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    201 KB Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:12:29 No.5777502  
    This thread is to everyone who is currently in high school or has experienced it with these memories.

    How do you guys deal with no friends? I know I'm not the only one here; I cannot relate to anyone. I feel at this age, I have so many deep things going on within myself that I cannot trust even one or two "friends". I don't think I can even consider them friends, since I don't even share anything about my life to them; we just have silly discussions with with eachother with no depth at all. I feel like I cannot relate to anyone in my life; of my two "friends", one is a stoner and the other is just this guy with aspergers syndrome who feels the need to argue over every simple detail in a subject.

    Please tell me I am not the only one like this. I can't be. I'm starting to get ideas in my head that I'm becoming mentally unstable, insane almost, because I keep all of my serious feelings and concerns to myself because no one simply cares.

    I'm sure you're asking what the point of this thread is. I'm asking for help. I'm just seeking reassurance that I can relate to someone here and maybe see how you have gotten through it. Thanks.

    Pic unrelated, obviously.
    >> RQRF 10/10/09(Sat)02:14:39 No.5777529
    you don't have "no friends", you have two. sharing personal details with people is a bad idea anyway.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:15:51 No.5777544
    seek counseling
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:16:02 No.5777546
    dat cyclops lookin nigga
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:17:55 No.5777561
    I was painfully shy and quiet in high school, didn't feel like I related at all to people, had a couple closer friends and a social circle I saw occasionally but didn't really know on a personal level. Turns out I just wasn't giving anyone a chance. There are plenty of cool people out there, you just have to put in the effort to meet them.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:17:58 No.5777562
    The 'teen ages are fucking shit. Everyone is a narcissist with way more emotion than sense. Wait it out, it will pass, I guarantee. Why do you think college is a turnaround/chance to re-invent for so many people?

    Also, get the fuck out, you underage cunt. The reason we have an 18+ rule is to avoid precisely this kind of shit.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:18:37 No.5777571
    I was the same way in high school, and I still am now. I pretty much dont talk to anyone other than my family
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:18:45 No.5777573
    >>5777529

    They are not friends. They are people that I rarely talk to who have no interest in my life. They consider me a joke and only are around me for their own entertainment.

    And I'm pretty sure that real friends are able to share deep information about themselves and not have any worry about deception like you may have.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:18:50 No.5777576
    You are me and it's scaring me.
    >> RQRF 10/10/09(Sat)02:20:23 No.5777590
    >>5777573
    by that definition, I only have 1 real friend, who I haven't seen in months. you don't need people, OP.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:21:40 No.5777602
    >>5777573
    This was literally me in HS. I had a few people I'd bullshit with in a few classes but whenever they'd want me to do something I'd decline because I knew it would end in embarrassment
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:22:56 No.5777615
    >>5777562

    This. Do you ever see someone on their period, and they're acting like a crazy emotional wreck? That's how teenagers appear to everyone else. Realise that it will pass, and in the meantime, try to avoid doing anything you'll regret.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:23:21 No.5777619
    Hey. You need someone to talk to? I'm your man.

    Not a troll. Drop your e-mail in the thread if you're interested. I'll be around for the next 30 min or so.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:24:47 No.5777636
    1. Learn Martial Arts
    2. Get into fights
    3. Beat the shit out of everyone
    4. ???
    5. Profit

    Worked for me. Of course, at my HS (graduated last year) I had a bunch of niggers, so picking a fight was incredibly easy.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:25:05 No.5777639
    >>5777590

    I don't believe you. How can you get through life without any companionship? Who reassures you when you are miserable? I remember when I used to have many friends, I felt much more "normal". My mental state was fine and if I ever had a personal problem, I at least had a best friend to talk about to for reassurance.

    No one in my school is like me. Everyone seems so simple to me. It's like they cannot experience anything beyond the surface of things.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:26:07 No.5777645
    I'm almost 20 and I loathe the only "friend" I have, but I don't ditch him because if I did I would officially have 0 friends
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:27:54 No.5777668
    >>5777636
    to pick a fight with a nigger all you need to do is bump into them.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:28:29 No.5777674
    >>5777639

    jesus will be your friend. no really. think about it. even if he is imaginary, you'll end up with an imaginary friend at this rate anyway. jesus has a great personality. and you can meet his "other friends" at the church. then you can ditch jesus kinda and milk these real life friends for emotional support.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:29:23 No.5777684
    >>5777668
    Exactly. That's what made it so easy. It's also why I could get away with it, since I could just play the innocent white guy and say "I just bumped into him and he attacked me!"
    >> RQRF 10/10/09(Sat)02:30:08 No.5777692
    >>5777639
    you just do it. I haven't said a word to anyone but cashiers and a prof for around a week, and I don't feel any different than when I interact with people every day. I wouldn't mind having friends, but I have no desire to find any. is that normal? maybe you just have a need for companionship.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:30:35 No.5777699
    >> I feel at this age, I have so many deep things going on within myself that I am THE BEST THE BEST THE BEST THE BEST THE BEST

    Guess what? You aren't alone! You aren't the only SELF-CENTERED FAGGOT who doesn't know the difference between sharing fun experiences with people and sharing every FUCKING IRRELEVANT THOUGHT that flies through your UNORIGINAL TALENTLESS SKULL.

    You aren't alone! You aren't the only person who has so many deep things going on oh my god my dad died and my mom sells her body for crack and this one time someone made fun of me in gym class OH NOES.

    So shut the fuck up. Friends are people you live by and sometimes do things with. No more, no less. Your deep things are 1. bullshit, 2. things that everyone has gone through in one way or another, and 3. things that most people learn to deal with.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:31:40 No.5777707
    I'm just fine with having no friends and I can't even imagine having any. I hate going out so that kills 90% of anything we could do
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:31:48 No.5777710
    I had the same feeling OP. only advice i can give you is to join a sports team or after school club activity.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:33:31 No.5777728
    >>5777684
    Ever notice how niggers put their faces almost into each others necks when they are about to fight? whats up with that
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:33:54 No.5777733
    >>5777576

    He can't be you if he's me.

    I feel like I'm watching my youth pass me by, but I can't relate to or have the desire to force myself to mingle with these terrible, terrible people. I don't really even talk or have "silly discussions" at all. Also self loathing and trust issues.

    Feels bad man.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:34:28 No.5777740
    >>5777699

    I'm seeking help, and I recommend you do as well, since you may need it more than I do.
    >> Anonymous 10/10/09(Sat)02:35:12 No.5777746
    >>5777728
    When I see niggers about to fight one of them (or both) usually would jump around and tug their pants up constantly. its literally like watching animals



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