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    3 KB Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:07:22 No.4392769  
    Serious discussion type thread.

    How do you deal with being gay/lesbian/bisexual?
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:08:15 No.4392778
    By dating guys instead of chicks.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:09:10 No.4392785
    that fat cock up my pooper.
    >> The Red Barron 06/06/09(Sat)21:09:30 No.4392792
    It's so hard to deal with, after all
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:09:32 No.4392793
    It takes a lot of stretching.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:10:39 No.4392799
    Most of my friends are okay with me being bisexual.

    I'm not a flamming faggot who wear pink t shirts and preaches shit about perez hilton, so that should be why.

    But yeah man, it's like best of both worlds, sexually speaking. Much more interesting love life.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:12:00 No.4392809
    There's nothing to deal with, even less so than others probably because I'm a reverse trap and my preference was affirmed as good/natural when I was growing up as they thought I was a girl lolz.

    I deal with being a tranny through transitioning and trying not to compare myself to cissexuals.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:12:51 No.4392815
    I go to work and live life like anyone else. It isn't some struggle like a lot make it out to be. People know I am gay and they just don't care.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:14:07 No.4392827
    Only talk about it on the internet.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:16:24 No.4392842
    Most annoying thing about being a lesbian is the girls who want to be. I'm short, Asian and kind of homely, so I've never had that problem, since it's usually the hot "lol ya im a lesbian" chicks who do that shit. Or the emo/scene ones.
    I've given up dating girls who are bisexual because it never ends up well. I also prefer dating ones who are a few years older than me. I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 22. We've been dating for a while.
    It isn't hard or anything, just annoying sifting through fake bitches. Though, I came out to my parents a few months ago and they kicked me out. That sucks too.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:18:48 No.4392867
    Well, only one of my close friends knows I'm bisexual. She helps me when I'm upset with it. I only discovered I was a few months ago, and it kind of messes with my head. She's tried to hook me up with a guy before... It didn't work out.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:19:01 No.4392868
    >>4392842
    >Asian
    >came out to my parents a few months ago and they kicked me out.

    AHAHAHAHAHAHA
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:19:33 No.4392875
    If people ask, they will find out. Otherwise I don't really flaunt my gayness about, unless I'm with close friends in which case I often overact the part for a laugh. Most people that know me know that I'm lesbian and just don't mind; if they do then they don't say anything to me and we manage to get along just fine.
    Meh, I'd cope a bit better if I wasn't continuously moaning about how damn lonely I am.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:20:54 No.4392882
    Not much to deal with, not really a big deal for me. I'm bisexual, but I'm not very open about my sexuality anyway, I'm a very private person.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:21:22 No.4392884
    Yeah its hard for a while

    I came out and my parents kicked me out, but if you can deal with the shit the sex is ok
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:22:37 No.4392897
    >>4392867
    Oh fuck now. Never let a girlfriend handle your dates. They only hook you up with sissy idiots who are like 100 pounds and are as thick as a brick.

    FUCK no.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:22:53 No.4392900
    >>4392868
    ;_;

    >>4392880
    I decided to come out when I was sure that I had absolutely no interest in dating a guy after one asked me out for the first time and I was repulsed at the thought of dating him, though he wasn't a bad person or anything.
    They've been speaking about grandchildren since I started puberty, so my dad is outraged. My mom doesn't really care, but just does whatever my dad wants.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:23:25 No.4392910
    It's pretty easy to deal with my caliber of bisexuality. I like to fap to both men and women, but I would never fuck a dude because when I think about if I would I have a general feeling of "wow, I have absolutely no desire to do that whatsoever" It's not a disgust or annything, it just really does nor appeal to me. Only one person knows I'm bisexual, and I don't really gice a shit to tell anyone else because it isn't important to me at all.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:23:27 No.4392911
    >>4392769

    By sleeping with the same sex.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:27:10 No.4392951
    >>4392875

    Wait how can you overact being a lesbian?
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:27:47 No.4392954
    >>4392951
    Being a bulldyke probably.

    not that girl btw
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:27:54 No.4392955
    >>4392910
    >bisexual
    >I would never fuck a dude

    learn2dictionary
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:28:54 No.4392968
    >>4392954

    But...that's not funny at all!
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:29:46 No.4392978
    Everyone should be bisexual. It's cool as fuck.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:30:14 No.4392983
    WHAT DO BISEXUALS LOOK LIKE

    FUCK

    I HAVE TO ASSUME YOU'RE EVERYWHERE
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:31:15 No.4392993
    by not being it duh
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:31:55 No.4392996
    >>4392978

    YOU

    WHAT DO YOU LOOK LIKE

    I HAVE TO SEEEEEEEE
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:33:38 No.4393005
    Wouldn't bisexuals really be the ones to have a hard time dealing with it?
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:35:04 No.4393010
    >>4392955
    no u

    If you get an erection to a dong by itself, I'm pretty sure that makes you bisexual. Not to mention the 4 or 5 gigs of gay porn I have on my computer.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:35:39 No.4393016
    Better question would be how do I deal with being lonely?

    I don't have any problems being gay. I have problems with having never had a boyfriend. ;__________;
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:36:25 No.4393023
    I ignore it. I'm a shy permavirgin anyway, so it doesn't matter.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:36:50 No.4393029
    >>4392996
    Last thing I'd do is to break my privacy posting a photo in the internet.

    But yeah I can describe myself.

    White, black, short hair, black eyes, skinny, 6'0, dresses normally, etc.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:38:20 No.4393040
    >>4393029


    ARGH THE BISEXUALS

    THE BISEXUALS DON'T EXIIIIIISSSSSSSTTT
    >> Juventus !!Oo43raDvH61 06/06/09(Sat)21:39:35 No.4393051
    I know how my friend does it; he simply surrounds himself with people who don't care that he happens to like it up the ass and has an attraction to men. He ignores the religious and most of the political bullshit and simply lives his life best he can. Fuck, if I ever turn gay, I hope I can handle like him.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:42:38 No.4393084
    >>4393040
    We do, bro.

    We're in your way to work, walking towards you. We're in the grocery store, behind you, holding after shave and condoms. We let you pass first when we open a door. We teach your children, we're your psychologist, your favorite composer, writer, director...

    We are everywhere, and we are everybody.

    THE BISEXUAL CONSPIRACY IS HERE.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:43:31 No.4393092
    >>4393084

    At least until you grow up and mature

    amirite or amirite?

    :3
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:46:01 No.4393113
    >>4392996

    Female, white, black bob cut hair, blue eyes, glasses, average face, small tits, 5'8", 135lbs, dresses boyishly, lesbian.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:48:29 No.4393128
    >>4392769
    I embrace it, and love myself for what I am.

    What, how SHOULD I be dealing with it?
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:49:52 No.4393146
    >>4393128
    It's a social stigma, in case you haven't found out yet.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:50:18 No.4393150
    Are you implying that being gay/lesbian/homosexual is a choice?
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:52:38 No.4393167
    I'm bisexual (technically, pansexual, but no one uses that word). No one believes me, because I'm attractive-ish. So they think I'm either faking it or confused, or they just don't believe in bisexuality in the first place. I don't really bring it up unless asked (which never happens). So I guess I don't deal with it.

    ...
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:52:40 No.4393168
    I ignore it, and if it hurts too much I get really high.
    I'm too ugly to deserve sex anyway.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:54:43 No.4393192
    I'm bisexual and I've been kicked out of the house and had some gender confussion.

    Feels bad, man.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:55:36 No.4393199
    >>4393167

    FFFFFFFUUUUUUUUU

    WHAT

    WHAT DO YOU LOOK LIKE

    THIS DOESN'T MAKE SENSE

    I MUST SEEEEE I MUST SEEEE WE MUST SEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

    WE WISHES IIITTTT PRECIOUSSSSS
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:57:19 No.4393214
    >>4393199
    I don't understand why you want to see bisexual people.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:57:31 No.4393215
    >>4393128
    Maybe I should state what I am for further clarification: I'm a multisexual/pansexual/whateversexual. I "act" "straight" and "look" "straight" so it's not like I've ever gotten flak for it. I also don't see a reason to reveal why I like girls, boys, dogs, traps and lolis (other than legal ones lol).
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:57:42 No.4393218
    >>4393167
    Why would people not believe you because you're attractive? You sound like a douche.
    >> dUnK !!dUnKBPe0NjE 06/06/09(Sat)21:58:23 No.4393224
    Imagine a world in which people wouldn't have to "deal with it", it would just be accepted and there wouldn't be a backlash or unfair judgments.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)21:59:01 No.4393229
    >>4393218
    Hate to tell you this, but the stereotype of "real" lesbians and bisexuals is that they're ugly and wear men's clothing.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:00:39 No.4393243
    I think this should be a "coming out to 4chan" party. With pictures.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:03:40 No.4393264
    >>4393229
    Bullshit on bisexuals.

    Bisexuals tend to be dudes with girly features but are too scared to become full gay.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:06:10 No.4393279
    >>4393264
    And the female ones all just want attention. Okay, good job at stereotyping, we can move along now.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:07:03 No.4393287
    >>4393092
    I'm really tired of both the straight and gay community denouncing bisexuals. What makes it seriously "immature"?
    >> Anonymous of College Park,MD 06/06/09(Sat)22:08:23 No.4393300
    How do I deal with being bisexual? Stay closeted, until I'm truly independent.

    My parents are supporting me, so that gives me a huge incentive not to come out.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:08:53 No.4393307
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    Well I'm a lesbian, I date girls only because I'm actually afraid of men. My dad was an abusive person, he would physical hurt my mom and I all the time when I was younger. He would get drunk and lock me in the basement while he went after my mom. Sometimes he would whip me if I tried to stop him. My mom eventually left him and moved to a different state. I get really paranoid and anxious when I'm around a large group of men. I don't hate males or anything, I just couldn't ever get close to them. I've tried dating guys but it always ended with this unexplained feeling. They weren't bad or anything, I just couldn't be myself. Whenever I go out to dinner with my girlfriends, I tried to avoid bars or heavily crowded resturants. I am quiet fearful of loud drunken men who sneer and make rude cat calls. My chest tightens and it becomes hard for me to breathe.I would say I'm one of those lipstick lesbian. I do have male friends but I have always felt the most comfortable and secure with girls.


    I have told my mom but I haven't spoken to my dad in years. I'm pretty sure he can rot in hell for all I care. My mom does wish that I would have children in the future. I'm not too sure, I don't mind adopting.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:08:55 No.4393309
    >>4393287

    Perhaps they think they can't decide.

    bisexualblox
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:09:03 No.4393311
    i'm a bi dude. i'm 19, but I had my first gay masturbation fantasy when I was 17. The first few weeks after that were kinda confusing, but I just got over it. Kinda ironic, cause I was a big homophobe when i was younger. it started with me just naturally pretending to be the girl in the porno. then i moved on to ladyboy porn and then actual gay porn.

    I'm a pretty average lookin dude. I generally prefer women to men, but if it's a choice between a really hot/cute guy and an average chick, im definitely pickin the guy. I'm a top, but i dont mind guys with bigger muscles than me. if they are also a top, we could just 69 or take turns bj or w/e, no big deal.

    I haven't come out to anyone yet, but i think my sister knows, cause of some things I've said, and she subtly jokes about it with me.

    But yeah, I haven't come out yet because many still believe bisexuals don't exist and it would just be unnecessary drama.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:11:48 No.4393328
    WE'RE LOOKED DOWN EVEN BY FAGS AND BULLDYKES.

    US BISEXUAL ARE THE MOST NORMALS AROUND HERE, FUCKFACES.

    FREUD SUPPORT US!
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:19:52 No.4393380
    >>4393287
    >>4393309

    It's not that they "can't decide," but they're so adamant that it's a true sexuality when it doesn't have longevity. Just admit you have fucked up hormones and are attracted to everyone because of it-- I honestly don't care that you fuck men and women, and I don't care that you express it openly.

    But for the love of mary hangin off the cross don't force feed me that bullshit that you'll be bisexual into your 30s and 40s and beyond. And I'm not even mentioning the years of studies that have failed to support that true bisexuality even exists in men. Ohp! I just did!
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:20:02 No.4393381
    >>4393150
    are you implying that it's not?
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:21:59 No.4393395
    >>4393307
    >he would physical hurt my mom and I
    >he would hurt...I


    Sure is hypercorrect lesbian in here
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:22:36 No.4393403
    >>4393307
    OMG hot

    call me. lesbians love me.
    ill be waiting
    -a dude
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:22:36 No.4393404
    >>4393380

    To be fair, gays and lesbians have fucked up hormones and chemical imbalances also.

    It's a "disease", if you will.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:23:06 No.4393412
    I like both sexes, but I don't really know how to come out and say it since everyone will just look at me like i'm just confuzed. So I don't attract any attention to it, other then the few same sex relationships i've had, but to my friends that was just a "phase". Fuck I hate being in the middle, neither side wants you.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:23:55 No.4393415
    Sexuality is just a social construct. I never gave it much thought. One day I woke up and said "Hey, I'd like to see what it's like being with guys" and I tried it. I've even fallen in love with guys. That really didn't change anything, I'm still me. I don't need a label or to join some clique. I can fall in love and fuck men and women, that's it.
    Why do you need a label?
    Why do you need to make a big deal out of it?
    Why do you care so much? Just enjoy life and stop being such a fucking attention whore.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:24:25 No.4393419
    >>4393404


    Right, just like having asthma or something except people hate you for it ; - ;
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:25:39 No.4393429
    >>4393380
    Kinsey did plenty of work that most humans are in fact bisexual by nature. Other researchers came to this conclusion.
    >> OP !!tOywj9B+/qA 06/06/09(Sat)22:26:23 No.4393431
    >>4393307
    LOL YOU A CRAZY BEOTCH. Seriously get some fucking help.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:27:05 No.4393441
    >>4393415


    Ugh you are just the worst kind of person.

    There is something fundamentally different about you if you get sexually aroused by the same sex. I'm not saying that it's good or bad, but, for srs, shut the fuck up about it. We have labels for a reason.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:27:07 No.4393442
    >>4393380
    It can exist into any age, if the person either never settles down, or is in a non-monagomous relationship.

    I'd say it can exist even in a monagomous relationship. Just because a person is in a relationship with one person doesn't mean they're not thinking of others - of either sex.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:32:36 No.4393492
    >>4393442

    Please keep your bullshit to yourself KTHX

    I simply don't believe that people maintain bisexuality for very long. Like a decade at most.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:39:06 No.4393539
    >>4393492
    Well why not? Is there a reason?
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:44:15 No.4393573
    >>4393441
    Even if there's something different with me, what's the point in labeling it? I don't see myself as gay, straight, bi or pedo. I'm just me. Society's need to label and catalog people and their willingness to be tagged seems a bit soul-crushing and dehumanizing to me.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)22:47:38 No.4393596
    Too many bleeding heart hippies in this thread.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)23:03:33 No.4393741
    You're not dealing with your sexuality, you're dealing with society's opinions.
    Do you "deal" with your favorite meal or your favorite TV show? No. And you know why? Because no one will judge you for it.
    You faggots are at the mercy of society's perception.
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)23:08:21 No.4393797
    >>4392769

    I don't, there's nothing do deal with. They're people just like I am, they're looking for the right person just like I am, so why should I persecute them for no reason?
    fuck, they probably have better luck than I do at finding a soul mate
    >> Anonymous 06/06/09(Sat)23:22:09 No.4393885
    ITT LOOK AT US LOOK AT US WE'RE HOMOSEXUALS WE'RE SO UNIQUE AND SPECIAL AND OUR STRUGGLE IS SO TOUGH.
    Seriously, GTFO.



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