She keeps rejecting my date requests, but then contrives ridiculous reasons to hang out with me in a totally-not-a-date-honest scenario. We do all the usual shit, connect intellectually and physically, we have unbreakable minute-long eyecontact where we just stare deep into each others' eyes...

So what's the deal, bro?

How does I win at life?

How can I talk to girls normally when every time I see them I imagine sexing them.

>>4052061

You're basically like a brother to her.

Girls can get sick of hanging out with other girls once in a while and just want to be with a guy in a completely non-sexual setting. It might be time to just give up hope on being with her in a romantic way, since it sounds like she doesn't see you that way in return.

Depending on how many times you've asked her out, you may come off as "needy." Definitely a turn-off. Your best bet here is to either give up on asking her out and be her friend or just to reduce contact with her.

- Advice Anon

How do I got about 'hanging out' or 'chilling' with friends who I'm not that close to?

I have no trouble hanging out with close friends, but would like to expand social circles

Also, how do I have fun around female friends when it's just her and I in a house?

Where is a good place to tickle so it doesn't seem creepy?

Thanks for the reminder that you're still a super-cool-guy even though you're here on a Saturday night. I trust you with my innermost secrets now! Welcome to the elite club of winners who come here to feel good about themselves nearly half the time.

>>4052068

Set goals and accomplish them. Strive for happiness and try to do everything you attempt well. Don't take life too seriously, and try to have fun. Also, don't take rejection or failure personally - get back up and keep trying.

- Advice Anon

I am on ok terms with an attractive woman at work. I went out to lunch with her a few times, but I felt like I wasn't contibuting enough to the conversation and I felt boring, so I stopped inviting her. Now I eat alone.

I want to start inviting her out to do things.

This questions is a lot more comprehensive than just this issue, but basically how do I become more interesting, and what do I invite people to do if I don't have an established circle of friends?

I know people I could invite out... but I don't know what to.

>>4052088

Talk to uglier girls.

Just kidding, Anon. Practice more. The more girls you talk to, the more naturally it will seem. Talk to a new girl you'd meet like you'd talk to a guy buddy or a sister (not necessarily in the same exact way - but the general tone of the conversation). Try to take the pressure off the conversation, and the sexual tension should go down a bit.

- Advice Anon

what's the minor injury OP? bumpu

>>4052109

Three for the price of one, eh Anon? Alright, here goes...

1) Invite them out in a group setting with the friends you are close to. Introduce the new person and try to act like he/she's "part of the group." Get everyone else talking to the new person, and the pressure will be off you to be the sole entertainer.

2) Depends on what you both like to do. Watch a movie, play video games, or just chat about life. If she's there as a friend, there's no pressure on the situation. Just do anything you'd do with a normal male friend, as long as the girl's into it.

3) Depends on who the "target" is. The sides of the stomach area are always a safe bet. Just don't wrap your arms around the person or get in too close.

- Advice Anon

I am a highschoolfag and I really like this girl, she hasn't had any dating experience either...which is good. we went to a dance together nothing happened, the only problem in this whole thing is that she switched lunches at 2nd semester and I never see her, and when I do I get too embarresed to engage in any conversation, let alone the long lasting dialoge we had at lunch.
I may be taking it to an extreme, but I was thinking of joining the school color guard just to get some damn face time. I can go under the rogue that its because my sister did it when she was in HS(which she did) and its the closest thing to rotc this school has(did it in freshman year at another school liked it alot, but we moved)

So advice anon, should I go with it or just give up and stop fucking obsessing?

>>4052040

Hey, Advice Anon.

I have a very good friend that I've been close to for years. We always share the same interests and have routine talks about everything - we talk at least once a day if we can help it. We were even separated at some point and moved away from each other, but now we're back together and closer than ever. Other people who've known us both well have made comments that we're like 'twins separated at birth' to put our relationship in perspective.

Lately, though, I've been wanting to get a little closer and discover the truth to these feelings. I'd like to say I'm in love, but I'm not quite sure. How can I find out if I've truly fallen or if it's just a little crush?