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08/27/11(Sat)01:25 No.3635230>>3635144
How old are you?
When
I was in high school, I was introverted. I became more extroverted as
an undergrad, but still kept to myself quite a bit. After I took a solo
trip around the world, and HAD to socialize in order to survive, I found
myself to be fairly talkative. I now go out of my way to talk to people
from different countries (I go to a very diverse university) about a
wide range of topics. I just had a 4 hour talk last week with a Japanese
guy and American girl about Chinese politics even though I'm an
engineer. The more you talk with people, the more diverse your
conversations will become and the more interesting you'll become. If you
can talk about a wide range of topics, you can entertain girls with
various interests.
I would suggest taking one of two routes.
Either change yourself into a more extroverted person by intentionally
putting yourself into situations that require social skills, or find
outlets for people like you. If you're like most of the people I know
who call themselves introverts, you might just not like activities such
as going to bars or clubs, and might do better at smaller social events.
If you're in university, maybe take a dancing class, join an outdoor
club...etc. If you're like my current roommate, who holes himself up in
his room playing (presumably) MMPORG's you're going to have a hard time.
That's enough of my alcohol-induced rant. I'm not going to re-read, but
hopefully I said something useful in that mess. |
