THIS SOUNDS REAL LET ME GET MY MSN OUT AND DISCOVER WE LIVE NEXTDOOR

Damn... I wanna fuck that cartoon loli.

Girls don't have any other interests besides gossip, sex and money.

Can't prove me wrong.

y-y-y-y-y-y-y-y-y-y-y-y-y-yous a TROLLIN foo'

>>8439349
Sure. I might as well.

Clever troll thread, OP
Very clever indeed.
I applaud you.

I don't know, but I'd assume even men that come here out of interest in board topics is under 10%.

/b/ gets about 75% of this site's traffic and the boards that trail it in popularity (e.g. /v/) are primarily /b/ spillover.

I'm not a virgin or anything but I've been coming here for years scouting out the occasional interesting thread
They're become harder and harder to find

>.Worst of all I feel like I can't ask this question anywhere on 4chan without it devolving into some misogynist bullshit or trolls everywhere. Let's see if it works here.

OH OH LORD LOOKS LIKE YOU ARE TESTING ME

Welcome to /misogyny/.

Yeah, I come here for the intelligent discussions.

Also, coincidentally, the gay community.

Everyone here is just so like me. /v/ is really videogame-central, and /a/ is really anime-central, and I like being in a place that has both those things but is more chill about it.

Also they're all awkward like me. ):

>>8439391
Better than [a/....

hey sista I hear ya, I'm in your exact state exept I just came home from the pub and I'm pissed, No American'sI'm not mad I'm drunk. Britfags will understand

For the lulz, I threw that "msn" into google:

/cd/ - Crossdressers - Thread 93283
Yeah I'd love to talk, but I probably won't be on till late tonight or tomorrow. mediocrity11@hotmail.com. >>93503. You've really thought that out. ...
img.420chan.org/cd/res/93283.shtml


Oh lawls.

>>8439412
So I like crossdressers?

Male here, but my girlfriend used to come here for the creepy pasta on /x/, and found /adv/ sometimes-interesting too. Unfortunately, the general attitude (misogyny, masses of unfunny trolling, gore pics, losers whining about not being able to get a girlfriend) put her off, and she doesn't come here anymore.

Kind of makes me laugh when these guys wonder why they're single.

>>8439432
Apparently? Either that, or the email is fake, which is more likely.

>>8439407
Amerifag here. I don't get why we use it as angry.
Don't hate on us for our strange word choice. :(

boys dont talk to me, i fucking hate it. im afraid of rejection

I'm not a virgin, although I wish I was. I am, however pretty fucked up so I feel like that qualifies me to post in this thread. Trust me ladies, losing your virginity isn't all that, men are fuckeheads.

>>8439432
Well, who doesn't?
amirite /r9gay/

OP I come here to acquire uncensored male opinions
also for the occasional interesting discussion
also because facebook is boring

Why do you assume women only come here to talk about sex and relationships? I'll occasionally participate in sex and relationship threads, but I mainly post in /lit/, /news/, and /ck/. I just don't advertise my gender while posting on those boards.

>rather than talking about their relationships and sex life?

>Seriously I feel like one of the few female virgins

Someone explain this to me. I am confused.

>>8439443
Being nice on the internet doesn't get you laid

at least not by decent women

>>8439455
that's how all genders feel about each other

>>8439362
Guys have no interests in anything other than pussy, vidya and whining on anonymous websites.

Can't prove me wrong.

>>8439472
Good point. I think all the misogyny is getting to me. Even the girls on /cm/ all seem to have healthy relationships. But let's not turn this into "what's wrong with me?" thread. I'm just curious if there are more women here that feel like this.

>>8439476

Being nice in general gets me laid. I'm pretty sure whatever I do on the internet has little effect on getting me laid (or anyone laid, excluding Craigslist or dating sites), but if I'm a 'nice' person, why would I suddenly start acting like an asshole on the internet?

The people being douches here are most likely also douches in real life, whether they realise it or not, and that's why their lives are as they are.

>>8439407 Hey American. I'm not haitin'. I'm just getting the facts out there, You love it really. I don't understand the pissed/angry thing either. To me pissed means fuckind drunk. Description relevant, Thanks, Love you robots xxx

>>8439543
Wisdom, folks. Right fucking here.

Wow greentext fucking rules. I am so smart SMRAT

>>8439330
I'm pretty much in the same situation as you, OP: Shy, anxious, virgin, live at home, no job, never had a bf. I do get out as I'm going to college, but because of my social anxiety, I was out of school for 2 yrs, so I'm about 2-3 yrs older than the kids in my classes.
I don't tell anyone about my love of animu/comics/etc. cause I don't want those weird looks :/

>>8439395
>>Yeah, I come here for the intelligent discussions.

Also, I'm a virgin female. No trolling, unfortunatelly :| I don't suffer social anxiety at all, I'm just very shy around men. >>8439455 because of this:
>>im afraid of rejection

>>8439330
I agree. Don't tell anyone. It's just odd.

>>8439533

I'm older than most people here and married now, but I was very much like that in my early 20s.

>>8439533
You must realize that for all the girls announcing that they are girls, there are plenty that aren't

>>8439578
OP here, I dropped out of college due to anxiety as well. I'm hoping to jump back on the horse next fall or spring.

>>8439625
>>8439605
Thanks, it's just comforting to know I'm not alone.

>>8439578

Plenty of guys out there who like shy, anime loving, interweb roaming, i-know-how-it-feels girls who aren't just shallow puddles of piss.

And some of those guys aren't half bad

>>8439675
If you saw how mooost of those girls looked you might change your tune :/

>>8439645
You're welcome OP :) sometimes I ask myself if all this cloud of misogyny over r9k is because anons are hurt. They want to be loved, but they suffer from rejection.

Oh wait. That's right after all.

I wonder why there is obviously more males on 4chan; I mean, apparently more males with geeky interests than females. Is it biological? Is it social? Are there actually many female anons? What the shit is going on?

>>8439734
Men are inherently more independent and creative than females.

Females primarily seek validation from others, so they're far less likely to have interest in quirky things and primarily like what their friends like.

It's why the female definition of "nerd" sucks.

>>8439734

Most girls aren't exposed to geeky interests while growing up.

I come here because it falls in line with my sense of humor more so than people I know IRL.

8439734
Women can't admit to being robots. The simple Truth is, guys are freaked the fuck out by females who have interests similar, or deeper that thier own. Deep down all men are insecure. They know females are better than them.

>>8439717
>sometimes I ask myself if all this cloud of misogyny over r9k is because anons are hurt. They want to be loved, but they suffer from rejection.

Don't ever think for one second that that isn't the source of /r9k/'s nastiness, and bitterness toward women: virgin rage. Pure, and simple.

>>8439814
I wouldn't mind it.

>>8439825
It's pure rage from the world being assholes to us 99% of the time.

We develop assholish personalities too, and since 4chan is mostly men and you guys become our bros, that still leaves out women.

So we hate women even more.

>>8439717
Is r9k really that misogynistic? I do skip some threads but I've not really noticed it.
If there is someone I hate, then it's myself for being so pathetic, knowing what I'd have to change but being unable to do so.

>>8439734
I have a theory: in most boards, people just act stupidly. They keep of saying "WHAT YOU THINK IS BULLSHIT I AM RIGHT STFU". If someone complains about this behavior, this people is considered a faggot. It happens every second on 4chan.
Most women just can't stand rednecks. I've attended some cool boards about games, where people chat without being douches. MANY girls posted frequently

Any women virgins need to come to my place and we'll party.

i may not be a virgin, but i certainly come here for /co/ and /sci/ when either of them want to be good.

nothing like coming across /r9k/-grade misogyny in real life when dudes flip the fuck out when you tell them you're studying physics and engineering.

From what I've seen, OP, most women who go on here aren't like you and are depressing chicks who say "BAAAAAAAAW MY BF BROKE UP WID ME, I WANNA AN HERO!"

i go on /lit/, /mu/, /fa/, /ck/ and /int/

although i'm not a virgin and i'm not socially inept.

I'm female too. I only leave the house to go to class. I'm a virgin and I'm 20.

>>8439645
it was hard OP. I had 2 false starts before I was finally able to pull myself together and get back in last fall. But being forced to be in social situations helps you to just "face your fears" and get over them. This semester is going well and I've actually met some awesome people and made a few friends :)
Now, if only most of the guys weren't such douches...

>>8439877

If you think even half of those threads are started by real women, then you're extremely gullible.

>>8439877
Most women that post here most likely blend in under 'Anonymous'.

>>8439880
same here, except i'm 22 ;_;

>>8439825
I don't think is pathetic someone being a virgin (after all, I am virgin, so why should I). What is pathetic is all that stupid rage implying "oh lord why nobody loves me bawww I hate the whole world."

>>8439888
I'm sorry you had to go through that, anon. I'm hoping next fall/spring won't be a false start again. I'm glad to hear you're doing better. :)

>>8439814

Disagree. Am not secure. I'm probably as shy as OP around women, maybe more so.

I'm honestly amazed by the lack of misogyny in this thread. Are the basement virgins too busy crying themselves to sleep to shit all over this thread?

>>8439935
I know, it's been a surprisingly good thread. Well at least it let me know there are other shy women around here.

>>8439935

No, even they're out getting some trim this saturday night. Enjoy your bawwing.

i too am a female virgin. i don't go out much and i am terribly shy. i've never had a relationship. am i a loser? well, maybe compared to some people, but i have friends, i'm at a real college, and i have a job (though admittedly, i fail at getting jobs because i'm shy...i got mine through my school as a part of financial aid 'cause i'm poor).

i love anime, but it's not like i come to r9k to discuss it. i just like this forum because i like listening to random strangers tell stories. and a lot of people never shut the fuck up about relationships and sex. personally i like bitching about how i'm not getting any...and pretending to be a guy.

>>8439923
The reasons of my shyness around men is because I was a chubby ugly teenager and people never really looked at me. Things changed very much now, but I couldn't build self confidence. Also, every time I've tried something serious with a man, it failed miserably, so I'm very very afraid of being hurt even more...

You could have just said:

>Are there any women that come here strictly out of shared interests (i.e. anime, comics, music, etc)?

[Notice how I dropped the word "other"? That avoids drawing attention the that fact that you are a woman.]

This way you wouldn't have sounded like an attention whore by needlessly pointing out:
>I feel like one of the few female virgins on this site
>I'm terribly shy and have all kinds of social anxiety.
>I don't have a job
>I live with my parents
>I never go out.
>I'm a loser, and not very proud of it
>I know there are men out there like me
>I'm just curious if there are any women in my situation.


By adding all of those things you made the topic about you instead of making it about the thing you're addressing and the people who are posting. Intentional or not it makes you look like an attention whore.

I would give all you shy ladies some awkward lovin'.

>>8440010
;_; This thread is depressing and uplifting at the same time. I know it's hard anon, I actually had a rough relationship with another girl and now I'm kinda scared to open up to people. We were best friends throughout high school and split mid-senior year. She was my only close friend through high school and after failing to make more friends and dropping out of college I really feel alone.

>>8440098
This is why this is a terrible board
This is about as attention-whorish as any other topic on this site so get over it

>>8440098
If I hadn't made it clear I was a woman as well, this would've spiraled into a misogyny thread. I wanted readers to know I was a woman and know of my situation. Sorry I'm such an attention whore.

If any ladies would like to make an anti-virginity pact, I wouldn't mind.

I just don't want to die a virgin, y'know? : D

>>8440098
Why you be nitpickin', man. You just actin' like a dick is what you be doin'.

Asking a curious question, do femanons ever fantasize about having children? I sure as hell don't.

I'd love to exchange vcards with a femanon heh

>>8440098

Thats horseshit anon, guys who make bawww threads point out the exact same things in their OP's.

>>8440139
I'm >>8440010
Well, surprisingly for me, some of my friends are complaining of loneliness in college. Complaining to a point that they're thinking in dropping college. They feel heavy.
People think college is all about stunning parties, awesome best friends, drunk easy chicks, the best years of your life, et cetera. College is about hard studying. Other things ain't consequences of college, but your options.
So, if you like what you're studying, don't drop college anon, will be a terrible mistake.

About the relationship thing: I also have lost some really good friends because my lack of luck on relationships. Actually, I'm nearly losing a good friend right now. He dumped me 2, 3 weeks ago. Because he like some other girl more than me. Felt like shit, but worse than that, I feel like I wanna hate him and make him feel bad too, but also want him nearby like when we're "true bros".

>>8440285
Same here, though I always chalked it up to not having my own life in order, let alone being responsible for a child.

>>8440285
Not at all. I think I will be a terrible mother.

>>8440304
I hate all of that "college is the best time of your life" bullshit.

/off topic

>>8439330

ohmygod, we're like twinnies &&

seriously. I'm exactly the same. Best friends?

>>8440304
personally i was lonely for the first 18 years of my life, and then i went to college. i'm also studying hard for the first time ever. i went to a small college and made tons of friends with common interests. it may very well be the best years of my life, though i hope it doesn't go downhill afterward.

>>8440304
Yeah, I want to continue with college, just my social anxiety got real bad and I had to drop out this past fall. I'm on medicine now, and things are going okay. I just still have trouble meeting new people.

I'm sorry, I know what you're going through with that friend. If I can give any advice, it's don't hold a grudge. That shit will only hurt you.

>>8439989

Was same, except because i am a guy and liked anime, as well as being a male Hinata, i was shoved into lockers and laughed at all the time. a teen can only take so much. dont get me started on what the girls said about me

>>8440356

THANK YOU, ANON.

I was lied to! I was told College would change everything.

I was promised a GF, friends, likeminded fellows and interesting fields of study.

Instead I've gone from being alone in my room at home, hating my life, to being alone in a dorm room, hating my life even more. Big fucking change. The only major difference is that now I'm hopelessly in debt.

GEE COLLEGE HAS REALLY IMPROVED MY LIFE, THEY TOTALLY WEREN'T BULLSHITTING ME.

/end sarcasm

>>8439330
I think this is how most of the people on /r9k/ who primarily lurk feel, rather than those who do 80% of the posting.

>>8440423
>>If I can give any advice, it's don't hold a grudge. That shit will only hurt you.
What should I do, try to pass over? I don't have much experience on these things... Pathetic I know, but I just want him to care about my feelings: that I'm upset, having a good refreshing talk... oh man.

>>8440466

Have you ever heard of that 80% of the noise is from 20% of the people thing?

>>8440439
2nd'd.

that is all

>>8440524
I don't have much experience either. I ended up holding a grudge against my old best friend for nearly a year. Then we talked it out, I apologized, and now we're on better terms. Maybe you should talk to him first, or just let it be. I'm sorry I really have no advice other than that.

>>8440439
See, that's funny...I went to college and found all of the things that you were "promised". But a lot of that had to do with the fact that I REALLY WANTED those things, so I made an effort to surpass who I had been in high school (scared and timid around women, afraid of being socially awkward, etc.), and be who I wanted to be, be the coolest version of me that I could imagine. I discovered things about myself that I never knew, things that I hadn't had the space to explore living under my parents thumb, and going to high school with the same people who had known me all my life, living in the same limited social role that I had picked up as an awkward, unconfident kid and which I had never managed to escape the whole time I was in school.
I knew that college was a chance to be someone else, to take all the dreams of who I could be, and what kind of friends I could have, and make them come true. To meet a girlfriend, and find out what kind of fun a man and a woman could have together, when they could have time to explore each other, learn about each other, and have no one to answer to. To go to parties, do drugs, and have friends on a social level that I couldn't do in high school. To live and explore my passions as I had never done before.
So I did. I still am, today. College was one of the best times of my life. Why you would squander this priceless opportunity and blame other people for "lying" to you, I'll never understand.

>>8439330
Exactly the same, except a dude, and so lacking in the misogyny stuff

>>8440612
Some people just don't want to push themselves that much. People just need to relax and enjoy little things. By doing this, what they want come naturally.

I wonder, why are so many women stricken with anxiety? I remember working in a coffee shop and all the women were comparing meds and bonded over the fact that they were on the same anti-depressant. except for this one girl who was on lithium...

>>8440866
I find it easier to be natural around people I don't know. when you go to the same job and live with the same people, you grow, but they treat you the same. so it reinforces the same act you have been playing all along. but, when you get out of those situations, its like straightening your legs out after sitting for a long time. you can relax into who you really are.

I am really looking forward to getting a new job, for this reason

>>8440883
Women needs to be more "perfect" than men.
"Don't be a cunt, but don't be an attention whore. Be feminine, but don't be airheaded. Be smart, but don't do this very much, otherwise people will think you want to be an attention whore, again."

Plus, many things women does is to satisfy standards of other women: being thin, with beautiful hair and fashionable clothes, nice shoes, cute behavior, ladylike....

>>8440883
They say depression more common in women, though you have to factor in postpartum depression and other biological reasons.

>>8440883
Short Answer: The Media

Long Answer: They're afraid of not doing things right. They're afraid of doing something, and missing out on the man/opportunity of their dreams, and being sad and lonely. So they worry, and get anxious, to a clinical point.

I'm not a virgin, but I'm much more interested in books and art and anime than gossip and sex. /:

>>8440961
>Plus, many things women does is to satisfy standards of other women: being thin, with beautiful hair and fashionable clothes, nice shoes, cute behavior, ladylike....

Well than answers a question I've always wondered: Why the fuck do women go crazy over such idiotic things like jewelery, and shoes?

I can understand a nice pair of shoes, but paying more than $500 for ANY pair of shoes is Way too much.

Also, engagement rings.WTF. Can someone explain to me why "Ring perfection" Is so important?

>>8440866
No, that's cool, I'm just saying that if you don't go after what you want, it's silly to blame the environment (college) for not dropping it into your lap.

>>8441049
I've never understood this either. The again, I've always been more of a tomboy.

>>8441066
>>8441049

To show dominance over other women. Most don't dress to impress guys, its purely to show up other women. Females dislike each other by nature.

>>8441049
I believe because society put men on top, women had to fight with themselves for attention and security in their lives. So... basically they enter in a competition with other women, "who's the best". I have lots of male friends, and they all tell the same, that they don't care that much about girl's looks, just if they're nice in general.

>>8441102
>Females dislike each other by nature.

I agree with this, just from what I've seen. A woman will have friends, but not "I'll tell you shit that will hurt me." Friends. The friends they have are merely there to comment on when things go good for them, and vice versa.

But if it's to show dominance, why not just drop money on a ring for yourself then?

>>8440612

Thats horseshit anon, I came here and could not relate to anyone. There are no likeminded fellows just resentment for the same people I despised in highschool.

>>8441107
Very true.

A 5 with a great personality beats a 9 that acts like a bitch.

>>8441049
Status symbols among women. Men have the same thing, just with different symbols (a huge TV, nice car, etc.)

>>8441138
I don't know about the Huge TV and the Car, because those both can be actively enjoyed. The only thing you can do with a ring is look at it.

>>8441124
To further drive home the point that I'm worth this much to someone while you clearly are not.

>>8441124
Women do that with clothes, clinics...

Also, I'm the kind of person who shows from the day one who I really am to my friends. I'm really proud to say I got some "I'll tell you shit that will hurt me."-friends. Like anon said before, keeping grudges only makes things harder for yourself.

>>8441158
Ah, well that's just mean.
>>8441167
Women are strange, strange creatures.

>>8441124
>I agree with this, just from what I've seen. A woman will have friends, but not "I'll tell you shit that will hurt me." Friends. The friends they have are merely there to comment on when things go good for them, and vice versa.

what? i go to a women's college, and ALL my friends are female. i always tell people things they could use to hurt me. i'd rather be an open person who seems sincere than a mistrustful bitch. none of my female friends are 'bitchy' anyway. but if i were to get hurt, well, i would care, but it still wouldn't stop me from being open with other females. i love other females. they are NOT the enemy.

the only girls who hate girls by nature are the ones who can't get along with other girls because they FIGHT OVER MEN NONSTOP.

>>8441211
You haven't realized that women are evil creatures yet?

>>8441247
So stick up with men, then.

>>8441229
untrue. I have never fought over a man. I dislike women because they will throw you under the bus to get whatever they need/want. That includes talking behind your back, backstabbing, lying, etc all while being sweet as sugar to your face.

>>8441229
You said you go to a Woman's college, right? Well there isn't any active male population to really fight over. If you want to go meet a guy, you'd have to go off campus or something like that. Kinda defeats what I was saying.

>>8441247
All? No. A percentage over thirty five? Likely.

>>8441260
Passive Hate is ten times worse than Active hate.

Hey man, don't worry, I know how you feel. I'm such a loser as well. I mean, just today I realized how much of a loser I am. I'm fat (142 pounds at 5'4") and have a terrible sense in clothes. Not a good face either. I come here to read about people and the things they like, I never really post anything. At 19 I'm still a total virgin and just the idea of being that kind of close with someone makes me feel bad.

You sound like a pretty okay person, let's be internet friends. Also I haven't read anything else in this thread so I have no idea where it is topic wise right now.

>>8441307
Currently, we're trying to figgure out and analyze why women like useless things, and why they stab each other in the back, not all though.

>>8441260
none of my friends act like that. you just know shit tier women.
i mean, seriously, are you trying to say guys are so fucking wonderful and caring by comparison? or do you just hate everyone?

>>8441272
>
You said you go to a Woman's college, right? Well there isn't any active male population to really fight over. If you want to go meet a guy, you'd have to go off campus or something like that. Kinda defeats what I was saying.
the way my school is, a lot of people from a nearby (co-ed) school take classes here, and a lot of girls from here take classes there. so you don't really have to go out of your way to meet guys. but there are FEWER guys, meaning we should just get bitchier and fight over them more.
but we don't. because we are not stupid fucking high school cunts.

>>8441337
Useless like video games? Useless like cycling? Useless like jumping spiders? Useless like reading? I'm trying to figure out how useless I am. Help me please.

>>8441337
Men also like useless things, like big cars (even if they live in a city with big traffic), tvs...
Men stab themselves as much as women does. Only diferently.

>>8441402
personally, i'm still trying to figure out why men on this board are always going on about how they can't imagine women playing video games and enjoying them.
like video games are some refined art form that women can't appreciate.
i mean, they're pretty damn useless.

I have talked to enough girls on 4chan to know many of them are just like the guys on 4chan. Awkward, not many friends, loser-ish.

Anyway, I think the reason there is more men then women on this site is because most girls I imagine don't like hanging out on a site that is 90% boobs and 10% misogyny.

>>8441363
>we are not stupid fucking high school cunts.

Hallelujah. My faith has been rewarded. Non-retarded woman in the United States.

What's funny though, is that the college I'm transferring into's Female population is so low that if she's not dating someone yet, she will be by the end of the day.

Or at least that's what I was told, and the figures backed it up.

>>8441429
I wonder what percentage of people on here are lying about their gender; as in, maybe its really 50% guys, and the other half is just playing along

>>8441439
Too bad there's not a college I know of with a reversed ratio

>>8441464

There are, but they're filled with bull-dykes.

>>8441428
Video games are great fun though. I don't see how they are any different from a book half of the time. The other half of the time it's like watching a sport on the television except you actually interact with it, you know what I mean? It's all just for the sake of entertainment. I know I'm a casual, I buy both editions of pokemon every time they are released and my computer can barely run L4D2 but still. I don't think I've met the kind of guys you're talking about though. Then again I never really post, I'm just a lurker.

I come here mostly for /a/ and /v/, often times I frequent /r9k/ for story threads, I usually avoid relationshit like the plague.

I am female and a virgin, I pretty much consider myself a lost cause in terms of relationships.
I have a job and shit though.

>>8441464
there are some colleges that are almost all female, just they tend to be liberal arts colleges.
and then there are obviously colleges like mine, which really are all female with maybe five transmen.

>>8441402
Useless in the fact that it's undeeded, and serves no real purpose, improves nothing, and/or is not an upgrade.
>>8441406
>Men also like useless things, like big cars
True. But men like useless things because they believe women like and are attracted to the useless things they own.
Simple!


>>8441428

(Most)Video Games promote hand-eye Coordination.

It's a half-assed bullshit excuse. But it's a use.

>>8441464

I believe at my Uni, it's three girls to one guy. DX

>>8441493
Which one? I want to go there and feel what it is like to be a king.

>>8441481
Don't give up so easily.

Believe in the me that believes in you?

How old are you anyway?

>>8441507

Hahaha. Texas State University.
It's pretty noticeable. Lots of girls in my classes.

>>8441476
there are plenty of lesbians, but most of the girls at my school are actually sexually frustrated straight girls.
since, you know, most of the population in general is STRAIGHT.
luckily i'm bi and don't even want a relationship. :3

>>8441520
But do they like men? That is the true question.

Here's the big question though: how many of you femanons WANT to lose your virginities, find a guy, get a life? How many of you are actually trying?

Just wondering, male virgin here who for a number of reasons doesn't want to lose it just yet. But still, seems much easier for females- I've seen girls literally cling onto a guy they just met. If a guy did that, they'd be shaken off pretty fast.

>>8441559
Oh and second half of my question: for those who are trying, what's stopping you? Is it because of looks? personality? Lack of penises to go around?

>comes to r9k to escape misogyny

Oh man did you ever come to the wrong place

>>8441491
Uh.... maybe some women are attracted to big cars... (no, really, only a few). I always see a man waxing their cars to show it to their neighbors and friends.
Okay, so, why would the most dumb woman care about a big tv or sound?

>>8441569
I've noticed that its worlds better than /b/, but I guess if you really want that, go full anon on some odd board like /mu/ or /an/

>>8441406
guys will sabotage each other, but no where near as often as women do. women are legendary in the workplace for being catty backstabbers. My sister is a manager at a high end retail store. one of her female employees called her on her personal phone on her day off to whine about what another girl said about her at work. this is a game that women play, and expect every other woman to play

>>8441576
Because when a man has lots of stuff, it looks like he's rich or has a great job, which is what women seem to look for in a man

>>8441552

Austin/San Marcos is a pretty liberal part of the state, but even so, there aren't many lesbians around.

>>8440883
thanks, i died a little more on the inside

>>8441559
i...i'm in college. i'm only 18. i feel lonely sometimes, but i can masturbate. i don't need to worry about birth control and getting pregnant on top of all my work. and having a relationship is a pretty big time commitment. so, i guess it's pathetic to be my age and have the most you've ever done be kissing.

but it's not like i'm in my mother's basement. i do have a life. i'd like to get laid, but i'm not fucking desperate to get laid.

>>8441593

Yeah, and men will beat the shit out of each other with basically no preemption.
The genders deal with shit differently. One way is not necessarily better than the other; they both have their pros and cons. And they're both GENERALIZATIONS.

>>8441600
Wonderful! If I could afford it, I'd go there for college. But Fuck out-of-state Tuition. Fuck it in the ass.
Hope Scholarship keeps me in school.


Now if I could only find a girl who wasn't a Bisexual to talk to.

>>8441509
Nineteen.

Though I suppose I could find a relationship if I actually had a real desire to, I think im afraid of that kind of change. I just dont feel like its "me"
I dont really want to have children either.

Im not entirely sure what I want.

>>8441651
what's wrong with bisexuals?
if you think they're whores...well, they'd be whores if they were straight too. but they know guys will be more accepting of them cheating with other girls.

>>8441611
>having a relationship is a pretty big time commitment.

It is? How? I thought it's basically "I like this guy. He likes me. We promise not to fuck/kiss other women/men because we like one another."

At least that's how I see a relationship, nothin' to be afraid of.

>>8441669

Going bisexual is just a way to double your already low, low chances of finding someone meaningful.

>>8441669
Nothing's wrong with bisexuals, but every bisexual girl I talk to is basically disinterested in men to the fact that I question why they even call themselves bisexual.

>>8441651

I feel like a lot of times, girls are only bisexual because they think it gets them more guys.
Pathetic. :<

>>8441567
I have some father troubles. I didn't know until last year that he was a complete druggy but it still made any time with him a time to avoid him. This messes you up a bit, but it's not a big deal. I guess I have trust issues. I don't really want anyone to be close to me but at the same time I do, you know? I also have eating troubles, I was a very fat child; at my peak I weighed 205 pounds. I've lost 60 pounds but I'm still pretty huge I think. I also think my standards are too high because I'd really like to have a guy friend who would work out with me - lift weights, cycle, and the like - and a guy who would play video games with me. I think I'll just be a virgin forever then since it's hard to find that combination and even then I don't think they would ever be attracted to me. Wow I wrote way too much no one is going to read this crap.

>>8441653
Which is fine, you're only 19. But Be more open. Don't give up or discount things immediately.

>>8441690
Highly. It's like me saying I'm gay to get close to women.
What happened to integrity?

>>8441674
except you have to spend time with that person in addition to the life you already have. and i'm a very busy person. and it's not like someone i dated would be happy with me never spending any time with him/her because of schoolwork and other friends.

>>8441684
actually, never mind, that's exactly how i am. i mean, i go to a women's college and have no male friends and am very happy with that. but i have fallen for a couple men in my day, so i can't very easily say i'm a lesbian?

>>8441693
I've read. :)
Same here. Maybe the "cool guy" for me is pretty rare. I've found some, but they didn't like me.

>>8441701
Im slow to change, but i'll try.

I am a female who cam here out of shared interest but am not an attention whore. 4chon just assumes Im a boy. No biggy.

>>8441730
If you've got work and school, hell, I do to. I've got no problem with someone if they've got shit to do to get their life straight.There's always the Phone and the Net(IM's, Email)

Ah, and No, but you could say that you were straight, and now you're a lesbian. You don't have to ride the Fence.

>>8441693
Oh awesome, someone replied to my post!

The first part of your post (the daddy issues, not wanting someone too close) sounds exactly like someone I know. Me and her got pretty close, but she panicked at that and now we're not.

As for the rest of your post: 145 isn't huge, how tall are you?

Protip: find one of the quiet 'nice' guys. They'll treat you right. Just...don't destroy them so they're assholes to the next girl.

female virgin here. i visit /r9k/ because apparently i hate myself.

i hide the relationshit/misogyny threads.

>>8441744
Don't give up!

Though only you can decide and attempt to change. I can be encouraging all I want, but in the end, it's you that has to make the decision.


Also, I'd like to thank all of the contributors to this thread, and the OP. This place isn't so bad after all.

must... not... feed... TROLLS

>>8441767
but i like girls and guys simultaneously. though physically i prefer women.

i just...i don't think i would have my shit together if i were in a relationship. i'd be in one if i were in love, and if i were in love, i'd WANT to constantly distract myself with that person. also, i'm fine enough without one that i'm not looking for one. so i can keep my embarrassing virgin status and may well be one for several more years.

...in here to remember all of you that no one likes a fat girl, if you're not fat you're bound to get a boyfriend, no matter how fucked up your face is.

>>8441693
Pretty much describes me, and I know I'm not that unique, so I'm sure there are plenty like me

>>8441826
I like fat chicks!

Well, not really, but as long as she's not obese and takes care of herself then it's all good.

First girl that I ever loved is pretty chubby. She turned me down of course, and is now wondering why she can't ever get a boyfriend.

>>8441693
That's not a hard combo to find at all. I'm pretty sure a lot of guys on /fit/ would /fit/ your description. Where you from btw?

>>8441826
Oh I remember a thread made this week of what you said. I've seen many chubby cute girls with lots of bfs. Bullshit man.

>>8441808
I'm a troll, and I'm kinda hungry, but I'm also broke. So you wouldn't happen to have any food I could borrow?

any women that are on here are obviously hideous, embarrassments to their families, and have no social life

>>8441818
Then your Sexual orientation is Lesbian, since it's defined by physical attraction.

>>8441773
I'm 5 foot 3, that's still large enough to have a lot of fat, it's gross. Your advice is nice, thank you, but I've never really been attracted to anyone. I haven't even had a crush on anyone. It's a self confidence issue I think, the whole "boo hoo no one could love me I'd disgusting" kind of thing. It's stupid isn't it. Hahaha. I hope you get some more answers to your question, mine wasn't all to great or on topic to what you asked.

>>8441855
Chubby != Fat.

Rolls of fat are not attractive...to most people.


Myself included.

>>8441862
Same as all the men here

>>8441855
>>8441849
Chubby, not fat.

>>8441855

Chubbybot here, and I've had two long-term relationships since I've started dating, with a sprinkle of casual dating here and there.
I'm alright looking in the facial department, though. :D

It's about personality. Mine sparkles.

>>8441882
You know I never understood the hate about being on here, and being dysfunctional.

>>8441868
Sorry to hear, femanon. Hopefully you'll find some guy, fall in love, all that crap which I'm trying to still believe in.

>>8441868
at least you're self aware, jabba

pro-tip, lose weight and take care of yourself and your self-loathing will lessen

>>8441481
There is no such thing as a lost cause. I don't know why I have to continue telling /r9k/ this, but goddammit I need to do it again!

Wake up tomorrow morning and say very loudly "FUCK THIS SHIT!!!!". Why do I ask you to scream this!? Because if you think your life is shit, then fuck it and do something else. Then drink a shitload of coffee and yell "TODAY IS GOING TO BE FUCKING AWESOME!!!". Even if you know it won't it will be fun.
Then do whatever it is you do with so much god damned enthusiasm it will make your arms fall off and the friction burn your legs down to charred stumps.

What I'm getting at is approach every day like something amazing is going to happen. Treat life like one giant journey and never slow down and never act like something bad can't change. Try your hardest to find whatever you are looking for and you will find it or something like it.

>>8441895
Just me responding to a stereotype with another stereotype

>>8441862
Oh damn, this thread went so good.... pity.

>>8441890
I don't yell this often, but I'd like a digital visual representation of which is accurate to greater than 90%.

>>8441884
So long as she takes care of herself, she can be as fat as she wants. Fat people are usually fat because they don't take care of themselves.

>>8441890
>It's about personality. Mine sparkles.
Damn straight. I'm a good looking guy with absolutely no personality, but I'm attracted to any chick who's got a great one. Looks are secondary.

>>8441790
Thanks SSB

>>8441910
The Kamina approach. Works for those with the dedication.

>>8441882
haha that's were you're wrong

i might be a sociopath with a bizarre sense of humor, but i have decent job, decent friends, and im fairly attractive. certainly there are exceptions, and trolling is so much more effective when i kno im one of them

>>8441929

Personally I'm very loose on looks. My only two requirements are Hygienic, and if she is shorter than me, she must weight less than me. Granted I'm 6'2, and 230-240(Fluctuates daily).

Now, females. Is this an unreasonable request? I ask of you.
>>8441934
No problem.

>>8441693
>>8441735
gamer/jock hybrid here (but taken).

We do exist, but, we also tend to have fairly high standards (cause we can).

>>8441966
weighs less than 240ish?... shootin for the stars are we?

>>8442015
>Can't tell if sarcastic or not.

>>8441902
Yeah, the fat people who don't admit they are fat are terrible. I work out a lot and for a while I was losing a lot but it's tapered off after some crazy eating during Christmas break. I'm having a hard time gaining my self control back. I used to have it down so well that I'd have to make my self eat more so I'd get to 12-1300 calories in a day. I need to get back to that. Thank you.

>>8441851
Northern Illinois.

gamer/more-or-less-in-shape person here. I don't know what the weight ranges are for thin/normal/chubby/fat

19/f/virgin/never kissed a guy before, here.

You're not alone OP. I'm not here for the anime/comics and all that bullshit, though. I only browse /r9k/ and the majority of threads I read are nothing to do with relationships/sex.

>>8442041
I'm damn close to being fat. I eat so little (Beacuse of school/work) that I don't gain much weight, but I excersize very little because I don't have time.

>>8442087
honestly its all about how you carry it.

some people have skinny build so 200 on a 6' frame looks fat, other guys look normal with that weight.

some women get bigger around the chest and ass before it hits the undesirable areas, others pack every pound on their stomach and look awful.

>>8442149
200 on a 6 foot frame is fat unless the guy is a hardcore athlete bodybuilder, and if you disagree with this you don't realize what 200lb on a guy translates to or have a very skewed definition of fat.

>>8442149
Guess I need to start working out more then, starting to hit the upper end of the range =/

This misygyny is very alien to me. I've never met a misogynistic person in my whole life.
Why do you people blame the thing you can't get (girls) because you can't get it? It just makes it even harder, why don't you just turn gay instead or something if you hate women so much?

>>8442041
Fat chicks: There's plenty of guys who wouldn't mind hanging out, working out, things like that, without the threat of a relationship hanging over your head.

I'm one of those, set up a running date with a chubby chick, she won't talk to me now because she thinks I was trying to get in her pants.

Why does that always happen with my female friends? :(

>>8442176
well call me a body builder then.

i'm 6"1' weigh 200 and lift at the gym about twice a week used to screw around at the MMA club. im considered THIN by everyone i meet.

not ripped, not a pro-athlete, just a relatively in shape guy

>>8442231
Hahaha it would work out with me I think. I'm so dense about that sort of thing, I always just think people are trying to be nice or friendly because they are good people. That's why it always takes me by surprise and even gets me a bit mad when that stereotype of a guy feigning interest in something to get into a girls pants is done in some sort of media.

>>8442212
/r9k/ hates itself, and instead of working to make things better has found it much easier to hate the world.

I for one love women. Too bad they don't love me ;_;

>>8442291
Well, great, you live anywhere near the great state of Misery? Some know it better as Missouri.

Cause if you are, and want a workout partner who's at this point considering cutting off his penis...

>>8442298
its the feeling sorry for yourself that kills your ability to attract women. they pick up on your lack of confidence. act like you're the catch and they have to impress you. tease them instead of puttin the pussy on a pedestal bro

>>8442085
How close are you to Chicago? Maybe you could give me a spot sometime haha.

>>8442358
I live in the great suburb of Cook county, on the border of Barrington and Inverness. Not like this will really amount to much though hahah.

>>8442398
OH MAN I USED TO LIVE THERE

I miss it so much :(

>>8442176
That's more of a european definition, though. In america, 200 pounds at 6 feet is bulky, but not fat. This is because of the abundance of people who are 300 pounds at 6 feet.

>>8442420
Oh, really? What a coincidence. What school did you go to?

>>8442466
This is true.

Very, very true. 200 at six feet is relatively normal.

>>8442231
>I'm one of those, set up a running date with a chubby chick, she won't talk to me now because she thinks I was trying to get in her pants.
My theory: when you've never had a proper relationship, you don't understand how they work, and project your fears and prejudices onto them.
That, or they have such low self confidence that they can't believe a guy would be attracted to them for any non-sexual reason.

Meh, I ended up fucking most of my running buddies. Something about the endorphins and sweating together just made for hot times. That, and they were generally hot.

>>8442398
Hmm you never know. I gotta go to sleep now but here's my contact info
msn = anonymous44442009@hotmail.com
aim = anonymous44442009

So feel free to add and troll, talk or whatever. 24/m/chicago btw

>>8442503
TMI, anon. Let's just say it was a private school, so doubt you'd know of it.

>>8442531
Actually, I don't think the running date had much to do with it. She was someone I was close with, one day we were talking about running, she said she had just started to (I do regularly), I invited her on one of my runs, couple days later she's not talking to me. Whatever, life goes on.

WISCONSIN HUH?

You're not alone, OP. ;)

>>8442846
"You're not alone, anymore..."
"The call is coming FROM INSIDE THE HOUSE"