wherefore they are no more
twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not
man put asunder.” For anyone to claim that Jesus permits divorce
because of adultery makes no sense. What if your spouse commits murder? Is
God saying that a spouse can divorce for adultery; but not for murder? You
don't have to abandon common sense when you read the Bible; in fact, using
some common sense will prevent you from becoming a religious nutcase. God is
very down-to-earth and practical.
Matthew 5:28 states that the sin of lusting is adultery,
which makes every man an adulterer. Can any healthy man
honestly claim that he has never lusted upon another woman? If so, he
needs to see a doctor or move to San Francisco. Obviously, Jesus wasn't permitting divorce.
Divorce Is Rooted In Self-righteous
Hypocrisy And Selfishness
On everyone's wedding day, they all exchange the same vows ...
“for better, for WORSE; for richer, for POORER; in SICKNESS, as in health;
'TIL DEATH DO US PART.”
We are living in a world of liars who break
their marriage vows by divorcing. Jesus came to this world as a humble
servant, willing to be beaten, scourged, mocked, abused, and crucified for
us because He loves us. Jesus is our example to follow. The
average spouse today has a chip on their shoulder, and a heart filled with
sinful pride. Feminism in particular is saturated with sinful
stubbornness and selfish pride. Oh that men and women would love the
Lord, and allow God's unconditional love to control their marital decisions.
An abused wife
who loves her husband WILL not divorce him. She may leave, seek
counsel, ask for help from others, pray for him, or even get a job and find
another place to live for awhile; but, she doesn't throw in the towel and
quit. I don't expect most people to understand this type of
commitment, because few people posses God's love.
Feminism teaches women to be intolerant,
demanding, hateful, and show no mercy toward a less than perfect husband.
One-third of the Bible was written by murderers (Moses, David, and Paul).
Remember that the next time you think about divorcing your husband. Even
after David had commit adultery and murder, he repented and then God used
David to pen most of the Psalms.
I once had a Bible teacher who years later went
into horrible sin. Many of his former students said they had burned his
notes taken from class. Those self-righteous hypocrites! You might as well
burn the first 5-books of the Bible, because a murderer wrote them. And burn
the Psalms, because an adulterer and murderer wrote most of them. And burn
14-books of the New Testament, because Paul persecuted the Church
day-and-night, hauling Christians out of their homes and stoning them to
death. Oh, and you had better not ever mention the story of Noah to
children, because he got drunk and naked. And don't mention Samson, because he went
with a prostitute (harlot). And don't mention Peter either, because he
cursed the Lord and denied even knowing Him. Jonah ran from God. Isaiah was
a man of unclean lips. Jacob was a thief and deceiver. Moses had an
uncontrollable hot-temper. Jeremiah quit preaching God's Word. Sarah and
Abraham doubted God and lied. Rahab was a harlot. The church at Corinth had become a
cesspool of iniquity—eating foods offered to idols, fighting amongst each
other, suing each other in court, coming drunk to the Lord's Supper,
allowing fornication in the church, and speaking in demonic tongues. What a
messed up bunch! And you want to divorce your husband because he did what?
Please understand that I am not condoning wrong
doing, God forbid; I'm simply saying that no one is perfect and divorce is
the absolute worst solution to marriage problems. Do you know what divorce
really is? It's a wife bailing out and leaving all the hardships, problems
and burdens for her husband to carry alone. What a selfish thing to do. And
likewise, the same is true for a rotten husband who divorces his wife. God
hates divorce. No man has a right to divorce his wife, I don't care what she
does! She is flesh of your flesh and Jesus taught to forgive 70 times 7
(Matthew 18:22). God NEVER forsakes nor abandons us, and neither should one
forsake nor leave their spouse.
Different Biases On The Matter
Proverbs 14:1,
“Every wise woman buildeth her house:
but the foolish plucketh it down with her
hands.”
I know a pastor who is a dear person and a
godly man. His position is that an abused wife should obtain a legal
separation and get a restraining order. He believes that divorce is
acceptable in cases of physical and mental abuse. I certainly agree with him
that an abused wife should leave if there is genuine abuse in any
relationship; and if truly needed, obtain a restraining order. However, I
also know that the aforementioned pastor and his dear wife knew a good
woman, who was destroyed by a terrible husband. So they have a bias in the
matter, understandably. There are some rotten husbands out there. They are
abusive and no wife is expected by God to lose her teeth at the hands of a
monster.
HOWEVER, I've seen a completely different
situation, where a terrible wife continually shirked off her duties and
responsibilities as a wife and a mother. Her husband was a good Christian
man, but she continually dragged him down, frustrating him by messing-up the
house more than the children. After nearly 20 years of fussing and feuding
with his uncaring and irresponsible wife, he got tired and became abusive,
so she divorced him. I'm not defending the husband's abuse, but she's a
hundred times more guilty than he is of wrong doing.
For years she'd lose his mail and get him in
trouble with collection agencies. She was a sneak, going behind his back,
gossiping on the phone, lying and deceiving him regularly. Her children
often wore no coat in cold weather. They went to school in dirty clothes.
They didn't eat nutritious meals. The mother didn't care. The poor man
worked midnight shift and had difficulty sleeping during the day. Whereas he
was up working all night, she had a good night sleep. He went through a lot
of problems at work, then coming home each day to a lazy, emotionally
unstable, problematic wife. He hardly ever saw his children because of
working midnight shift.
The wife was a so-called “homemaker” and didn't
have a job; but she destroyed her home, little-by-little over the years,
plucking it down with her hands as Proverbs 14:1 says. She never worked
outside the home during their entire marriage. Her husband paid all the
bills and provided faithfully for his family. The tired husband came home
regularly to a dirty house, moldy pots under the sink, clutter behind all
the furniture, squalor in the children's rooms, et cetera. The man's wife
didn't do 75% of everything she had agreed to do. Numerous doctors diagnosed
her with everything from clinical depression, to hormonal problems, to a
chemical imbalance of the brain (everything except the truth, that is, a
lack of character and discipline). She pulled her husband down continually
until he had just had enough.
When the wife filed for divorce, she convinced
everyone involved that her husband was the antichrist, a monster, an evil
man and a bad father. Not a word of criticism was ever hurled at the wife.
All her acquaintances took her side blindly, including the corrupt New World
Order legal system. The husband was crucified in court. The man bore all the
reproach of the divorce, while his wife hung everything around his neck and
walked away proclaiming his total guilt and her total innocence, abandoning
and forsaking him forever. That is so evil on her part! The husband was
devastated and didn't want the divorce, but she was cold-hearted and
unforgiving. In reality that wife is a hundred times more guilty than her
husband. The husband could have quit and filed for divorce umpteen times
over the years, but he put up with his lackadaisical, troublesome and
uncaring wife because he loved her.
When she divorced her husband, she told him
that she didn't love him anymore and blamed him for it. Dr. Jack Hyles (who
had counseled tens-of-thousands of couples through his 55-years of
pastoring) addressed this exact
matter in
Marriage-Part 16 ('my husband has destroyed all my love' or 'I
don't love her anymore'; Dr. Hyles,
Full MP3).
So
having explained the preceding situation, now you understand my bias and
mindset concerning divorce. Your opinion of the matter is likely going to be
biased on the type of abuse that you've seen in life. I realize that there
are good wives married to bad husbands; but there are also good men married
to bad wives. Furthermore, I don't believe that anyone is 100% bad nor to
blame in any failed marriage. All people are sinners. There is darkness in
all of us.
Human
nature typically tends to take sides very strongly. Most people are either
100% Democrat or 100% Republican. You don't find someone who is both. The
same is true in marriage disputes. People naturally tend to determine who is
totally at fault (in their opinion), which is unfair and not reality.
Reality is that it takes two to tango and even in situations where it
APPEARS that one spouse is totally innocent or to blame, that's just not the
case. I also don't believe that a situation is ever equally 50/50. That is,
I believe that one spouse is usually more to blame than the other, but no
one is totally to blame. Since God created a wife to be a help meet to her
husband, she has totally failed her purpose in life if her marriage fails. I
know that sounds mean, but it's not intended to be. God creates a man and
then gives him a work to do, but a wife's work is her husband.
My
mindset in this matter is primarily against the flippant, self-righteous and
sinful attitude which many people have toward toward the sacred institution
of marriage. Marriage is holy, only meant to happen within a lifetime
marriage commitment. Sex is intended between a husband and wife, “ 'til
death do us part.” A couple should honor their commitment to one another, no
matter what. If everyone has a right to divorce a bad marriage, then what's
the use of promising to remain faithful through better of for worse? It
seems that everyone has a good excuse for quitting their marriage, reneging
on their vows and walking away in their own self-righteousness these days.
The truth is that people are changing from one generation to the next for
worse and evil, but our righteous God hasn't changed and never will (Malachi
3:6; Hebrews 13:8).
As you
are about to learn from Hosea and Gomer, divorce is never God's way.
Hosea and Gomer
The Old Testament
gives us an example of God's unconditional love in the Book of Hosea. Hosea was one of the minor prophets, sent by God to preach to Israel. Hosea married Gomer, and they had numerous children. Hosea then
abandoned Hosea to go live in the sin of adultery.
Hosea was
devastated, for he loved Gomer; but she was a whore. At the end of the
Book of Hosea, after Gomer had lived a life of sin, Hosea finds her being
sold at a slave market. Hosea buys Gomer back, thus expressing his
unconditional love and forgiveness. Hosea represents God, and Gomer
represents Israel and all sinners. Romans 5:8 states, "But God
commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ
died for us." God loves mankind with an unconditional love,
Who was willing to buy us from the slave market of sin to set us free.
Likewise, a true Christian spouse who loves God, will
demonstrate unconditional love for their wayward spouse, and not divorce. The
focus of nearly everyone who seeks to justify a divorce is upon “self.” They
reason, “Why should I live unhappy, suffer or be miserable, when I can move
to greener pastures?” But Jesus was willing to suffer for you and
me, being spit upon and beaten because He loves us. He could have called ten thousand angels, but
He chose to bleed, suffer and die for our sins. This is not an
“evangelical” attitude of men toward women; It is God's Word.
Of course, a wife has every
right to leave the home if she is being beaten; but she Biblically never has a right to
divorce. Hardships are a part of life and marriage, and only a
self-righteous hypocrite would condemn their spouse while overlooking their
own sins and faults. People look for
every excuse to divorce nowadays.
I have received letters from time-to-time
from
people who quote various ministers, ministries and religious sources in an
attempt to justify their divorce. It's woeful apostasy! If anyone
should be protecting the sacredness of marriage, its Christians; but they divorce as much
as the unsaved heathens. Divorce is caused by sinful PRIDE.
God hates all divorce and calls it
“treacherous” ... Malachi 2:16 (for men); Jeremiah 3:20 (for women)!
There are times in most marriages where a
husband and wife feel they don't love each other anymore; but this is when
God's unconditional love should override our own selfish personal desires. Unconditional love is
God's love; not the shallow conditional love which the world sings about. It's
amazing to me how the world can sing... “I'll love you forever and ever”... and
then divorce every 5-10 years and move on to greener pastures. Divorce is a sin, and there are no exceptions. On one's wedding day,
there were no disclaimers in your marriage vows. No one promises...
“'till death do us part, unless you commit adultery.” Yet, these same liars will twist
the Bible around to justify their divorce 15-years later on the grounds of
adultery. They are equally guilty of breaking their marriage VOWS if
they file for divorce.
The problem is that people categorize sin.
Adultery is considered much more horrible than a lazy, lying, and
lackadaisical wife; but they are equally sinful in God's eyes (James 2:10).
Nearly every woman who files for divorce calls off a list of her husband's
sins in a wicked attempt to justify her decision to divorce, but she doesn't
call off any of her own sins. It's self-righteous hypocrisy in the sight of
God. In divorce a wife usurps authority over her husband, using her marriage
license as a weapon against him in a court of law. God hates rebellion.
There is no honor in quitting one's marriage vows. There is no honor in
taking the easy path out and leaving one's spouse to deal with all their
hardships and problems alone.
Every believer should settle it in their heart
that they are going to have the attitude of Hosea, i.e., I will always love,
forgive and take my spouse back no matter what they do. That's genuine
Christianity. God's love is unconditional. It is human to get angry and feel
hurt when our loved one's betray us, but God's love that the Holy Spirit
sheds abroad in our heart should surpass all of that... “because the love
of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto
us” (Romans 5:5). Amen! Jesus Christ is our example, suffering when He
didn't have to, even to the point of dying. I'm not saying to let your
spouse beat you to death; I am saying that you should never give up on your
marriage.
Satan Comes Only to Kill, Steal,
and Destroy
I am sick and tired of hearing believers use
the “love test” to decide whether or not someone should file for divorce.
Their sinful mindset is that if a wife doesn't truly love her husband, then
it's probably best to divorce. No Sir! That's heathen advice from the Devil.
Love is NOT based upon how you feel; but rather, love is treating your
spouse the same way you would want to be treated (Matthew 7:12). Would you
want your spouse to file divorce on you, drag you into a heathen court, wipe
out your career savings, cause you overwhelming mental anguish, and totally
ruin your life? No, I didn't think so.
The Devil comes only to kill, steal, and
destroy (John 10:10); which is exactly what American women have been trained
by feminism to do... kill their babies by abortion, steal
their husband's life in court, and destroy their family by divorce.
And you think you're “liberated”? Boy, the Devil saw you coming! You're not
liberated, you're retarded. I mean no unkindness, but the Devil is a liar
the Bible says (John 8:44), and feminism is a lie of the Devil. The Devil
promises liberation and happiness to feminists; but in reality women become
childless, frustrated, and
full of
regret.
God told Adam to RULE OVER Eve (Genesis 3:16). Feminism
calls this “spousal abuse.” We are living in perilous times when murderous
abortion, vile homosexuality, and rebellious wives are legal; but these evil
works are still sins in the eyes of God. Feminism is
destroying America, deceiving women to kill, steal, and destroy in the name
of liberation and women's rights.
Please Don't Selfishly Bail Ship Ladies
Marriage is as a ship at sea, and it is evil in
the sight of God when a wife abandons ship during stormy seas so that she
may be comforted by others, leaving her husband lost at sea to battle the
raging waves of life by himself. What a selfish and evil thing for a woman
to do to her husband. I focus primarily upon the ladies because women file
for divorce in the U.S. at more than
TWICE the
rate of men because of the Communist feminist agenda
indoctrinating women today.
There are demonic government-sponsored programs
all across America that teach women in shelters that divorce is
statistically, economically and personally the best thing they can do for
THEMSELVES; and free government-paid-for attorneys are provide to the same
women if the wife simply alleges any form of spousal abuse against her
husband. If the wife eats the forbidden fruit by divorcing, she is rewarded
by the State with free Welfare, Section 8 Housing, and other fringe benefits
(not to mention taking her husbands wealth away).
There is NOT one such program in America that
targets men. Do you know why? It's because women are more susceptible to
false doctrine than men. Don't get angry ladies, it's Biblical. The Bible
says that Eve was DECEIVED, not Adam...
1st Timothy 2:12-14, “But I
suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to
be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve. And Adam was not
deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.”
That is not to say that women are inferior to
men, or dumb; not at all. There are many brilliant women in this world, such
as Phyllis Schlafly whom I adore;
but such women are God-fearing and understand the different roles that God
has given to men and women. Feminism is
destroying America, deceiving women to kill, steal, and destroy in the name
of liberation and women's rights. Satan is a deceiver and liar. By
appealing to carnally-minded women who desire to be “empowered,” the Devil
has deceived women to kill, steal, and destroy their own children,
marriages, and families. Do you hear laughing? It is the Devil laughing at
your foolishness. Satan led you to destroy your own happiness, thinking that
you were doing yourself a favor. Of, how the Devil is a beautiful liar.
In sharp contrast, most women today in America
have been indoctrinated by feminism's lies to demand equality with men. They
are mental homosexuals. They want to be like men. They act like men, talking
with authority and carrying themselves in a rugged fashion like men. This is
sinful. God intended for women to be feminine, wear feminine clothing, and
have a meek and quiet spirit about them (1st Peter 3:4). This is very
different than than impudent, arrogant and feisty feminist women in American
society today. Women have become lewd, rude, and crude. This ought not be. I
speak this to our nation's shame.
There is a malicious
Communist
agenda at work in America to undermine and destroy marriages by
brainwashing women to kill their babies, steal their husband's authority,
and destroy their marriage and family. Judgment Day is coming (Hebrews
9:27).
Please Don't Divorce Your Spouse
If marriage means nothing more to you than
living with someone, then you probably won't understand anything I've said.
If you can just as easily live with someone new, as with someone you've been
with for along time, then you don't know what love is. Most people today
don't know how to love because they've never received God's love. God is
love and those who believe on the name of Jesus Christ will learn in time to
love as God's loves, if they'll let God have His way in their heart.
Christ-rejecters reject God's love that sent Jesus to the cross for our
sins; and so they remain cold-hearted in sin and unbelief. How can you know
God's love if you have not God? I assure you that God's power can save your
marriage. If you love God, then you will not divorce your spouse. Divorce is
selfish and worldly. Besides, 60% of second marriages also end in divorce.
Marriage does not bring happiness. Happiness comes from fearing God and
obeying His commandments (Ecclesiastes 12:13). Proverb:28:14a, “Happy is
the man that feareth alway.”
It is extremely cruel for a person to abandon
their spouse. Gomer abandoned Hosea, leaving him
numerous children to raise. Divorce is a horrible sin that perpetuates
for a lifetime. The consequences are devastating, the number one way to
destroy a society.
If the Lord tarries His return, parents of the
future will become mere incubators, producing servants of the State.
Traditional families will become a thing of the past, and already today is
is happening to a large extent. China's one-child policy began as a simple
tax, and escalated into a crime punishable by forced abortion,
sterilization, imprisonment, fines, and infanticide. The insane
environmental agenda will be used to tax Americans for having too many
children, which will eventually bring China's cruel tyranny and oppression
to the United States. Mark my words.
I know my opinions are not very popular in
today's apostate world, but they are Biblical. Feminism was spawned by
Communism. Do
a web search under “Feminism
Communism” and see all the articles that come up. Feminism is
destroying America, deceiving women to kill, steal, and destroy in the name
of liberation and women's rights.
