I just haven't found the right man to plow my holes.

Sigh.

You remind me every day, /r9k/. I don't know why I think posting here will help me forget.

'Sup. Almost 24.

I have no excuse other than having unrealistically high standards and spending the last year as a total shut-in.

My v-card is about to go platinum

>>8164288
get out. "bawwww i can't decide being virgin by choice sux :["

I am one of those

no big deal, no big deal

>>8164306

You know, you too could find a man to plow your holes.

fuck yeah virgin. im not ashamed of it though, plenty of opportunity, but yay issues. cant be vulnerable, especially around girls. should i deal with it? im bored why not.

23 and still going strong....I had my chances in the past and I blew it! I'll never see those type of chances ever again.

3 opportunities for guaranteed sex all fucked up somehow in the past 4 months

almost 23 now still a virgin, it's really starting to fuck with my confidence

I still am. Finally got some money for an escort last week so I call one up. She wants "references". I'm like WTF. FUUUUUUU. I work part time gigs and get paid in cash so there's apparently no way for me to get "verified" or something. God is playing a cruel joke on me. It's almost comical.

I feel so bad for you guys. I don't even remember the way I felt when I would watch porn and wonder what a pussy/mouth/ass felt like.

few days away from 20. havent even kissed a girl fml

18 year old virgin reporting in, doesn't feel too bad.

I'm 29. I don't think I can open myself to anyone. Ever.

>>8164448
How. At 29?

...Really?

22. Multiple decent women have offered to let me service them.

Waiting until marriage. Hah.

21 kissless virgin feels good man

19 year old here. Someday anon someday.

19 here. At least it's still something to look forward to like we did as kids.

>>8164501
As a 19 year old virgin I can understand this, it probably gets harder to get rid of as time goes on. I mean I'm still at an age where it's arguably understandable, he's fucked.

Sage this is 4chan for christ sake also more sage.

just came the hardest i've ever come, fapping to porn. no woman could ever match my hand. feels good man

>>8164354
Just be like, "Look lady I'm not gonna lie, I'm a virgin and I just want to fuck a woman before I die, I don't think I'm looking to kill you or something."

Either that or you could go to a brothel in Nevada.

man... you guys are missing out.

I don't have sex often.. but I remember when I had sex for the first time.. .it was before senior year started.. I was 17 and it was with this girl in the basement... felt great man..

But let me tell you something, it pisses me off when people are like "you need to get laid" to someone.. because it doesn't change the person you are at all. It just feels good and thats about it... maybe more if you care about the person emotionally or something.. but if you don't really like them that way its just a feel good thing...

also get more confidence you assholes...

17, never been kissed, ronery.

Feels bad, man.
I got some time left though before this starts getting pathetic.

24 kissless virgin reporting in. If I can't lose it with my soulmate (which I think I haven't met yet), I don't care about dying a virgin.

I read a quote in my old high school year book, and it said "the best part about having a boyfriend/girlfriend is that there is someone out there who cares for you as much as you care for them."

That kinda hit me. It's not so much the lack of sex that's depressing, just the lack of real human connection/emotion/love. But whatever, second year of college, it's bound to happen.


Right guys?

>>8164602

>second year of college, it's bound to happen.

That's what I said.

Last year.

>>8164578
Easy to say that when you don't have to deal with society not seeing you as a man to be taken seriously until you've fucked something.

I think permavirgins are an overlooked part of society. I've taken a million psych and soc classes and not one have mentioned us fine folk when we aren't THAT uncommon and we clearly have some issues dealing with the mainstream.

also, just go for the kiss you kissless virginfags..
I mean seriously.. most of the time It will probably work in your fucking favor.... goddamnit..

This one pathetic kid well.. friend that I know was like in love with this one girl.. I was also in love with said girl.. (lol love) anyways he's known her for a damn long time... he's never fucking kissed her.. after hanging out with her my 2nd time I went for the kiss... and guess what? Shit worked out great!!!!

Don't be one of those pussys who are like "When they break up i'm gonna go for it!" or "Gee I hope she sees what a great guy I am.. I really am great, she just doesn't see."

fuck

18 in a month and not even a kiss. Oh well.

>>8164621
>>8164621
>>8164621
heres a little trick..

get to know out of town girls better..
they know NOTHING about you..
therefore they have to rely on whatever the fuck you say...

this makes it easier to get in their pants..

Half-virgin, I've had oral sex but never vaginal/anal.

So I am half posting.

er.

>>8164630
Yeah. Also, directly asking the girl on a date/ if they like you or whatever gives them a chance to knock you down.

If you kiss them they're only going to pull back if they really don't like you. I mean, how many girls would you reject for a date but totally roll with making out with?

jk kissless virgin here I dun know shit.

>>8164630
Honestly I don't think I have ever been in a situation where I could kiss somebody and I'm not even saying that because of cowardice.

Posting ..
>ignore this text
>and this too

>>8164656
>>8164656
sucks dude :-( >>8164654
>>8164654
lol wut.
You don't need to "ask them out" just like.. hang out with them or whatever... fuck that formal shit.. I hate that formal shit.. do you think I like paying for two fucking movie tickets? I don't that shits like 20 now!!!
Goddamn movie prices.. and she is fucking JOKING if she thinks i'm gonna buy the goddamn popcorn and soda.. and candy.. fucking movie popcorn, soda, and candy.. all that shit is way too expensive.. fuck..

anyways cheap and easy is always best... hanging out is better than going to the movies..

>>8164725
I disagree, I guess it's a matter of opinion, but I don't like wishy washy shit.
I always hear from my female friends about their pseudo-dates where they're unsure it's a date until the check comes in. A guy shouldn't have to wonder if he's on a date until he makes his first move. That's too much pressure and embarrassment if it turns out you just got everything wrong, and she's not into you.
I prefer things up front and clear of my intentions.

i screwed the chance i had. i loved her. she loved me. had iral sex for some months but never more. 18 both of us. virgins too.
kissing is ez
just talk, get closer. kiss.

never had sex
never had a girl friend
never had a friend i cared about, or if you still count them as friends i haven't had one in 7 years anyway

and you know what? I DONT GIVE A DAMN

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>>8164509
Good on ya, bro.

>>8164895
I can read this.
And I have a girlfriend.

Time/space implosion now?

>>8164909
>Implying a simple if statement is difficult to understand.

POASTING IN AN FAIL THREAD

Posting, because you said to.

It's funny as soon as I got to collage I stopped having sex.

Midway through high school I became sexually involved with

- The hot emo chick with low self esteem (gave good head, not complaining)

-Girl who was friend until we decided to have sex (regret)

- Slut (hey i got out aids free)

-Girl I picked up on while working at Mcdonalds (she was fairly attractive and picking up at Mcds +5 win)

But yeah as soon as I get to collage, no more sex, maybe it is because I am taking a course in computer sciences. 50 people in my course, only one has a vagina.

Posting while making sure the "post in facebook" option is unchecked.

oh man, I really hope everyone in this thread is aware of the new FB link

actually I hope noone did lol

>>8165014
Does that thing even do shit? I mean obvious april fools is obvious

>>8165080
Yeah it actually works. It should be checked by default, which would make it an ASTRONOMICAL troll.

>>8165080
I closed the window when I saw "connecting to [something].facebook.com..."

It might actually work :|

>>8164578
This.

I've only had sex with one person, who I've been with for a few years, but it's really nothing that changes you. I consider my first loves, first romantic conversations, first time feeling wanted and cared for FAR more significant in my life than my first sexual experience. I know it sounds odd, but I remember all of those but I only vaguely remember the first time I had sex.

posting. bitches and whores. who needs them. i'd rather fuck a guy, no homo.

>>8165107
>
I've only had sex with one person, who I've been with for a few years, but it's really nothing that changes you. I consider my first loves, first romantic conversations, first time feeling wanted and cared for FAR more significant in my life than my first sexual experience. I know it sounds odd, but I remember all of those but I only vaguely remember the first time I had sex.

I think that's the point...

It's a lot easy to say "I'm a virgin" than to say "I've never felt loved. I've never had a romantic connection. I've never been cared for. Etc."

I think most of the people here would rather be intimate with someone that they genuinely care for that genuinely cares for them... than have sex with someone they don't know.

I might be wrong though.

Turn 19 tomorrow.
No sex.
Nothing sexual, actually.
No kiss.

Only platonic hugs, and not many of them (last one was 6-12 months ago).


It would be nice to just hold someone.

3 girlfriends
cock blocked or blue balled each time.
Slightly annoyed, but moved on.

About to turn 21, never even had a serious relationship. Of course I was a fatass for 20 years, things are changin.

you people are fucking warped

seriously, not trolling, I bet all of you give off creepy ass vibes irl

>>8165134
I remember at 17 I had a girl wanting me and saying all the stuff she wanted to do to me. Then right before we got to the dating phase she got all moral and didn't want to do any of that anymore. Stopped answering her calls and IMs.

A couple of weeks later I got a girlfriend and fucked her. Love is great but I'd be damned if I was going to wait any longer. Never regretted it.

Virgin.

Living life, loving it. If a girl comes by, cool, she can come along for the journey too, it'd be interesting to see what it'd be like with a sidekick.

22 you dont have to believe it but i've turned it down a couple times

You know I used to have intercourse with my girlfriend all the time, and it's great, but I still prefer the occasional fap to crazy porn. Some things my GF can't do you know? Thought you guys would find that interesting.

>>8165250
wait, used to? are you still in said relationship?

also, agreed.

>>8165287
I'm half awake haha
And I'm still in the relationship, but I've moved to a new state so we're apart for a while, and yeah I also meant sometimes I like to fap MORE then having sex, but not all the time. I don't think sex is anything too crazy to go out of the way for anyways.

>>8165134
I would like to believe this is the reason I haven't purchased a prostitute yet but I know the real reason is that I'm a fucking chicken. It's the only way I am going to laid short of rape.

I promised my lesbian friend that by the time I am 21 if I haven't had sex yet I would rent a prostitute for the night.

23 and proud to be a virgin. I believe in abstinence until marriage, but don't believe in the concept of marriage. So I guess that makes me a permavirgin.

I punish wimmen by denying them my manly essence.

Don't mind me...I'm just here to represent!

>>8165317
you need a girlfriend befor you get married

I lost mine fully at 19 like a normal robot, wtf is wrong with you /r9k/

/v/irgin seeking refuge with you robtots.

Going to be 19 in a couple months. Also a lip virgin but I don't really care.

>>8165298
It's not that we (at least most of us, or so I believe) think it'll be the greatest experience in life, I know it won't, but it's something that we know we can't have so we want it.

I know I do.

Im 24, never ben kissed, am a virgin, never had one single woman show any interst in my.
I'm tall, fit, I goto the gym and lift weights, and take martial arts.

20 year old female with hymen still in tact. I'm pretty neutral about it.

I am. I gave up a long time ago. No sense in making a complete ass out of myself when I know it isn't going to happen.

>>8165298

It isn't the fact that I'm a virgin in and of itself that depresses me. Honestly I could give a shit about sex.

It's the feeling that I am a loser who nobody wants that comes with being a virgin.

So this other day this girl sleept with me, she just needed a place to sleep (not sex) and I would never deny my bed to a girl.

Anyway, we were already on foreplay when a friend of me (who already apologuized and told me that he didn't knew she was there) interrupted us.

That's the closest I've been to losing my virginity.

i think its funny how much value everyone puts on their first time.
do you put as much value on your second time? third, lolno

>>8165528
Maybe it's because there's an entire title related to it, there's no title for those who have had sex just once.

There's "have had sex" and "haven't had sex".

i lost my virginity three weeks ago...

to a guy

IT RULED.

now i hunt down gay white nerds and fuck their brains out, gg /r9k/

meh posting

not old enough to care really

If shit doesn't happen before september then I'll just get a whore when I go over seas

>>8164602
I thought that too. 2 years later it still hasn't happened and probably never will.

> post in this thread
> forget to uncheck "Post to Facebook"

ffffufuuuuuu

you know sex feels great, you are missing out on so much.

the look in her eye the fact that she is not shy with you naked. some one to hug while you sleep

girls skin is so soft you havent felt any thing like it i love it when you get them all hot and there whole personality changes its fucking great.

i feel kinda sorry for you over 20s tho nothing like being young and trying a new exciting thing, you will just be getting the next used up whore

life expectancy is 80yrs more or less a blink of an eye dont waste it.

>>8165550

>gay white nerds

Man what the hell, where do I find them

>>8165533

it would be very difficult to tell the difference between a dude that has done it once and one that has been doing it every week since he was 16

it is only on girls that it is easier to tell because of the hymen

and actually girls can lose hymens a variety of other ways so all you can say is that a girl with her hymen intact is almost definitely a virgin

for everyone else it is largely guesswork and so you will still be perceived as virginal until you are well experienced

25 years and still no girl :(

So long as I have at least one hand I can manage.

18, reporting in.
hooked up at parties, had one girlfriend.

>>8165567

I know this was made to make me rage....and I did. FUCK.

hells yea,
20yrs old, sophomore in college- even in a fraternity also.

shits weak

the only wiminz here are fugly cunts and dirty sorority bitches.

no gingers... (boo)

35 year old virgin here.

I've pretty much just given up. I've been gyming my whole adult life and work as an engineer and make a LOT of money. But every girl I meet is only interested in my money, so I tell them to fuck off. I' rather die a virgin than givein to the materialisitic whores which make up the female race.

does pegging count?

>>8165659
I'm hoping that since you're 35 you know that sex isn't that special.

Letting a girl get in your pants because she wants your money and then ditching her for being a gold-digger is not beneath you.

>>8165659
Right, keep telling yourself that.

22 y/o supervirgin.
I've NEVER had a gf, not even for a day.
Never kissed.

And you know what, it's okay. I don't really need anyone else. The whole "love" thing is just an illusion of hormones and psychology designed to trick you into impregnating some stupid slut. There is no such thing as a soulmate, or two people made for each other. After you have jizzed inside her a few times and the ZOMGROMANCE fades you will realize you have only succeeded in promoting the human race another generation.

>>8165714
Keep telling yourself that, I hope that those grapes are sour enough to mask the taste of not participating in one of life's greatest experiences.

>>8165714
You got most of it right... but it's not just about procreation. The hormones make you feel good, and you only have so much time. Being a miseryfag for your whole life is torture. Falling in love, no matter how much that is influenced by chemicals, does help pass the time.

Plus, when you have kids, everything changes, your life has meaning where it once did not.

>>8165749
> The hormones make you feel good, and you only have so much time. Being a miseryfag for your whole life is torture.
You forgot fapping.

>when you have kids, everything changes, your life has meaning where it once did not.

Indeed, but that's only because the parents who didn't care much for their kids weren't as successful at passing on their genes, leading to an abundance of the genes which cause child-parent bonding.

23, complete vigin, not even a kiss, etc...
Virgin forever.

24 year old virgin

I have never been kissed, I have never been on a date, I have never seen a woman naked in real life, and finally, I have never touched a woman.

Really, I have never touched a woman. I don't mean that I have not ever hugged my mother, or brushed by a woman in a crowded elevator, or touched the hand (by accident) of a cashier, what I mean is that I have never held or touched any part of a woman that I may date or have a shot at.

I don't see my situation changing. Even if I had my chance, even if I knew that a woman wanted me and would respond to my advances, how would I advance? How would I kiss her? How would I hold her? How would I have sex?

Someone has to be the virgin segment of society. We just never think it will happen to us.

>>8165775
fapping feels nothing like the real thing.
fapping pales in comparison for the emotional bonds you can form with other people.

>>8165791
>Virgin forever.

>20 Y/O VIRGIN BROFIST!!

>brb fapping furiously since age 15 in a futile effort to seek sexual satisfaction

>>8165775
Fapping only feels good until you're done.
Once you cum, it's all shit again.

As to the kids thing, though... it's not purely because of emotional bonding. Once you have kids, you feel like you actually matter, like you can make a significant difference to someone's life and the future. It's also a huge change to have someone depend on you for absolutely everything. It makes you appreciate your parents too.

22 yrs virgin no gf till now but I made out with a drunk girl. Blew a lot of chances because I'm paranoid and think it's a kind of trick.

>>8165801
Shouldn't be posting ITT

>>8165799


This just makes me fucking rage.

THIS WHOLE FUCKING THREAD MAKES ME RAGE.

This thread is proof that guys have it much harder then girls in life. Only men can feel true roneryness. Only men can know what it's like to never have anyone love you or acknowledge you.

Only men.

All we have is each other, and this board to connect and discover we are not alone. Cheers to you fellow /r9k/ permavirgins. You an true bros.

>>8165714
Obviously there's no one that's predestined like a soulmate, but you can seek someone who likes the things that make your own self.

>>8165850

Fuck you. I can virgin it up perfectly fine without your "support".

>>8165850

ummmm noo, I'm a girl, and I'm a virgin too. I've only been kissed twice and I'm 18. So girls feel ronery too you know.

>>8165850
Just remember... many women can NEVER really trust a man...

They also have it pretty hard.
I'm just saying... we're all pretty-much in the same boat here on /r9k/

>>8165825
>Fapping only feels good until you're done.
I usually have a nice afterglow and a sense of satisfaction, but then I'm a liberal atheist so I don't have any religious/moral hangups about fapping.

>Once you have kids, you feel like you actually matter, like you can make a significant difference to someone's life and the future.
True, if I were to die today my family and friends would grieve, but the world would keep on spinning, no one's life would be significantly changed, since no one depends on me in any significant way. Without having kids or a family, I'm essentially an unconnected cog just spinning without purpose.

Yes. Thanks to rampant sexual confusion

Coming to terms with my sexuality these days.

>>8165897
>Coming to terms with my sexuality these days.
How is that a real difficulty? It's okay to be gay/bi/whatever now.

>>8165885
Men can never trust women too. They cheat on you as soon as you look away.

Ugh.

How about you faggots get off the computer, take a shower, shave, stop eating pizza 3 meals a day, leave the basement, hit the gym and go meet people? you're just wallowing in your own self-pity.

Self-pity is easily the most destructive of the non-pharmaceutical narcotics; it is addictive, gives momentary pleasure and separates the victim from reality.

Honestly if you're 25 and haven't even attempted a physical relationship with the opposite sex, you need to take a look in the mirror to determine who's to blame. I know it's easy to sit on 4chan and have camaraderie with other sad virgins like yourself. But nothing worthwhile is easy.

Get off your asses.
YOU CAN DO IT, BROS.

It's April Fools' - everybody knows there are no virgins on 4chan.

>>8165892

>I usually have a nice afterglow and a sense of satisfaction, but then I'm a liberal atheist so I don't have any religious/moral hangups about fapping.

I'm also a liberal atheist, but also an existentialist. I know that my fapping has no meaning, except to release endorphins and the moment I'm done... I feel like shit... because I've wasted time doing stuff that matters (to someone that finds meaning in life).

>Once you have kids, you feel like you actually matter, like you can make a significant difference to someone's life and the future.
True, if I were to die today my family and friends would grieve, but the world would keep on spinning, no one's life would be significantly changed, since no one depends on me in any significant way. Without having kids or a family, I'm essentially an unconnected cog just spinning without purpose.

>>8165883

That's not being ronery. That's being lonely. BIG difference. Your only 18 and have been kissed before. Plenty of guys here are over 20 and have never been kissed. So fuck you.

>>8165883

ONLY TWICE!?!?OEN

OMG YOU SO LONELY

>>8165914
I hate people assuming the reason one can't find a girlfriend is because he is a fat neckbeard. Not everyone fits this stereotype, yet can have trouble finding someone, you know.

All virginfags wanting to get laid today, post location, age, sex, orientation...

If there are two matches... well... hookup.

Easy as.

>>8165914

I got turned out this very day, it so happens. So fuck you. Just because you try does not mean you'll have a non zero success rate.

>>8165939
Speaking generally, here.
Then if you aren't completely hideous, you must be socially inept. Get out there and meet people.

>>8165946
Pick your ass up and try again.
Going face-first into the pavement a few times is part of the game.

>>8165914
>How about you faggots get off the computer, take a shower, shave, stop eating pizza 3 meals a day, leave the basement, hit the gym and go meet people? you're just wallowing in your own self-pity.

Guess what? I did all of these and I am still in the same place. More importantly, I only ever had to change one thing, going to the gym.

Have you ever stopped to think that the tired old issues you trot out again and again, ask anyone what they think a virgin looks like and they will pretty much spout your list, are results and not causes? Virginity is an issue that has its roots many years back in our life. The virginity of a man in his 20's is the result of things he did and did not do in his teens.

>>8165967

>Implying I'm in the "first few times"

Im glad you losers haven't got the chance to reproduce.

>>8165967
I am completely hideous and I have a small dick. Life delt me shit and I refuse to embarass myself trying to hit on women.

>>8165917
>fapping has no meaning, except to release endorphins
The same is true for video games, chocolate, drugs, and everything else pleasurable. Life is ultimately futile, and those things help distract us from the ultimate meaninglessness of it all.

>the moment I'm done... I feel like shit... because I've wasted time doing stuff that matters (to someone that finds meaning in life).
I'm confused, is the feeling like shit caused by realizing how much time you've spent doing things other than fapping? Or was it a typo and you meant that fapping is a waste of time, which causes you to feel like shit afterward?

Posting.


POSTABLOX04

>>8165994

this is true. I go to the gym and am pretty good looking and tall. I was bullied when I was younger so i was very shy throughout high school and never learnt the social skills. I am 26 now and just don't connect with people like others do. Shit sucks.

>>8166006
and yet we will be here 100 years from now

there is more at play than simple genetics

>>8165939
kind neckbeard detected

It wouldn't be arcanine without the daily virgin threads.

>>8165994
This is very true

I'm not all that unattractive physically but I never had any female friends as a teenager and went to an all-boys school. Basically I feel like I missed the boat because I now find it very difficult to relate to the opposite sex.

30 year old kissless virgin btw

does not finishing count?

I used to have girls that wanted to ride my cock hard, but I was too young and socially retarded to know it. Now I find myself slowly becoming Bachelor Toad.

But, hey, at least now I have time to post useless shit on 4chan and make shitty "Let's Play"s!

>>8166020
I don't think humanity is going to last that much longer, to be honest.

>>8166008
Prideful neckbeard, it's cool. At least you have your pride, right?

>>8165994
You don't think I was a 20's virgin? I just sorted my life out later than most.
Virginity is only a big deal if you make it one. The less you brood on it, the easier it is to lose it.

>The virginity of a man in his 20's is the result of things he did and did not do in his teens.
True dat, I was home-schooled for 10th,11th, and 12th grades, causing me to miss my "window" for easy sex. I left before everyone's hormones switched into high gear and now I'm in community college, everyone's done with puberty and worrying about grown up stuff like bills and rent, and there's no sex in sight.

>>8166055
>Prideful neckbeard, it's cool. At least you have your pride, right?

All I have left is my pride and I am loathe to trade in my only chip for a handful of shit.

I never got the virginity dichotomy:
Female virginity: HAWT/Pure (at least until she's 30 then Crazy Cat Lady)
Male Virginity: Ronery neckbeard fuck eating hot pockets while playing WoW

>>8165994
Just came back from being afk, saw my post and I realised what I did... Yeah, I totally messed that up.

The feeling shit is from doing nothing that matters to anyone (including me), when I could have been doing something that matters to someone that actually finds their life meaningful (even if they're total idiots for thinking that).

>>8166088
Centuries old gender role requirements that really don't work in the modern world.

>>8166101
>The feeling shit is from doing nothing that matters to anyone (including me),
But fapping DOES matter, you're essentially getting pleasure for free, without emotional commitments, or STDs or pregnancy. Even if the pleasure you get is less than real sex, the fact that it's absolutely consequence, risk, and commitment free means that the cost-benefit ratio is infinite, while sex has a non-zero risk of STDs and preggo. Fapping clearly wins from a hedonistic standpoint.

>>8166088
Women tend to be able to easily get laid.
Men, not so much, they have to put a little effort into it.

>>8166140
Also the fact that any woman who isn't a landwhale/disfigured has had at least one chance to lose her virginity by age 18, while men have to beg and plead and jump through hoops to enter a woman's slime tube.

>>8166193
>slime tube
You made this 30 year old virgin giggle

GOOD SHOW OLD CHAP

>>8166193

>slime tube
My new word. Thanks.

>slime tube

For most women, it's more like black hole.

If I see another post that says "oh go to the gym, get healthy" or some shit I'm gonna lose it.

You think being healthy and attractive makes much of a difference? Go jump over to /fit/ and you'll see most of them are as lonely as you robots.

I'm pretty sure I'm one of the few people here who is actually destined to remain celibate for life. Most of you fags just have high standards and are a little shy. Me? I can't relate to human beings. There's a wall between me and other people so thick that I have to get drunk just to have casual conversation. And of course, I'm far too ugly, poor and uninteresting for anyone to want to help me break out of it. Not that I think anyone COULD help.

>>8166247
>You think being healthy and attractive makes much of a difference?

It does if it helps your self-confidence, which is 99% of the issue in the first place.

>>8166088
yeah but reverse that and you get
man who fucks lots of women: man among men
woman who fucks lots of men: whore/slut

just nature, men need to constantly pursue women and women need to reserve themselves for the most superior man
if she just gives it out to anyone she's a whore and if he sits on his ass he's a coward/pussy

>>8166247
>You think being healthy and attractive makes much of a difference?
It would for women, going from hambeast or muffin-top to flat stomach and toned thighs will at least double the amount of men interested in a woman, because male criteria for choosing a mate is heavily visual. Chicks dig social status and income. Learning "game" beats sit-ups if you're objective is to fuck.

>>8165850
No homo, brah.

27, suicidal.

>>8166281
Like men, women care mostly about looks. Having money doesn't help if you are really ugly, I'd know about it.
All this PUA stuff is bullshit. None of it works if you look really bad.
Women want good looks, then social status, then money. But you can manage to fuck easily if you only have the looks. However, you'll never touch a woman if you only have the money, beside hookers of course.

inb4 hit the gym. I'm not fat, never was, I'm clean, I dress nice, etc... Just have incurable skin diseases.

What about the people who are genuinely ok with not having had sex? Not dying inside because of it, or misogynistic because of it, but just actually ok with it?

>>8166340

then ok

>>8166330
Poor hygiene is the biggest turn off.

Skin disease appears to be poor hygiene...

That's your problem.

>>8166330
>None of it works if you look really bad.
Obviously a 400lb balding neckbeard with gingivitis isn't going to get laid no matter how suave he is, but most of /r9k (or at least the better half from a looks/hygiene standpoint) could probably score a one night stand with a drunken sorority slut if they tried game.

>>8166340
They'll get over it when they hit puberty.

>>8166340
that's actually the perfect virgin mindset

that's how i felt when i was a virgin

then i had sex for the first few times and IT BLEW MY FUCKING MIND HOLY SHIT

Yeah, 19 years and counting.

It doesn't really bother me. But I do know that with every passing hour the very fact makes my chances of losing it that much slimmer.

>>8166381
Everyone can fuck a drunken slut if she is sleeping. You don't have to learn anything for it. But most people here are obviously looking for a long term relationship and are not interested in a one night stand.

>>8166395
>i had sex for the first few times and IT BLEW MY FUCKING MIND HOLY SHIT
>non-virgin
>/r9k/
what is this I don't even

>>8166416
>looking for a long term relationship and are not interested in a one night stand.
Yes, but cumming inside a real-life woman will ease the OMGVIRGIN anxiety and allow you to be smoother when courting a chick for a long term relationship.

OP here, you just got trolled you dumb nigger, everyone in this thread EXCEPT YOU has fucked at least a dozen girls this month.

>>8166330
>All this PUA stuff is bullshit. None of it works if you look really bad.
Because I'm sure you're a fucking expert on this, right?

>>8166265

>yeah but reverse that and you get
>man who fucks lots of women: man among men
>woman who fucks lots of men: whore/slut

Consider a woman in her 30s who actively hunts out and seduces college boys. This woman is not a whore. She is a 'cougar'. Take another woman for example. Say, your mother. Your mother also sleeps with a lot of college boys, however she is most definitely a whore, because she just lies on her ass all day and they file in to ride her to heaven and back.

In short, the whore/stud dichotomy has nothing to do with gender. It's with active/passive. It just so happens that most women, being WHORES, take the passive role and thus get labelled accordingly.

>>8166491
1/10

YOU GOTTA HONE THEM SKILLS NIGGA

>>8166522
Cougars = dirty and disgustingly old whores.

It has nothing to do with being active or passive, it's about how many people you fucked with and in what circumstances you did it. A woman fucking with her boyfriend is normal, a woman fucking with a lot of random strangers is a whore.

>This woman is not a whore. She is a 'cougar'
I always thought "cougar" meant "past it's expiration date, and a bit moldy around the edges but you're hungry so you eat it anyway".

Girlfriend took me on vacation last weekend, payed for most of the trip. Gave me awesome anal, and she actually came from it too. She'd give it to me anytime I'd ask, but I only like to do it when shes really in the mood... this should make her crave it more often, so im psyched. Feels good, man.

>>8165749

>Plus, when you have kids, everything changes, your life has meaning where it once did not.

If you need another person to give your life meaning, wether that's a child, partner, family member, whatever, you are definately doing it wrong.

I'm in a relationship, and we will never, ever have children. And while it would hurt if we split up I'd move on eventually.

Do something worthwile with your life rather than attempting to fill the void by attaching yourself to others.

>>8166681

Humans are social creatures, and most do need other people in their life to be happy. This is not unusual and not a bad thing. It is reality.

>>8166681
What is one thing that it is worthwhile to spend your life doing.

It can be anything, humor me.

Also, just for argument's sake, what do you do?

Also, it's not about attachment, it's about legacy... about having an impact, etc.

I have actually been trying recently. Sex isn't the main goal and neither is having a girlfriend, but they are goals nonetheless. I have no voids to fill; I just realized that my self confidence was shit. Approaching women has changed that and I love myself more than I ever have even though I haven't done much sexually.

Fuck those people who say things like "let them come to you" or "trying will only push them away". That is complete contradictory bullshit. SOMEONE has to make a move and most likely that person will have to be you. Making a move is what I call "trying" and there isn't a god damn thing wrong with it. I'm taking charge, I'm not going to wait around until I physically bump into a girl making her drop her books. If I see a girl that I want to get to know, then its "Hi, I'm Anon."

/rant

>>8166763
Hardcore porn.

>>8166491
I'm the OP, fagtron. Piss off.

I fucked with my brother when we were fifteen. Am I still a virgin?

[spoiler]I'm a dude[/spoiler]

I still am one.

Now what?

WHO IN HERE USES DEODORANT?

SERIOUS QUESTION PLOX.

>IM GONNA BUY SOME TODAY

18 years old: Yep, all is not lost though.

Meeting *her* tomorrow, not saying I'm gonna lose it tomorrow or anything, but every journey takes steps, I'm in no mad rush.

>>8169292

>NO ONE IS RESPONDING TO THIS COMMENT.

I WILL ASSUME THAT LIKE ME, ROBOT VIRGINS DO NOT USE DEODORANT.

THIS IS WHERE WE FAIL, MY BROBOTS.

ODOR.

>>8169347

Lynx Twist here

>smellsgoodman.jpg

>>8169375

IS YOU A VIRGINBOT?

yesss

>>8164257
23 year old here.
Yep.

>>8169387

Refer to >>8169327 it's right above your post you cloth eared twazzock.

I WILL ASSUME THAT SAID VIRGINBOTS DO NOT WEAR DEODORANT/ DO NOT SMELL NICE.

26 here. Feels lonely man.

>>8169429

FUCK IM ONLY TRYING TO HELP I DONT HAVE TIME FOR YOUR BULLSHIT.

FUCK!

Mootblocks because image wasn't original first time round

19yo had sex with 2 chicks and been in bed & played around with too many to remember

recieved one blowjob in the bath, i've given oral to 2 or 3 girls, lost count of how many i kissed

first kiss at around 13 and i kissed two girls in one night, the second one said i was "a good kisser", i never told her it was only my second kiss

lost my virginity at 17 to my ex, regularly had sex for nearly a year

Problem, robots?

And fine with it, too.

Lolis don't need sex to be happy ~

I have been with prostitutes and also had some cock up my ass.
Do I qualify?

19 in a couple of months and still a virgin. I try not to let it bother me too much because I have other things going for me and it's not like I've had no experience with girls whatsoever. But it does.

>>8169480
The problem is that you're not impressing anyone.

I'm not one now!

i got a bj once
does that count?

Hell yeah, I don't really mind though.

Also, I'm posting this to Facebook.

>>8169480

Because 13 year olds are such expert kissers. Quit bragging you dumbass, your "achievements" are nothing special.

>And you know what, it's okay. I don't really need anyone else. The whole "love" thing is just an illusion of hormones and psychology designed to trick you into impregnating some stupid slut. There is no such thing as a soulmate, or two people made for each other. After you have jizzed inside her a few times and the ZOMGROMANCE fades you will realize you have only succeeded in promoting the human race another generation.

I feel the same way man. Sex is just one pleasure in the ocean of pleasures in the world.

I don't understand why people get so depressed about it. Yeah you're not having sex, but there are so many other things that can bring pleasure to your life.

I honestly feel sorry for people who are so hung up on this.

>you must be socially inept. Get out there and meet people.

>You have broken ankles. Go out and walk it off.

24 yr old virgin reporting in. i had an awesome group of female friends in high school, and had quite a few girls interested in me.

when i left highschool i lost all contact with any girl i knew and went straight into full time work (no uni which i think is crucial to social development in some cases).

i consider myself quite attractive, ive been weight lifting for 4 + years and have an extremely aesthetically pleasing physique. i have great dress sense (have an interest in high end male fashion) and when i go out i know bitches want to fuck.

my problem is that when i find out a girl likes me i totally lose interest and think that the girl is a piece of shit. its only the chase that excites me but i desperately want to get over this because its stopping me from having any kind of relationship.

almost 25. been kissed, but only been on 2 'dates', both of which ended with the chick telling me i just took her to a movie and dinner and that it wasn't a date, we were just hanging out as 'friends'.

Well, alright.

Posting in a thread because i'm still a virgin

>206 posts and 3 image replies omitted. Click Reply to view.

Damn.

Well, count me in. 19 years old and never even kissed a girl.

virginfag here, I could've easily lost it, but I'd rather not have lost it to a a complete whore, kissed and fingered only

20 yr. old virgin. never kissed, etc. turning 21 this year. socially awkward/have some anxiety.

19 year-old female virgin posting here.

Might as well be one, haven't gotten any in months.

19, turining 20 this month

:|

18, girl, never kissed, held hands, etc.

eigthteen year old femme virgin.

damn malformed hymen needs to get surgically removed. so sad.

>>8165850
>Only men can feel true roneryness

What about fat chicks?

>>8164257
By choice.

19, turning 20 in a few months
although i think.. and hope.. that i've found the guy to do it with... so, might actually lose it before my twenties, which i never would have seen coming

almost 30 yr old male virgin here.

At least virgins have less chances of STDs, unwanted pregnancies, child-support, psycho booty calls and more time and money to devote on other hobbies. Also, it gives an excuse to let your hygiene go. Your right hand doesn't care about your neckbeard or that you haven't showered in two days. Or in the case of fembutts, to not shave legs and go to buffets guilt-free. Less complaining and celebrate your freedom of virginity.

34 here.
Do everything to not become me. Please. You still have time.

>>8169964
same here

that's life though, no point in getting bogged down w/regrets and fantasy, just live with what you got

>>8169981

=/

What's wrong with it?

19 year old Virgin here.

18-year-old abstinent female reporting in. Yay virginity by choice.

22 year old femvirgin, I don't really mind being a virgin. Haven't found a guy I trust enough to do me. It lets me be different from the pack, too. I imagine I'd just regret it if I did, anyway--most girls I speak to about it do. :U

>>8170202
Shitty lock and master key analogy.

20 here.
Not sure if I've never been interested or just never had the chance. Whatever.

35 in may. Only have slept with a prostitue. You stop caring after a few years of college.

>>8170211
what?

notoriginalblegh

>>8170158

i have a cribiformed/microperforated hymen. can't break it with a tampon or a penis. shit sucks.

>>8170198
Yay an agonising wedding night after years of awkward frustration.

>>8170260
Didn't say I was waiting for marriage or attracted to dudes.

17 yr old virgin here. Fuck but that and other things just sap my self-confidence.

Going into uni with a shit/non-existent social network sucks as well, no party invites, have to find friends again etc..

232 posts

lol r9k

21 virgin. I'm going to be one my whole life. It bothers me maybe once a month. It's not a huge deal. I have much more important things to worry/obsess about.

17 years old here.
in my country most people keep their virginity until they get married.
fuck yeah.

I'm one. Who cares?

Good fun time reporting all the underageb& dickheads who still have time.
Seriously, you are young as hell and dont think you are uncommon being 16 or 17 and a virgin.
Fags

To all the virgins who don't think sex is a big deal, or feel great for having avoided relationship headaches, just keep in mind this feeling may not last forever. And when it ends you're going to be royally fucked, and not in a good way.

For years I thought I was awesome for not having to put up with other peoples' shit and never getting distracted by thinking about sex. I got absolute purpose in life from just messing around with stuff on my own. Then in my mid 20s it was like a switch was flipped and suddenly I felt like shit at night because I knew I wouldn't be waking up next to a woman. Don't become this, seriously. I'm fit and look good but when you've gone so long without interacting with women it's HARD to get your shit in gear.

>>8170114
>At least virgins have less chance of STDs, unwanted pregnancies, child-support, psycho booty calls.
22 y/o virgin, my younger (19) sister accidentally got preggo last month and had to get an abortion. $300 and a day of excruciating pain because her and her boyfriend couldn't resist their hormones.

>Your right hand doesn't care about your neckbeard
Nor will your right hand ever have a period, yeast infection, headache, or get impregnated.

We virgins need a fapping pride day, where everyone wears a white lapel pin, or one of those rubber bracelet things.

>>8170692

Use a condom, don't fuck people you don't know. Problem solved.

>>8170716
>Use a condom, don't fuck people you don't know. Problem solved.
Implying condoms have a 100% success rate at preventing STDs and preggo.

yeeeup!
20 years and counting.

20, and I've even been dating the same person for two years now.

>>8170749
>dating the same person for two years
>20 y/o virgin
LOLWUT

>>8170749
Are you sure you're dating or are you friendzoned?

21 and counting. To be 22.

>>8170785
I'm waiting until we're both ready. I wouldn't want to force sex on her, and have both of our first times to be a mistake.

I foresee many future George Sodinis in this thread, and I like what I see.

>>8170785
scary stuff even if i get a girlfriend i could be waiting years to have sex with her...

15 years a virgin

20 here, hooked up with a girl but she tried to put me on the hook. "I can't be with you...right now." Shit sucks, guys. It destroyed my confidence and I don't even know if I'll be able to approach another girl for a while. I will probably take this time to work out and focus more on school. Fuck bitches get money.

>>8170844
Oh fuck off. Goddamn trolls.

i dont want to have sex also i am a 21 year old guy

My dreams o love and care died with my 20yo self. I'm the rotten corpse of a dreamer, drawing perversions in the ceiling of my mind, walking slowly to the embrace of sexy death.

Maybe she care about it.

Or then, nothingness will be my partner, and the void my consort and confident for ever and ever.

And then, Big Bang all over again. Maybe that time I do it right.

almost 15 soon to be nonvirgin!

Twenty deep up in this muthafucka

23, I have made out with three girls, and I get hugs from my female friends who will never have sex with me practically every day.

I will say this - looks and working out ARE NOT THE MAIN ISSUE! I was on fucking varsity sports teams in high school, I have a six pack if I just diet for a week or two, and I work out three times a week. I look good. But it doesn't fucking matter if you're constantly spacing out around other people, always afraid to "make a move", or are just too straight-laced in general. I used to blame my ultra conservative, religious parents for instilling this SEX = BAD, WORK = GOOD mentality in me, but I'm 23, I really should have gotten over it by now.

Oh well. And please, I know some people here are like "but you get hugs all the time, I don't even have a female friend!" Consider yourself lucky - all it ends up doing is eating away at you in the long run.

i used to be a virgin till i started crashing parties for chicks and now i'm absolutely positive i've raped and impregnated at least 14

24 year old virgin and I just learned my little brother lost his at 16 and has fucked five girls. Feels bad man.

Kissless virgin at the age of 21. I used to be on here all the time bitching and moaning, but now I'm trying to change the way my mind thinks. I'm trying to convince myself that I'm going to be a virgin 'til death and that I ought to focus on more important things in life.

For the most part, it's actually working. I don't cry and talk to myself about how big a loser I am like I used to. Feels good, man.

i'm, but i'm also a super introvert. i'd rather be in permanent bliss when i'm in solitude than waste my time and happiness trying to get a girl

>>8171687
Look at that puke! It's going everywhere. Hahaha I'm so hard right now.