Sure, take it...

What's being able to live with yourself in a world like this worth, anyway~

aim/msn I'll gladly free you from your state of virginity

tl;dr
OP is fat.

>>4699678
I know what you're saying, but I don't see why I wouldn't be able to live with myself after. It's just sex, and I'm not hurting anyone, just enjoying myself.

miserable.

besides the fact that the guys who would pick you up would be shit in general, they would care or only their 5 minute pleasure. its going to suck for a while since you are a virgin, and besides losing your first to a random dude [sentimentalfag here, he wont give a fuck that it hurts you

wait for that one guy, then crazy intimate sex will be ensued

>>4699708
I'm 5'5, 105lbs. I don't think my looks have anything to do with my virginity, up until now it's been a combination of personal choice/shyness.

>>4699642
>>4699724
Just take the cawk bitch!

your first time won't be that great. it never is for anyone. its awkward.

doing it with a total stranger is a real crapshoot. odds are you won't have any chemistry and it may leave a bad taste in your mouth. if you were in a relationship you would have time to build experience and trust and familiarity and could learn what you like and don't like.

or you might luck out and get a total stud who makes you orgasm just by looking at you. you never know.

but most chicks prefer relationship sex over one-night stands, because despite /r9k/'s opinion, all women are not whores and generally prefer to have sex with the men they are in relationships with.

>>4699768
Calling bullfuck. Anyway. Go to the party. Find the dude that looks okay but is not very social. Afterward he'll most likely reward you with moar secks. Or just go find a one night fuck.

As a 24 year old male virgin... not by choice... yes

the only reason for such a thing would be ugliness, sorry

>>4699744
I've given up on finding a "nice guy". Not many guys like girls like me. Maybe on the internet, but in real life they don't. I'm just sick of waiting, and I'm not sure if I have placed way too much importance on my virginity up until now.

>>4699724
So what you basically want to know is, will people view you as a slut for this?

Some undoubtedly, but there are always naysayers. It isn't "a bad thing" from an objective perspective though. It all boils down to what you want, and I hope you understand that.

>>4699826
>will people view you as a slut for this?
This, basically. I know other girls probably will, but I don't care because I really don't get on with most other girls anyway and couldn't care less what they think. I'm just wondering about guys, I don't have any perspective from this angle.

Jen?

>I'm female, 19 years old, and a virgin
I'm guessing your look NOTHING like this.

as a non virgin guy (inb4 no non-virgin makes on 4chan) I would honestly wait until you found sum1 who makes you feel special, I've had drunk 1 night stands and I've made love to a woman I want to spend the rest of my life with, wait for it, making love is much better than sex or fucking. just get the most baddass vibrator ever and try to find a nice guy, I know it's not the answer you want to hear but it's the truth.

>>4699768
post pics and let the gentlemen decide

>>4699878
Well as I said, some probably will. Although there are a lot of intelligent guys out there who are cool with this and are very opposed to the whole "slut" label. Sort of like the opposite of people on 4chan. To me it seems like the real problem isn't whether people will think of you as easy or not though, but rather you caring so much about it.

You're either fat or ugly. I don't want to be mean but if you were cute (and therefore could attract high quality guys) you wouldn't have to resort to one night stands with drunk strangers.

That being said consider the combination of the following:
- your first time will be pretty awkward and sloppy, especialy with a stranger
- it'll hurt especialy when the guy doesn't really care about you.
- guy doesn't know you so he'll just cum and leave. It will never be as satisfying as masturbation (which doesn't even work on you anymore anyway)
- guy will be drunk so even if he manages to get it up it won't go too nice.

I'm sorry to burst your bubble OP, but shyness doesn't work as an excuse for girls. If you were decent looking and not fat you'd get asked out by *sober* strangers and friends frequently enough to get one of them to sleep with you

>>4699892
Not really. I'm that thin but my waist is nothing like that. I have the same shape boobs but two sizes smaller. I don't have curves, don't wear makeup or have facial piercings, have unstyled hair, and my face is definitely more "cute" than "sexy".

>>4699931

moronic logic.

>>4699892
Protip: that mole was made in paint using the paintbrush option, on square.

>>4699931
I really don't think my looks have anything to do with it. I think I look okay. I definitely look nicer than most girls I know who have good-looking boyfriends. When I say "shy" I mean crippling social anxiety, having panic attacks leaving the house, crying at the thought of public speaking, etc. I don't have any male friends or I wouldn't be here right now, and I don't really have any contact with strangers/don't go to bars. I'm just an anomaly, I guess.

You know that guy that's a really good friend but you are, even now, not considering as a potential fuck buddy because you don't want to ruin the friendship and blah blah blah.

He wants to fuck you so bad he is willing to put up with being "just friends" knowing he will never get any. Surprise him, fuck a poor sap you have friend zoned.

Just post your fucking aim/msn already and chose one of the suitors.

>>4699892
Her face is fucking disgusting. How could any man look at her during?

ITT: Trolls and virgins.

>>4700029
>I don't have any male friends.
If I did I would fuck him to high heaven and back, regardless of how precious our friendship was.

>>4700003
Well then, there we have it. Your problem isn't whether to fuck a stranger or not or whether people will think of you as a slut or not, your problem is your self esteem.

Based on this and the personal experience of >>4699907
combined with my own personal experience, I'd say follow his advice and do find a boyfriend to get it on with and rather buy yourself some decent sex toys before it.

I know you probably want that feeling of intimacy too, but thing is, you don't get that from one night stands. One night stands are usually just bragging rights and nothing more, even for guys(depending on how drunk we are of course)

>>4700003
I'm the same way.

AIM/MSN and we'll chat/cyber/meet irl and fuck

>>4700058
I'm not gonna say it again:
post aim/msn now.

>>4699806 odds are you won't have any chemistry and it may leave a bad taste in your mouth.
I see what you did there.

>>4700003
I don't know OP, post your face (you can delete it after 5 minutes). This would really change this conversation. If you're actualy good looking (which most people here obviously find hard to belive) there'll be different advice than if you're not.

You know what your problem is?
You put the dick in a pedestal.
You think it's some kind of Greek God called Dickillaia that is impossible to achieve, when in reality having sex is an everyday thing, like masturbating.

>>4699642
WHERE UAT

Where do you live? Is the question we should all be asking.

>>4700003
Can you not meet guys by proxy to your friends?

whats going down hereererer

getting jiggy with itttt/?

Post a picture of yourself, OP. You can delete it quickly if you really have to.

girl you must be ass ugly

Oh god...there is nothing in the world that I find more adorable than a shy girl. I think that female virginity is extremely attractive. I would give anything to meet a girl like you. I've been wishing for the chance to meet a girl like you for my entire life.

I would love to have a relationship with a girl like you, and it breaks my heart to think that you'd throw away your first time to a drunken guy at a party.

Whenever I ask for advice on how to get a girl, people tell me to stop being a 'nice guy' since there are no girls out there who are looking for a nice guy. But I keep holding onto the hope that there's actually a girl out there who wants a nice guy.

I really wish I could meet a shy, socially awkward girl looking for a 'nice guy' boyfriend. She would be my perfect match.

If I was anywhere near you I might meet up with you. I'm lonely and pathetic, just like you. But I'm a little fat too so I'd probably bail out at the last minute.

>>4699642
You may be tired of being a virgin, but sex with a stranger and having sex with someone that loves you are two completely different experiences. It might relieve some tension now, but 10 years down the road, how will it make you feel to know that you lost it awkwardly to some drunken retard?

You say most guys don't go for a girl like you- that you've given up on finding a nice guy. You're ONLY 19 for christ sake. Don't give up, just stop trying. He'll happen.

You seem like a nice girl whose gotten shit luck when it comes to guys. Give it some time.

I know of my group of friends, if you're a girl that frequents 4chan then that can make up for whatever makes you "a girl like you". It shows that you have a sense of humor, and most likely, shared interests with the lot of us.

Nice guys DO exist, trouble is, many of 'em are loners that have trouble talking to girls without the guise of Anonymous. Don't think that you'll never find a nice guy.

Pic related, just so you know.

>>4699642
>being female makes it different
And now you know what a double standard is. Take the offer.

>>4700235
How to not talk to women bro.


Anyway, is it just me or did replies double as soon as the first guy started talking about posting AIM/msn? Curiously enough also with the absensce of OP.

>>4700089
I really don't want my face associated with this thread. I'm sorry. I know it would make a difference to the thread. You'll just have to assume I'm not stupid enough to ask for advice applying to girls who aren't ugly, while being ugly
.>>4700183
Anchorage

To be honest I wouldn't have any problem doing this with someone from 4chan rather than a guy at a party. But the problem isn't my ability to get a one night stand (I'm certain I could) but rather if having a one-night stand is a Bad Thing.

>>4700275
I don't have a throwaway 4chan msn address. I'll make one if that many people want to talk to me.

>>4700410
Yeah make one already

>>4700410
Yeah, do it already.

>>4700351

It's such a shame you live all the way out there. If you lived nearby me, I would show up with flowers and chocolate, serenade you, then take you out for a chick flick and romantic dinner.

1. Move to Japan
2. Enroll into one of the schools and get yourself a cellphone
3. Join a "Enjo Kousai" dating-site.
4. Make friends there.
5. ????
6. CLAMYDIA!

>>4700460
This folks. A real man.

>>4700443
AIM= t154676

I'm nowhere near Anchorage, but, if I was, I'd totally date you, spend tons of money on you, treat you really nicely and stuff..

As the above poster said, I'd hit it if I could.

>>4699642
>I don't think I would have much trouble getting a one-night stand, being female and at a party full of drunk guys.

could be a fat chick, but not sure

>>4700256

dude, not all "nice guys" are like that

if you define nice guy as someone who doesnt fuck around with girls and has common respect for EVERYONE, especially girls, then theyre out there, just smart enough to play a persona to make you think theyre hot shots so they dont get hurt. chyeaa

Wait for loooove~

Ahahahhaa thats what they all say. The people who have someone. Fuckers.

However, I'd say wait OP. Shit like that isn't quite worth it.

It seems as if we are very similar OP. I can't get off to normal porn either and I had my first bf with 20.. I finally found an shy, sweet and intelligent nerd over the Internet, one-night stands are nothing for virgins. It will HURT, believe me. And then ist much much better to have someone who cares for you instead of a drunk guy who has no idea.. Wait a bit more, try to find someone maybe over the internet oder somewehre els. But wait. Believe me, you will regret it if you don't.

These threads always piss me off.

That's the kind of girl I would kill to have a chance with, because it's just so fucking rare to find a girl who isn't flirty as hell, let alone a virgin. Then you go on about how you want to run to some party and fuck the nearest thing with a dick.

2 days 22 hours
On my way ;>_>

>>4700675

If I was female I'd be doing the exact same thing if I was in her position, though. On the other hand, if I was a female and in my own position, I would've been fucking my best friend since gradeschool.

>>4700675
Get revenge by shooting up your school. You know it's worth it.

>>4700678

Oh no you don't, fucker.

Do you have a big ass, OP?

Make sure he wraps it.

Wouldn't want to get AIDS now, would you?

>>4700814
GAH!


Well at least I have a head start

>>4700568
>>4700568
Hey I have some other of that artist. Do you know who he is?
Fuck I can't post them

k, im a guy but im not going to say "OH do the one night stand it will feel GREAT!" just to get some random guy laid. NO. This is my honest opinion. Don't have a one night stand, get a boyfriend. You don't have to suddenly become overly-social with anyone. Just find a guy who likes the same things you like, form a relationship even if its just a friend you can discuss something with and just see where that goes.

After a while you may have the insatiable urge to "have some fun" with him. Go nuts, but keep it in reason.

Sure, OP. You could do that, but enjoy never having a decent relationship.

Let me sum up the situation for you. You are probably an average looking person, and you've already said that you have a shit personality. Right now your only appeal is that you could work the shy angle, or you could work the virgin angle. Either might appeal to a potential long term partner. Soon as you go out and fuck some random guy though, you lose all appeal that you might have had.

So think about it this way. Do you want 10 minutes of awkard and uncomfortable sex, in exchange for no one even giving a shit about you because you would be damaged goods? Not even just damaged goods, but damaged goods with no personality and a fugly face.

>>4700526
fat chick or not, someone who wants to just go to a party to fuck to lose their virginity with a drunk guy is either very desperate, or too afraid to start a relationship with someone, gives them their first time, only to have them break up later.

me, i am happily married, my wife was a virgin when she met me, she was shy type and all, took her a little over a year to lose her virginity to me, after her first time she was sore and wasnt sure if she ever wanted to have sex again. but after a few more times, she is more than happy to fuck. what she feared most was both the pain, and worried that i would leave her after fucking her, which never happened. we have been together for about 3 years now, and recently got married. she regrets being so shy and scared about her first time.

my advice, regardless of whether your first will be with just some one night stand, or someone you think will leave you after starting a relationship, your better off atleast getting the deed done so you can enjoy it.

Why not hire a gigolo? At least they'd know what they were doing.

ITT: Desperate virgins not answering the OP's question.

OP, what matters more is what you think of yourself after doing it.

While I'd say it might be in your best interest to try and work on your social inadquacies so you don't get used and are able to enjoy the experience, the basic answer to your question is no: you shouldn't be viewed as a slut by most men, as long as it doesn't becoming a recurring event.

Honestly, first times for girls suck. Some girls have it worse and some better. If you're lucky it will only hurt a little and bleed a little. If you're unlucky it will hurt like hell.
Doing it too drunk is not such a good idea also. A friend of mine got really wasted in a party and lost her virginity there. Problem is, she bled EVERYWHERE and later there she was in the bathroom with some girls helping her clean her cunt. She doesn't remember much of that night.

So, hey, I don't think losing your virginity to a one night stand is slutty or anything, but if you lose it with someone that you like and trust the experience will probably be better.

Though if you've stuck dildos and stuff in your vagina maybe you'll be alright.

OP if you were someone I knew IRL I think I would lose respec for you even if you were fat.
But then I don't know you and lots of people probably don't probably the same wat as I do and blah blah

DO IT FAGGOT

>>4700929
I don't know if I would like to be with a guy who has the attitude that having sex makes a girl "damaged goods".

If I was your friend, I would stop talking to you soon as you did that. You can't respect a person who doesn't respect themselves.

>>4700988

Fucking the first guy you meet makes you damaged goods.

>>4700929
So having sex makes one damaged good or is it just girls?

Sir, you are retarded.

>>4700960

Good advice, actually. I've heard a lot of girls give advice to virgins saying that they should consider breaking their hymen with a dildo, that way wen they do have sex with the first time, they don't need to worry about bleeding with/on the person, having to deal with the pain around other people, or just being embarrassed.


Why the fuck can't you live in north NJ? Seriously, skinny shy girls are cute as all hell.

Ugh. Desperate girls always makes my stomach turn. It's fine when guys are like that, because it's humorous and nerdy. Both amusing and fun to watch. With girls though, it's just creepy.

>>4700887
All I've got good sir, apologies in advance :/

Oh man, the sheer weight of the "girls who want sex are sluts and whores OMFG WHY ARE /d/ AND /hc/ DOWN" crowd permeating this thread is hilarious, and the funniest thing is that you slobs wonder why you're still virgins.

Here's a tip OP. Stop being shy.

What's the point of being shy, all you're doing is just restricting your own movement with needless reasoning and faulty logic.

And yes, you're putting sex on a pedestal. It's not worth going out there and doing it for the sake of doing it.

Do it

then ask if he wants to try anal

>>4701041
But it's also not worth holding back if she wants it.

>>4701018

You'll be damaged goods both emotionally and physically if you lose your first on some meaningless fuck.

Emotionally you'll probably despise sex because it'll be so painful you'll never want to try again, and physically you'll have broken your hymen.

With a man it's different, because physically there's no difference between masturbating and fucking. At least in any difference that you would be able to visually see.

To be honest I know this horny as hell bitch who's good looking too, and she has some fucking thing for me, I dunno why, she's not that smart.

Nothing really interests me about her, but apparently she is always trying to get close to me.

But because I am fucked up mentally and I've serious self-esteem probs, I can't even think of her liking a miserable dude like me.

Has anybody else ever felt this kind of emotions?

>>4699820
Seriously? You think that your personality changes that much on the INTERNET? Christ.

Horny girls are terrible. Only good for one good fuck, but NEVER for a relationship.

Calm the fuck down and maybe you'll be able to find a relationship. Goddamn whore.

Are you really asking a question like that here? This board is full of neckbearded virgins who consider any girl having sex to be a personal insult, and therefore insist they're all sluts. Hell, I'm amazed your responses so far aren't just SLUT SLUT SLUT SLUT SLUT repeated over and over.

>>4701097

Goddamnit, that is some seriously fucked up double-think right there.

This sums up your attitude OP.

Things would be better if we lived back in older times.

Back when women actually respected themselves, rather than fucking everything in sight.

Ask a guy you consider is in your same situation. He'll surely say yes and won't trash you once he's cum.

epic troll
i give you 9001/10
i applaud you

I didn't know they let fat chicks into parties.

>>4701168

Which historical period was this, exactly?

>Crying at the thought of social situations and fear of leaving the house
>FINE WITH GETTING NAKED AND SEXING A RANDOM GUY

calling fucking bull on this shitty troll thread.

>>4701073
Fool!

She wouldn't be damaged goods

Damaged goods is an outdated pseudoreligious concept that means nothing with the advent of contraception

OP just go out and do it and stop hanging around on this board. Do it right /now/ even. You could go out and do it every weekend if you fucking wanted. Since you don't have any friends you're at an advantage- you can fuck whoever you want and get really messy without wondering what your frends think of you for fucking this guy or that guy. You could wrap them all around your little finger, get them to feed you, buy you things it's so gloriously easy to do.

>>4701097
That sounds like me about a year ago. I had a girl who was crazy about me to the point where she would leave comments in French on my MySpace telling me this. Yet, I wouldn't give her the time of day. We started to hook up towards the end of the summer and then I got attached, but she moved to the other side of the country. She came up to the area to visit not too long ago (she's still here, inf act), but she doesn't feel the same anymore. After a year of flirting with me online while she's been gone, she comes back and it's as if nothing ever happened. She doesn't care anymore.

But I still do. I miss her. The old her. The one where we could just lie in my bed and just watch a movie while cuddling or something. Fuck, I'm hijacking the thread now. Sorry, I'll stop.


/wrists

>>4701168
Back when? Back when it was all sex and orgies with the Greeks? Back when during Jesus's time when it was an abomination to have sex outside of marriage? Back when in Victorian times when prostitution was accepted and normal?

>>4701121
The hell are you talking about? Horny girls are great because sex never lacks. Horny girls that cheat is something else, but just horny girls? I'm sorry but they're keepers.

>>4701237

>You could wrap them all around your little finger, get them to feed you, buy you things it's so gloriously easy to do.

>Implying anyone would give a shit about some fat/ugly chick enough to actually bother with her more than the first fuck.

Hahahaha, oh wow.

>>4700988
Do it OP. But chat with that person first, make sure they are cool to hang out with after. The second time with anyone is usually better...

>>4701273

>Horny girl that cheats
>Horny girls that doesn't cheat

Oxymoron.

>>4699642

OP if you live in sydney and are attractive I will go down on you ;) you will die of pleasure

It sure is neckbeard, basement dweller and conservative Christian around here.

>>4701300
Not really. All men are horny. It's like saying all men always cheat.

whoa op, another soon to be 20 year old female virgin here, so it's true we really exist!
I really don't see the point of going to bar and fuck first first guy you see tho since you want it or not, you probably will remember your first time for years, but then again if you feel it's huge burden for you, do whatever you feel with your hole. I don't see how it will be good tho, as many said it probably will be quite awkward and possible even painful for you.
Guy probably will be happy to score virgin.

I laugh at your situation, OP.

You are like an ugly dog with no legs. The dog isn't very cute, and he can't even run around and play, which would have been the only reason any owner would have adopted him. Just like you, you're ugly and you have no personality.

See image for your only option.

>>4701352

>Guy probably will be happy to score virgin.

No. This is not true. Most guys dislike fucking a virgin, because it is very unpleasant. No one wants to hear your complaining and crying when they're trying to get into it, unless they're into that kind of thing.

If you are ugly and fat to go along with this, you have absolutely no appeal. Break your own hymen if you can, and then you might have a chance.

>>4701254
He means a period of time you jackass not just things that occured in history due to either poverty or social inequalities. I can't believe you used that as a justification for casual sex. The 50's was a prime example of how ladies were supposed to act. Back when ladies actually existed, not what we have now, loose over sexualized sluts who have a few drinks and they're anyones.

>>4701300
Totally correct.

>>4701352

>do whatever you feel with your hole
>girl saying hole

Disgusting. You are probably some fat slob, aren't you? Whenever I hear women say things like that, it's almost as disgusting as seeing a woman smoke a cigarette or with a shaved head.

To be honest, consider waiting.

In the meantime you can work on yourself, start an exercise/diet program and lose some weight, and also work on yourself by getting more life experience, learning new things, etc.

I lost my virginity to a random at 20 and it felt like shit. Total bummer. Next time I had sex I was 21 and in a committed relationship, and it was about a trillion times better.

Not that random sex always sucks. Random sex can be AMAZING sometimes. But it's nice to have the confines of a relationship when you're first exploring your sexuality, so you are free to try things in a comfortable / safe setting.

>>4699642
>>4701355
possibly the same person?

Just fuck some guy, no one gives a shit.

So the nice guys in this thread are saying "OH WAIT FOR HIM [a nice guy] HE'LL COME AROUND" but when has a 'nice guy' EVER come around like that?

Judging from the 'i'm a nice guy but still virgin wtf' attitude around here, OP's gonna be waiting a looong time.

>>4701382
>Break your own hymen if you can, and then you might have a chance.


And just when I thought women couldn't get any fucking stupider.

If you want to lose it, make sure you'll have no regrets.

>>4701426
bald AND smoking a cigarette? fucking sign me up!

Being horny is fine, that's natural. But telling people that you masturbate to double penetration and rape is not natural. You can masturbate to it all you want, but you don't tell people about it.

There's a little thing called modesty and discretion. These are things that make ugly girls like yourself seem appealing to men who normally wouldn't bother with you. If you are fat, ugly, AND slutty then you have nothing working for you.

>>4701426

Nah, skinny bitch that hardly goes outside, i've just spended too long in 4chan.

>>4701547

Fucking this.

Also openly passing gas and burping is foul. My last girlfriend would just pass gas and laugh about it, or burp in my face when we were eating. It was like dating a fucking pig.

>>4701426
This is how Americans actually judge women

>>4700496

legit OP's AIM? just messaged her and no responce

>>4701394

So how is your imam treating you these days?

Things fat or ugly women should do:

1. Don't tell your boyfriend about the porn you watch. It makes you seem like a slut.

2. Try to conceal when you pass gas. Maybe leave the room or cough.

3. Always febreeze the bathroom after you use it. Smelling something foul coming from the restroom after a fat girl leaves is always disgusting.

4. Don't act flirty or slutty. You aren't attractive and you just look awkward and disgusting.

ITT: Americans discovering for the first time that women have sex drives.

"Dude I've been getting along really well with my girlfriend lately, but yesterday she told me something that really bummed me out"
"What's that dude"
"She told me she's not a virgin dude"
"Ouch dude she's like only 27 too"
"Yeah think I'm gonna have to dump her"

>>4701683

That's not true at all. In America it's rare to find a virgin who is 18, let alone above 20.

It should be illegal for fat girls to be in relationship.

Disgusting pigs are being encouraged to live that kind of life by being in a relationship. Lock those fat fuckers up in a cage, toss in 1,000 calories worth of food every day and put in a treadmill.

>>4701683
America has loose women, brah. They just like to pretend that they're not by inventing a bunch of stupid rules like "the three date rule" and myths like "your first time is special", etc...

>>4701716

I think that was the point anon was trying to convey

>OP wont post, war between moralfags and people who dont give a shit, lack of pics of OP, most likely fake femanons posting, this has got to be a troll, a very well played troll. i am leaving this thread now, nothing new or of interest could possibly be posted.

>if this was a troll, i give you 10/10, you did your job, and you did it well.

>if it was actually a femanon thats not a land based manatee , then follow the advice posted by anons here, and follow your heart, its the best you can do. its your body, your choice, unless you get raped

>>4701121
because only men are allowed to have sex drives, right? doublestandards.net

> I realise that a guy in my position would probably take up the offer with no hesitation

This is if the guy is desperate. If you're desperate, feel free to be a slut. It's what most girls do anyway you don't have to feel bad. But realize that you will never find a guy worth having in this fashion.

>>4701952
I'm pretty sure any guy would bang a chick with no strings attatched if he could, desperate are not. Do you have trouble pissing on your balls when you go to the bathroom?