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    61 KB Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:28 No.31672350  
    How many friends do you have IRL?

    I used to have a tight group of friends but after switching schools I lost contact with them. I didn't have any friends for years after that, since I was pretty shy and had hobbies like animu and vidyagames. But I was like 'man the fuck up bitch' and started to open up a bit more. People started to think 'hey you can actually talk with this guy' and after a while I made a lot of friends. Now, I actually have a social life, 10+ good friends and a lot more people in my phone to hang out with. I'm still shy but I keep my hobbies to myself and try to talk about all kinds of things.

    How about you anon?
    >> David Bowie !SUlf2FqEz6 05/26/09(Tue)12:29 No.31672368
    Mostly buddies at school I make games with.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:32 No.31672450
    I have no friends. :< Seriously.

    SO RONERY
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:33 No.31672469
    i actually have quite a few, scattered over a couple groups. i have the friend in my hometown Hilversum, about a dozen. then there's my bandmates and friends in a city nearby, some friends left back the town where i'm originally from, and friends from art school. all-in i think i have a healthy amount of friends. but then again, i'm casual.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:34 No.31672514
    /v/ is my only friend.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:34 No.31672522
    >>31672469
    Op here

    Cool, Dutchfag here. Hi neighbour.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:35 No.31672565
    >>31672450
    Same here. ;_;
    >> athens !SysNpnp3nU 05/26/09(Tue)12:36 No.31672575
    I got a bunch of tight bros back home who I roll with from school.

    At University I don't really have any friends though, just a couple friends of convenience ;-;
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:36 No.31672581
    im too badass for friends
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:37 No.31672637
    I had friends in high school, though we never really did hang out munch.

    Now I'm on college, never heard about them since high school ended, and I don't have any friends here. I do talk to some people, but they aren't really friends.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:37 No.31672639
    >>31672350
    Its 2:30am in AUs atm mate and i got out of my browser, but decided that i should re-open it and post ITT.
    I had a big group of friends (10 or so really close guys) amongst others people scattered around. these 10 or so have all grown to side off pretty much because we have pretty much disbanded. Which sucks, but although after school and after all the crap, you get to see who your real friends are, be it 10, 100 or 1, be thankful that you are alive and appreciate what ad who you have around you. Everyone in this thread, i dont want to sound like a band forwarded email, but go and fcking enjoy yourself, flirt with hot girls, laugh at stupid shit, just enjoy your life! :)

    Anywayz, thats all, flame me if ya want, but i off to bed

    night /v/!
    >> athens !SysNpnp3nU 05/26/09(Tue)12:38 No.31672664
    >>31672639
    Shut the fuck up you useless australian tosser.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:39 No.31672680
    three maybe although a big bunch in my hometown. can't really make friends by my self need to be friends through other friends first
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:39 No.31672685
    Reported you're thread.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:39 No.31672688
    I don't have any friends but there's this female I've taken math courses for about a year with. We get along well and I think of her as a friend. But I don't feel that sort of urge to make friends with most people.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:40 No.31672716
    hmm i have a fair few, but friends out of one of my groups i don't see as often as i'd like as we don't go to the same uni.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:40 No.31672740
    I've always had one good friend and then others around.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:42 No.31672787
    >>31672350
    I have many friends, but you can't rely on them for anything. That's why I prefer to stay alone most of the time.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:42 No.31672788
    I lost them all
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:42 No.31672799
    >>31672639

    I hope you never wake up you tremendous faggot.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:43 No.31672821
    techincally none. I have 2 "friends" that I occasionally hang out with, but I hate them both.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:44 No.31672841
    A few. I don't hang out with them as much as I used to because of weird work schedules.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:45 No.31672878
    About 8 whom I call my friends.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:45 No.31672884
    Ventrilo helps, what with friends going to different colleges and such.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:45 No.31672889
    >>31672522

    buurman. Utrecht?
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:45 No.31672892
    Hm, maybe 10-15. Sadly, I'm the lazy bum out of them all, so I never see them during the summer.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:47 No.31672971
    i had a group of 3 really good friends, we don't hang out as much thanks to my internet addiction. I'd rather be scrolling than going outside. On the plus side this lead me to anonidate and I just tounge-kissed my pure japanese waifu last saturday. Shit was so cash.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:48 No.31672975
    I have a tight knit group of friends but I live away from them currently. I as op did "manned the fuck up" and tried to make some new ones and found out all the people here are like shittier copies of my old friends.

    So I'm moving back
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:48 No.31672997
    Just one
    /v/
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:48 No.31673009
    None.

    ...
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:49 No.31673023
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    >>31672971
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:49 No.31673030
    >>31672350
    Eh, about 4 or 5 good ones and a whole lot of quite good ones
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:49 No.31673034
    Tried to jump out of the friend-zone and got horribly rejected so now I am down to one friend at home.

    I've got quite a few at uni though! It just means I only see them 9 months out of the year though.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:49 No.31673040
    I have a very nice group of friends and we do things on a regular basis. Of course, I have closer to some than others, that is just the way the world works. But generally there is always someone who wants to hang out, or go out to do something.

    Usually we end up being relatively bored and just watch a movie, but we still have fun. College has deterred some of us away, as some have moved out farther. However, my best friend and I are closer than almost anyone on earth. She and I spend practically every freaking day with each other (and our friends) and can tell each other anything.

    Get a friend like her, /v/. She has helped me stay happy.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:50 No.31673054
    >>31672971
    >decent post
    >anonidate
    SALKDMS
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:50 No.31673062
    I'd say about eight or so. But I have a ton of acquaintances.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:50 No.31673073
    0

    Got arrested and and due to the circumstances surrounding my arrest I lost several of my friends. Got put on probation and lost the rest of them because of the probation stipulations. This was 3 years ago. Shits not fun.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:51 No.31673077
    Had a lot of friends in high school, met my girlfriend of almost 2 years there. We went to the same college together, shit was going well as we were both making new friends (different courses). She got a job and ended up breaking up with me 3 weeks later (I'm guessing peer pressure or LOL AWSUM FIT GUYZ from work brain washed her, she was pretty stupid really). From then on I lost most of my close friends from high school and the ones I managed to keep in contact with are leaving for university this summer. I have one true bro who isn't going anywhere though, although his girlfriend is going to university and she wants them to be together, so shit could go against me soon enough.

    For now I'm hanging out with the friends that are leaving as much as I can, I won't be able to see them for months after they leave. Shit sux.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:51 No.31673104
    >>31672892

    I can't sum any better than this post.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:51 No.31673120
    yaranaika
    >> ZackF. !sRpj3Cu6Hk 05/26/09(Tue)12:52 No.31673126
    I used to have a huge group of friends, but most of them weren't like "ID TAKE A BULLET FOR YOU" friends, just eh friendly. Only one friend was like that, but I ended up losing him. about two years ago I was up to my neck in friends, but I went to college and lost contact with ALOT of friends. The ones I still text don't even hang out with me anymore.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:52 No.31673141
    I made a shitload of friends after coming to uni and every weekend we all hang out in a big group, brawling and playing bomberman and stuff. Shit is incredibly cash, but it kinda sucks cause I have a huuuuge crush on one of the guys and if I do anything about it then it'll make things awkward ;_;
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:52 No.31673144
    I have no friends. Last conversation I had was over 8 months ago with my ex-boss who was trying to manipulate me into cashing checks he wrote into my account and withdrawing the money and lending it to him. Fucking scam-artist.

    I don't trust humanity.
    >> Noblesse Oblige !w1OqvVniJE 05/26/09(Tue)12:52 No.31673156
    I moved from place to place as a kid and never had a chance to make any friends because I was never there long enough.
    I have a myriad assortment of friends now, people who are much like me that I went through high school with, pretty close knit. 7 of them...a few guys from work as well.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:53 No.31673170
    About zero.

    I had a massive falling out with my best friends whom I was living with a little over a year ago. Haven't spoken to them since.

    The fact that I work from home means I've literally spent the last year of my life with absolutely no contact with any actual people.

    In fact I think I actually went close to 6 months without actually leaving my place.

    I get all my groceries delivered, have virtually no contact with my family.....and yeah.

    Hell, I even stopped posting on forums outside of 4chan because I just didn't feel like being social anymore.

    My apartment is immaculate, i've found myself bathing probably more than I need too, I work out quite a bit and i've honestly never been more productive work wise.

    I wouldn't say i'm lonely, I honestly think I've needed the time alone to think and reflect, the strange thing is, I was pretty much the epitome of social before all of this.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:53 No.31673187
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    >>31672350

    Friends are a weakness.
    I must keep distance from people so as to prevent my enemies from taking advantage of the social affliction I would have for them.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:53 No.31673193
    I've had maybe 2 or 3 close friends in my lifetime; that's about all I can take. I prefer being alone.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:54 No.31673205
    A bunch of friends from highschool, we cycle and play sports a lot, but the girls didn't have much to do while we did so our meetings are mostly dinners now.

    I have a couple of close friends who I watch movies with.

    One special girl I plan on dating, we've been seeing each other a lot, it's probably time soon.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:54 No.31673214
    >>31673141
    you better be a guy or my fantasy is ruined
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:54 No.31673228
    >>31672971
    anonidate sucks because there's no one else where I live. I hate my life.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:55 No.31673249
    Like 3 or 4 good ones. My best friend joined the marines so I talk to him over the phone every once in awhile. I still talk to a few people from high school and i've made some friends at my new college, but most of the new guys are just the kind of "hey lets hang out, grab a couple beers" friends, nothing to special
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:55 No.31673281
    Ive got my two main bros from school who I grew up with along with my 'secondary' group who all share the same interests. Shit is fucking awesome, I can make friends with anyone.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:56 No.31673303
    22 lvl old virgin, 0 friends, parasite lifestyle
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:56 No.31673318
    I miss the absolute shit out of my childhood friends. ;_;
    >> tinycat !!NqU6wU7JQ+v 05/26/09(Tue)12:56 No.31673328
    I had one, it left though after we spent the best years of our lives togeather ;_;

    Now im all alone, but because of this, i can consider everyone equally my friends ^___^
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:57 No.31673340
    I fucking love this game. AAA title. One of the best.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:57 No.31673355
    >>31673023
    >>31673054

    The funny thing is, I learned of anonidate through /v/. In a way, I owe /v/ for getting me a girl and trust me I'm as pathetic as some of the worst /v/irgins here.

    Thanks /v/.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:57 No.31673370
    1.

    I used to have a lot of friends who I'd hang out with regularly, but when we finished school they went off to college while I opted for the superior route (dead end retail job). For a few months we still got together for a piss up each week but it just kind of fizzled out. They made new friends, went off and did new things. It never really bothered me, the kind of life style they're after isn't for me. The whole partying, socialising, chasing girls shit just ain't my bag. And I dunno. Part of me always kind of thought they were a bunch of cunts anyway.

    The one guy who I still do see didn't go to college either, but that was because of medical reasons. Long story short, he has a fucked leg and is pretty much house bound. None of our old friends keep in contact with him anymore, just me. I go round every now and then or we play the vidya via XBL. We true bros.

    I guess I'm friends with some of the people at work, too, but I never see them outside of there. I'd be happy to, they're cool people and I kind of have a thing for one of the girls, but whatever.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:57 No.31673372
    >>31673340

    *hugs*
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:58 No.31673377
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    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:58 No.31673387
    >>31672889

    Ik woon in Utrecht

    Allo
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:58 No.31673394
    >>31673318
    then go find them
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:58 No.31673399
    >>31673170
    Yeah, I'm in a similar situation. Except, I let my apartment get really filthy. One day, I was just lounging around, and I was like "this sucks," so I spent the entire day cleaning. Now it's back to tip-top condition.

    There's no grocery delivery services where I live, but I live about four blocks away from a big-name grocery chain, so I just walk. I parked my vehicle, didn't renew insurance, and haven't driven it in about 6 months.

    Sometimes, I go batshit insane and catch myself dancing around like a maniac talking to myself. But a long nap and some internet therapy cures that.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:59 No.31673418
    you just realised most people you call "friends" are people who just hang out with you to have fun and would dumop your sorry ass as soon as you would need any kind of help.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:59 No.31673421
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    >>31673023

    >Will Smith Amused.jpg
    >> Orgasmatron !!9skuTvcTtr7 05/26/09(Tue)12:59 No.31673432
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    Haven't had any real friends since High School. My situation is already quite similar to yours, OP. I'm kinda shy and am bad at meeting new people. Though, most of the people that I meet in fucking community college are goddamn morons.

    I guess I have a couple friends right now but I usually only see them when they're home from college.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:59 No.31673443
    >>31673370

    Kudos to you.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)12:59 No.31673444
    >>31673355
    It actually worked for you? Tell me more.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:00 No.31673460
    >>31673214

    haha nope, I'm one of 3 girls in our group. shit sux
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:00 No.31673467
    >>31673355
    Thanks for the viral marketing
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:00 No.31673478
    >>31673432
    Hot. AND you like Cillian? we should be soulmates!
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:00 No.31673487
    >>31673377
    go back to /jp/ --->
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:01 No.31673507
    I'd like to point out here.

    People who you know on forums/IRC ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS.

    It's incredibly easy to fake your personality online. Often you'll meet a sly, cocky, humourous guy on the net, meet them in real life and they're actually a shy autistic faggot. You haven't developed a real relationship.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:01 No.31673511
    >>31673418
    no, I already realize that. I just say friends because its not worth divying them up with different terms as long as I know what I'm talking about
    >> Orgasmatron !!9skuTvcTtr7 05/26/09(Tue)13:01 No.31673515
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    >>31673355
    I've tried using anonidate just to meet some cool people. I HAVE met cool people on there but of course they never live within 30 miles of me.
    >> Accelerando !!KU4ka94526Q 05/26/09(Tue)13:01 No.31673544
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    2 here, the rest are tools
    no joke boyo
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:02 No.31673558
    I was a hot stud motherfucker with a shitload of friends of both sexes, always social, always drinking, macking on girls (and succeeding) etc. Every day was a grand adventure with my bros and on the weekends it was houseparties galore.

    Now I have 2 friends that I see a few hours on the weekends, if that. No one else. I don't know what the fuck happened...
    Everyone grew up I guess ;__;

    I don't know if I would like to still have the memories that I have now looking back and feeling like shit because I know those times will never come back again. Or pull a Eternal sunshine and just erase them. That way I wouldn't feel like shit...I guess.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:02 No.31673562
    >>31673507
    thanks for that advice! I was gonna go meet a shitload of anonymous people from the net but not now! you saved me!
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:02 No.31673564
    >>31673394

    Burned those bridges a while ago, and honestly, i'm too much of a coward to face them.

    Not because I was in the wrong, but because I really didn't realise how much i'd hurt them by leaving.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:02 No.31673567
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    I fell into deep depression last winter, severed the bonds with/started ignoring the friends I had made at school. Stopped going out (I didn't enjoy it all that much anyways), rarely talked to anyone at school. It's gotten a bit better, formed a few new friendships, I'll go to London with 2 girls from my class this summer. I'm planning to pick up a martial art and choir singing just to give my life more purpose, to give me something to talk about. Places to meet people. Once I feel better, that is.

    I'm actually afraid to call my best bro with whom I've been best friends since grade school since I neglected him so much during the past few months.

    I should feel horrible, but my antipsychotics prevent me from having strong feelings both good and bad, it all just seems so meaningless at the moment. There's still a group of old highschool mates I might see during summer, go out with them... but that's not really satisfying. In retrospect all my past 'friendships' seem so superficial, so unemotional to me. I wish I could cry or feel bad about it. Goddamn.

    It'll get better. Right /v/?
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:02 No.31673571
    VIDEO GAEMS
    >> Orgasmatron !!9skuTvcTtr7 05/26/09(Tue)13:02 No.31673580
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    >>31673507
    Because people are always honest about who they really are when you meet them IRL, right?

    Think about it, bro.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:02 No.31673581
    I have two friends that I've known for a decade. Good guys, but over the years I've grown apart from them. One went off to Iraq four years ago, and the other went to art school at the same time.

    While they were gone I was here wondering if I'd be fine without my two best friends, but I quickly realized that I didn't need them at all. I made some friends while they were gone, but I honestly don't give a shit about them either.

    We still hang out today, but it's mainly just for the vidya. We'll go to one of our apartments and do SFIV, Smash Bros, or take turns doing Mercenaries in RE5.

    I can't wait to live a life in a new place where I don't know anyone. I don't hate people, I just really value being by myself. It happens so rarely these days.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:02 No.31673584
    I have 2 good friends. One is a few years younger and is immature as fuck. the other is one year younger, but me and her have like all the same hobbys and shit. SO have at least ONE person to talk about the same stuff about. Everyone else I know are kinda my friends but meh I could live without them.

    I have a bunch of "gaming" friends. We all play Fighting games competitively a few times a week and go all around to compete in our respective games. We play a lot of Street Fighter 4 as of now.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:03 No.31673593
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    >>31673370
    >The one guy who I still do see didn't go to college either, but that was because of medical reasons. Long story short, he has a fucked leg and is pretty much house bound. None of our old friends keep in contact with him anymore, just me. I go round every now and then or we play the vidya via XBL. We true bros.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:03 No.31673594
    >>31673187
    You really think anyone would waste their time on you like that? 'Exploiting' your weaknesses through manipulation of your friends?
    You're too full of yourself. You have no friends, thus you have no enemies, yet I bet you wish you had some so at least somebody gave a shit about you.
    Having enemies would imply that they care enough to hate you. You inspire indifference in people. Enjoy your pathetic and lonely existence.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:04 No.31673628
    >>31673399

    I talk to myself quite a bit, I think it helps.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:05 No.31673652
    since going to the university i kinda lost contact to most and its back to about 10 close friends and 10 more distant friends
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:05 No.31673674
    >>31673507
    >Often you'll meet a sly, cocky, humourous guy on the net, meet them in real life and they're actually a shy autistic faggot.
    Damn man, how did you know about me?
    >> bitter's 05/26/09(Tue)13:05 No.31673678
    I see no reason to keep people in company if I can't fuck them what is wrong with you people you act like you are still in highschool

    LOL U DNT HVE MANY FRIENDS FAIL

    people are so prude my god
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    >>31672522
    FUCK YEAR DUTCHFAGS

    Anyway, I have about 3 or 4 really good friends, and then there's a bunch of guys I hang out with in school.

    Inb4 underage b&. You can be in school and be 18, fags. It's called 6 years of middle school.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:06 No.31673705
    I have about 5 true bros, more acquaintances, zero female bros because I haven't met a trustworthy woman in ages.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:06 No.31673712
    >>31673444
    >>31673467

    I had no intention of actually meeting ANYONE related to 4chan but through a lot of desperate loneliness I continued talking to her every so often while containing most of my faggotry so I wouldn't seem too repulsive.

    Stalking her youtube/DA helped, she's the only girl I know who likes Ganbare Goemon as much as me. DASH DASH DAAASH
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:06 No.31673717
    Making friends in Community College is HARDUMODU. Most people commute from 30 minutes away, or take a couple classes and disappear. For all you going to REAL college, count your fucking blessings.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:06 No.31673722
    >It's incredibly easy to fake your personality online. Often you'll meet a sly, cocky, humourous guy on the net,.

    Interestingly enough I was that guy, yet I somehow managed to carry that over into the real world with a little bit of e-confidence.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:06 No.31673726
    >>31673580

    Most people are terrible at that, and even so you can learn about the person that way.

    However, I could talk on /v/ like I was some hard man who wasn't afraid of anything. My language is cold, calculated and precise. I am always collected.

    Then you meet me in RL. Think I'll be that way?
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:07 No.31673733
    I literally have no friends at all. I am completely alone. ;_;
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:07 No.31673741
    >>31673678
    bitter's u wack
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:07 No.31673743
    I'll be honest no friends, and whenever i stay with people i begin to feel sick, seriously i get diseases and heartaches if i hang out with people.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:07 No.31673754
    >>31673705
    Also, my standards for "true bro" are pretty high. We're talking "would gladly die together in glorious battle" bros.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:07 No.31673761
    >>31673073

    Arrested for what? loli related i presume?
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:08 No.31673775
    I met a girl off of anonidate once. She's an alcoholic scenegirl/semi-camwhore who recently got a boob job.

    Not bad at all.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:08 No.31673796
    i have 0 friends, i prefer no friends, its not a matter of "hurr you loser you can't get any friends" i've had friends before, i've had more girlfriends than most ppl posting, i've fucked girls before, i've been invited to more parties than i can count, i just don't go. I don't like people, i don't like sitting around talking about nothing doing nothing for hours, i prefer to depend on myself than others, i enjoy doing what i want when i want, girls are nothing but justified cum buckets that waste 99% of your attention and time and when its over you realize that your time was wasted.

    I can go to wherever i want whenever i want, i have more money than i care to even count, i jerk off when i want, i can get laid when i want, its a matter of not looking like shit/being lazy, like the majority of /v/

    One thing that really irks me is "mob mentality" and "group mentality", people just think they are smarter/better because they are in groups. It only takes 1 person to make an opinion valid, and you are not right if you have more people behind you.
    >> GeneralIvan !!Th5NGyhxace 05/26/09(Tue)13:09 No.31673806
    6
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:09 No.31673813
    >>31672664
    You are the reason i come here
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:09 No.31673821
    >>31673733

    *hugs*
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:09 No.31673835
    >>31673717

    I'm going to university in september and Im' curious about this.

    In order to save money I've opted to stay at home for the first year. It's about a 30 minute trip. However, it's pretty much a normal university otherwise, people do stay there, but a lot of them don't. Will it be difficult to make friends? I'm planning to go to a fencing and martial arts club as well as a few academic societies, and also want to spend as much time at the union as possible. But I need some bros first.

    That said, I'm pretty normal but a bit on the reserved side. (Not VERY reserved). Will I struggle? This is bothering me.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:10 No.31673841
    4. Two I only get to see during the school year, though, and the other two are hard to hang out with, as they're both working when I have time off in the summer, and one spends most of his free time with his girl.

    Breaks from college are lonely indeed.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:10 No.31673866
    >>31673835
    You'll be fine. Just make time to hang with people.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:11 No.31673874
    >>31673775

    Oh she sounds like a barrel of laughs.

    I must be getting old, once upon a time I would have hit that so hard....these days, I doubt I could run quick enough.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:11 No.31673893
    None. Not even on the internet.

    It'd only bothersome when I want to play a multiplayer game, and even that is becoming easier and easier to do.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:12 No.31673900
    I don't have any friends, and I don't really want any, either, although I don't really know why that is.

    Oh well.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:12 No.31673907
    >>31673821

    thanks.

    It's really hard sometimes. Yesterday, I saw this young couple snuggling and I realized how much I've missed that in life. I realized I have gotten a phone call in forever, and facebook post, an email, etc.

    Oh well.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:12 No.31673918
    >>31673835

    You'll be absolutely fine, University is fucking great, you're literally forced to interact with others and unless you're a complete shit bag you won't have a worry in the world.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:12 No.31673923
    >>31673907

    *haven't
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:12 No.31673924
    i had a real tiht group of friends in highschool, i still hang out with them but they seem much less fun now

    i still have my best friend from1st grade though and another really close friend, as long as i have them and some not so close friends i'm set
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:13 No.31673931
    Who knows, loads. Unfortunately I'm very likeable.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:13 No.31673965
    >Often you'll meet a sly, cocky, humourous guy on the net, meet them in real life and they're actually a shy autistic faggot

    What's even worse is if you meet a sly, cocky, humorus faggot on the net and they are really like that IRL.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:14 No.31673985
    >>31673931
    That must be tough for you.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:14 No.31673992
    I have BILLIONS of friends. I swear, I'm so damn handsome and popular you'd be shocked! Then again, you probably know me already. I'll bet at least half the people in this thread are my friends, no, all of you! I'd share them, but honestly I just can't get rid of them.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:15 No.31674040
    >>31673992

    Are you flashheart from blackadder?
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:16 No.31674054
    I gotta say beware of internet people. I actually thought I was becoming interested in a certain person (sexfully) - turns out he is completely fucking insane. Completely self-absorbed, completely socially bankrupt. And violent.

    I've ignored a lot of fairly decent friends because of internet people I thought genuinely cared for and understood me. I mean, "fairly decent" as in they're still largely cunts, and you wouldn't trust them with a serious issue, but mostly tolerable people who'll shout me a drink and a place to sleep. You can know someone for 4 years over the internet, though, and it still isn't worth a week IRL.

    My true friends count sits at two. One guy I rarely see (maybe 3 times a year) but have known for so long that we will never really lose contact. He hasn't changed at all and I'm glad of it. And another guy who, nice as he is, is unfortunately doomed to painful failure and maybe some sort of serial crimes.

    This is my story. Not too sobby, but maybe a little.

    VIDYA GEAMS
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:17 No.31674078
    >>31673907

    *more hugs*

    I wouldn't fret too much, my circumstances are pretty shitty, 24, unemployed, on the verge of homelessness, starving, virgin, a stick of RAM just died, no friends aside from an old forum acquaintance.......and yet, strangely.....i'm pretty happy.

    Would I like more out of life?

    Shit yeah.

    But I fucking love just stupid shit like tending my garden, going for a ride on a sunny day and reading a good book.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:17 No.31674102
    I have a few friends, yes. But am I the only one who feels like even though they are good friends now I can easily move on and drop them like rocks? even though I know them for more than 7 years now.

    Also, I think my friends are keeping me from being friends with cooler people.
    My friends are all a bit nerds. (they look like nerds) Even though I'm probably more nerdish then they are I look like just a normal guy and I can easily adapt to other things.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:17 No.31674107
    >>31673507
    >It's incredibly easy to fake your personality online
    >online

    I hate to ruin your theory mate but people act like that everywhere not just online.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:18 No.31674144
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    >>31674040

    WOOF! I had just started watching this show, it's fantastic.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:19 No.31674173
    >>31674102

    There's loads of people who are pretty normal that hang around geeks, myself included. However, we're not all assholes like you. I hope they ditch you.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:20 No.31674213
    >>31674078

    I already posted my friend situation, but this is exactly why I like my status. I don't need a lot of shit to be happy.

    I had a great gf not three months ago, and I'm still pretty broken up over that. I don't care if it's just a shitty way to cope, but playing TF2 or L4d with some friends really does make me feel better.

    Persona 4 got way too much playtime from me during the rough parts. I beat the game two times through. I just really didn't want to be dealing with anything.

    shit, this really doesn't have a lot with what you posted. sorry.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:20 No.31674220
    none, one day you simply accept the fact that you are all better by yourself.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:20 No.31674221
    >>31673874
    Oh, and did I mention she's a borderline WoW addict? And she told me she was raped by her best friend but it turns out that she really just regretted the sex.
    She has some pretty crazy issues I suppose.

    She said she wasn't looking for a relationship though, just for friends. Which I'm fine with, in this situation. Even though I normally take a "whatever I can grab" view when it comes to women. Beggars can't be choosers.
    Most of the time, anyways.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:21 No.31674231
    >>31674107

    You're really not getting it. For example, would you have spoke to me like that in real life? Would you have been so directly confrontational? I highly doubt it. The internet grants you a safety net to plan out exactly how you want to sound. You don't have the luxury in a real conversation.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:21 No.31674260
    around 20 are my good friends, the rest are mainly colleagues.
    we've known each other for a very long time now
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:22 No.31674267
    >>31674102

    >But am I the only one who feels like even though they are good friends now I can easily move on and drop them like rocks? even though I know them for more than 7 years now.

    Nope, I dropped my best friend of close to 16 years in the blink of an eye.

    They (him and my other housemates at the time) went out one evening, they came home, I said good bye, explained why and haven't seen them since.

    Not a tear shed and I think that more than anything is what upsets and somewhat scares me.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:22 No.31674290
    Several close friends. Bunch of other friends to hang out or talk with.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:23 No.31674316
    >>31674173
    I'm not an asshole!...maybe a little then...

    But I do consider them as friends, it's just that I've never met anyone my entire life I really felt very connected to. I think that I could move away now and rarely look back to my current life.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:23 No.31674328
    I'll be one of the first to agree that Internet People aren't worth shit IRL.

    After I found that out, I just kept on collecting these people. I hate talking to my "real" friends about shit, but with these internet people it doesn't mean worth shit because I know I don't care. A lot of them are like, "Oh man, we gotta hang out one of these days." and I'll play along and say that we will, but I always know I'll never fucking meet any of these people.

    I get them to give me free shit all the time, too. It's pretty great if you're halfway decent at manipulating situations.

    no remorse
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:24 No.31674346
    Yet another Dutchfag here. I don't have any friends, but I have no problems talking to people at college, so I guess I'm not a complete social outcast. High school was pretty much the same story, only slightly better. Lost contact with all of them, though.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:24 No.31674354
    >>31674316

    Well, I'm sorry to have to tell you this but...

    You don't have any real friends.
    >> Spyder !XScBMSvQuc 05/26/09(Tue)13:24 No.31674361
    I've got a few, but not many are very close. A lot of them are friends from my FLGS and the rest are just bros I've met at cons/LANs. I'm the weird/querky guy of the group, most of the time, but everyone seems to get the biggest chuckle out of me.

    I think some of them are coming on to my trap-maid fetish, though. :|
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:25 No.31674390
    >>31672350
    >I didn't have any friends for years after that, since I was pretty shy and had hobbies like animu and vidyagames.
    Since when has playing video games become something you have to hide in order to have friends? When i was in high school everybody played games, we all used to brag about being good at games like MvC2. Even anime was no big deal, at least the casual ones like DBZ and Cowboy Bebop.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:25 No.31674391
    0. I have some, but they're shitty friends so I don't count em.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:25 No.31674403
    Man, you guys are weird. My final year of school is about to finish and everyone in my groups of friends are moving away to different universities. I'm fucking crushed, and so are they. We've all agreed to meet up as much as possible, and I hope we do.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:26 No.31674446
    >>31674403

    Spoiler alert:

    you will die alone
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:26 No.31674461
    >>31674213

    It's got more to do with my post than you might think.

    I think it's important to be able to take a good step back in order to get everything in perspective, the world seems to be full of people who can do that on the fly, i'm apparently not one of them.

    I can react to things on the fly, but I can't honestly say I make sound and thorough judgments on shit day in day out whilst being buried in the sea of crap that seems to be a requirement of day to day living.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:27 No.31674473
    >>31674446

    Nooooooo D:
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:27 No.31674483
    I moved away from my middle school friends. Then I moved away from my high school friends. Everyone else I know moved away for college.

    Right now I have one close friend I used to work with and we hang out sometimes. Everyone else is just an aquaintance.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:28 No.31674519
    >>31674354
    so be it then.

    I do consider them as friends. And I know they feel the same about me. But I know I can drop them like a rock and not feel really bad about it.
    I've done so before. As a kid I had a friend, 5 long years we hung out together nearly every day, they I moved to another school, after that I went by his house to pick up some games he borrowed from me, after that I've never seen him again. And I don't feel bad about it at all
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:28 No.31674530
    >But I was like 'man the fuck up bitch' and started to open up a bit more. People started to think 'hey you can actually talk with this guy' and after a while I made a lot of friends.

    If you count like that I have loads of RL friends since I've never had problems speaking to people. The problem is I have zero really good friends, all of those I lost contact with after junior high. And none of my current friends really share my interests either.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:28 No.31674545
    I have some bros who I talk to at school but I have no real friends.

    So ronery
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:29 No.31674557
    I have friends at school, not so much outside of school, and I have a soon-to-be girlfriend.


    (SO RONERY = synonym for WHATS WRONG WITH MY WEIGHT IM NOT GOING ON A DIET AHFSFSDSGDLDHLDKHKPSAAASSSHHH)
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:29 No.31674576
    I WISH I LIVED IN A VIKING VILLAGE WHERE I WOULD GROW UP, WORK WITH AND THEN GROW OLD WITH THE SAME PEOPLE.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:30 No.31674593
    >>31672522
    >>31672469
    Alkmaar hurr, alles goed daar beneden xD
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:30 No.31674595
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    Dutchfag here, I'd say about 3 real friends and a lot of other I just casually hang out with.
    >> Zark 05/26/09(Tue)13:30 No.31674602
    I've got drama-obsessed 'friends', druggie friends, and a set of friends who I'd consider the closest friends anyone could ask for. Life is good.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:31 No.31674637
    I lost all my friends because I said no to drugs. =(
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:32 No.31674656
    I have friends at school. But what I don't get is how people make friends outside of school. Sure I got some friends from my football team, but they all hang out with people they seem to randomly have met. How the hell does something like that happen?
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:32 No.31674692
    >>31674656

    For 90% of the world?

    People you meet through work.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:33 No.31674718
    I haven't been in contact with most of my old friends ever since I got accepted into a university... This bloody place is in the middle of nowhere.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:33 No.31674737
    Theres only one guy I know IRL that I would consider a 'friend'. I know quite a few people I would call 'school friends' though.

    I have a girlfriend as well, if that counts.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:34 No.31674781
    3 Good friends
    10+ "ohgodIhatethatfaggotsomu-OH WAIT HE'S HERE HEY BRO" friends.

    Also, not videogames.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:35 No.31674801
    I have got to stop fucking reading these ronery threads, they are beyond depressing.

    What's stopping you all from making friends?
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:35 No.31674804
    I have 5-7 close friends I would consider sharing my most personal and embarrassing stories to and about 10 casual friends that are there to talk to. I despise people in general because most of them are retarded and easily pressured to do retarded shit (my ex-girlfriend). I don't believe it is good to go out and meet hundreds of people and try to be good friends with them. Hell it's impossible.

    Also don't get me started on women. Most of them are nothing but drama whores who like to waste your time with their stupid stories, their dramas and the parties they go out to get drunk with. After seeing my ex-girlfriend turn from a somewhat intelligible and respectable woman straight to a sorority sister who does nothing but smoke drink and do ecstasy every weekend just broke down that wall.

    I couldn't imagine myself settling down with another person. The only woman I would leave my trust to is my mom. She works 2 jobs 6 days a week to send my 3 brothers and I to school. Once I graduate and get a job, I'll make sure she doesn't have to work anymore.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:36 No.31674836
    I have a shit load of friends. I'm out every weekend.
    not all people who go on /v/ are lonely fags
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:36 No.31674847
    >>31674737
    how does one obtain such thing called a girlfriend?

    A lot of people from my school got gf's, but those girls aren't even on my school. How the fuck do you meet them then? In a club? I never go out or something so that might be it...
    >> Silly Putty !!u8Z+SSt787r 05/26/09(Tue)13:36 No.31674871
    >>31672350
    are you
    me?
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:36 No.31674873
    >>31674637

    hahaha what a loser.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:38 No.31674920
    >>31674873

    =(
    >> Orgasmatron !!9skuTvcTtr7 05/26/09(Tue)13:38 No.31674925
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    >>31673717
    This.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:39 No.31674949
    None.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:39 No.31674982
    >>31674781

    >"ohgodIhatethatfaggotsomu-OH WAIT HE'S HERE HEY BRO" friends.

    this pretty much sums up all my friends
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:42 No.31675090
    only a few since im an asshole to everybody and i dont plan on changing it
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:43 No.31675129
    Anyone from Adelaide? ;_;
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:46 No.31675213
    there should be a /v/irgin map, you know one of those flash map things that show icons where theres a fellow /v/irgin.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:50 No.31675382
    >>31675129

    Yes, now go to bed, it's 3am and fucking freezing.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:51 No.31675409
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    I used to have lots of friend and then the same thing happened. I moved to a deserted little shittown for three years to study and lost almost all contact to my friends. all I had back there was the internets and /v/.
    Now I've moved to a bigger city and have had the opportunity to get lotsa friend but I've systematicly avoided social situations and retreated back to /v/.
    that little town destroyed my social abilities... or maybe it was /v/..?
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:52 No.31675457
    >>31675409

    perhaps it was a mixture of both
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)13:53 No.31675533
    >>31675409

    Being social is one of those crazy things that feels alright at the time.....but then on later reflection feels every bit as hollow and pointless as browsing /v/

    Only it usually costs you money and small bits of your liver.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)14:01 No.31675814
    I would like more friends.

    When my life isn't so embarrassingly shit, I may even attempt to go about attaining some.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)14:01 No.31675837
    >>31675533
    could've not said it better myself.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)14:01 No.31675849
    >>31675533
    Then you're with the wrong people.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)14:05 No.31675979
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    >>31675409
    My story is similar, but instead of a small town, I'm in a larger city. Most of my friends got married, moved, or we just lost touch anyway. Right now I have zero RL friends. /v/ and vidya are too much of an escape for me.

    I'm hoping when I start working, I'll meet people and eventually make new friends.
    >> Anonymous 05/26/09(Tue)14:07 No.31676058
    >>31674078
    Shit, bro, are you down to 512MB now? That's really hurting.



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