My Father was in the Military and we moved every 2 or 3 years. I've lived in 8 different states I never really had any friends throughout the first 18 years of my life.

Nothing against my Dad though, He's a great father figure and probably the best friend I've ever had.

>>6791067
I can definitely relate there, my father is the closest real friend I've ever really had. It's quite depressing when I think about it.

Have a popular twin brother. He's 5'11 I'm 5'6. He's attractive I'm not.

Growing up we shared the same friends(which were his). I was always the weekest link and never really liked. I was kept around just for amusement.

Dad never talked to me.
Mother mothered me.

I pretty much turned into a faggot, but an unattractive fat faggot.
Depression kicked in, the only thing I was good at (academics) went down the drain due to my depression.

Lost weight, gained confidence, got high paying job. Now I'm happy.

>>6791091

ouch @ hanging out with your brothers friends :(
ouch

I'm not very weird, I'm fairly handsome, and I have pretty good relationships with people. I am unhappy however because I always desire more than I have. I want to be better with women, I want to be the leader of my friends, I want to have more friends, I want to be seen as the best. It fucks me up. It's why I was the president of every single activity in high school, It's why I stressed about what to say to people as I passed them in the hallway, it's why I'm never satisfied, even though I am better off than ninety percent of the people I know.

>>6791091
We are both 20 now. Back in the day, his friends and I admired CKY and Jackass.

Everybody in our group pretended to be somebody. We would make stupid skit videos just like Jackass. My brother was a Bam Margera type figure, and I was Ehren McGhehey OR Preston Lacy.

Everybody in our group was 5'10 and taller except me. I was always treated like a little brother in a bad way.

This pretty much fucked me up. I ran away from that live and now I sit in my room alone by myself with 0 friends. My brother still hangs out with that group, in fact they're friends for life.

Everybody goes to college except me. I guess nice guys always finish last.

I am excessively obese (400lbs ish), but I have lost like 100lbs in the last year...

Although I have kissed some girls (and I don't mean a friend kiss) and had chances to get laid so no one has an excuse really.

However I got into a self destructive pattern with one girl who I wanted to get with, but didnt ask because I didnt know whether she wanted me. So I kept my distance which resulted in me getting depressed and friendzoned. Eventually I fucking manned up and asked, got the "like you only as a friend" reply I expected so I got the fuck out of there like a man should.

Got my answer, losing weight..

Feels good man

>>6791137
There's nothing wrong with wanting better. Aim high. Always aim high.

>>6791144
>>6791103
Does losing weight really change a lot of problems in life?

>>6791027
Oh please, can you try a bit harder at least?

>>6791176
Only if you have an attractive face.

I was raised by my grandfather in the forest and taught the ways of the ninja.

They killed my grandpa, but I got my revenge.

Now I work at chinese restaurant. Everyone treat me like shit. Oneday I be king of ninja.

Acne bro, I had a ton of friends and was quite popular in middle school but it got worse and worse and no one wants to hang out with me now so I just drink by myself and waste my life away at uni staying in my room. Feels bad man

protip: being fat isn't why you were alienated (in high school at least). unless you were seriously massively 500 pounds disgusting, it's the way you see yourself because you're fat. and the depression and all that.

>>6791208

and when I say acne I mean full on cystic shit and not the kind where people shit themselves over one little spot. Then again, my life could be way worse

>>6791208
i've seen people with more acne than actual skin tone who have plenty of friends. it's not acne.

Well, I was a normal social girl until puberty where all the girls I knew turned into gorgeous creatures and I turned into a troll. People stopped wanting anything to do with me, so I stayed inside on the computer all day and avoided talking to people at school.
Sucked horribly at school, barely passed most of my classes, and can't get into college now.
Now I live in my mother's basement, she rented out the upstairs to some of her friends and I spend my days on 4chan.
I fucked up at my last job and can't find another one. My bank calls every day for money and also, credit card debt 'cause I had the idea that I'd spend all my money, then suicide. But then a guy actually asked me out, then ditched me after we had sex.
So... depressed, broke, ugly, lonely, stupid and too scared to suicide :/

>>6791209
Don't tell me that when you see a fat guy that you automatically in your head take him less seriously than other people. I don't know if you've ever been 250+ lbs but when you are up there, then there's the whole psychological "girls think I'm hideous and repulsive" and "guys think I'm a joke and don't want to be friends with me".

>>6791247
YOU SOUND PERFECT TO RAPE

>>6791176

All of my "shitty life" problems are because I don't take chances because I'm such a fatass and don't like being "seen". I've lost a lot and started getting some interest from the girls (even some pretty hot ones - which is weird cos I don't understand how/why they'd want me). It boosts my confidence which means I'll do more things.

It all depends whether you have the willpower to change your life for the better and solve the problems. I know most of mine are because of this weight and I'm finally doing something about it. Hard word but should have done it a LONG time ago.

Look at why your life sucks. Identify what you can do to improve it and fucking DO IT. No excuses, just do it.

>>6791247
What did you buy? Doritos and anime figures?

I'm a skinny guy. I've got an ugly jacked up face.

Clearly this is all your fault for being fat.

>>6791262
internet time at gaming place, going to movies, and shit on ebay

fuck doritos they're nasty.

>>6791242

I do have some friends its just whenever I meet new people I keep thinking they see me as some kind of freak and I get all quiet and just want to be by myself and away from everyone else. Shit sucks :( but I need to stop feeling sorry for myself and get over it I guess

I'm older. I used to have friends and no problems getting girls. I moved away from all of that seeking "adventure" and am now stuck in a city with no connection to anyone. I work, then go home. That is it.

repeated abandonment and an inferiority complex

>>6791027
I don't talk.
I mean, I'm not mute, obviously, but I just hardly ever talk. Or make noise at all. Even when I laugh, or sneeze even, it's silent.

People don't like that, so I was alone pretty much 24/7 during high school. I got used to it, though, so I didn't really mind. Still don't, I think.

I'm a shut-in, now, but I don't really care. The only reason I haven't committed suicide is because I can't be bothered.

>>6791176

I like to think so. I met my current boyfriend in high school, but we didn't hook up until we were both 21, so roughly 3 years after. He was a really sloppy guy, always had long hair, that looked terrible, he also weighed around 300lb. He graduated at that weight, and still looked sloppy as ever.

I didn't see him again until he added me on facebook. He lost a TON of weight, but was still chubby, around the 190 mark he told me. We have a pretty decent art show down here in the Summer, and he threw that he was going down there as his status, and I offered to meet him. HOLY SHIT, he changed. He looked different in photos and stuff, but in real life he just carried himself differently than I ever thought he would. He wasn't even THAT chubby at 190. He was genuinely funny, which is pretty easy at an art show, both of us have no understanding of "high art."

I FB stalked him furiously and met him pretty much wherever he went, and he eventually asked me out for an actual date, and we've been together for a little over a year.

I'm sure weight loss can't solve ALL of you problems, but positive body image can go a long way. Maybe it could be the stepping stone into making your life genuinely better. :)

I like doing my own things more than social activities
I used to have an enormous group of friends and a different girl every month. But I was always uncomfortable around people and just wanted to be left the fuck alone
When I hit 16 and we all left school (Britfag) I was finally out of forced social contact apart from the people at college who were just as antisocial as me

Now I'm 18, at uni and I spend my evenings gaming, watching movies, building and programming small robots (very basic stage atm), game modding, animating, whole bunch of crap I love to do on my own

>>6791334
pics or this is a fucking lie

If OP was a winner you might have picked up proper grammar. You didn't. You fail. Please kill yourself..

>>6791027

I'm you. I'm 21 now. But I'm applying to college... maybe I can claw my way back to normalcy. Wish me luck.

Back in High School I got very depressed. And everyone would give me shit about the way I looked. It didn't "feel" like THAT got me down.
I just did as was often advised; ignored it. But then I basically ignored everyone, because it seemed like everyone (but my small circle of friends) picked on me.

Those friend dropped out or played sports or whatever, I started spending time alone. I went from just shy to almost completely socially inept.

I find it very hard to develop and maintain new friendships.

I guess it started with my father. Me, him, and my mom could have been a normal family. In fact, some of my earliest memories with the three of us together are pretty happy. But then, suddenly, for reasons still unknown to me, my father goes on a crime spree, robbing atms, and eventually shooting a police officer during a standoff. Shortly after his arrest, my mom pawns me off to my grandma. She raises me just okay I think. With her I'm somewhat sheltered from the real world. Mom weaves in and out of my life. Tries to take care of me again around 7 years of age. I get sick (I'm a diabetic) and it's back to grandma. Skip a few more years, Mom comes back I go live with her. I get sick again, but this time it's to a foster home, not grandma. Oddly enough, my year in that foster home was the best of my life. After it, I'm back with mom. She treats me like a slave and I feel worthless. I try to an hero. Back to grandma again and at this point I'm at high school age. I'm still depressed and I have trouble adjusting, so I skip school and grandma doesn't care. Eventually, I drop out and isolate myself for about five years. With very limited social interaction for all that time sometimes just ordering food is difficult. I'll probably live with my grandma until she dies. No mom to skip back to, since she died a few years ago. Shit sucks.

>>6791103
dude that is my life story minus the high paying job part. what did you do to turn yourself around?

>>6791248

This is very true for the girls bit. I don't think any girls ever want me because I'm such a fat blob.

Don't give a shit about the opinions of the guys. I can make guy friends easily enough.

I just took the torch from my father.
He was 32, a virgin and the head manager of a large metal processing facility. I don't know how, but my mother found him, married him, grew to hate him for being the typical spineless nice guy, drew him to alcoholism, cheated on him and here I am.
Honestly, I even in kindergarten the other kids hated and shunned me.

I was never that good at making friends and once I went to a different school I lost the former ones and never made any new ones.

SELF PITY IS A CITY AND THE POPULATION IS YOU

My friends started drinking and I didnt.

Still hung out with them at school, but instead of going to each others house to play some PlayStation or whatever, they started going out drinking, which I wasnt into.

Then they started meeting girls while they were out (all boys school) and I was stuck in my room fapping to /s/.

Im not really mad at the, or anything, because they always invite me out, but I hate the smell of alcohol and being around drink people.

I think Id do better if I found a good friend who also didnt drink, but being 19 now at a liberal University, my odds are pretty damned low.

Because I did it to myself.

>>6791749
Not liking to drink is totally not a bro thing. Drinking is fucking awesome, you pussy.

>>6791334

This just made me feel butthurt. I went from 260 to 170, got muscle, all that jazz and had a positive body image for a few months, but people were still making comments about how ugly I am. That and lack of any success with women destroyed what little self-esteem I was able to rebuild at that point. I think I'm just genuinely an inferior and flawed person with no redeeming features. And believe me, i've looked for them. I've even asked other people and the only thing they could name was "you're nice".

>>6791789
>you're nice
>you're nice
>you're nice

I..I've heard that way too many times. I have a feeling a lot of us have.

Definitely a downward slide after highschool. I seem to be incapable of making friends (except the ones I had in hs apparently). Barely had any friends in college, definitely did not date anyone. Took a year off to work and didnt make any friends there. Now Im back in college but graduating soon. Not looking forward to entering the big bad real world and living life alone...

>>6791749
>liberal university
Religious right-wing young men who are aspiring lawyers and bankers make the best friends. Really.

>>6791714

My life is wasted anyway, so I'm just living out the time. I'll kill myself when I get bored of what distractions are available. Self-pity hasn't gotten old yet, so why not engage in that?

>>6791777

Id much rather sit in my room for the next 5 years than go out one night drinking with a douchebag like you

>>6791831
SELF PITY IS THE MOST SELFISH THING YOU CAN DO. GET OVER YOURSELF AND GET OUT THERE AND DO SHIT.

Was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and probably a bunch of other shit while I was a kid. Anybody who looks at my medical records while I was in the public school system would think I'm batshit crazy. I honestly should have just stopped talking to shrinks years ago, but thank god I finally managed to start avoiding them in my senior year of high school, otherwise I would be a lot worse off than I am now. I tried to join the military this year, but they don't want anything to do with me because my medical record looks like shit. I'm 20 years old, and I've never had a job. I have this hair brained plan in my head to join the French Foreign Legion and maybe get a fresh start, but I know that's probably not gonna happen because of my own apathy.

Also my older brother raped me several times when I was a little kid. I've never told this to anybody IRL except my parents (it was summer in South Carolina and my mom made me stay in her car for 3 hours as punishment for lying).

>>6791818

I cant tell if that is sarcasm or not, but either way I dont get it...

>>6791789

Well, you lost 90 fucking pounds, improved your health incredibly, you can write and read at an adequate grade level.

Fuck man. Get a good job and fuck a prostitute.

:-) Also, there is more in earth and heaven than aesthetic beauty.

>>6791789
Yeah it's pretty disappointing. Loosing weight really only made me realize how ugly I am. Instead of feeling like a fat piece of shit, I feel like a skinny ugly fuck.

Fuck my parents for being so ugly. They only had me because they were middle aged and lonely. They lowered their standards and fucked each-other.

That is why I exist.

>>6791846

I get out there and do shit almost every day. For example, I spent today browsing the catalogues of the new library that just opened in my city. I do plan to stay indoors tomorrow because there's a huge blizzard outside.

>>6791814

Well, I've determined that the reason I'm nice is really just because I'm afraid of being abandoned. Whenever I don't suck up to everyone, people tend to just turn around and walk away and I'm just tired of being alone all the time. I've been alone for three years and by now I'd rather be the group's little bitch than isolated.

>>6791890
are you using a rope for a belt?

>>6791890

You look pretty fucking normal, from what I can see in that pic. You just think you're ugly. God, I hate people like you. See, me, I'm genuinely ugly. I have incurable inherited keratosis that fucks up my skin and body hair AND my face is so ugly people sometimes make it a point how it pisses them off to just look at it. You? You just think you're ugly because you haven't had any luck with women. I bet you're just average.

>>6791915
It's a braided belt man

>>6791891
You don't look inherently ugly. Maybe it's just how you carry yourself, like you give off that "I'm okay to bully and make fun of" pheromone. Seriously, I can fucking smell/see that shit from a mile away irl.


>>6791832

I don't often drink, but when I do....
<------This is me, except I'm younger.

Not everyone that drinks is a 'brosef'.
It's a social thing. You would need to try it.

I'm a "loser" by choice, I fucking hate all the people I meet. I'm really attractive though, I could have fucked one chick from every one of my classes this semester but I didn't because they were fucking boring people.

>>6791934

When I read that and realized how incoherent it was, and how I misquoted my posts, I felt so terrible.

I apologize, gents.

>>6791947

I could have fucked any one of 3 billion girls, lulz cuz I have penzor and I can strongarm most bitches to the ground...but I didnt't, because...

THEY ARENT INTERESTING ENOUGH.

>>6791934

I cant stand the smell of alcohol aswell.

The ONE time I went out with them was to be their sober driver, and one of them bought me a glass of juice as a 'thank you'. I took a sip and then the all started to laugh and were like "Ha! There was vodka in that" as if they were expecting me to run to the bathroom and brush my teeth or something.

So it's not like I think alcohol is evil and that I can never be around it, I just prefer not to, and if that makes me a loser, then so be it. Im not depressed about it or anything, but it would be nice if I found a good friend who was more like me in this regard.

>>6791890
What kind of man wipes his ass with baby wipes?

I read about how socially awkward people were on the Internet and it made me socially awkward, well I was always socially awkward but that helped. My friends were boring too so I'd rather play videogames alone than hang out with them.

>>6791247

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>>6792024

Hemorrhoids are a bitch. You wouldn't know.

>>6791962
Too bad your gender rates dateability on looks only, eh? ;)

>>6792058

Duuuudddeeee. I'm a dude and was making sarcasm.

??? 0-0 ???

>>6792121
Ok, then what was your point?

>>6792058
Fuck you. Women are fucking scum. They play games with men and are selfish whores. I will rate women on looks for as long as I fucking live.

Ugly fat ones = get a blowjob
Attractive ones = give love sex and protection

>>6792180
You really thought anything I said would change anything? Of course nothing will ever change :|

>>6792195

Who cares?

Girls value is represented by how healthy she is.
Hot body= she can give me healthy kids.


Guys value is represented by how healthy AND successful he is. A guy can make up for being unhealthy(genetically) by being a provider/awesome.

Guys want their kids to be healthy, so they look for a good incubator.

Women want their kids to be awesome, so they look for good cum.

I was never bought into fads as a kid, I never had the trading cards or any of that cool shit which socialising revolved around in the playground in primary school, I didn't even play football, I just sat around and read books. I had few friends, and as a consequence was deemed unattractive by my 6 year old female peers, as the social mirror is all they have to go on pre-puberty. No kiss chase for me.

This pattern continued into secondary school. I joined a school pretty far away from where I lived since the only other choice was one of the most violent all-boys schools in the county, so I didn't know anybody, and everybody else knew everybody, I was the odd one out, and this time there was teasing, which accelerated into getting smacked around by school bullies because of my social isolation and the rediculous metalfag hair I had accumulated (nobody made me cut it, it had become a matter of principle to grow it out more when people started insulting it). I always just did what I was told to do by the powers at be, I wanted to be a good kid, I went and I told the teachers, who didn't do anything. Once again I was not involved in any of the fads, I did not care about sports or hip-hop, I could not find enough interesting points about breasts as for them to be a topic that would sustain a conversation for two hours. I was bored.

>>6792236
What does that leave us chubby less attractive girls? :[

blox? wut

By this point I was quite disenchanted by the idea of an education and decided I'd be alot happier staying at home more, so I did, by age 14 I wasn't attending school at all. They sent angry letters to my mother, saying they would put her in prison, my mother got angry at me, and I didn't care because I knew it was bullshit (turned out it was). Nonetheless my mother went to every effort to ensure that I would be stagnant if I was not to be conventionally educated. She tried to take away all access to the internet, my games, any little thing that brought me joy, even food, I reached anorexic weights at points. We would frequently argue about all this, and living in a block of flats, people hear things, and they all side with my mother on an emotional basis ofcourse, further isolating me from my local community and that hot neighbor girl who actually might of liked me otherwise.

It's also probably worth noting that my father committed suicide when I was 3 or 4, leaving my mother emotionally distant. A situation that left me with nobody to teach me how to be a man and ending up with no idea how to interact with people at all.

I'm guessing this applies to alot of you. Shit's fucked.

>>6792236
>Who cares?

>Fuck you. I will rate women on looks for as long as I fucking live

You care, apparently.

Just am, I've always been a huge loser from the first day of being alive.

>>6792263
It's simple. We're the last resorts, those job fillers, those nanny's, the cat ladies.

Otherwise, we kill ourselves and we're worm food.

I've always lived far away from everyone else. During highschool. At the uni. I live in a shitty little town and have been too lazy to get off my ass and move out.

>>6792248
>>6792264

How analytical. Enjoy your assburgers lol.

>>6792263
Left for the niggers to sort out.

>>6792263
>>6792276

LOL. You do realize girls, that any woman can get a man?

It is so hard to get a GOOD man that women (attractive ones unlike you) will wait wait wait for the right one/ fight off unfit ones, so there ARE TONS (the majority) of men (ALL OF r9k) who would instantly settle for your fat ass if you popped out kids and made sammiches, just because it is 10x harder for men to get a mate.

You have no right to complain.

>>6792354
lulz, so we be a 50's housewife, throw away all our freedom and feed your fatass sammichs for the rest of our lives?

I'd rather be a cat lady.

>>6792403

Cats are disgusting.

>>6792403
Cats suck. When I grow old, I will be a old man and his dog. Just like in Gran Torino. I'll be a good ol' boy sittin on my porch drinkin a red stripe cleanin my rifle.

and I'm from NY.

>>6792403

Lol. Don't you understand that's what it takes to reproduce and continue on your genes (I dont give a shit).

Go be a fucking cat lady for all anyone cares. Fact is bitches get food and shelter from the guys, and its their job to cook it and clean it.

Don't hate the player, hate the game.

>>6792263

You can still pull it off. My current gf is a bit chubby, she really tries to lose weight, but just loses it incredibly slow, she's not a whale by any means. Cute face though. :)

I probably a bit older than most of the people who post on here, I'm 26. Women I've dated before, especially the quality of girls I chased when I was like 18-23, ended up breaking up with me in the worst fucking ways. AND I KEPT CHASING GIRLS LIKE THAT. Shit left me scarred and with really shitty trust issues that probably caused me to treat girls from then on unfairly, thus ruining any chance I had for a good relationship for a good couple of years. They were all batshit crazy anyway, and refused to grow up from stuff they all did in high school.

I'd settle for a less attractive chubby chick who is cool with just hanging around the house all day and the odd dinner/movie here and there, rather than ever deal with that again.

But those LOLRONERYALLWOMENSUCK threads would lead you to believe that right now, as a female, you should be stuffed with cock.

>>6792466
>>6792435
It's not important that you like them.
Crazy cat LADY.

>>6792469
And someone with my looks, what would I have to do for you for you to bear my children? You'd do it free of charge with an ugly chick? RLY?