→ STOP SOPA BEFORE IT DESTROYS THE WEB ←

why do you feel you need to let others know of your sexual preferences?

do i want to know what ice cream flavor you like? i don't give a shit, nor should you.

But if anyone asks straight on, tell the truth boldly without fear.

You should kill yourself.

Kill yourselfbloxxxxxxxoxoxox

>>746058
Exactly this. Don't force that shit on everyone, its super annoying. Shutup gay man, I don't care about you being gay.

>>746058
this, I don't see the need or a giant banner or event saying HEY EVERYONE I LIKE PENISES.
That and we don't need more homos waving their sexuality around. Just roll with your realization and go to a gay bar to celebrate. (get laid like a boss)

your situation is what dan savage lives for.
This is what he does, helps young gay males find themselves and to help them "out"

okay

you need another gay dude

then you bring him to dinner

and go to kiss him and say

hey everyone

check this out

>>746192

assured drama for YEARS

Questions:
>How did you realize you're gay?
>Have you at least experimented on both sides of the fence to make sure?
>Who are you coming out to? Do you know if they're homo-friendly or not?
>Do you have a significant other?
Answer these questions and I'll get back to you.

>>746058
This is exactly what I did when I was 14. My friends were checking out girls and asked my opinion, I told them I'm not really into girls. They then asked if I was gay, I replied honestly and they shrugged it off and didn't really bring it up again because guess what? It's fucking irrelevant. The next few days were annoying as hell though as every goddamn person in the school ran up to me and asked "OMG ARE YOU GAY!??!?!"

>>746234
>When I started to find men attractive and not wimminz
>Nah, had a gf though, who funnily enough is now a lesbian
>my peers and/or my parents
>no
>

>>746259
>think this sounds like a good plan
>realise i will probably cry while shrugging it off
>fuck

>>746285
So pretend you've got to go take a leak and cry in the bathroom, you're going to get so hyped up about this and once it's over you'll see it's no big deal at all.

>>746140
The same applies to straight people. No public kissing or even holding hands, no wedding rings. In fact, I don't even want to know about romance, or sex. Sex is gross! I bet my parents didn't have sex, they're not gross.

>>746192
If a son or daughter of mine came out this way, I would be fucking amazed and give them both all the high fives I can muster.

fuck why am i so worried about this

>>746361
Yep, public displays of affection are pretty fucking obnoxious regardless of orientation. I'm going to make sure if I ever have to propose that I do it away from people, there's no worse form of attention seeking than disrupting everyone's dinner by announcing your impending wedlock, I mean shit they're total strangers you tosspot, put the fucking ring away.

>>746392
No, you idiot! I was being sarcastic! There's not actually anything legitimately annoying about coming out of the closet or about displays of affection.

You just hate people, and that's YOUR fault and YOU need to get the fuck out.

>>746264
So you've never so much as kissed another man? Or been in a relationship with one?

Look man, I think you need to do a little more self-exploration before you come out to anyone. Believe me, there's nothing worse than coming out before you've got all your shit figured out. I get that you find men attractive, but you need to know for sure that you're sexually compatible with them. This doesn't necessarily mean that you should go out and suck a bunch of dicks, but you should at least find a guy you can be physically intimate with (kissing, cuddling, fondling ect).

If you want to tell your closest friend about your attractions, that's fine. But don't tell anyone in your family until you've been in at least one steady relationship.

>>746419
I knew you were being sarcastic, I pretended not to notice just to enrage you. Evidently, it worked. And there's nothing wrong with being a misanthrope.

>>746420
believe me, i'm very gay

>>746058
>>746124
>>746140
Are you guys fucking serious?
It's nothing like a fucking ice cream flavor his parent's will want to know
Aspie's trying to pathetically be like there hero House again

>>746438
There is when you want to force your misanthropic behavior on others, disrupt their lives, and be a dick.

>>746457
>It's nothing like a fucking ice cream flavor his parent's will want to know

That's fine for his parents; I really don't need, nor care, what his sexual orientation is. Broadcasting it via a mythic event built up by the gay community doesn't really need to be done.

>>746461
But I haven't done any of that, I keep my misanthropy to myself unless spoken to directly about...oh shit it's just like my orientation isn't it? There's certainly something wrong when you disrupt other people's lives with your homosexuality and force your gay ideals on others.
>>746457
Honey I think you need to learn the difference between a gay man and a faggot. Just like not every black man is a nigger, not every gay man is a faggot. Plenty of us are reasonable human beings who don't like to make a big deal out of nothing.

>>746457

why would any real, loving parent want to know about his/her child's sexual preferences?

That is mad.

Guys stop fighting I feel bad ;~;

>>746441
Ok then. If you're that sure, I'd suggest doing it the way I did it, on a case by case basis. Start by telling your friends then move on to the most trusted member of your family and work your way up. The way you'll gradually build up a support system. After you've got that shit sorted out with your immediate family, you can do a general announcement to your other relatives. If they're anything like my family, there will be some who think it's great, others who will think you're confused, and some who will think you're going to hell. But by that point, you'll have a group of people who are already on your side.

>>746529
No, I live for this and would be doing it right now in another thread or with my friends later today. Don't feel bad, sugarcake.

>>746493
>Agree that it's needed for parents
>Say it's not needed

ITT: Posing. "Oh, homosexuality? I don't need to hear, I'm so enlightened zero fucks given, fucking faggots am I right?"

>>746510
So that they'll know whether or not to pester them about grandchildren.

>>746510
You're right. Why would someone's parents be interested in the basic facts of their child's life? It's just absurd for a parent to be concerned about what their child is interested in, who they love, and what makes them happy.

>>746507
> There's certainly something wrong when you disrupt other people's lives with your homosexuality and force your gay ideals on others.
You do not know what the words "disrupt" and "force" mean. If you flip your fucking shit every time you realize other people are normal humans, you have issues.

>>746027
>>be underageb&

>>Report submitted! This window will close in 5 seconds...

(Don't moot me bro)

>>746544
Did you not read the earlier part of my post? I was just taking your mentality toward misanthropy and applying it to homosexuality. I do not have a problem with homosexuality as I am gay, I also already stated that I silently hate people and never do anything to discourage, dirupt or discriminate against them. Can you get it through your thick skull that I am able to politely hate everyone or am I going to have to find where you live and ruthless sodomise you until you get the point?

>>746507
>"Mom, dad, I just wanted you to know that I'm gay so that you wouldn't assume otherwise like most people do"
>OMG WHY ARE YOU FORCING YOUR HOMOSEXUALITY ON US?!?!?!?!
fullretard.jpg

>>746582
Please read the whole post and posts in context before jumping to conclusions.
622

don't take this the wrong way, but are you feminine and/or effeminate, OP?

>>746632
define effeminate?

>>746645
feminine - looking in a female-ish matter
effeminate - acting/thinking in a female-ish matter

i don't really wanna project my gender ideals onto you, it'd sorta ruin the question

>>746671
I'm slightly effeminate but not feminine

Everyone saying "Oh, you don't need to tell everyone, don't be one of those really in your face fags" kinda pisses me off.

Not op but 17, bi and it really gets to you. It's like your hiding a huge part of yourself where ever you go, and whoever you talk to can't really know you.
Feels like nothing you do has any real meaning because no-one knows truly who you are.

Shit's really depressing, give him some slack.

>>746762
Want to talk about it, buddy?

candlestick;

>>746762
> but 17, bi

NO YOU ARE NOT
IT'S A PHASE

>>746564
920 Olive St, Chico, CA. Please bring lubricant, for both our sakes.

(PLEASE DON'T, THAT WOULD BE AWKWARD BECAUSE MY ROOMMATES ARE HERE AND THEY'RE NOT BAD PEOPLE BUT THEY'RE RATHER TEASING AND YOU MIGHT NOT LIKE IT, PLUS I NEVER REALLY FARE WELL IN SEXUAL SITUATIONS WITH STRANGERS)

>>746564
Also the behavior you describe is incredibly non-invasive and you'd do better to just not be annoyed.

>>746849
I'm 20, known about my bisexuality since I was fifteen. You mand?

>>746854
I know I would but I have some deep issues that prevent me from being happy for other people. I would make sure to bring lubricant but to be honest I would prefer to be on bottom. We can go somewhere away from your roommates if you want, I'm sure it could be nice.

>>746800
It's fine but thanks for the offer. I've got someone who understands me completely for the first time ever, and it's a totally euphoric feeling.


>>746849
Funny, I used to think that. Then I found a wonderful man who changed my mind.

Sucks to be you I suppose.

>>746849
not that guy, but my hope my bisexuality is

>>746027

WHY THE FUCK DOES THIS ARTIST HAVE SUCH A FETISH FOR SPILLING BLOBS OF YOGURT ON DUDES

JESUS CHRIST

>>746963
Because it's hot as fuck. Now take a photo of yourself spilling yoghurt on your chest and upload it.

>>746975
Here you go, still fresh

>>747021
I knew you would post that picture! I love you so much...

>>746703
aw man, worst combination
oh well, carry on younggaydude