i agree with OP.

Funny thing is that those Lonerfags you respect so much would most likely snub your ass given the chance.

I'm not a party hard type of guy myself but I like to keep a balance of "Me Time" and "Friend Time". It makes life fun and easy, especially when your friends understand your boundaries and such.

>>94261817
>>94261817

Are you me?

shitty troll

>>94261944

I am you. From the future.

I love you OP.

i don't agree with OP.

Normal people don't party after college

>>94262799

why not?

That's cool. I don't give a damn about most people, but I still like to party every once in a while. Only people I really care about are my direct family and girlfriend though, most people just get on my nerves

>>94262799

You don't have to, the evidence is in every "forever alone" thread you've seen.
>Someone posts about having no friends or liking being a introvert
>Almost every post afterwords is someone berating them for being "beta".

>>94263082

Perhaps you wouldn't have made this thread

if you weren't so beta

>>94263165

>implying I made this thread.
You're right about the beta part though so fuck you.

> "I hope most of you who "party hard" get alcohol poisoning and have it spread all over your body so you're on your death bed, fuckers."

You jelly man...you just jelly.

I envy people who go to parties.
I envy people who can just like or dislike something.
I envy people who trust other people.
I envy people who have a reason to get up in the morning
I envy people who manage to keep a mask of "not giving a fuck" although they obviously do.
I envy people who can "love"
I envy people who cry.
I envy people who care about anything.
I envy people who smoke.
I envy people who hate walking alone.
I envy people who can feel motivated.

So why would you ever respect a loner like me?

If you don't associate with anyone, you can't really be a beta. :D

>>94263890
>>94263890

So what do you do on a daily basis? Stay in your room and avoid all social interaction? me too.

>>94263890

You said "envy" instead of "hate", so I respect you for not being one of those people who has to hate the world for their own shortcomings and wish that you will find a happier future.

>>94264160

If you don't consider /v/ or multiplayer games social interraction then yes.

I wake up, i do stuff on the computer, i eat, i do stuff on the computer, i work out, i eat, i go to bed. It's been like that for the last 2 months, and it'll be like that for another 5 months.

>>94263890

Wait why can't you do any of this stuff?
I know way too many introverted people who can love... some of them to a fault, and oh fuck can they cry, jesus christ can they cry.

You can't just like or dislike something? Why? Your post makes no sense.

The crushing loneliness of /v/ is impressive

>>94264504

I'm assuming you have no facebook or don't use an IM service either? I pretty much abandon all of my online friends of 5 years after I found out they secretly hated me for a good time period, now its pretty much smooth sailing down the lonely road. Do you think you will always be without companionship?

>>94264583

I can't get emotionally attached to anything.

Alchohol hasn't worked, incase you think it's just because i'm beta.

>>94264583

It is possible for a person to find it hard to feel certain, if not all emotions. A lot of famous examples of this are typically serial killers, but that is the very low minority.

Numbing yourself to not feel emotions is another possible option, due to traumatic events.

Who wouldn't respect a successful loner more than a normal person?

Being lonely is fucking harsh. I used to be really introverted. I spent 5 months inside my house when I was 20. At the end of it when I started longing for interaction, it was shocking how hard being secluded was in comparison to just going about daily life.

Pro-tip for people in this thread: A loner cannot be alpha or beta because they aren't part of any coherent social group.

>Who else here has no friends and loves it? Boy I sure do love having no friends or anyone to talk to, don't you? Let's confide in each other about having no one to share stories with and do all the things friends do

Thats right, you faggots are subconsciously trying to make friends on /v/

>>94265132
Quite right. Good on you for actually having higher brain function. Don't spend too much time here.

>>94261227

>I hope most of you who "party hard" get alcohol poisoning and have it spread all over your body so you're on your death bed, fuckers.

Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. And may I just say, thank christ for doctors. Damn, those guys are good.

>>94264861

I talk about game related stuff with my former classmates on steam. And i do have a facebook, but i've never posted anything.

People who show genuine or fake interests in other people. DURR HOW WAS YOUR VACATION

>>94265132

You could say the society said person belongs to as a whole is a very large group.

I'm introverted as fuck, but I'm not such a huge faggot that I get mad when other people try to be nice and invite me out with them. It's understandable getting angry if they pretend you're "wrong" for not wanting to go, but if they just invite you out, going on a rant about alcohol poisoning and shitty parties makes you look like a huge dick.

>>94265208

Sad isn't it? but once i close this window i will have forgetten everything about this.

I like these threads, but i don't miss them when they are gone.

>>94265265

Bet those conversations are wild and accelerating.

>>94261817
Brofist.

I'm pretty much a normalfag but I'm pretty introverted, enjoy my alone time and being away from people. I do, however, enjoy to socialize by hanging out with friends or going out drinking etc. Just not all the time.

>>94264975
>>94264885

So.. you're saying he's a psychopath then? I'm INTP and I'm still a fairly emotional guy when it comes down to it. I'm just kinda confused by this I guess if it's just that you don't find anything enjoyable anymore then you probably just need to see a therapist, you could just be severly depressed.

I have a couple of friends. They're cool but I usually feel an extremely strong need to be alone after an hour or so. It's torture hanging out with them sometimes because I'd feel rude leaving so quickly or asking them to leave my home.

>Create facebook in college
>No photos because nobody invites me anywhere so I have no photos of myself
>4 years later
>Only friend requests are coming from high school kids on the other side of the country who think I'm someone they know

zeta as fuck

>>94265615
>that feel when after a while you just want people to leave but you don't want to insult them so you just pretend that you still want them there
>that feel when because you do this people think you're clingy even though that's the exact opposite of what's really going on

>>94265521
>loner thread
>intp
>dept. of redundancy dept.

>>94265385

Well said.

Since i have almost no social interraction, being happy isn't part of my daily routine.

But two things have made me smile recently.

My sisters friend saying "If he wasn't to go out, that's his choice"

And one of my friends saying "My bro is always invited"

Taken out of context they might seem a bit confusing, but hopefully you have some imagination.

Wait, people get offended that you like to be alone? How?

>>94262930

They don't?

>>94265860

>Implying I wasn't trying to make a point about being cold and unemotional
I still chuckled though, well-played.

bumping, i want to read more beta faggots

>>94265454

I can be a pretty funny guy actually, so when you are chatting with me you can expect several lols'.

>implying us lonely fags don't get fucked on alcohol and other drugs all the time

>>94265911
Humans are social creatures by nature, someone who not only lives outside of society, but actually claims that they do it by choice is a horrifying thing for normalfags to be confronted by. They aren't immediately sure how to size you up, and your lack of respect for societal law makes it seem like you could be dangerous. Just goes back to two different tribes meeting each other and not knowing how the other ones behaves,

>>94263890
I was an angsty teen for a few years not saying you are and stayed in my house and hated everything. I snapped out of it around late last year and just started hanging out with people and not giving a fuck, it's working wonders. You should just force yourself out of your comfort zone once in a while. If you don't like it, you don't like it, at least you've learned something. About a year ago I was pretty much the opposite of everything on your list.

I envy people who go to parties.
>I go to parties sometimes
I envy people who can just like or dislike something.
>I can probably do that, I'm not sure exactly to whate extent you mean
I envy people who trust other people.
>I do have trust issues but I'm working on it
I envy people who have a reason to get up in the morning
>I'm a bum, but I'm going university in september so I'll have something then
I envy people who manage to keep a mask of "not giving a fuck" although they obviously do.
>Yeah I pretend to not give a fuck, I always have though. Even though I actually do care about things.
I envy people who can "love"
>This is a tough one, I actually really like this one girl and that would be a big stretch for me about a year ago.
I envy people who cry.
>I don't remember the last time I cried, probably before my 10th birthday. I would like to though.
I envy people who care about anything.
>I care about important things, trivial shit I don't pay attention to.
I envy people who smoke.
>I don't smoke, I'm 21 now so I feel like I'm too old to start
I envy people who hate walking alone.
>I love walking alone
I envy people who can feel motivated.
>I find it hard to be motivated

If I can snap out of it and attain some sort of happiness, anyone can. I'm a fucking chump.

>>94265911
You should have seen a thread here a few weeks ago where some amatuer psych guy tried to convince everyone that ever wanting to be alone meant that your brain was broken and you should be heavily sedated and locked in an asylum.

Normalfag:Hey wanna come to a party with me?

Lonerfag:I don't really...like parties.

Normalfag's mind: he thinks he is so much better than us...what? too cool to hang out with us?

Lonerfag's mind: "I hope he doesn't take this the wrong way...but it would take too long to explain...he probably doesn't care anyway."

I'll never understand why people care about what others think.

Let people do what they enjoy, is that so difficult?

Philosopher reporting in. I don't envy anyone. I know their lives are boring, meaningless, and terrible.

We can still have fun and think about things, so it's okay.

>>94266145
Daily routine for me:

>Drive to Uni campus for class in the morning
>Walk from class to class
>Eventually get something to eat, find a spot and get on my laptop and eat in the food court area
>Then possibly go to the gym to do bodybuilding, or just go home
>Play vidya/internet all day (its either or, either I spend the afternoon doing internet or solid vidya)
>Play with cats, avoid family
>At around 6-7 I choose what drug I want to take, adderall or alcohol, usually I alternate

>be a loner
>develop extremely dry sense of humor, depressed for years so it's the only thing that gets me through the day
>start writing jokes
>want to do standup comedy, but realize that I'll be expected to socialize with people if I actually am any good
>notebooks filled with bits I'll never tell are scattered around my room
The universe is a real cunt sometimes.

My girlfriend and I play TF2 together :3
She might be bad at the game, but the tradeoff is she's both cute and incredibly rage-inducing.

>>94266358

Exactly this, good old human xenophobia. Thing is society has always revolved around a Outcasts vs. Tribals standard and always will regardless of how much we convince ourselves we aren't just instinct filled shit flicking apes.

>Says he doesn't need a social life
>Comes to /v/

>>94266532
This. We're all gonna fucking die, we're all gonna end up the same, let people do what they enjoy if it doesn't affect your life.

>>94266465
Loners dont get asked out to parties idiot

If they do, they're not really loners

>>94266240

>funny
>only talks about vidya

Nope.jpg

>>94266532
Because some people are fucking pathetic

>>94261227
i love you OP

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DgZPXRZgZeU

>>94266564
You know that a lot of comedians are actually loners/anti-social/depressed and that's why they write jokes and be funny to disguise their shortcomings. It's a sub conscious thing.
I'm sort of fucked up, at least within reason. I'm not suicidal/homocidle etc and I'm probably the most sarcastic person you would ever meet, I don't even mean to be sarcastic, it just comes out. I actually really hate it.

the only thing I respect is my gun

>>94266532
Because being connected, having friends and associates, and having a good image is necessary to get ahead and get a good job

It fucking sucks but it's the truth. If you're still in college you have time to shape up and get social, because you'll be needing all the contacts you can get to get ahead

>>94266564
I know that feel, I have a real passion for DJ'ing and I'm a lot better than many professionals but I don't accept gigs because I'll be expected to be really fun/social and go to parties afterwards.

>>94266358

I just can't seem to understand why an acquaintance (obviously someone who is actually close to you would know your lifestyle by now) would care about someone else's life so much that they would be "offended".

Anyone else here not even talk to their families at all? Not even at social gatherings?

>>94266808
I know, but I don't want to have to deal with communicating with people at the clubs and standup nights in my city. I live in Alabama and I don't get the impression that my sense of humor will be very welcome in my smallish town.

>>94266844

If someone cares so much about their "image" and "getting ahead" (whatever those vague, subjective terms actually mean) why would a thinking person associate with them? That's just selfish narcissism.

I haven't returned a personal phone call in over a decade.

I am neither. I have been both. Now I have transcended to a new status - alpha loserdom

it means in general that I don't give a fuck and just do amusing things as much as possible

>>94267014
Yes

I have extremely fucked up stuff regarding my family. They're the nicest people possible, however I have a fear of them seeing me as "human". I am terrified to show emotion around them, I cant fathom the idea of ever dating anyone and having them know I was "sexually active", I am disgusted at the idea they might be proud of me or happy with me. I want them to think I'm a robotic baby with no emotions or feelings

I'll have to wait till they're dead before I can start dating or having friends

>>94266844

Where are you people getting this? Why do you need special contacts to get jobs? What does that even mean?

>>94267243
Not the guy you are asking to, but I'll answer:

It's not mandatory, but it really, really helps. It obviously depends on what field you plan to work in. For example, being an university teacher or a lawyer benefits a lot from good contacts. Being the IT guy or getting into the military I guess doesn't that much.

>>94267190
I know this feel so much. I avoid any discussions of social or academic accomplishments because I never want them to expect anything out of me or even acknowledge my existence.

It extends past my family as well, I don't like anyone thinking I have emotions or care. Consciously I know this is the opposite of how I should act, but even with people I want to like me I still act like a robot.

>>94267243
Depending on the field or where you live, having connections is perfect for hiring. Having a friend "on the inside" in a career field can give you the heads up on an open job availability or help you get in

Plus you need references, good words, and now employers are looking at peoples Facebooks/Linkdin's and ignoring any applicants that appear as "creeps"

>>94267190
> I am disgusted at the idea they might be proud of me or happy with me. I want them to think I'm a robotic baby with no emotions or feelings

Wow... What led you to become like that?

>>94266844
>>94267403
You sound like a Yuppie bastard.

>>94267493
Lots of gay thoughts unfortunately

>>94267472

Why would you hire anyone that has a Facebook? That's a red flag right there.

>>94267517

I don't even know what yuppie means. Mind you, I don't practise what I just said, but it makes sense.

>>94267493
No idea, started when I was younger. I remember playing sports and being embarrassed they were seeing me succeed so I quit playing

>>94267623
Oh shut the fuck up. There's nothing wrong with Facebook.

>>94261227
0/10
captcha related

>that feel when in order to avoid embarassment you keep a careful lockdown on any sign of emotion
>that feel when you project such a massive aura of don't give a fuck that people think you're a cool loner who thinks he's above the law
>that feel when people become obsessed with trying to understand you and won't fucking leave you alone
>that feel when now you have to put EVEN MORE effort into acting like you don't give a fuck because it would be EVEN MORE horribly embarrassing if everyone found out who you really are now

>>94267644
I sort of know that feel. I'm not as bad as you though.

lonerbro master race reporting in

filthy beta fag/normal fag peasents

>>94267594

Wow really? Maybe you need counseling... I know just saying this probably won't help but maybe you should just come out.

>>94267623
>Why would you hire anyone that has a Facebook? That's a red flag right there.

Troll comment, but I will answer anyway. They check your facebook to see if you are not a psycho or some batshit guy. It's fine if you don't have one.

>>94267657

0/10, just leave normo

>>94267243
Because of the shitty economy

You need all the resources you can get to have a good job

>>94267644
>No idea, started when I was younger. I remember playing sports and being embarrassed they were seeing me succeed so I quit playing

Did you feel a lot of pressure when you were a kid and your parents were seeing you accomplish things? Did you feel like you had to keep up that performance or you would let them down, feel disgusted at your failures or something?

Not trying to e-shrink you, just generally curious.

>>94267692
>that feel when you meet a girl who actually understands you and she just makes one off hand remark about something in your behaviour pattern and it hits home and you feel like you can open up to her. But don't.

>>94267472
>and now employers are looking at peoples Facebooks/Linkdin's and ignoring any applicants that appear as "creeps"
good thing my facebook is set to maximum privacy. the only creeps are the ones loking me up

>>94267493
Not that guy, but my similar feelings came from when I was in school, I heard the word potential more times than I can count. It seems stupid now but eventually it just took its toll, always being told I had potential, never actually congratulated on the accomplishments I already had. Just quit trying, quit working, fucked up my grades and my future, got depressed as fuck.

It was a stupid decision but I just felt like I had to take control of my life, so now I avoid ever letting them think I have any sort of future that doesn't end in manual labor and barely above middle wages.

>>94267846
damnit

>>94267784

Looks like I'm pretty much screwed over in life then, might as well kill myself in the next 3 years before I get old enough to get a good paying career.

>>94267875
Oh wow, this is pretty much me. Being told I had potential really put a lot of pressure on me. FUUCCKK I think you've just made me realize why my life is so fucked up. I thank you my fellow anon, I think now I've finally realized my problem I can maybe do something about it!

>>94266391

That post made me seem like a dramatic pussy, which is why i don't talk about this stuff. People tend to take it the wrong way.

I have tried to change, but i just don't like hanging out with people. And the thing about not getting emotionally attached, I suspect it's normal, but since Ive been alone all my life, movies etc have twisted my view.
Once i stop seeing something, i stop caring about it. It can be anything, family member, pet, anything. The second i stopped seeing it, i stopped caring about it, and when i heard it was dead, the only thing going trough my head is "Am i supposed to feel sad now? i think it's a bit strange i'm not feeling anything...but i'll have to make something up so they think i care"

"oh...how did it happen? that's sad."

and then again in my head there is "please leave, i don't like lying."

>Have friends and socialize
>Also like to spend time by myself
>Keep a good balance between the 2.
Deal with it Inter's and Intra's

>>94267841
No, the opposite of that. My parents were the "you're special no matter what!!" types. They basically never disciplined me or encouraged me to do anything except feel good. They put me on ritalin and prozac when I was 7 or 8 because I wasnt smiling enough

>>94265703

I go to college parties regulary, but still do not have any photos. Hell, I barely know anyone who has tons of college party photos on his account, simply because either no one bothers to tag them or they actually avoid being tagged.

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Loners are often nothing more but leeches. They lack the self-esteem to state their opinion against people on the same level as them, they live from "bullying" people lower than them. They always will be the scum of society, either being total perverts or drug addicts.
I hung around with both kinds of groups for quite some time, they also overlap. Trust me, you do not want to befriend such people. You will not miss anything.

There is a reason those people do not have any friends. Of course, there are exceptions to those kind of people, but those do not really fit the "loner" definition and seek actual friendship and not just rising in "social rankings".

If you are a loner and seriously think you do not fit this mindset, finally get out of your basement and do something with your life. Doesn't matter why you do live this kind of life - if you cannot overcome those kinds of feelings, you are just what I just described: scum.

>>94267751
>>94267657

Heh, and the hypocrisy comes out. Sad.

The fervor that people have when defending their anti-social, nihilistic beliefs is incredible, and very telling when it comes to the nature of their hearts and minds. Pity is, perhaps, the only appropriate response to this lack of thought.

>>94268093
>They put me on ritalin and prozac when I was 7 or 8 because I wasnt smiling enough

That's kind of fucked up. Well, hope things work out for you, anon. I can say one thing - when you get reels of your life and stop living/depending on your parents, you will get a good shot at fixing a lot of bad things about your life. Just remember to move forward.