TIMEBLOX

Time heals all wounds.

>don't have time to study
I work 10 hours a day, go to class 4 hours a day, and find time to play World of Warcraft about 8 hours a day

How about you quit being so dependent on your shit parents and actually do something with your life instead of crying about it, like, TRYING.

Oh right, you are female, you're genetically coded to be a parasite on society and do nothing besides look pretty and complain.

Tell them to fuck off and don't talk to them anymore.

My life is great and awesome!!

You know what OP? You make me feel better about my life.

>Abusive parents
>gets money form them and free room and board
Apparently theyre not that abusive.
Also, sage from teenage drama bullshit

>>7390965
find a boyfriend
drain him
leave him when your life's stabilized
???
PROFIT!

>21 years old
>but they won't let me move out before I finish college and get married.

Are you retarded or something?

>>7390978

>I sleep "about" two hours a day

>>7390978
>10
>4
>8
>24-22= 2 hours of sleep a day
You are going to die of sleep deprivation in less than a month. Since you are alive, this is not your schedule.

Doesn't make OP any less of a whiny attention whore.

>>7391002
what he said I guess, makes most sense.

I smell a troll


In any case...leave them and college.
Do whatever just don't let your family drag you down.
Straight A's...pfff I got them and I'm still struggling to find a job. If you have someone where you can go and share the bills...that would be a start

OP here.

Please don't make this a misogyny thread.
Please don't troll.
Please try to help, say something constructive.

I see no way out from here.
I could somehow make it through if I could bring myself to finish this college, but I can't.
It is disgusting, repulsive.

I...

>They are giving me money
>I have a job
MOVE OUT YOU DUMB FUCK.

0/10..you gotta do a WHOLE lot better than that, broski.

>21 years old
Then get your ass out of there. You have a job, so that's at least some way to support yourself. Save up a bit of money, maybe find a friend who will let you stay at their place for a bit, and then tell your parents you're fucking done professionally with them. You're over 18, there is NOTHING they can do about it. Don't let them destroy the best years of your life, or even make you end it.

>>7391009
>>7391014
Why do you think my name has the word "sleepy" in it

i sleep like 18 hours on weekends when i don't work

>>7391002
im not going to repeat myself
you can also hire yourself as an escort

>>7391021
hey idiot, how about being your own person and moving out.

jesus christ, it's not hard.

>>7391021
For somone whos very sad you sure enjoy dramatically trailing off your sentences.

I think, you may be...an attention whore.....

>>7390965

Alright girl, let's calm down the depressing spiral, and lets evaluate your life.

You're 21. Your parents cannot legally detain you inside their home. While you have a bit of a girls mindset, you are technically an adult. You can move out. And you need to.

Saving up for this move should be your first priority. Your college, you don't yet need to pay for it, because its on your parents dime for a good while. You can also look into Federal Aid money or other student loans. You DO have options.

Getting a better network of friends that will support you when you move should be your second priority.

Get those two things and go to a nicer home with people who appreciate you. That's going to make your life better.

And from that new home, you can rebuild your relationship with your parents. Remember, your parents cannot legally harm you. You are in a good country, you have some options, and you need to use them.

But rebuilding the relationship is important. And they don't have a contract with you to pay them back and you never promised you would, you can use payment as a negotiating chip while you rebuild the relationship.

But you need to get out of the house. You need to go somewhere better.

I'll start making a full checklist of things you should do.

>>7391037
but then she'll have to try and make something of her life instead of just blaming everything on her parents.

>>7390965
If your a legal fucking adult then tell them to back off. If they have no signed contract, you don't OWE them jack shit.

>>Female

Lose weight, bum off some guy.

derp derp easy modo

Clean start.

Everyone can do it. You deserve to be whoever you want and no parent is gonna steal that. Be practical and leave.
Browse the ads and seek fortune somewhere else. Its not the end of the world yet. Or just find a guy who'll help you.

>>7391059
Beyond that no contract of that sort would even be legal.

by any chance are you Asian OP? cause your life sounds alot like mine, without me flunking a year

Words can't do shit, so take it and just move along

>>7391060ffffff
you are such a faggot

>>7390965

Their not physically stopping you from leaving.

Gather your stuff and leave. Who cares about graduating if your life is bad enough your considering quitting?

>>7391096
>i'm a 29 year old woman who has never worked before in my life and leeches money off my various boyfriends

For fucks sake, I am not trolling.

My life is on the brink of falling apart.

I quit this job couple of weeks ago because it was draining life out of me, I'm currently tutoring friends' kids when I can, but that's not it.

I CAN'T EVEN PAY FOR THE YEAR I FLUNKED, NOT TO MENTION ANYTHING ELSE. Wages around here are 2-3$/hour, and you can't even find a job anymore due to this 'crisis'.

>>7391051
Thank you for helping.

I can't move out. I do have to pay for my college. I'm paying for a college I can't stand. I feel like throwing up when thinking about it.

>>7391085
Funny, I was going to ask that. I'm thinking, yes.

>>7391096

To be fair, he does have a point. Then again "become someone else's play thing" is not an option a lot of people want to take. But it could be done.

Beyond that, there are even guys who are legitimately nice guys that would take care of a girlfriend like that. I've had girlfriends stay for a month or two due to problems, and I am getting to the age where living together is more realistic.

But the odds of her forming a healthy relationship when she's looking for a sponsorship, those are some tough odds.

Brake your arm now.

If you go to college that means you are insured.

Take that money and scram. Later you by me a beer!!!

>>7391117
Declare bankruptcy and start over somewhere else. I'm about to tell ya...

>>7391117
Where do you live where minimum wage is ~$2/3?

Also, you are being dramatic. Plenty of people go to colleges that they can't stand. The cost of a few years of your life so that you can live the rest of it. Big fucking deal.

Thanks to everyone being constructive.

It sounds easy to move out, but how do I do it?
I have nowhere to go. No way to sustain myself financially.

2-3$/hour is how much students get here. Which obviously means I'm not Asian.

Adults are happy if they earn 7$/hour.
And I'm not even kidding. It's that fucking bad here.

>>7391161
I asked where you live. Answer the question or don't bother referencing it at all.

>>7391117
Alright, calm down, look, you're going to live, you're going to be fine, and you're going to get out of this house.

Let's have you fill out a nice form for the Mirrored life back on track program.

Country/State:
Regional Area:
Summary of Work Experience
Summary of College Reputation (How is your school regarded?)
Current Major:
Other Skills:

Let's get some of that information and we'll see what we can do.

Move away, don't tell them, don't let them track you down. If you care enough to, tell them off before you do it. Drop out of college, live your life. Maybe pick college up again later, when your life stables out and your debts are paid for.

They cannot legally do these things:
-Garnish your wages
-Not let you move out, as you are an adult
-Kick you out (evict) without some prior notice, even though you are an adult
-Make you repay them for anything that you don't have a contract with them to repay

Some things for you:
-fucking own up to the things in your life
-being yelled at isn't a good reason for having messed up shit in your life

>>7391161
where the fuck do you live OP?
fuckin Nigeria?

I bet she's from Alabama, but she goes to college somewhere in Utah.

dont pay them back, finish your degree and walk away. if you get into legal trouble say your parents never mentioned you paying it back, they cant make you.

>>7391189
At $2-3 an hour, that is not a US State, which may work in OPs favor depending on where.

>>7391174
I don't feel like going into that much detail. :(
Country/State:
Europe. Fucking Balkans.
Summary of Work Experience:
Phoning people, trying to sell shit like "The Magical Vacuum Cleaner!1!"
Yeah.
Summary of College Reputation (How is your school regarded?)
Good question. My college has no reputation at all. People look down on me when they hear where I am.
Current Major:
Currently studying to get a degree of being a teacher and a journalist, with which I'll be able to do jack shit thanks to my college's reputation.

Other Skills:
I don't know. Nothing.

>>7390965
It's like you are me but my parents weren't abusive just controlling.

Ended up switching to civil engineering instead of continuing with computer science.

I didn't flunk a year but they think I've gotten mostly A's...most of my grades are C's and I've failed a shitton of courses. Thanks to the AP credits I got I'm only half a semester behind.

I was an excellent student in h.s but I got tired of doing everything, the grades, the people, the clubs. I started playing the piano and guitar freshman year in college (now a senior) and honestly I think I've always been a liberal arts fag. I don't even know why the fuck I'm good at math.

>>7391219
Oh hey balkan fag here! :P

but I moved out a long time ago...which country btw?

>>7391219
enjoy being someones cumdumpster lol
have my kids and ill pay your way. thats the way it works if u have shit parents dumb bitch

Also, I've been through a lot more than probably all of you internet machos have.
You wouldn't make it through six months of any point of my life.
/feeding the idiots

>>7391246
Probably because you are intelligent.

>>7391246
i feel your pain bro i feel your pain.
i hate having knowledge on mathetmathics, i'm still in hs but w/ ap credits i'm ok for flunking a fuck load.
going in to an Ivy school to get a degree in computer engineering when i'd rather do something else

>>7391294
Which totally explains why I failed all those courses >_>

if I was really intelligent I would have said fuck you to the parents and continued programming, or at least forgotten about college and done some independent game designing :/
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

>>7391294
Don't act like an elitist "my life is garbage you don't even knooooooooooooow ;....;" unless you have shit to back it up with.

>21
>They won't let you move out
>give them half your salary
They cannot legally force you to do any of these things.

Move out and forget about them since they are such assholes.

You have a job? Save up for a deposit for a flat, move there. If you have to quit college so you can work enough hours for rent, do it. You can go college later. Get your life together, then figure out what you want to do with it.

Oh and dont tell your parents. Just pack up your shit and go.

>>7391219
I know you are in Serbia OP. Wut is it BK management?

>>7391304
Fuck yeah mang and the only reason I got into computers was because I didn't make any friends when I switched h.s junior year.

I didn't give two shits about comp sci until then although I did love science/physics. Thinking maybe something related to movies...

>>7391219

Here's a followup question that may very well be your shot at making money.

What languages do you speak? Because you speak English and it's actually quite good.

There is a lot of money in tourism. It is not impossible for you to get regular $10-20 tips if you play things right. You may be able to charge for translations.

This depends on what country you are from, I know a few have too many english speakers, but even then, I would consider that you look into tourism, perhaps you may want to make a website and advertise to English-speakers, this depends on country.

You should look into it and consider checking around for jobs that need english speakers.

I'm 23 M and dropped out of college you have no real problems

leech off of parents for as long as you can
shoot the shit and become a stripper/pornstar
thats what I would be if I had a vagina

>>7391309
I wouldn't. I literally meant that they probably wouldn't last 6 months of any point of my life. Think about it.

>>7391311
I would leave but:
-I still need them to live, have no way to support myself.
-They are the reason I'm at least where I am today. Without them I probably wouldn't make it to my 3rd year of life.
Yeah I'm giving too much information here.

getting yelled at is no reason for killing your self

get some dick OP and fucking get drunk or something.

get the last laugh OP, don't pay them back

She is from Serbia and she bitches here about her stupid life.
Why doesn't she already get a boyfriend and have someone to help her out. I'm feeling she is desperate, plus I think she sounds familiar...

At my college there was this asian high school kid who was really smart and was taking college classes. Well, he came into the cafeteria with a shitload of money, and bought everyone lunch. Then he went to the third floor balcony, which looks right down into the cafeteria, and jumped off the railing. He cracked his skull and spilled his brains all over some kid and he had to be institutionalized.

I had a teacher who says she caught him scoping out the area the night before.

It turns out he was really stressed by his parents always trying to motivate him and push him into success. They were very strict, and probably didn't love him very much.

>>7391405
Haha, Albanian fag here. That sucks. I sorta know how she feels though, over there, there really isn't a system in place where people can get jobs to at least support themselves.

I can't really help op though.

So basically "waaaah, my parents won't continue paying for college because I'm failing".

Every parent does that. I flunked first year and they stopped paying. You have nothing to whine about.

>>7391355
I speak English and German, but not good enough to go into it professionally.
I could try.
And the tourism thing is very good advice. My country lives off it, but only during summer. I'd have, like, 8 months to fill with something else.

>perhaps you may want to make a website and advertise to English-speakers, this depends on country.
Would you care to elaborate, please? I don't know how would I make a website nor what exactly would I offer.
And just to put you even more in perspective, there are many young people with degrees in English who have problems finding jobs.


Also, I'm not going into more detail about where I live, so don't try.

You should tell them the truth, if they care enough to have put you through 3 years, they will rather put you through a 4th, rather than piss the previous 3 away.

They'll be shitty for a while from what it sounds like, but they'll get over it. Then keep in mind, couple more years, and you'll be free. Don't throw the rest of your 70 odd years away for a couple of years suffering.

Best wishes OP, and remember if you ask upstairs for help, you will receive it.

>>7390965

Similar situation as you, except my parents were more manipulative than abusive. There's really only one solution, and it's a universal favourite among brobots.

Instead of using that money from your job to pay for school that won't benefit you, just stay in debt like every other American. Spend the money on a place to live instead, and work as long as you have to to get your independence. Cut your parents out of your life and don't look back.

What does their money matter? You can't finish school with their help anyway, since they don't want to let you do the degree you want to do.

You are in control of your life, no matter what anyone else says. It's not your fault you were born with shitty parents, but if you choose to stay shackled to your them, it's your own fault. Life has dealt you a shitty hand, but you can either play it or let others determine your future for you.

>>7391420
that is every asian parents desire, for their child to be successful up the ass but more so than not these kids motivate themselves not for their parents approval, rather they do it to show themselves they are capable and they can stick up and make a name for themselves =|
I fuckin hate azn kids
//*I'm azn myself

Tell them to give you some god damn respect or shut the hell up. Be fucking assertive.

Either they will put you out on the street, at which point you have to drop out and start living your own life.

Or, they back off a little bit and give you some space.

Seriously. Just straight up curse at them, but not in a OMG BAWWWW I NEED SPACE FUCK YOU MAAM BAWWW. No.

Just straight up sentences with motherfucking periods.

"Shut the fuck up and back off. I'm doing my best and the shit you're giving me doesn't help."

If they start to shout, just hang up. Ignore the phone for a day, and call them back the next day and talk about shit.

>>7391442
Work in the most expensive hotel in the biggest city in thy country.

>>7391420
I don't want to end up like that :(

>>7391446
I feel like throwing up when I think about my college, I really really hate it.
I'm aware, however, that I will most likely finish it or die in the process.
I tried telling them how much I hated it, how it ate me alive... Yeah, not doing that again.

>>7391467
I'm not overreacting here: I tried. I pushed as far as I could and it only harmed me.

>>7391421
Not, you silly Serb fucker!
She is either Croat bitch, which I like...the most, or she's like a bosnian "muslim" girl. Whoa!!!
Talking about family ties in Balkans. Her father won't let her get married before she finishes college...lame.

Oh, I forgot to tell you this:

I think I'm too clumsy to be a waitress.
And I think I don't look good enough.
That doesn't change the fact that I could try.

>>7391526
No normal family ties are like that.
My parents are fucked up because they failed in their own lives and are now trying to live through me.

>>7391508

All I see from you is negativity and whining, OP. You sound like a little bitch who just wants to feed off pity.

You know what's going to happen to you? You're gonna keep making bawww threads looking for pats on the head, and keep doing whatever your parents tell you.

You're choosing to live as a slave. You deserve what you get.

OP, I don't know how abusive your parents are, but you might want to shock them by telling them how much you hate your life and how they ruined it

>>7391508

I feel for you OP. I can't imagine how bad this college must be, but once you have your first degree it's much easier to move along, and perhaps get a 2nd or a postgrad in something you'd like.

Have you looked abroad also? Afaik it's not that hard to get a study loan in the UK if you get accepted in some uni, and they'll have you all year.

Op I would fuck you and make your worries go away.

Just call me.

here is my mail dan@pscifactor.com

>>7391420
My best friend is asian and in university and her mom homeschooled her and made her study 12 hours a day six days a week with no reprieve until she was 17. She's majoring in acting and all they talk about is how she MUST succeed no matter what. She's already suicidal and talking to the therapists at the school but they don't know. I'm super worried about what it's going to be like when she graduates and they realize what an uphill struggle a career in acting can be...

>>7391508
I don't have much to offer you other than my condolences. I also grew up in an abusive home (both of my parents had personality disorders and they have done terrible things to me and my siblings) and also hated college. I'd hug you if I knew you in person. It gets better, I promise.

>>7390978
>I work 10 hours a day, go to class 4 hours a day, and find time to play World of Warcraft about 8 hours a day

>10 + 4 + 8 = 22

>that leaves 2 hours to sleep

what the fuck am i reading

You know, if you really hate college that much you could always NOT FUCKING GO TO COLLEGE YOU DUMB BROAD.

And stop with the self-depricating shit, it's fucking tiring to listen to. You are only excusing yourself from making any attempt at getting a job because "BAWW I'm too stupid/ugly/fat/etc. to do job X".
Man up, pussy.

OP, your college probably has a free counseling center for students. You should consider paying them a visit. They will be far more helpful than the basement misogynists on 4chan.

>>7391619
Thank you.
If I decide against moving out and living on my own (which I am very afraid of, I can't imagine where I'd go) I really hope I'll make it through. The degrees would have little worth and the job I'd do wouldn't be something I want, but it's better than nothing. At least I'd be in a situation to move out.

>>7391626
Thank you.

You can move in with me if you want to be my sex slave

>>7391671
I'll go to a real therapist, I'm currently looking into it.
People in counseling centers never helped. They just felt bad for me and said it would get better.

I think I'll leave now. Thread has slowed down a lot. I'll drop in once or twice to see if anything major was posted, but I apart from that this is it. Thanks to everyone who tried to help, this actually gave me a bit of hope.
Bye.

>>7391526
Wtf does that matter? As an Albanian I can pretty much tell you that Croats, Serbs, Bosnians, Greeks, and pretty much most other countries in the area have very damn similar cultural values.

>>7391756
I wish I could do more than wish you the best.
Believe in yourself, I know you can make it.
If you've made it this far under those circumstances .. if you carve your own path it will only get better.
Keep in mind making use of your languages. It's something to work with, for at least part of the year.. I know you can do it, OP.

Go for it

Would she stand a chance for political immigration? It may be a better idea to just save up for a plane ticket and try and switch to a country that provides support for the poor, ie. germany and the like. So that she can get a foothold, study and grow.

It's also something to consider.. especially keeping the local situation in mind.

Also, OP...
Ask /adv/ they're usually much less misogynic and much faster in terms of responses and it's what the board is for.

blah blah blah. if you're hot, i'll fuck you, if not go die.

Badi smel sinko!

Ypu've managed to live this long. You've gathered more strength in staying alive than most. It's terrible you had to grow up that way.. and you must feel like you're at the brink of existance. Yet that resilience that kept you alive this long will help you through whatever it is you choose to do in the future. Once your parents are out of the equation.. sooner or later and you choose to make a life for yourself. Once you're under your own rule, without that pressure. I'm not sure there's much that could stop you anymore. You can do it. Don't give up. Move forward and it will be better.. sooner or later. It will be better one day.

You may have better luck here:
boards.4chan.org/adv/
Or just click /adv/ at the top.

Best of luck

>>7391789
Would you fuck a Serb?

FUCK OFF ROBOT

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really guys? fucking really? DSGHSKA

>>7391940
I'd fuck any girl with a decent brain and a good body/face whether they are asian/black/white/latino...I don't give a damn.

/r9k/ really has gone downhill..
Nobody even pointed her in the direction of /adv/ and aside from the trolling and rage (a few gentlemen aside) even /b/ bay have been friendlier.

wat?

Jesus goddamned tittyfucking shitcock niggertits Christ, OP.

NOBODY'S GONNA FUCKING TRACK YOU DOWN AND RAPE YOU, OR WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU'RE SCARED OF!

Let's go through some fucking shit, aight, homes?

1) Your life sucks. Cool, broski, got it. Stop being a little self-pitying bitch about it, "Oh, woe is me, nobody noes the trouble I seen..." Yeah. We fucking do. Lots of fucking people have had and currently have fucked up, shitty, horrible goddamned lives. You don't gain one fucking iota of respect saying, "You wouldn't survive three months in my shoes. You would literally die ;_;" All it fucking does is piss people off, and make nobody want to fucking help you. Why? Because it's fucking retarded and absurd.

Get the fuck over yourself. Yeah, trouble, problems, and stress are all relative - what makes me suicidal might be something you'd laugh off, and vice versa. But stop fucking thinking that NOBODY COULD EVER HANDLE WHAT I'M HANDLING!! All it fucking does is piss everyone off, and it's a fucking counter-productive as hell attitude. So just fucking STOP, m'kay?

2) You DO fucking have options. Option one - MOVE THE FUCK OUT, option two - tell your parents to BACK THE FUCK OFF, option three - Suck it the fuck up and deal.

3) You don't like your goddamned college? It's draining your personal financial resources, stressing you, and for a degree you don't want and won't be able to use? DROP THE FUCK OUT. Go to a different college. Or use the money saved to finance different living arrangements.

>>7392102
You are being mean.

>>7392102

con't

4) Jesus holy fucking Christ, MOVE THE FUCK AWAY FROM HOME. You're 21 goddamned years old. Unless there's some fucking stupid Shariah laws in effect in whatever Bumfuckistan country you're in (Which we can't fucking look into and tell you, because you're being a retarded, self-absorbed cunt), THEY CAN'T DO A MOTHERFUCKING THING ABOUT IT, AND IF THEY TRY YOU CAN CALL THE FUCKING POLICE.

5) DROP THE FUCK OUT. You hate your college. You hate your major. So does, apparently, every prospective employer in your area (Which, again, we can't offer region-specific advice on, because you're being a retarded, self-absorbed little shitcunt). The mere thought of going to school tomorrow makes you physically ill. You can't afford what you're paying for yourself, and the money your parents are giving you for it is given under confidence that you've broken and lied about because of dislike of the major/school, and an inability to pass classes (Not saying this is or isn't your fault, just stating the facts, as we understand them).

In summary: College just ain't fucking working for you right now, this way. So drop the fuck out. Use the extra money you now have to move. The extra time to find a new/extra job. The extra happiness to not fucking paint the wall with your brains.

You fucking have options. Stop fucking saying you don't. What makes your options feel impossible is YOUR fucking lack of motivation, and YOUR fucking fear of change.

>>7390965
Fuck off and die. You're weak.

>>7392118

Con't

Stop being a little bitch, man the fuck up, and take control of your fucking life, as much as you are legally allowed to as a woman in your shithole country (Which, just to recap, we can't fucking offer advice on, because you're being fucking retarded.). YOU HAVE THE POWER TO IMPROVE YOUR OWN LIFE, RIGHT THERE IN YOUR FUCKING HANDS, USE IT.

Jesus fucking Christ.

But, no, you're probably going to read this and get all defensive and curl up into a ball and BAWWW at how hard life is and how you can't do anything to change it, and how everyone's so mean, like you're some fucking 13-year-old kid.

Grow the fuck up. Stop being fucking WEAK.

inb4 getting dismissed right off the bat as a troll or a woman-hater.

>>7392113

Fuck you. I'm being direct and not sugar-coating shit.

The above is the advice she needs to fucking follow. It's the same advice, the same GOOD advice, that everyone else in the thread has been giving her, that she won't take with the nice, fuzzy, padded and rounded edges that everyone else is presenting it to her with.

>>7392118
>>7392102

this. brobotblox

>>7392151
nasmeja me vala ovaj engleski govnar.

>>7392118

this bears repeating blox

>You fucking have options. Stop fucking saying you don't. What makes your options feel impossible is YOUR fucking lack of motivation, and YOUR fucking fear of change.

>YOUR lack of motivation
>YOUR fear of change

>>7391442
You are being unnecessarily cautious and it is preventing you from getting better advice.

Relax a bit. If you are not going to share what area of the world you are from that contains millions of people, okay, I understand.

You speak English well enough. I am really critical of foreign speakers. I will tell you that it is your very best bet to look into the tourism industry. You can google how to set these things up on your own, but I can tell you, if you advertised online for English speaking tourists and advertised as a translator, you can make money. I have a property in Colombia, I had to make sure that I had a clear title on it, so I had to go to a government office where no one was good with English. I brought my cab driver with me who is fluent and he handled all of the transactions for me and helped me with the forms etc. I gave him $20, so he made in an hour what most people here make in three days.

I am an American, currently I am in Colombia. The hourly wage here is about $1/hr. However, Americans will tip very well and it ends up becoming a lot of money.

You'll need to do your own research and you could look at local tourist agencies and work for them, learn the business, and then set up your own online. You would get to write for the online part and it would be a pretty good deal.

I really wish you all the best and I think this is an avenue where you will find success. And if you really want to change your life, you could consider dating a man outside the country and see if there is a real and worthwhile connection.

But English might be your very best bet. Depends on your country.

>As soon as I start working I'll have to give half of my salary each month to them until I pay out everything they've ever spent on me.

WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS BULLSHIT
THEY WANTED YOU, THEY MADE YOU, IT WASN'T YOUR CHOICE AND THEY MAKE YOU PAY FOR IT???
I'M RAGING 10/10 IF THIS ISN'T A TROLL

OP was just looking for feelies. He (she?) was just looking for some sympathy, while ignoring advice on how actually make the problems go away.

It brought a smile to my face. They're going to keep suffering because they're weak and won't face reality.

>>7392204
Unfortunately I have a friend whoms' mother is the same way.

>>7392233

If this is the case, OP fails not just at life, but at sympathy threads, too.

If she qualifies for asylum in germany she may have an easier start in life

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>>7392102

I really, really hate being this mean to someone, especially someone who's suicidal or borderline.

But holy fuck. EVERYONE is giving this advice. It's good advice. Just stop the damned pity party and listen to it.

OK girl, I have some steps that you should follow.
first, you have to stop caring about your parents.
then you have to put it in perspective:
you are considering killing yourself because you can't finish school at the moment because you need a job.

then think about it logically:
Will something terrible happen to me if i don't finish?
You may say yes, but really, what are your parents going to do?
they can't hit you anymore.
they really can't do anything.
are you going to lose all your friends?
no.
Will your parents stop giving you money?
maybe. But they shouldn't be giving you money anyways.
you're in college. It's time to grow up.

I was in the exact position you are now a few months ago.

always try to sleep the despair off.

I heard a Balkans joke from my History professor. It's about Balkans politicians.

The Bulgarian leaders invite the Romanian leaders over for a very fancy dinner, with great food, the best pork, and all that stuff.
Well, at the dinner, one of the Bulgarian politicians is having trouble cutting his pork.
One of the Romanian politicians says to him "Use the knife, use the knife."
The Bulgarian politician responds "On who? On who?"

>>7392102
:)
Your rant made me feel better. I believe I read it the way you meant it.
Just want you, and everyone else, to understand that I'm not bawwing or doing any shit like that, read my replies to people and you'll see.
I'm taking in your advice and of course I need time to think about everything, I can't change my life in one night.

Yes, moving out really scares me, I can't just pack my things and leave. Also, I can't just leave my college. I can do Nothing without it, fucking realize it already.

>>7392201
I said I was in Balkan. I think you can get a pretty good perspective from that.
And that "I'm not going into more detail about where I live, so don't try." was directed at people guessing whether I was from Serbia or Albania, not you.
I'll see what I might do about foreign languages, but it feels like tapping in the dark.

>>7392328
>But they shouldn't be giving you money anyways.
>you're in college. It's time to grow up.

Um, no.
Being in college and working to pay for it is not something you simply say "Well, ok, if I have to" here.

And It's Croatia. I'm from Croatia. Let me see you do your magic now, r9k, when it apparently means so much.

>>7390965

>they wont let me move out

Do it anyway. Problem solved.

>As far as they know I'm a successful third-year college student and still they flip out on me for absolutely no reason - they yell at me, swear, threaten I must have all A's. If they found out I flunked a year, they'd kill me.

Seriously, why didn't you get out your college? Your abuse only lasts until you do something radical about it.

>>7392512
Because I have nowhere to go? Because I... read the thread.

>>7392482

What you need is some goddamned Courage Wolf.

OP, you're Anonymous, the chances of someone you know reading this are really slim, and even then what are they going to do?

Do you have anyone IRL you can confide in? If not, you might look into getting a social worker at your local department. They usually help out kids from shitty families but I know there's adult support, too. They might be able to help you through with finding an education you actually want, and / or a job so you can move out (which you really need to!)

Don't let your parents get to you. You are not them, you're not your past. You can change this any time you want.

>>7392583
Thanks.
What could a social worker do? Not much good, I think.
I have no one to confide in. Looking into going to a therapist, though

1. Don't kill yourself
2. I think you should take a few years off college to be honest. Join the military,peace corps, whatever, just take a break.
3. When you are ready begin to go to school again. I said military earlier to you could take advantage of the GI bill.
4. Your parents obviously don't care about you. Stop caring about them.
5. Make friends, I'm sure you can

Don't be scared to fight against your situation. You are alot stronger than you think you are.

>>7392650
I don't want to have anything to do with the military :(
It's legit advice, though, I'll keep it somewhere in my mind but it's definitely not something I'd want.
Also, I can't afford taking a year off nor could I pull it off with my parents

>>7390965
>21 years old, female. Abusive parents.

Stopped reading here. Cry more bitch.

You're 21, legally you can move out and they can do nothing.

Your main problem is getting accommodation, just look into it.
Pack up all your shit without them knowing, or hire a moving van when they don't know.
Take all your crap. And leave.

>>7390978
Unfortunatly superman, some people have to do other things inbetween 22 hours of work, games and education. Like, sleeping for more than 2 hours.

>>7392718
Also steal things.

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>>7392749
A year from now you'd have a "Hole Troll 2" thread.

>female
>automatic 100 posts even though the original post is garbage

you people are making this board shit, and i fucking hate you.

>>7390965
You don't have to give them any of your salary.

Get away from parents, dissapear, somewhere where u can't be found, change your name, find job

forget shit (most difficult)
???
new life?

it will be hard, but dis what do

>>7392780

>Waaah! I hate women and nobody pays attention to me!

Fuck off, loser.

Off to bed.

>>7391420

Holy shit, this is an awesome story.

>>7392571
Samefag from before. Well, you don't have a job (technically you do, but can't keep the money) and you spend all you savings paying a college that will going to give you nothing good (styding something you hate leads to doing something else when you graduate). So just kick your college, and if your parents bitch very much about it, even if you tell 'em your reasons, move away. If you drop college, you can keep your economies, thus you can rent somewhere cheap to live or if you have any friend that live alone ou live with roomies, ask to share a room until you find something better. I believe you're being just too much careful to change things, and being that way, it's kinda comprehensible why you parents abuse you so much: you probably been the fully obedient daughter you whole life. You're still very young to study, I've seen people attending colleges with 29 years old with no shame about it, so don't be afraid to begin a new graduation.

>>7392853

Cool story bro.

sagebombblox

I seriously can't comprehend why you think you have to do what your parents say. You aren't explaining fully, you just insist that you 'JUST CANT' without telling us why. It's bullshit, they have no legal financial control over you, you physically can move out. Yeah, they might be angry, who cares. Either deal with us insisting you CAN do whatever the fuck you want, or tell us why you actually can't.

If you can't afford it, drop out of college and work more instead.

>>7392882
There's a good chance this thread will still be up tomorrow, so here's my failproof solution for you:

Using the internets, find yourself a boyfriend in a more prosperous country in the EU. Assuming you're not hideously ugly (which very few people under 30 are, really), it should be relatively easy - and if you're willing to lie and just *act* like you love your new boyfriend, then shit's just going to be a cakewalk. (That is if the lying doesn't drive you insane or make you hate yourself).


Get married, leave country.


Also, while I haven't heard you speak, you certainly write english perfectly well.

I'm pissed at all the people bitching at OP.

#1. Balkans is not a nice place
#2. College is not reputable, I'm guessing this is the equivalent of a shitty school that doesn't have accreditation in the US. Read: Joe's College of Stuff. If your folks were forcing you to go to Joe's College of Stuff, you'd be pissed too.
#3. Very high unemployment, means that jobs may not be available.

So then what do?

Here's my thoughts:
- Might as well let the folks know that you're out a year, they'll pay for a fith if they're willing to pay for four.
- Parent pacification strategies should be employed. Figuring out other things that they want should be high priority.
- If they're paying for your college, the worst case scenario is that you still can't find a job, so you're not really moving up or down in the world.
- If they won't let you move out without being married, time to start hunting up a boyfriend. Aim for somebody who's going somewhere - maybe you can try and bum around another college that's slightly more reputable?

Reported. Take it to /adv/. Seriously.

>>7393012
Reported for what?

The OP brought us a pretty interesting and complicated situation, does it belong on /adv/ yeah, yeah it does.

But that's like saying music belongs on mu, news belongs on new, and that there is a place for everything--

It's true. But this board is designed to be every topic. Mediated by a robot that filters out unoriginality. Does it work, not really, but this has been a fresh conversation for me and I got to have a fun little what if exercise.

Ignore threads you don't like. It's really that easy. It's less clicking. It's less hassle. It's good.

>>7391453
This. I will NEVER understand people who hate their parents and yet allow themselves to be shackled to them.

And as for repaying debt to your parents... WHAT? Unless your parents had you sign a legally binding document in which you promised to pay back the cash, there is no reason for you to pay them shit.

Move out and live in debt if you have to: I know it sounds scary to any kid who's spent their whole life in middle class comfort, but you will manage.

>>7393083
As a very honest, non critical, non judgmental question, how old are you?