Loneliness doesn't exist, and I should know as I spend most of my time alone. Nope, the problem you have is seperate and is colloquial known as being a massive faggot.

What you're really trying to believe is that you are better than everyone else in every way. You are the ultimate being, stop denying your true right and start living proving it to yourself.

tldr; start your own ecommerce buisness

In like 2 hours, my gf will come home from work, we will have dinner. Afterwards we'll watch some TV together and finally go to bed where we'll sleep all cuddled up. Feels heavenly, man.

Tomorrow I'm gonna get shitfaced a a friends birthday party.

Now tell me, how does this crippling loneliness feel? I don't know it honestly.

>>6138967
>>I can't accept others for the way they are mainly because I can't accept myself in many ways.

Got it in one.

Youre like a more exaggerated version of what I used to be like. Life is pointless. As soon as you realise this and are able to laugh at it the sooner you will be happy.

Go out and be PART of something. Have a shared interest and a shared sense of future with someone, ideally a group of people. Go to a yoga class (real yoga class tho not just a buttfirming yoga/pilates/nu age class). Be with people who are trying to improve their life and supporting each in it.

This of it like AA. You have a habit. A habit of thinking a certain way. If you can break that habit, youre laughing. And you can break it, just the same way you got into it.

commencing positive image dump

protip: take ecstasy once every 3 months for a year,
do it with friends, somewhere safe and comfortable and have a mix of people- some on e and some not.

feels good man.
entheogenic treatment

also get some sunshine dammit... amazing what that shit can do for your mood

Ok, so a lot of my positive images aren`t original...

>>6139151
>Have a shared interest
This is my problem. I have no real interests aside from porn and vidya. Every interest I have faked for the purpose of trying to meet more people ended up making me feel even worse afterward, because I felt emptier after trying yet gaining nothing. There are no social interests or hobbies I enjoy because I simply can't stand most people.

>>6139227
If I had friends, I definitely would.

>>6139256

that advice coming from a rainbow raver?

hahablox

what you need, is to change your view o the world. when you do that, the way the world appears and what seems possible will change

I'll never understand loneliness.

I've been pretty much completely alone for my entire life. I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even had a female friend. I can't connect with my friends on any kind of level. I don't speak to my family.

But it doesn't bother me. Even a little bit. I'm not happy, but I'm not anything else either. I'm completely fine with this. So I just kinda stumble through my life in this way.

>>6139343
thats not me, but i love their over the top positiveness... just dripping with light... exuding love...

>>6138967

OH MY GOD

You are like me in like EVERY SINGLE POINT you mentioned.

>>6139339
one word: psytrance
type psytrance into google with your area name
meet up with people, hook up, be friendly and curious

Curiosity actually is such and underappreciated thing
if you`re curious, your whole relationship with the world changes

Get away from this board, it's making everything worse.

Ok so practically ALL of my positive images have been posted before...

You still here there OP?

>>6139610
Yeah, but your images have not been helping anyway. I can google image search too, you know.

Do you have an AIM, OP?

>>6139627
way to gratitude

>>6139679
No one asked you to, and now you get all bitchy.

This is why humanity sucks.

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>>6139647
Yeah, post yours.

>>6139928
not bitchy, but gratitude is part of being happy

I'm so lonely that it actually hurts to think about my position. It's awful, and I've let things get to the point where I can't see any way out of it. There's a whole sob story that got me here but nothing that *excuses* letting myself slide this far.

I certainly recognise the need to escape in to books and games and the like. I know it's not the answer but when everything else is completely unbearable it feels impossible to 'man up' and do something that *might* be the answer.

So yeah. I'm fucked up too, OP, for what it's worth.

>>6139947

thisaimisforj

j, you think you're better than everyone even though you know you're a failure that's why you're so bitter and hate everything. you feel like you have to be with someone super good in order to make yourself feel like you're worth it.

tl;dr go die

>>6140367

I still have reason to live though... a beautiful mail order bride may be in my future if I continue to save my money. Then once I lose my virginity to her and get sick of fucking her, then I'll kill myself, how about that?

>>6138967
sounds like you need to be whiped.
You need a girlfriend buddy

I think I'm in the same boat as you, op.
But I am still very young and, i suppose, naive, so I am not convinced that this will last forever. It's fustrating though. I eat healthy, exercise regularly, am on meds, etc. I have two really good friends who live far away. But even when they are here, something inside of me makes me sad. Lonely.
And lately they haven't been here.
My life has become routine.
I can remember being happy, too. I try not to very often but sometimes I think about what is was like. How normal I was, and how I didn't even realize how lucky I was.

I thought I would not find a best friend in college because college takes most of my time.

After 2 years in college I found my new best friend. He is fucking awesome.

alcohol, OP

Or, if youre going to commit suicide, contact me first so we can do it together in some kind of grand epic style.

>>6140470

That's so selfish. You don't know what it's like to lose someone you care about to suicide, do you? To realize that they never loved you in the first place, you were just something pretty and pure they could corrupt to entertain themselves?

hay j,

you know how you're overwhelmed by the flaws in others and can't trust them?

well i don't know quite how to put this, but it's most likely you are using the same criteria to perceive them as you do on yourself

what i mean by that is, it's common for us to be repelled by the traits we hate in ourselves, when we see them in our peers

your op suggests a person who despises themself and their chronic failings and rather than deal with them, instead strives to see himself as 'normal' in relation to everyone else by gauging each new person in their sphere for those same flaws
unfortunately that usually ends in the person doing the analysis, rejecting everyone who bears any similarity to themself because those traits are so repulsive

then we isolate ourselves from others because we don't want them to see us - and overcompensate by taking on a protective shell of superiority, to justify our decision

tl;dr we hate those things in others that we hate about ourselves - because we recognise how nasty they really are

>>6140528


Op, maybe you could email me? we could talk or something.

>>6140571
thanks captain derp.

>>6140609
no problem mang, it's what i do

OP
you should find a hobby
what have you tried?
theres something out there for you

J, what would you perhaps do with your life if you know the loneliness would be gone? what major interests do you have?

This thread again.

I haven't had any friends in years. I'm in grad school and I haven't as much as talked to anyone else there.

I try to not let it get to me, but earlier today I realized how much more ambitious my colleagues are about their research. It's like I don't give a damn anymore.

Best-case scenario, I get into some fatal car accident before 30.

like building a 3 foot replica of youre cellphone like that asshol from china

I feel like allot of these are just trolls...

>>6140582


I don't really think you're here anymore op, but I'm gonna post my email just in case you're lurking.

keelyleigh@gmail.com

>I've tried to be happy with what I have and to convince myself that I don't deserve more. But I can't see the point of living like this when I already know that I want what's out there and I continually hate myself for not being good enough to get it.

FUCK THAT

You deserve more. You are just afraid of having no excuse for a failure instead of the failure itself. So you don't even try. But nothing worse can happen, if you think about it, who will blame you for your failure? Noone except you, but you are already blaming yourself.

And another point, you don't need firends. That's a lie. You don't even feel lonly, it's just that people are telling you, you do. And after hearing it that much, you belive it.

>>6140555
I can't believe that anyone could love someone has repulsive as me. They might think that they do, and may have conditioned themselves to think they do, due to societal expectations, but at their core, their attachment to me is probably mostly selfish.

>>6140639
>>6140737
I've already mentioned this... learn how to do a fucking ctrl + f.

>>6140959
You lose more by failing after trying than by failing after not trying at all.

>>6140817
that's because you're new, paranoid and correct

'Chronic loneliness'. As if you're discussing a disease.

>>6141104
>>6141104
>I've already mentioned this... learn how to do a fucking ctrl + f.

WELL NOW WE KNOW WHY YOURE ALONE AND FRIENDLESS, SASSY PANTS

i guess i do. but isn't it of my own choice?

I can't connect to people, no matter what.

Not really. I think I'm right in the very middle of normalfag and neckbeard. I can have a good time with social shit now and then but afterwards I'll fucking hate myself for doing it then not leave my house for weeks. Kind of annoying.

No, I like being alone most of the time, and also enjoy seeing my old friends from time to time. Stop being a faggot, and accept that the world doesn't exist to make you happy.

J, you don't want to succeed. Admit it.

I just don't know how you progress from a date to a relationship.. I can ask someone out but I dont ever "open up" until I know where I stand, which fucks any date situation really.

>>6141753
well, you honestly have nothing to lose at this point, so why are you holding back from opening up when meeting potential gfs?

My issue is that most people seem to be from another species for me, it's not that I feel superior or inferior to them, it's just that I feel that I could never have a meaningful relationship with anybody, specially women as you may have guessed.
Of course im a loner too, not that im afraid of being around people, more like I don't enjoy it.

>>6141719
I do want to succeed, but in my own fantasy dream world where people aren't shitty everywhere.

Why does being alone have to be a bad thing? Being alone is true freedom. You don't have to censor yourself or put up with people's bullshit. I'm 100% fine with being alone, the problem is I have some friends that I have no clue how to get rid of. They have nothing to offer me so when they're gone I won't miss them. My biggest hurdle is overcoming anxiety, once I get over that I'll be free. I picture myself being one of those self-sufficient loner types that only gets held back when other people get involved.

OP, what you need is to be comfortable being alone, other people won't make you happy unless you search long and hard and even then if they don't like you or they change you'll be back where you started.