Dump the loser, you fucking dumb cunt.

Instead of trying to change him why don't you just leave him you dumb cunt?

>>5801775
I don't want to dump him.

I have no idea why- I still love him and I just can't.

ITT: Dumb Cunt

>>5801775


You beat me with the dumb cunt comment.

As they say, great minds.... somethinorother...

>>5801775
quoting for truth

>>5801775
>>5801789

Duh. Obviously only a jobless WoW player would occasionally sleep in the same bed with her.

>>5801810
Great minds... hive.

More of op pic?

picblox

The consensus seems to be that you should leave him and that if you don't, you're a dumb cunt.

>>5801800
HAHAHAHAHAHA

Then you deserve everything you get for being unable to handle a simple situation. Grow a pair of balls and take control of your life.

Haha, what's with girls sticking with losers while men who are 100 times better for them pass them by? Why can't you think in a logical way?

>>5801752
I bet you anything he's a monster in the sack.
Haven't met a wowfag that isn't yet.,
I'm a 25 yr old female.

im rich and i have a big cock

how you doin

>>5801752

...oh shit, don't tell me I know who you are. Please fucking don't.

>>5801834
Im not going to run away, I want to fix things back to how they were.

Motivation is the single most elusive thing in my life. I have it more than I ever have, but its still fucking tough.

The only thing I can say is passion. And that is something that can't be taught.

A hobby is the easy answer, and music is the easy answer within that.

>>5801827
Trevor Brown.

http://www.pileup.com/babyart/

it sounds like op's boyfriend has it all figured out. i'm kinda jealous, actually.

>>5801873
You probably do ;D

You need to drop the dead weight, he's not willing to change so why the fuck are you hanging around? Don't give me that "but I love him" bullshit either. He's not doing his share of the work and it sounds like you already resent him for it. Do yourself a favor and rip the band aid off quickly instead of dragging out the pain.

>>5801880

That's what they all say. Really I've talked to more than one girl in your situation and they all say the same thing. And you know how it always ends? The guy finds an even MORE insecure girl than you and dumps you, leaving you crying going "WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN TO ME??!? BAWWWWW!" When really you did it to yourself by being delusion and unable handle your own pathetic life.


Seriously, write that down and when it happens, read it again and take a good hard long look at yourself and your life.

you have failed at courting an appropriate partner to procreate with.

you are a dumb cunt

Quoteblox

>>5801880

>>Im not going to run away, I want to fix things back to how they were.

Can you pull the universe back into it's old position?

You cannot make things "how they were", because if he started dating you, and then he "changed", then YOU ARE THE FUCKING THING THAT CHANGED HIM!

ffs, leave the looser and next time avoid dating wow fags.

>>5801873
Eh I dunno, this describes someone I know too...I'm sure this is a very common situation...though outta curiosity, what's the boyfriend's name? Anyways, you should just delete his WoW character.

>>5801800
You are turned on by the confidence and self assuredness it takes to say "No, I will not even consider getting a job. I will play video games all day and you will pay for it"

>>5801912

Oh shit, this is like playing Clue.

How's the dog? How's Nevada?

(please be wrong.)

>>5801971
Way to make the fucker rage and beat her.

>>5801983
Don't have a dog, never been to America..

is sitting at home all day playing wow okay if i have a job on my computer?

>>5801983
So you think it's you?
If so, it doesn't matter whether or not this person is talking to you. You know you have a problem and need to do something about it.
If not, sorry I just was all accusatory and shit.

>>5801981

Fun fact: Women are biologically unable to distinguish confidence from arrogance.

>>5802018

I'll choose to believe that. I don't want to deal with her shit if this were really her. Well, good luck, miss Anon. Hope you aren't lying to a Captain, though I'm not really a Captain.

O

FIRST WORLD PROBLEMS

play the online RPG entropia you can win actual money playing it! Get him to sell blood if he doesn't do drugs. FORCE him to sell the blood. Does he do drugs? Make him spend an hour on the net looking for work from home opportunities and an hour of hard chores for ever hour of online play. Nothing wrong with having a clean toilet , sink , and whatever.

Wait. So instead of going out and socialising like /r9k/ tells me, what I ACTUALLY need to do to get ass is buy a WoW account?

>>5802038
No matter how many times I read this it made no sense D=

Jobless WoW-player with a girlfriend here


Does he actually want a job and is just unmotivated to apply anywhere? If so, tell him how easy it is to apply somewhere online, and if he's still too lazy to do that then apply him online yourself.


It's not that I'm too lazy to get a job, it's that I live in a town with a 20% unemployment rate or so and after applying to 60+ places over the course of 10 months I still haven't gotten a response.

>>5802109
He applies for shit maybe once a week. He just does it for places he knows he'll have no hope of getting an interview at. When a place called him back, he was so fucking quiet on the phone they decided not to hire him.

I love how when a guy comes on here and is like "My relationship is fucked for the following reasons" everyone's like "Well talk to her try to figure it out, blah blah blah" and only mention ending the relationship if things can't be improved in a fairly lengthy timespan.

When a chick has a problem you guys think she should just dump the guy and move on.

'The fuck? Is that how you want your girlfriends to treat you? Everytime something bad happens she just says fuck it and moves on?

/r9k/ opinion is fucked, because half of ya'll believe that chicks should get everything they want all the time and it's a guy's job to make every effort to get everything right and if he doesn't, she should just leave him.

The other half thinks that women are useless vapid money seeking whores.

The problem here is communication. You're not talking to him in a way that he's primed to listen. So, make another attempt at communication in a different way. If you repeat the same thing over and over again it goes from constructive suggestions/relationship talking to nagging. Try a different way of approaching the subject.

>>5802178
Has he developed some depression, anxiety or mental illness he should be seeing a therapist for or is he just mooching?

>>5802184

How many times has a guy complained about a chick that doesn't work and plays WoW all day?

>>5802237

I remember a long ass thread about it.

But how is this one relationship problem 1000x worse than every other? I mean, personally I think MMOs are soul sucking and horrendous, but, it's just another relaitonship problem.

>>5802213
There's nothing wrong with him. He just can't be fucked =\

Tell them you need a time out and see how he reacts. Improvise from there on, and figure out if it's even worth it..

you should leave him but since youre a easily manipulated female you wont. you women are simple and self-destructive like that. pick better dudes next time.

>>5801752
Who'd you pass over for that winner, op? You're still telling better choices than him to go eat shit, aren't you?

>>5802254

I think people should be less lenient with their significant others in general. If the turnover is high enough, someone might finally give me a chance. And if not, at least it will spread the heartbreak.

And how's your sex life? Does he ever bother to fuck you, or he's that inmerse in the game?

>>5802347
Umm no.

He is my first real partner and we have been together for a good 5 years. Hence "just dump him" makes it hard

Break up with him. If he is apathetic about it and continues his lifestyle, things aren't going to get better.

If he freaks out and says he'll change, give him a chance to change. If he doesn't change, break up with him.

It's quite an easy problem really.

quit subsidiseing his wow acess, stop paying for things for him and yes this means stop buying him food.
you don't have to break up but you do have to move out and quit being his mother.

>>5801752
ITT

men who get screwed in a relationship it's a woman's fault

women who get screwed i a relationship it's the woman's fault.

>>5802415


And yet you're struggling with a first year problem? Interesting...

>>5802415
Is that true, or do you just forget when you tell the guys who look interested to go fuck off that easily? From what I've seen, it's usually the latter with women.

>>5802474

Pretty much, yes this is accurate.

He sounds depressed an is escaping his shitty life and personal failings in a silly game.

>>5802043

Fun fact: men aren't able to distinguish kindness from flirtation.

You know, I could sit here and write up some helpful and insightful response, but there's no point. Why? Because it wouldn't be what you wanted to hear. This is because you don't want to hear anything. You just want to complain. I don't know how many times I've seen this.

1. Girl complains about relationship.
2. I offer some realistic advice.
3. Girl shoots down advice for illogical reason.
4. Repeat until I get frustrated and give up.

It's amazing how similar women all are.

>>5802522
and when they try to, women think they're clueless dorks who don't ever deserve sex if it happens to be the latter even once.

not OP here. but i may as well be. 21/f/ WoW widow

are you worth paying attention to? you might not be.

he's a person with brains, and he makes that choice every day. the choice: WoW or You. and he consistently chooses WoW. you might not be worth paying attention to. his level 80 dwarf paladin might be. at least it makes him feel accomplished and successful. you don't.

i'm sorry you work so hard. i do too. i hate my job. you've made him comfortable, though. you've been doing this for 8 months. he figures you can continue doing what you're doing, and he can keep doing what he's doing. it's shitty, but he knows that he can just drown in soda cans that you paid for and eat chips and licorice you paid for for another 8 months because you "love" him. and you do, because this is comfortable to you and you know it works.

if he's worth it, you have to let him know that you won't settle for the life you've been living. start buying diet soda, twizzlers instead of red vines. let him know you "can't afford" to eat a good dinner that night, what kind of ramen does he want. if he wants to keep living the life you guys are now, he'lll get a job and buy himself cream soda and licorice. but don't think that will make him pay attention to you.

if he gets a job, you get less attention. instead of all of his time going to WoW, it will be divided between WoW and work. paying attention to you will be out of the question.

>>5802522

Hmm as a man I can say I have confused kindness with flirtation. In my defense, the girl's idea of kindness was calling me at midnight to tell me what a good boyfriend I would make. Oh there was also that time we were watching a movie on opposite ends of a couch and she crawled over to my and put her ear to my chest because she wanted to listen to my heartbeat, and then laid her head in my lap. Yeah, is that the kindness you speak of? I hope you understand how we might be confused by that.

Just dump him.
He's a wowfag. You can't "communicate" with a wowfag. By attempting to "communicate" with him, you're just enabling him.

Chances are, he's probably having fap sessions while typing up internet buttsecks with some random guy on wow who plays a female character.

>>5801846

Some are fixers who are attracted to guys with problems. They try to fix the guy and make him better.

>>5802695

This OH GOD THIS. I've met so many fixers lol. It's kind of cute but kind of sad (the futility of it all, that is.)

>>5802522

That's too fucking bad for women who don't give clear signals now isn't it?

>>5802713

female or male "fixers"

>>5802713

female or male "fixers"?

kjblootmottblootblox

>>5802779
>>5802761

female

bloxx

>>5802522
no no we are not you need to make it extremely obvious to us for example unzipping our pants counts as flirtation :)

>>5802522

I've seen a girl ask for a guy's phone number, and I later found out she put him in her phone as "Do not answer"

THEN WHY THE FUCK DID YOU ASK FOR HIS NUMBER?!

meet up with me a suck my cock. i'll take pics and send them to him. I guarantee he will be motivated to do something! :D

>>5802522
Fun fact: women aren't able to distinguish kindness from wanting to rape

>>5802695
It isn't just problems in general, though. It's usually some mean-spirited thug who they took an interest in after seeing them vandalize something, start a fist fight with someone who didn't have it coming or majorly insulted someone who didn't deserve it. If the problems aren't related to evil behavior, they just think you aren't worth a shit and avoid you.

>>5802969

untrue. i'm attracted to guys with deep seated emotional problems because it gives me the upper hand.

>>5802991

block

>deep seated emotional problems
>WoW addict


LOL

I did this to an ex of mine. I was depressed. Partially because she was a complete monster. Hot, and smart, but a monster of a crab-case. It ended when I made up some shit about stealing from her in a rage, and she raged back and left.

In hindsight, I wish she'd come back. I got a job 2 months after this shit happened. A job I enjoy, no less.

Life is funny like that. I think I may take my old friends way out and blow my brains up and out through the mouth. Om nom nom

TALK TO HIM, SAY HONEY WE NEED TO TALK

WHEN MEN HEAR THAT LINE THEY KNOW SOME SERIOUS SHIT IS ABOUT TO GO DOWN

IF HE WONT GET UP FROM THE COMPUTER THEN UNPLUG THE SHIT

ASK HIM WHY HE PLAYS THIS GAME ALL THE TIME AND GO FROM THERE

GO ON, GO DO IT RIGHT NOW ,YES *RIGHT NOW*

GOOD LUCK

>>5803072

That would be too logical. She doesn't want logical, she wants magic fairy gumdrops to fix all her problems.

>>5802237

my gf sat on wow all day... i dumped her.. cos she would rather play wow than go for a walk with me... i did it with her for a while.. then she told me to grow up and become responsible.. so i got a fulltime job and she just stayed playing wow... not trying to get a job. sure she gave me sex everynight but like... its not worth it.. she didnt have passion.. she just layed down and basiaclly said "go for it" then went back to playing wow or sleeping.. our house wasnt ever clean and i just got sick of it.. so i guess.. i may not be the only one that complains that their GF plays wow all day... btw.. wow isnt a good basis for a relationship.

"Stop WoW and start looking for a job or get out. I'm tired of doing all the work while you do nothing."

>>5803090
But mom!...I mean honey

Tell him to swallow his pride and get a fucking McJob, or you won't fucking swallow his cock until then.

Problem solved.

>>5802991
I just didn't feel like mentioning that part. Yes, some women also date a guy to "fix" him because they think moral high ground means/does anything with someone like that or with the circles he's in.

Some go for guys like that because they like being morally superior and they THINK they are better than those guys even though they are encouraging that behavior, rewarding those acts, accomplices to them, and act like most people who don't do those things aren't worth a shit.

>>5803101
Alternatively, stop paying the internet bill. This forces him to do something. Yes, it's mean, but it sounds like he needs something to get him started.

>>5803083

Yeah, that's sort of the point. You solved your problem while OP refuses to.

Tell him you'll break up with him unless he gets his act together.

It's unfair to call a job a "McJob". Those jobs are still sources of income and should be treated with the same respect as a regular job. Those employees are still citizens and require the same work that you do to get by. Treat McJobs with respect and people will learn to take them more seriously.

better idea, break up with him

ITT: desperate guys tell chick to drop their BF in the off chance that having one more single girl in the world will help their chances.

hilarity ensues.

>>5803314

You work at McDonald's.

Hack into his account and delete his characters.

>>5803130
THIS. Stop paying that fucking internet bill.

So assuming you are the only source of income and he has to pay for a WoW account, cut him off. It seems harsh, well maybe not, and sure as shit guarantee that he will get off his ass to pay for that account

>>5803566

she's posting on /r9k/, she obviously uses the internet.

>>5803428
Go eat shit. I'm just venting my great resentment about women and the ways they select their boyfriends. I don't give a shit if she breaks up with him or not.

Dump his ass, bitch.

Katherine, is that you? Are you talking about Chris?

>>5804073

I may know who you're talking about. O.o

>>5804168
Chris from SB?