Go the qym,

all you need to be interested in is working out
and maybe movies and shit,

This is the exact question I have.

Come on real answers!

You need friends before you think about getting a girlfriend.

Not only because it's through friends that you meet girls, but also because if you do happen to meet a girl she's going to think you're a fucking loser if you have no friends.

>>4673083
>fake some hobbies, fgt

That girl could eat an apple through a fence.

Say memes in real life to everyone you meet, everyone loves that.

Look, idiot. It's very simple. Search for a place where you might actually have fun, then go there. Don't be an insecure, self-conscious faggot but also don't go off being obnoxious and creepy. There's a fine line that you have to walk, but it's not all that hard. You should also think about drinking, because you're going to need it if you hope to actually talk to someone.

Fuck, I can understand being under 21 and not being able to get in anywhere without a fake or someone else to vouch for you, but c'mon.

>>4673108
the question was "what place"

are you suggesting bars and clubs?

if you dont want to be a creep to the girl in the library, come with a solution that makes the girl think your a cool dude.
answer of da year

Girls don't think you're a creep if you're handsome and friendly.

write a little note:

"Hi I think you're cute and would like to chat you up. If you aren't interested just crumple up this note and toss it on the floor."

Fold it longitudinally and write on the back "wait thirty seconds to open this <3"

Walk by and leave it inside her personal space, then walk away and sit down with a book to read yourself.

It's the library equivalent of offering to buy a girl a drink. Your intentions are super-clear and the acceptance/rejection is easy and crisp and clean. No loss. Also it's cute, romantic, and the lady will find it charming (even if she's got a boyfriend).

>>4673171
What are you, 14 years old?

>>4673131
Clubs are a great place to find dumb whores
you want a dumb whore, son?

You could try going to raves.

I'm not even kidding. There are a lot of stupid kids at raves, but some of the coolest people I've ever met, I met through that scene.

Just stay away from those cheap meth-laced ecstasy pills that get hocked at parties. (If you ever decide to drop e, at least have the sense to obtain pure MDMA from a trustworthy source, not at a party. And don't do it more than a few times a year.)

>>4673171

Thats fucking creepy as shit.

You lonelyfaggots just don't get it. Even if someone told you some magical place to go and meet girls, and even if you had the awesomest pickup line in the whole world, girls won't be interested in you because you don't have any interesting to say.

You need to have the whole package: a job, some friends, do some interesting shit, go on trips, have a hobby. Anything, it doesn't matter what. Just some interesting shit to talk about or show her.

Concentrating on "meeting women" is missing the wider picture: you need to have your shit together in general. Especially the shit in your head. How can you be confident talking to women if your self-picture is of "a 21 year old dude with no friends at all" ?

"you're on your way to becoming /fit/ and /fa/." - that's a good start, I would say you need to work on making some friends next. Friends parties is seriously the easiest way to meet girls (unless you're at University).

tl;dr: you need to work on having friends and developing social skills, there is no magic shortcut to success with women.

>>4673171
It's a bit rude to tell a strange to litter in a library

Get into a scene. Hipster scene, rave scene, emo scene, it doesn't matter which, as long as it has lots of hot girls.

>>4673101
>mootblock
>That girl could eat an apple through a fence.

I lol'd. I still think she's hot though.

Also, I went overboard with the girl examples I think; the thread was meant for getting advice on meeting people in general but I'm willing to skip that step in favour of girls, to be honest. All is well.

>>4673203
>Friends parties is seriously the easiest way to meet girls (unless you're at University).

I was with you until you said this. I go to university. :/
What's wrong with that then?

>>4673171
wat... creepy

>>4673240
I assumed they meant that being in University was easier than freinds' parties.

Or you losers could do the logical thing and lie to them if they ask for "credentials" of some bullshit social proof.
Seriously, you know they don't give a flying fuck about your intrests so who the fuck cares what some dumb bitch wants?

Going places for the specific purpose of finding girls NEVER EVER FUCKING WORKS. Do things you enjoy and be the slightest bit proactive, and you will meet girls. Sit inside and say, "there's nothing to do!" and be lonely. Only two choices.

So, where can I meet you guys? I have trouble finding, well, "geeky" guys on the outside world.

>>4673335
>>4673376
see the problem here buddy? i do the stuff i like, sadly those things don't involve going out, so how am i gonna find someone?

>>4673240

Ah shit, you're at Uni and you can't meet girls? <facepalm>

Alright, here's some ideas.

Chat to cute girls after lectures about the stuff in the lecture and the upcoming test. Then make your move: "Hey we should hang out some time, what's your number?" "I was about to go get a cup of coffee, would you like to join me?" (this one's great, one time I said it to a cutie and she was like "Yes! I was hoping you would ask me that!")

Get into a dorm; there will be girls all over the show and lots of parties.

If you're doing a major like engineering or comp sci, do a few Psychology classes, there are generally lots of girls in that sort of class. (Your Uni might have stats on which classes have the most women, look it up)

Join clubs (and I don't mean the gaming/anime club dumbass). Maybe a tramping club or some shit. I joined the rescue club (our city is prone to earthquakes) and we got to climb around in the tunnels under the buildings, use walkie-talkies, wear jumpsuits and helmets and strap hot girls down into stretchers, it was awesome.

This shit will work to meet guys to be friends with as well.

Girls want attention. Like they want to feel good. In their heads.

>>4673046
LISTEN, I AM GOING TO TELL YOU SOMETHING THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR ENTIRE PERCEPTION OF GIRLS, BUT FIRST, WE MUST LOOK AT A POINT YOU MADE.

>If I put myself in the position of a girl, I wouldn't want to be interrupted in the library by some fucktard trying to chat me up.

OK, THIS IS GOING TO SERIOUSLY ROCK YOUR WORLDVIEW.

*GIRLS DON'T THINK LIKE GUYS*

THEIR PERCEPTION OF THE WORLD IS MARKEDLY DIFFERENT FROM YOURS AND ANY OTHER GUY. ANY FINE YOUNG LADY IN A LIBRARY WOULD APPRECIATE A WELL-ADJUSTED YOUNG MAN APPROACHING HER.

THERE'S NOT MUCH ELSE I CAN SAY TO YOU ABOUT THIS, GODSPEED.

OP, I was in your same position a while back, so I what I did was to get out of the house to anything, it didn't really matter what. Mostly the music scene - basically every couple of nights I would check the myspace music shows calendar, or electronic music calendars, for something to do. I would find which ever band or DJ sounded good from their online samples, and go. I began to find I was really getting into psychedelic electronica, so I started going to psytrance shows all the time. At first I would basically hang around and just watch people dance and listen to the music, so I only really talked to people waiting in line to get into events. But I really wanted to be more active and social. I saw youtube videos of "jumpstyle" dance and thought it looked cool, so I just watched and practiced at home. Soon I had the basic step down and could do all kinds of tricks as well.

As it turns out, jumpstyling like a maniac complete with twists and spins, causes cute girls to slap you on the ass. What a confidence booster!

Last night went to an infected mushroom show where for once in my life I was hitting on women and having some success. It turns out it really all does come down to confidence. I was feeling great and having a blast, so it just seemed natural to approach a girl dancing nearby and say "you're cute, can I buy you a drink?"

Now it's not going to be exactly the same for you, but the point is, it seems like if you just force yourself to get out of your home, to anything and everything, and just experiment, sooner or later you can find a social niche that fits you. 1 year ago I would NEVER have believed my life would be the way it is today; I was a 21-year-old virgin with no real friends who spent all his time on the internet, I was horribly shy, and I thought those things would never change. It's incredible how far I've progressed in such a short time.

>>4673376

Unlike looking for girls, it's easy for a girl to put herself in a place where she can meet a geeky guy. Try any computer club type thing. Comic book communities, video game communities, etc as these mostly consist of single guys as there are a lot more geeky guys than girls.

Become involved in a community and you will find many guys awkwardly attracted to you, which sounds like what you're asking for.

>>4673414
No, they think about shoes and horses, while guys think about beer and baseball.

>>4673403

Anime clubs where I am from have a lot of girls, but these girls aren't real quality though

mute block please

>>4673414
hah you are an idiot dfbhdfhnkbafbngfdbnfgjnb

>>4673435
you are a total fucking faggot jknflbjkbgd

>>4673431
Cool story bro. Seriously you sound like a total shallow "alpha male", enjoy your vapid cunts.

If you're /fit/ join a sports team. You'll make guy friends to find girls with.

>>4673400

By "going out", I mean go the fuck outside. Playing WoW and watching anime WILL NEVER COUNT AS DOING SOMETHING, regardless of whether you enjoy it or not. Do something *real*, and you will be amazed with the results.

Dance lessons? Martial Arts? A fucking job? Going to the library to READ (not to meet girls)? Classes? Walking in the park? Recreational sports where it doesn't matter if you suck because every one else does too? Wine tasting? Hiking? Camping? Trying new restaurants? Get involved in your community somehow like volunteering at animal shelters/computer centers/youth programs? Hanging out in local pubs?

Is that the kind of list you're looking for? I sure fucking hope not, because all of this is pretty fucking obvious.

>>4673431
Bitches can buy me drinks

motherfuckers

>>4673542
it is!

give me more

>>4673542

I'm not OP but I already do taekwondo and hiking...problem is the only single girl I like in either of them is also my only ex :D

This thread has given me a lot of hope. Am I attractive enough?

>>4673605
nope, you are hopeless

>>4673605
This guy's a fucking masochist.

>>4673605
OP here.

Your picture is giving me hope.

No matter how fucking bad things are or can be, I'm fucking thankful I'm not you. Fuck.

>>4673605
not unless you lose weight, or at least get a consistent look.

for instance i know a fat guy with his head shaved the same length as his beard, and has some tatoos, ear piercings, and a lip piercing, and he gets girls. he also has a great personality thought.

what I'm trying to say is that appearances need to be consistent.

Look, we can't tell you where exactly to go and who exactly to approach and what exactly to say. Mostly this is up to you. You're smart enough to figure this shit out, so stop looking to us to hold your hand all the way through.

You see this time and time again - nerds(myself included) obsess over knowledge. We think that to win at life we must know enough about life, and our approach to this is to ask 4chan questions we probably already know the answer to but are too afraid to admit that we do because we're trying to put off the part where we actually go outside and give it a shot because that's scary, bad things could rejection and failure, could happen to us; disregarding the fact that the process of attempt and failure is a very quick effective way to obtain the knowledge we so value.

In short, go outside fgt and just talk to girls wtf

>>4673605
This fuck posts his face on /b/ every fucking 15 minutes. I'm getting sick and tired of his face.

College.
That is where all the action is at.
College --> Friends --> Parties/other get togetheres, etc. --> Girls --> King of the World.

>>4673376
I will tell you a story.
Some time ago I went playing some DnD with a bunch of friends I had spent a week with after knowing them through a small forum. All geeks, some more stereotyped than others. There was one girl playing with us and she brought a female friend. Now do you think we kept on drooling on the girls(they were both Ok looking, smoking hot for nerd standarts)? No, we were so enthrealled into the game that she even felt the lack of attention strange.
Why did this haooen you may ask? Because the DM was pretty good, and people were actually loving the campaign and because sometimes nerds do not even aknowledge the presence of girls because they think(know) that any action they might take thowards any girl will be futile in the long run. She and the girl who brought her ended up dating guys from that group.

>>4673542
A lot of these activities have no women or are full with middle aged women and commited girls. Shit can be hard even if you try that sort of thing

go to the gym, actually workout, make friends at the gym, work from there

wanna have sex with that bitch with ym dick. my dick in that chick. dick in chick. chickdicks. dickchicks. dickchick in my dickmanass. dickass dickchick dickfucking dickly. dicks

dickchicks chickdick in chickdickers dickass.

Get a couple of friends. Have friends introduce you to friends that are cooler than them. Hang out with cooler friends. Repeat while getting invited to parties by friends and meeting new cool friends there. It's a hard process, especially in the beginning, but it's all there really is if you don't have friends at work/school and don't want to be a bar rat.

I'm a step ahead of the OP, I guess, since I have friends. But I sure as shit am not meeting any women.

>>4673184
Well, guess what?
It works.

>>4674970

You must be incredibly shallow.

>>4675039
>It worked in an anime

>>4673197

truth. but 80% of the girls there are underageb&, so i hope you're ready to break a few laws to get laid. its not a problem for me, but some people have problems with going after jailbait, so there is your warning. also, most x pills are cut with speed in the first place, because it binds better. so when you take x, you are getting MDMA AND meth. thats why you hear terms like "tweak" and "roll" when people talk about pill quality.

ANYWAYS, if you want legal girls, just go to a fucking bar or club already. there you can fill yourself up with liquid courage, and approach women when they are actually expecting and wanting to be approached, and don't have to worry about being arrested for it.

Main realization I've had is it is OK to ask people what they're doing over the weekend, even if it's a fairly casual acquaintance. I guess I used to just wait for invitations, and that doesn't always happen if you're not great friends with the person. Even if you come across as a little desperate at first, it's better to find out things that are going on and get integrated into some circles eventually.

>>4675042
I'd like you to see:
>>4675039

>>4675042
I'm not. My ex-gf was. But she had TONS of fucking friends through that method.
I actually have no friends because I can't get the first step down. I'm not shallow at all, which is one of the main reasons that I can't get friends (or a girlfriend). Try it, though, that shit works. I guarantee it. Some friends might get pissed at you, but to tell the truth, as long as you have really incredible friends (which you're bound to meet eventually) it won't matter.

>>4673690

this guys knows whats up

You find a crowded bar, you order a drink, sit and watch the game/whatever music/TV is on. Get drunk, but not too drunk. After no one talks to you for the whole evening, go home and cry yourself to sleep.

Well done, you have reached the level of the pathetic middle-aged man standing in the shadows.

Now you've reached rock bottom you can work your way up. Go back to the bar another night or another bar, as long as it's busy enough to escape weird looks.

Drink again, but not too drunk. Cry yourself to sleep.

Eventually one night (could even be the first night) someone will - by accident or just out of interest - start talking to you.

This is your chance to level up, using conversation. If you fail, never mind, there are plenty more chances, and plenty more bars.

Once you're well known, women will notice you.

I've been at uni for 4 years and no girls. Fuck this board is depressing.

>>4675319
Just being enrolled won't make women sleep with you, you idiot.

You have to actually do something.

Hello gentlemen, here I am muteblooxing to get some shit done. Fuck yeah.

I don't know if this has been posted or not yet - I didn't read the whole thread. But...

Get a job where lots of atrractive people work. I work at a large baseball park, and there is an unlimited amount of cute girls who are hanging around working. It's a fucking breeze to get conversation going, because you can _start_ by just talking about work, then go from there.

>>4675660

Just as long as they and you are constantly aware eddie murphy has more money, then yeah, sounds good, if you can live with that fact and still enjoy flirting and relationships.

Dude;
no one meets their girlfriend at a club.
Libraries and shit is where its at.
Have you never seen a movie?

1. Make male friends
2. They know girls
3. ????
4. PROFIT

Why do you care about getting a girl? Sex really doesn't feel that much better than masturbating. You're doing all that work for nothing.

Pick up a fucking drug addiction or something. No I'm not trolling. 5 pills of fucking TRAMADOL feels better than sex in my opinion. Maybe I'm emotionally stunted or something but fuck it.

There is too much emphasis put on getting a woman. NO, I am not telling you "they will come if you stop trying so hard" because that's a bullshit lie. They only come if you have skill and try. Otherwise they ignore you and think you're not interested.

I'm telling you to stop trying, stop caring, remove women from your life. Get on some anti depressants that destroy your libido. Then some other downer for fun on the weekends.

Trust me, life gets better when you don't think about it all the time.

Theres helpful stuff itt tyvm

get a fucking job, you'll be surprised how many people you meet as a register guy

Do graffiti. Alls you need is yourself.

Funny how 90% of the 'advice' still mostly consists of 'lol go outside'.

>>4676423
>TRAMADOL

Fuck I love tramadol. Its like an hours-long nap, but youre awake. Delicious.

>>4673203
This post rings true, which means you guys need to pay close attention: You wouuld have to ENJOY doing all those things by yourself because women won't be attracted to you if you don't. If you do them simply TO attract women, things will go south because you won't even be able to say you like yourself.

Force yourself to be extroverted.

I did it and my girlfriend's currently asleep beside me.

>>4673203
You don't get invited anywhere if you don't have any friends in the first place.

You're getting /fit/ ?

Go jogging...
Look for regulars, ask for advice or just tell them you're more motivated by running with someone.

On big plus of jogging is that you don't have do sustain a real conversation, just a couple of words here and there.
Then you go for an icecream or drink, and gg.

Only works in cities though :(

>>4677227
This is the truth.
/mootblocks

talk to girls about your favourite anime

especially if you are fat with a neckbeard and a nasaly voice

bitches will be all over your dick

Guess what, fags?

In the modern American society the only socially acceptable place to meet a girl is college/university. Everything else at some point became unacceptable (work, thanks to sexual harassment bullshit) or is considered unsafe (random contact on the street, thanks to lingering fear of "strangers" from anti-pedophile training at school).

After school everyone is supposed to have a steady girlfriend, and that's it. Unless your job is so shitty, it does not require school -- then everyone is too cheap for a lawyer to care about sleeping with co-workers and bosses/subordinates.

>>4677520
How do you make friends at university?

During class everyone is paying attention. Afterwards, everyone is rushing home.
Different groups form, hard to get your foot into the door with them.

It may be a shock to some, but university isn't a place where a lot of people go to party. Most people are actually quite serious about it. Amazing, isn't it?

>>4678813
>During class everyone is paying attention. Afterwards, everyone is rushing home.
Ten minute breaks. Not everyone rushes home... actually, I almost never see anyone rushing home after class.

>Most people are actually quite serious about it
... Oh, you're in High School, aren't you?

>>4678856
Law school, but thanks.

>>4677520

The average age of marriage in the US is what, 28? In other words, well after most people have graduated.

>>4677520
Actually the most acceptable way to meet girls is through friends, but I can see why you'd overlook this.

---NEWSFLASH---
Lie to yourself and your environment about yourself. Do stuff you would never do normally. Act like a self-absorbed asshole who actually thinks he's worth a conversation. Pretend that you're not some boring, unattractive idiot.
Fucking awesome.

>>4678856

What kind of shit university do you go to where people don't care about their grades?

Look if you are still a virgin you fail at one or more of the following key points.

1) You have no anti social type personality disorders.
2) You have friends with whom you do activities or you do activities that brings you in contact with lots of people.
3) You can talk to strangers without being introduced and without hesitation.
4) You have the balls to ask someone obvious 'i like you lets go for a drink' questions.

There might be more but these are all that matters I fail partly at 3 and partly at 4, that's why I've only made it to oral and then failed...

>>4679519

I fail at #4, but not because of lack of balls. I just don't know how to phrase my request so that I don't look lame and creepy.

just join some kind of club or recreational activity and talk to people, try until you find socially proactive people that like you and will invite you to shit, get their phone numbers and then make little events on your own like inviting a few people that dont necessarily know each other to a good concert (you must know whats up in your area.. be informed) or whatever and tell them to bring people along.. just gradually build a social circle. Personally I feel I have learned the principles last year and succeed in some ways, failed in others (like getting phone numbers from dudes, it feels kind of weird?). It is a continuous quest, my fellow robot.

I ended up talking to tons of girls and dudes in the past few months and got along quite well with a lot of them but failed to establish a lasting connection, the chicks were below my stupidly high standards and the dudes I sometimes felt "had enough friends already"

good luck anyway

Just go out, bro. There's girls everywhere. Just say, 'hey, does this smell like chloroform to you?' and it's win.

>>4680258
I'm saddened no one even bothered to give me a friendly, 'lol ;)' on this.

>>4681161

You are new here aren't you?

act like joe pass faggot its that easy

>>4681161
that joke is older than the internet and your delivery was awful

>>4673046
A man doesn't go to a particular place to hunt for women. A man goes about his daily routine, and when he sees a woman he wants, he takes action.

We've all heard the old aphorism that says more or less I found what I wanted when I stopped looking for it.

Well, stop looking. Women can smell desperation a mile away.

>>4673046
femanon here. i find random and friendly conversation pleasant. stop being a pussy and do it you nigger

>>4681948

What do you expect randoms to talk about?

>>4681935
I stopped looking alright.

guess what, I'm a 21 year old virgin.

>>4682032

The fact that you're making a point of your virginity proves that you haven't stopped looking.

I literally don't know where to go. I don't know where people hang out that's not a bar or club, and I don't even know where those are. Normally people would find these things out through word of mouth, but I have no such option. I have a couple friends but they're shut-ins too so it's not exactly helpful. I work from home, I'm not at school age, and all of my hobbies involve staying inside. I need help.

>>4673151

Which is why I don't bother talking to women anymore.

>>4682201
The problem is that once you find out (club is great if you have a hobby, disco is great if you like dancing, bar is great if you are rich and like drinking) you discover that real girls don't have nice personalities at all. I'm sticking with 2D for the time being. I know I can't communicate with a fantasy, nor have sex with it, nor get it to cook for me, but when I consider the alternative, I still think it's better this way.

In class (university), I see girls sitting with nothing to do before the professor arrives. In the cafeterias, I see girls sitting alone. But it seems so creepy to just randomly strike up a conversation or walk over and say "Hey, is this seat taken? Mind if I eat with you?"

>>4673046

>but not that I'd want a dumb cunt anyway.

picky picky

just become a photographer, it can get you laid like whoah

>>4682201

Expand your hobbies to include things that will get you out of the house.

tl;dr
I don't enjoy doing things why would I want to go out and find someone who does?

>>4681935

>A man goes about his daily routine, and when he sees a woman he wants, he takes action.

This, this, a thousand times this.

Even if you're the world's biggest neckbeard, you leave the house at some point. You may just wander down to the corner store for more Cheetos and Mountain Dew, but that still counts as leaving your room, and at some point you're bound to come across a female you find attractive. Claiming an inability to locate women is like failing to locate the sky. /r9k/'s problem is follow-through, not logistics.

I'm half-tempted to try and pick up women now by loading up for a LAN party at a 7-11. I'd place a money bet that not only is it possible, it'd be easier than trying at a bar or club--fewer distractions, less competition, and a solid opening joke about your purchase.

Now riddle me this.

I have hobbies and quite a few male friends.

I mostly play paintball (speedball) competitively and am quite successful at it. I also love riding my motorbike whenever I can. The thing is that there are hardly any women who do these things. I also don't have the desire to try more things as I am content with what I am doing now.

I really want a girl who does one or the other and has her priorities straight like a career, car, and her own place to live. I expect the same things out of women as I expect out of myself.

I actually haven't met women who do these things who don't have a shit load of guys hitting on them already anyway.

What do I do? I feel like I could live out the rest of my life and be single the whole way just because of my interests.

Pic related. It's me playing ball and winning that shit.

>>4684558
>Even if you're the world's biggest neckbeard, you leave the house at some point. You may just wander down to the corner store for more Cheetos and Mountain Dew
No, I starve until mom brings it from the supermarket tbh.

>>4684156

As a recent college graduate who didn't take advantage of the opportunities available to him, please trust me on this one: summon your courage, locate your testicles, and do it.

I'm by no means bitter about my college experience, but I spent far too many years hiding from risk. It's safe and it's comfortable that way, but you'll never get outside the walls of your little self-imposed prison.

so what will you do?

More advice please :D

Yea, if you are in college and you are not working that shit, you are doing something wrong. It get's much harder when you are working 9-5 in an office.

seriously when i read that shit of "no friends at alll"

who the fuck doesn't have at least 1 fuckin friend ffs.

>>4684156
The worst they will do is act uninterested or leave quickly. No one is going to laugh in your face or whatever you come up with in your imagination. And if they act uninterested, well, it's still better than not saying anything to them.

I realize it's hard to do even if you rationally know there's no harm in it. I can't do it most of the time myself. But some days I am feeling good enough where I will sit with or strike up conversation or compliment random girls, and I promise you they will never laugh in your face or make fun of you. Just walk up with a smile and be jokey, more often than not they will just laugh too.

>>4686283
How about when you move to a new town, or that friend moves away? Sure, maybe a lot of people just don't make any effort whatsoever, but some of it can easily be attributed to circumstance.

>>4673605
NO FUCK, YOU ARE UGLY AS SHIT
REALLY
YOU ARE FUCKIN FAT

F A T

EFF AEE TEE

your people's dependence on others disgusts me.

no wonder you're all virgins

>>4686322
but then, in that case, you could befriend anyone, even if you don't like that person enough to become a close friend, you can still see him/her like once in a while and keep in contact not to feel fuckin alone and have someone to eat.

go downtown and to a Club... Or join a dojo for a Popular martial arts like Muai Thai or something
Bouncers usually go there and if you make friends with bouncers they let you cut line and for free!
And if you go to clubs and be respectful and flirt with girls you can get a girlfriend/friend

>>4686359
OK, but you still have to make an effort if you aren't exceptional enough in some way for people to gravitate toward you automatically. Some people have a hard time making conversation, or approaching new people. And if their hobbies are all things they can do alone, they won't meet anyone "naturally".

All I'm saying is it's very possible not to have friends. Due to circumstance or attitude or choice. You literally don't need anyone to get by in this society if you don't want them.

>>4673105
I really disagree, people who overuse memes are the biggest douches

>>4684156

It's not weird. You have to get into a new mindset. Be down to earth and just talk to people.

>>4686283
I'm a loser, bro. :/

Same situation except I'm not even looking for a girl but JUST FRIENDS.

Where to get?

Hi OP.

The fact of the matter is, there really "is" no proper answer to your question, because the question itself is wrong.

The question should be, what can I do to make my life even more awesome for myself and what do I want to do to have a more full life for myself?

You see, the thing about attracting friends and women is that it usually happens when we're not "trying" to do that, we're just trying to live our lives and just sort of stumble on these people.

Do you have anything you feel passionately about? Do you have anything you've always wanted to do but never did? Going to the gym? Going out to a club or simply starting some sort of hobby for yourself that isn't just an indoor thing?

If you listen to nothing I say, listen to this. Stop trying to get women and instead get a life. I don't mean that in an insulting way, I mean it literally, give yourself a life you can truly enjoy.

In fact, don't even worry about attracting women right now, just go out and work on your life? Start doing things for yourself just because you want to do it.

If you want to talk to someone, talk to them without any expectations or agendas. If someone interests you, then so be it - without the worries or wondering if you can be friends with them or get them in the sack. Don't go out looking for people's attention, because that is the path that leads to ruin. When you live to get others attention, you're not really living at all. Have you ever noticed how that you seem to be able to speak so much better to people when you're not focused on getting something from them, but simply want to share yourself and something you know?

No, go out and do things for yourself and build up your own life - then you'll start to find yourself developing friendships and maybe even stumble onto a budding romance you didn't even realize was happening.

Let things unfold naturally and focus on just living a life you want, it's really the best way for things like this to happen.

>>4686359

>someone to eat

lolwut

>>4688807


this is the most logical, cogent, and appropriate response to OPs problem.

but believe me, he ain't gonna change. robots don't come here looking to change. they come here to be ronery TOGETHER

>>4688730
If you're a student at a school, try Student activities. Anything from Anime club, Camping Group, student government something political. People who get involved in that crap are extremely sociable and friendly. Just try to go to a few meetings, and let people get warm to you and you to them. All it takes is one social friend to open all kinds of doors.

Planned parenthood
Ive met so many women getting treated for HPV that my lovely ex graced me with. They are always willing to fuck and most of them are single.

>proper answer

no, no one here knows how to write up a step-by-step retard-proof guide to you being happy and you're a shit for believing we can

go back to wallowing in your self-pity