Is having severe acne an excuse?

I raise soft determinism

mootblacks

BUT ITS NOT MY FAULT BAAAAW

>>4295513
acne is something you can get rid of. it's a curable disease. sometimes you need to try more than others, but regardless, you have to try. protip: /r9k/ is not a cure for acne.

>>4295532
How about severe acne scarring that won't go away no matter what you try?

>>4295513
When was the last time you saw a dematologist about that acne? Are you following the dermatologists advice to the letter, trying you hardest, researching methods of getting rid of it on the internet, exercising daily?

if you aren't doing all that and more then yes, it is your fault

Asperger's is definitely not made up. I know a guy with asperger's. You can tell. Completely.

>>4295502
Fuck that social shit you stupid monkey

mutemenomore
>>4295502
what exactly am i looking at here???

I'm not blaming anyone here bro

OP is trollan, 'cause asperger's is real. Which isn't to say everyone has it.

I'm not a social fuck up, OP. I get along well with people of both genders, have a reasonably well-paying job doing something I find mildly enjoyable, and am in good shape (although my endurance is pretty much shit).

>>4295537
have you talked to a dermatologist? accutane will remove it. it is the be all end all of acne treatments. if it doesn't work, it's not acne. if you're too lazy to get yourself hooked up, i hope you enjoy being a virgin.

It is my fault. But I don't blame that shit anyway.

>>4295539
I know I guy with that too. He comes and talks to me and runs out of things to say, the conversation is clearly over, he's still standing right there staring at me, I try a number of conversation closers like, "well I'd better get back to work", he stares, hard at his feet then jerks his head up shouts BYE and walks fast in the other direction.

He told me I'm one of his closest friends the other day. He's a pretty cool guy. He told me he's had sex with 9 girls. He's 17 and neckbeard. He's probably on this board actually.

God I love being socially apt.

Is there a cure for ugliness?
I have big bulging eyes, weak chin, thick eyebrows, skinny face, crooked teeth, thin lips...
I'm destined to be a virgin 4ever. I accepted that fate a long time ago.

>>4295568
Yes. There is. Style and money.

I know it's my fault but when I try to find a job and get told "WE RNT HIRING LOL" I give up. I don't have a car to drive anywhere, no friends ect. Funny thing is I was the most sociable guy in High School. So much so I would get in trouble for it.

I like being outside it's just getting through the front door feels like it takes so much fucking effort.

>>4295502

Is my birth defect which required 7 major operations from birth to age 10 and left me with a weak bladder and a 3" penis with extensive scaring my fault?

Fuck you, op. FUCK YOU.

>>4295568
You're your own worst critic, damn near everybody is. You think people care about your bulging eyes? Do shit with your hair it can do fucking wonders.

>I accepted that fate
This is the only reason you'll never get laid. Ugly people get laid daily and nightly, you've given up and that's why you wont be getting anywhere in your life.

>>4295583
I have good style but money is hard to come by when you are ugly.

i have social phobia. Is it made up too?

I have a wide array of poor excuses, OP.

Don't judge me.

>>4295592
How the fuck are 7 major operations stopping you from doing anything you peice of shit?

3" erect? I fucking doubt it. Unless you are a fatty,

My cock is scarred to hell from when I zipped the little fucker in my jeans. I have a steady girlfriend and she doesn't give a shit. Jesus take some pride in yourself scumbag.

>>4295595
No, money is hard to come by when you're a pussy faggot who thinks of himself as ugly and is resigned to his "fate". Looks don't have much to do with most jobs. Style does, but not looks.

>>4295617
>Looks don't have much to do with most jobs. Style does, but not looks.

New Anon here. This confuses me. Do people just not look people in the face anymore? People really just see you're dressed nice and go "Well I'll tolerate his presence because he's dressed nice."?

Unfathomable to me. I guess I'm just an extremely face-oriented person.

No one who can go onto 4chan and type a long post on /r9k/ is incapable of having no social lives. They just need to learn how.

It's not a matter of them being lazy, it's just them not wanting to understand that they can improve their social life. They can be hard workers who are fucking annoying and boring. If they really wanted to, they could pay attention to other people, read up on social interactions, and actually talk.

Even then, having a "good social life" doesn't mean everything will go perfect for you. No matter how good your life is, there will always be negative parts to it.

You talk as though doing the exact opposite is not in essence the same thing. There's nothing inherent with "taking responsibility" that changes the situation. You gotta be competent, efficient, precise, elegant. Just like everything else.

>>4295653
If you have a sexy face, people will want you for sex.

If you're dressed well, people will see the effort you put into your appearance. If you can work on one thing, they may assume you can work on another. And don't say you can't afford good looking clothes. Go to a thrift store if you don't have much money. I go to thrift stores and find new(or almost new) clothes all the time for dirt cheap. I also make sure it fits me well and looks good with my other pieces of clothing. This has helped me find a job.

>>4295653
you newfag? Here's a good piece of advice. Leave this place and never look back.

>>4295702

Well, I don't have social problems (lol4chan) so much as I was just confused by that one thing.

I have a difficult time noticing peoples' clothes, and only a slightly better time remembering faces, so I guess I just haven't experienced reacting to someone's clothing. Faces, initially, but when I think back on that person I don't recall faces very well at all.

Go back far enough and all conversations I can remember are basically happening with scenery because the person's features have just faded.

>>4295654
Eh, no, that sounds like too much work.

I'd much rather stay down in the basement posting on 4chan all day.

>>4295614

3" erect, and not a bullshit zipper scar lol. Not fat either. I also have a bend in my spine that makes me walk funny. I often piss my pants.

>>4295702

As someone who has done that, as well as tried (and moderately succeed) to combat severe acne and a few other unfortunate skin conditions, changing my posture, losing over 60 pounds of fat that I've had pretty much my entire life, and forcing myself to be more outgoing, I still can't seem see anything but an extremely unattractive person when I look at myself.

At this point, I actually hope that what I have is some sort of severe case of body dysmorphia, because if it isn't then there's nothing else I can do but just give up and revert back to being a lonely overweight faggot.

It occurs to me the reason I can't meet people is I don't know how to do meaningless smalltalk. I generally only speak when it's necessary to request or convey information, so the idea of asking someone about the weather knowing full well that neither of us really gives a shit just isn't in my repertoire.

>>4295617
>>4295617

Money is hard to come where I live. I don't live in USA or europe so fuck it. Even if you finish college like me you earn minimum wage here so shut up. If you didn't finish college, you earn half of the minimum wage so I believe I am still well off because at least I can eat three times a day.

>>4295756
BULLSHIT ZIPPER SCAR EH? LOOK WHAT I DID TO MYSELF. LOOK.

forgive me I hadn't trimmed in a while.

>>4295839

LMAO that must've hurt like hell, but at least your dick isn't THREE MOTHERFUCKING INCHES!!!

It will probably heal too.

OP here
Good work all of you who aren't social fuck ups/don't blame anyone but yourself.

To the people with acne, 3 inch penises, made up social conditions, obesity and poor genetics.
GET FUCKED ALL I'M READING ARE EXCUSES.

i am a social fuck up and i take full responsibility for my actions.

i dont claim to have aspergers or any sort of social disability, im just uncomfortably poor at holding conversations.
i couldnt even try to blame my parents, theyve been nothing but supportive my entire life.
my girlfriend is my closest (and almost only) friend and without her i would be left with almost nothing.
i am a christian with an actual IQ of 132, did alright at school and im currently halfway through a degree in pharmaceutics.

i am quite the elitist, but im also pessimistic, socially retarded and completely miserable for my own shortcomings.

shit sucks yeah?