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Let's go throught the motions shall we?
Let's assume for a moment that we are both logical beings of somewhat average mental intelligence talking in real life.
Now that that fallacy is out of the way, let's look at gender sterotypes.
A
man is almost always the first to 'initiate'. This is true. Girls
giggle and fawn as they wait for the alpha male to ask them out/take
them to the moves/dance/blowjob.
It is, and always will be, easier for the average female to get laid than it will male.
Now
that we have that proposition, examine this. Since it is easier for a
female to get 'the sex', why should we reward them for it? It's like
rewarding a dog for fetching a stick. It's not just in their nature,
the whole of female society raises them to be that way, just look at
any female magazine.
Sex tips? Guide to commitment problems?
How to find a rich handsome man? Ring a bell? Note that it is not how
to find a man, but how to find the 'perfect' one. Most of the time it's not 'help! I can't find a boyfriend!' it's 'help! I can't find a boyfriend who is x,y or z!'
Now look at men's books.
Neil
Strauss 'The Game' is just about how to pick up women. Preferably hot
ones, but not just. They know their target audience has no room to be
picky.
The average male will always work harder to get sex
than the female. Fair enough, its a simple yet efficient form of
natural selection. Yet, this is why we reward men for it. Because its a
challenge (for most) men to pick up women. I'm just talking base
actions, going up to a girl, chatting her up, feeling the situation and
then going full speed. Jokes, pick up lines, wing men, amusing
anecdotes and balls of steel.
What does the average female do? Stand there with a drink in hand until some hard working male gets in there.
So, that's why we call girls sluts and men players. Because we reward actions against challenge, not actions without. |