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!mG5O0Tff5s 05/28/09(Thu)13:15:07 No.4296594>>4296334 While
this is only one case, and on an anonymous message board, the sentiment
is typical. Father who is likely to be a better parent is ousted by the
mother, because one of the main reason a the man is a better parent
(responsible, has a job, earns money) is seen as a disadvantage to
parenting as it takes time away from the child. A non-working woman may
have mor etime to spend with a child, but not all time is equal. Who
would be a bette rinfluence on a child - someone who works to support
society or someone who's purpose is to be supported by society while it
looks after children that want to and can be looked after by a better
role model.
It's heart renching and it's an issue, but again
it's politically charged territory. Any male attempt to rally around
this cause has painted them as mysoginistic. Women just latch onto the
fact the husband probably detests their wife and just labels them as a
mysogonist. This crap genuinly makes me rage, but while moderate
femenists may agree with injusticed men they don't get behind the
issue, which makes their support useless at the level of activism.
This
idea rings true throughout a lot of things. Moderate femenists, such as
Actual Feminist, do not get behind issues that would equal the playing
field for men, rather they just stay out of them altogether. This
doesn't help anyone. You can't say you care about equality if you don't
work on both sides of the issue. This is why I find any sort of male or
female based groups horrible. It should be working towards equal
rights, not being a battle of resources and politics between to extreme
sides of the issue. This isn't the situation we're in though. Right
now, if either sides startsdismantling it is seen as a weakness that
must be exploted to further the ideals of the other group. Truely a
disgusting state of affairs caused by sexism, femenism and then the
improper perpetuation of gender rights groups. |