>>2972840

I don't believe that is you, enjoy your lies.

Inb4 white knights and
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>>2975131
copypasta repost is copy pasta repost.

Show your tits to every guy you see.

Get outside more.

Go to malls, socialize.

Enjoy life.

>>2975150
It won't be white knights, it'll just be "hurr durr where do you live?"

Candied YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMS

>>2975168
doubtful that this is a srs post....

Well there are alot of people like the ones you are talking about. But you can find decent people with good things to say in any group. Also sarcasm can be turned into humor, although some dumb people don't get it. Socialize more because if you don't you will never make good friends since you get the courage to do something after you do it and not before, and please post more of your pics because you are beautiful.

I'll fuck you rotten Op.

Either way, your better off. Books should be your only friend.

>>2975181

What in the shit

Aw, what a sweetheart. :3

>>2975131
Nothing. Even if you pretend not to be a loser or somehow achieve a veneer of confidence, inside you'll still be the same old you. This will be the case throughout your entire life. You will die a loser. There is nothing you can do. You'd better start getting comfortable with that fact.

>>2975210
I'M NOT REALLY SURE, NO

itt

dude posts about himself

replaces 'gf' with 'bf', replaces selfpic with random camshot

>>2975258
correction: a 13-year-old dude, with a name like that

Oi... I'm sorry I had to go to sleep last night :) I wanted to take my post down but I didn't know how, I'm not exactly used to these forums. Anyway, I don't see why I needed to prove who I am, but here I am

>>2975248
>>2975181
that's some well made stuff man

OP has a point about people only talking about stupid shit like TV shows. The only solution is to find cooler people.

Oops forgot to add pic, I'm 20 and in college, just ahving trouble connecting to my peers

>>2975285
YOU'RE TELLING ME, I WISH I HAD A SOURCE FOR THIS SHIT

>>2975320
wait. i wanna help, and first i need confirmation that you're real.

draw a smiley face on your palm under the "r9k"

>>2975242


Arg... Lol that's kinda sad, I hope it doesn't continue

find the hippies and the goths op. They are not the most intellegent but your more likely to find some people who have read books around hippies and goths then any other sub culture

>>2975320
I understand this feeling, as I have gone through college as a shy girl, wondering when I would actually meet the people I had expected to meet, that talked about things that weren't TV, video games, or themselves. I honestly can't say that I have much good advice on how to deal with this, other than being patient... even so, I have not emerged from college with any longlasting friendships. I had better luck with meeting good people outside of my school, while travelling.

>>2975148
:(... I don't like to lie, and I don't enjoy them

>>2975386

Smiley? :)

Where do you live?

Also get a part time job that forces you to talk to people. Waitress, fast food front counter (or subway since you do it all). You'll pick up normal conversation habits and figure out ways to extend conversations you want to. Helped me out

Holy shit, this thread is going to live forever...

>>2975391
>>2975320
>>2975131
determined trolling

>>2975419

Oh my god. Oh dear god. This thread will not end well. This thread will NOT END WELL. BRACE FOR IMPACT. THE IMPACT OF A MILLION WEEABOO VIRGINS CONVERGING ON THIS LOCATION.

>>2975419
have you ever camwhored in /b/? I think i recognize you.

the problem is, I've done things that deals a alot with society. I smoke weed and do occassional other drugs, I worked at two different restaurants, it was really great but I got fired. It always feels like i try to hard when I talk to people, what can I do to make myself feel comfortable?

>>2975131
>Last night i had a bf problem

You have a boyfriend, so what exactly is the problem? Stop cam-whoring slut.

>>2975448

No I've never posted on 4chan, :) I figure this section was nice so I'd come here for some social problems that I have but I guess things can go bad and people don't wanna hear about someone else's problems when they have their own? Well, I didn't want to pay money for a counselor, and I wouldn't be able to talk about my problems face to face with someone

The people you want to talk to are ugly or fat or both OP. Fat and ugly people have to develop great personalities or else no one will talk to them.

You will notice him because people like him but he never gets laid. Fuck him plox op.

>>2975462

We haven't seen eachother for almost half a year, and some of you wanted proof. Does that answer your accusations?

Alright gentlemen, I know this is lot to ask, but please, don't give this camwhore any attention and let this thread die. Just for this once, ok?

>>2975450
smoke more weed.
What area do you live in? Just go to online sites like this and ask if anyone wants to do hang out in the park for a while. Just make sure it is a nice populated area in the day time of corse.

an actual, potentialy good quality thread. with what appears to be a shy, attractive Asian chick. this is almost /r9k/'s wet dream. and im here to witness it

too bad i'm gay. sage.

OP, excuse me for saying so but I find it incredibly difficult to believe you're not trolling. Attractive Asian girls have problems, sure, but I'm going to wager that they're considerably less dire than most other people.

Just from the way you look and claim to act, at any given moment you should have a support network of at least a gajillion male 'friends' willing to go above and beyond the call to help you find your place in this world if it means a chance to hang out with you and possibly cop a feel while you're unconscious and/or inebriated.

tl;dr you'll be fine.

Arg, I came here for advice, but all most of you have given me was trolls and name calling, you asked for proof, but say I'm camhoring, this crowd can't seem to make up their mind as to what they want. But thanks for the few that actually tried.

>>2975475
Why havent you seen each other for a year? So he is not really your boyfriend then.

Also you a FOB asian or american-born asian?

>>2975450
Since I've never really felt like that and I'm not a psychologist, I can't offer much help. But you should honestly stop worrying about such petty things. Maybe you find that difficult, but try to reason with yourself just why you feel 'self-conscious'. If you learn to appreciate every aspect of life and strive to be comfortable, what others think of you is trivial. Except of course, when you're at work, professionalism means you often have to go out of your comfort zone. If you can't relate to the people you're talking to, just lightly let them know; if they can't stop for a moment and consider you, then you don't need to be talking to them. Try to just be observant and find good humor in as much as you can, then you'll realize being shy isn't such a bad thing. I don't know, sorry if I'm no help. Also, please don't use 'bf' as an abbreviation anymore. It irks me. :>

The question is why do you feel uncomfortable? it sounds like a self confidence problem to me but depending on why depends on my answer

>>2975419
ok, you look legit. I'll see what I can come up with.

so I read through all your posts, and you seem to (like most others seeking help on this board) be nervous about what other people think of you.

back a few years ago, I was in your position. i was constantly stressing out over what others thought and said about me. I've since solved the problem (quite easily, too).

Being the TOTAL NERD that I was, I began solving the problem in the same way I solved all my problems - reading books. There's a book - you've probably heard of it - called "HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE" by Dale Carnegie. Read it.. pirate it if you have to. It's worth every second you invest into it. It puts you in the right mindset to start being an awesome chick.

After you get around that, just approach other guys/girls. Don't even think about it. Approach enough people, and it will become natural to you. And, with the knowledge gleaned from the aforementioned book, you'll be a supastar.

good luck :) <--smiley!

This reminds me of a recent MADE episode with some shy softball dyke that wanted to become a rock star. The entire "meet <name> she/he's a blah blah blah" intro segment was her whinging about being awkward, unable to find friends, acting shy, etc. Then she mentions her boyfriend and best friend, and it cuts to a scene of her getting DP'd by her two friends.

Of course that last tidbit didn't happen, but it might as well have because it's all bullshit anyway. Girls with social problems? You don't know the half of it, you vapid twit.

you don't have a hobby or whatnot? Why can't you talk about things you do then?

oh, and feel free to mention your bf problem as well - we'll be glad to help.

Here is a question to the OP :

How much in Lai See money did you get during New Years last week? I got $700 dollars.

sounds like op has a social anxiety disorder... google social anxiety support forum....
go to your doctors.... they`ll prescribe you meds... which will make you less bothered about things... but its also possible, your just not around the rite type of people....
doesnt mean your a looser, just means your unique... PS I can stick it in your pooper?

I have the same problem as OP, only I'm not a girl so no one on /r9k/ gives a fuck.
Anyway, sage for camwhoring.

No, i was born in china, came here when I was 8, since I moved to america I haven't had very many friends. And the only place i could find relief would be on the internet where i feel more comfortable to not to talk to people face to face. I just want to get out there and be able to converse with peers but it's really hard, I'm not trying to troll with my posts -_- I just can't seem to get through my shyness. I live in LA, kush is really easy to find here :) I think I only open up to some certain people, very little amount but the person I buy from is very nice so I can deal

>>2975537

You fucker, I only got $200. Fuck your affluent triad family.

>>2975522
I don't think reading self-help books is necessary, ever. But you are absolutely right about approaching people. OP, practice makes perfect! You might find yourself getting embarrassed often, I used to all the time and I still do sometimes today (it was horrible when I first started working). But just know that eventually it will get better, like riding a bike, learning to use the toilet, and everything else. Just try. You may fail often. But you will make progress and it will feel great.

i was going to comment on the camwhoring, telling her to start tripcoding and fully become cancer etc. but i cant. fuck im not usually this mean, but sometimes you just gotta call "i dont believe you have problems, enjoy your trolling"

>>2975553
I am the same anon as this post >>2975537 . And people say that you cannot tell between the asian ethnicities. I know from your pictures that you posted that you were Chinese.

ARR ROOK THE SAME

>>2975530

I can't believe you watch MTV, fagot.

ITT WHEN A GIRL DOES IT SHE'S PRETTY
WHEN A GUY DOES IT HE'S PRETTY PATHETIC

You are a relatively attractive girl, so you can do nothing and still evade loser-status. Go somewhere and hang around and good things will happen.

>>2975562
I would agree with you that they are not necessary, but they did help to inspire me to start making some changes.

>>2975553

I actually think I like you a lot. And if you'd be willing to come live with me, I would give you peace of mind the way your meddlesome bf never could. We could hold hands and drink pop. Not trolling either, we could really make this work. And I'll help you to find yourself and meet your full potential. So how's about it? Let's ditch this one-horse town.

>>2975575
I knew she was Chinese also.

>>2975131

thank you I will check that book out!

>>2975588

ROLLS ROLLIN ROLLS ROLLIN ROLLIN ROLLIN RAWHIDE

>>2975581
Thats life bro... get used to it..

>>2975553
Los Angeles or Louisiana?

One is LA the other is L.A.

OP, I happen to think we were made for each other. I have very potent genes and our children would look fantastic. I also know how to deal with traditional parents and helping them to overcome their anxiety towards having a white son-in-law because I'm very understanding of other peoples and cultures.

I'm tall, not too skinny and I come from a considerably well-to-do family. I'm also very social and could take you to exclusive places. Just think about it.

>>2975575
>you cannot tell between the asian ethnicities.

My rule of thumb is that Koreans have round faces, Japanese have angular faces and Chinese are somewhere inbetween.

OP why do you look exactly like my ex?

Hha.. I don't really get out much, I discovered the internet when I was 15 and has been locked in myself on here ever since so i don't get much practice with going out with people.

troubled, your exactly like me, just like a female asian version which i find TOTALLY hot let's hang out kk? im not creepy or anything i promise...

Sage for cancer that's killing /r9k/.
OP, you're an annoying bitch that craves for attention on the internet.

OP, everyone else sucks ignore them i love you and i will find a way to be 2gether

u dont have to say anything, i know its ment 2 B.

>>2975640
social interaction is a drug.

all you really need to get hooked on it is a hug - that's what did it for me.

oh god i think i still love her :'(

>>2975622
Give me your email please :)

I would ravage your doubtlessly hairy pussy, OP.

>>2975640

I've been through the exact same phase, in fact I'm still kind of going through it and it's only recently that I've started coming into my own. I think we should definitely meet and maybe we could go out to places and meet new people. I live in a really good city for that sort of thing, way better than LA. And on those days you'd rather stay in and browse online, I could do that with you. What was it you and your boyfriend fought about? I don't think he appreciates what he has.

>>2975662
And you're someone that likes to insult people on the internet... i bet?

anywho, thank you for the tip and the book title. I will look for it, as for going out to practice, I don't think I'll be able to. So I'll read the book first

>>2975681

furry4eva@msn.com

I fucking hate you OP
I've had two girlfriends like you who just chicken out all the time. You avert your eyes just once and I'll fucking smack you OP.

Los Angeles or Louisiana, this is important.

>>2975702

Someone's going to add this to their MSN. With hilarious results.

>>2975702
dear lord, i lol'd for the first time since waking up.
thanks man. :D

Well you got a boyfriend, just go out with him and get drunk. After a while you will get the hang of the "talking" and you will fit in allot better, even tho you probably fit it pretty well now.

Los angeles. My voice doesn't project that much, so when I say something people go "huh?" and I'd ahve to say it again and it's just embarrassing to repeat myself

Holy shit, I bet with my friend 20 bucks I could get over 50 posts in less than an hour. By the way, that's my girlfriend in all those pics, you fucking losers. HAHAHA. She'll never be yours, she barely even speaks English.

Suckers.

>>2975735
lean in close to other guys when you speak. dear god i love it when that happens.

>>2975735
Damn, well enjoy your book

>>2975553

>And the only place i could find relief would be on the internet where i feel more comfortable to not to talk to people face to face.

That's problem #1. Keep doing what you always do, and you'll keep getting what you always get.

If you were really interested in fixing this problem, you would go out into the world and ask people this face to face.

>>2975748

Imposter? D:...

>>2975735

I struggle with that too..

>>2975735

I wouldn't mind hearing your voice again and again. Honestly, I bet it's the sound of angels.

>>2975735

I have that problem too. Usually, if I have to repeat something, I change it around a bit, like convos in GTAIV when you fail a mission.
Example from my job:
Me: *softly* You need a bag?
Customer: Wut?
Me: Would you like a bag for your items?

It makes it easier because I pretend they have hearing problems unless I clearly spell it out for them, instead of me just being a timid faggot.

If you get to 200 posts i'll post nudes.

Also my voice is loud but I tend to talk quickly and either mumble or just mix up words so I have to repeat myself often. Its annoying but not a problem

>>2975748
lol'ing at this as well.. this thread is getting better and better.

>>2975754
Hmm do you ever start to do something and then think it over really quick in your mind and you end up not doing it? that's what happens with e :(

the answer is hookups on 4chan

girls complain about beinr ronery as well as dudes but then despite us all having the same interests they don't want to date some guy from the internet

>>2975760
Clearly wants to see the thread go away.

I don't disagree w/ him. I think 4chan needs a _problems_ or _relationship_ board.

>>2975735
its because your accent is to terrible you damn chick! You always fucking can't find my house and I live two miles from your restaurant and your using mapquest! "uh... you uhhh.. livu on... bo-roku- roado yah?" "no... brook drive" "ohhh... ohh... you um... it uhh... i go on the i-40" "NO! Its right by trindle road" "........ TRI-N-Doluo Roadu?" "...... TRINDLE ROAD!!!!" "...... yes.. yes... TRontrindluo roadu" "NO! TRINDLE! T R I N D L E!" "oh yes, you live on trindle road?" "NO! I LIVE BY TRINDLE ROAD!" "on... broukokokutin roadu? that is too far!" "NO! I LIVE TWO FUCKING MILES FROM YOUR RESTAURANT! AUGH!"

>>2975774

You're really annoying. Stop your ridiculous impostering

>>2975786
oh!
I have just the quote for you! ahem..

REMEMBER THAT THE UNFIRED BULLET....
ALWAYS MISSES.

I am turning that into a courage wolf some day.

>>2975811
Get a tripcode then chief.

>>2975131
>>if can't say anything good then don't say it

wat

>>2975815

I like it.

Though if it were "THE UNFIRED BULLET KILLS NOTHING", it would make more sense.

>>2975815

Lol!! I'll keep that in mind. Well I'm glad i'm not the only person with the same problem, will anxiety pills help me? Maybe I do have a social anxiety disorder?

This thread is fucking retarded, especially the guys who want to meet OP in real life.
On the other hand, knowing that there are plenty of people out there more desperate than me is a nice thing to know.

As much as you like to talk about shyness and not getting to know people, I think you've avoided a lot of gentlemen in this thread who are perfectly willing to help you out. I think this is possibly reflective of your life as well, where you're surrounded by many friends who reach out to you and you just slap their hands away. Most people don't even get that much.

You're spoiled, OP.

>>2975831
Iol, probably true.

>>2975842
nah, don't go there. i saw a study that showed taking medication for depression, etc. actually lowers your self esteem.

you're really quite cute though :)

>>2975851

I think you have given me a very important realization. It does reflect my life, I do avoid talking to men. i avoid looking at them too. And I haven't thought about that... But i get red and flustered when I meet new people. I feel that girls are nicer and are more willing to talk but they haven't talked about anything I'd been interested in.

>>2975786
All the time. No worries. It's hard to follow through with stuff sometimes. You just have to build up the courage and go for it before you fully realize what you are doing.
>>2975804
.../r9k/ is that board...

>>2975872

and that's why she has a boyfriend. this thread fails as a ronery thread.

If you live in LA you need Mexican friends (amigos?). I'm White and I've recently realized that all of my long term, most loyal friendships have been with the spics. It's like some kind of strange phenomenon in SoCal, everyone is extremely fake, like the grass in Scottsdale, Arizona (what is it doing there it doesn't belong it is a desert what the hell also palm trees and fake lakes what a terrible place but I digress).

>>2975150
ALMOST HALFWAY THERE

>>2975902
yeah well she seems nice aswell :/

unlucky OP

>>2975902
you are the sager aint ya? yaknow not all threads have to be ronery

>>2975786
Yes, and there are some key things you can do to avoid this being a problem. One is to act on what your gut says to do. For example if your gut says a girl is ready to be kissed, than do it before the doubt starts to set in. Emotions are frequently more correct than thoughts.

The other thing that works for me is to imagine the worst possible outcome. For example if it's approaching a girl I would imagine her telling me that I'm a loser and instructing me to get lost. Then in my mind I realize that this shouldn't phase me at all. After all I'm still alive and breathing, and I don't even know this girl and she doesn't know me, so I can't care about her opinion. Logically I'm back to square 1. Of course that reaction rarely every happens anyway.

You can help with rejection issues by walking up to someone and asking them to tell you off. After awhile you realize it isn't the end of the world like you thought it would be.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Systematic_desensitization

Other exercises:

Talk to people in elevators. Just say what's on your mind at the moment. If you're in a city do this on public transport as well.

Try and talk to cashier's and starbucks baristas for as long as you can. Same for sales clearks in clothing stores. They're pretty much obligated to talk to you, so you can't go wrong here.

When a homeless person comes up to you begging for change, talk to him for a little bit. Then tell him that you'd really like a snapple but you need an extra quarter and ask him if he will lend it to you.

Call random phone numbers and say you're in a rush but you're on your way to the movie theater and you need a quick movie recommendation.

These are all things I've done before.

I used to associate with a girl just like what the OP claims to be, but possibly worse.

She was an unimposing, deathly silent and cold girl who I just wanted to make feel as if there were more people than God and her parents that cared about her.

So for a few months, I put up with the awkward silences, the monosyllabic answers, the biting and condescending retorts, the dropped phone calls, and her ungrateful, seemingly uncaring attitude and overall rudeness because she kept coming to me in despair to tell me that I was the only one who gave a damn.

Well I don't give a damn anymore.

I had to burn that bridge because she reminded me too much of how I used to be and didn't want to change, like an unwelcome specter of the past.

She lost me, one of her only friends if not her only friend in highschool, because she was too apprehensive and self-conscious to ever be more than a socially retarded glacier, not knowing how to deal with people outside of flat-out insulting them.

So please, avert yourself from becoming her before it is too late.

>>2975857
There's a Dutch proverb which says: if you don't shoot, you'll always miss.

But damn OP, stop pitying yourself. I don't have any friends and never had a girlfriend. I don't know why. I'm not ugly and I get almost everyone at college just fine. Either way, I just accepted it for now. A girlfriend or or close friend would still make a big difference for me though. But you already seem to have that. I've learned that I can do without all those shallow and hollow relationships with people.

>>2975907
I've been through scottsdale before, around the cottonwood area. ;[ that's where my ex currently is and I don't have the time to see him, and he doesn't want to come here to see me. I think that relationship is hard to keep up with a relationship like this. he's the exact opposite of me I do love him a lot but i think he's looking for something else already. But that's why i think about the social problem I have now, I want to be able to move on, and it's giving me a tough time to converse with new people, but I thank you guys for the help and compassion

Fuck you.

On a whim you could be fucking anyone or engaged in any social activity. People instantly give you attention, stop pretending.

>>2975951
Hmm, I didn't know wayne gretzky was dutch

http://thinkexist.com/quotation/you_miss-of_the_shots_you_don-t_take/15171.html

>>2975916
But double there in image replies.

>>2975956
Is this your thread as well?
>>2972840
Because the filename bets money on that one being more real? Even though this one has smiley and /r9k/ picture.

>>2976004

Yes, that is my thread aswell I had a problem I decided to do something about it, but I another problem arose

>>2976028
hey OP i came from beijing to NY when i was 7.
2-3rd grade was rough

everyone here thinks im really whitewashed now though =x

>>2975815

There is a courage wolf related to this thread.

>>2976041
>>2976041

yeah I'd say those years was the toughest years, when I got to the 8th grade for some reason people just stopped takling to me and avoided me

>>2976028
So you can't talk about tv shows or the current music or fade. What can you talk about? What do you know, err are knowledgeable in?

Just post your tits you stupid gook bitch

When I get back to LA, we should hang out sometime, OP. I'm really just like you. I'm too shy and have a problem conversing with people because a) I think I sound awkward b) I never watch any of the shows or know about much mainstream shit, unless we're talking about current events.

And before I scare you off. another femanon here, part-asian too.

>>2975537
You rich fucker.

sounds pretty tough, where i am most of the chinese people get along fine
including myself...
maybe u should try meet some other chinese? not that you should only limit yourself to them, but at least you have something to relate to, basically you can talk about similar things (chinese related things?)

>>2976069
I need one of those pictures to slap me in the face everytime I feel like crawling into a dark corner to avoid people.

>>2976077
Nothing comes to mind atm..

>>2976070
wat. Lol it was the opposite for me? Started playing sports in the 7th and 8th grade started making some bro friends -> fast forward 4 years im starting linebacker and power forward for varsity

Anyway, I'm not here to solve your problem or anything, just thought it was awesome that someone else knew how my life was. If all else fails g2back to the mainland and get an arranged marriage haha

This is it, i had a good time, i learn a couple of things, it was fun

It's time for me to migrate to other board or maybe other chan, good bye

inb4 nothing of value was lost

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>>2976112
Then explain what you mean when you say that you feel the opposite when you are on the internet? As in you are not shy and have things you want and can talk about?

The whole point of being condescending is to convince your self that it's okay to keep people away from you, cause they don't meet your criteria.

You are looking for people who are like you, but are not as "good" as you are -- you will be looking for a long time if you don't let this down. And the moment you find a person that you enjoy spending your time with, I bet you'll get competitive, and essentially ruin that relationship.

What you need to do is think about why you have your criteria when it comes to people. I just had this conversation with a friend last night -- he had a bias that a certain genre of music was worse than the other. The fact is , we learn to become critical of things at a young age, and we hold onto these criterias as if they are FACTS. But they aren't. TV isn't dumb, but you said it's a dumb thing. TV it self can't be dumb, so you've associated being dumb, or dumb people with TV. So now everything related to TV is dumb. This is not a logical criteria to hold onto people, and if you are truly "above" peoples, you should be able to realize this, and also make reasonings why people would LIKE television -- the reasonings are there, but you are denying them based on your bias.

You have to look at who you are, and judge your self. Find why you believe in your prejudices, and fish them out with logic. This is hard to do, ever so fucking hard, but doing so won't only allow you to socialize better, but you will become that great person you imagine your self to be.

And I'm sure you are aware that you aren't a god, or a super human, but having these ideas in your head makes you a condescending person. We are all egocentric, but many of us are raised to be more modest, while others are taught that everyone else is stupid.

Be just, that's all that society asks of you.

Alright! Thank you all for the reality check. I learned here that there are other people with the same problem as me, some can't relate to it and think it's impossible for someone to have these problems. And a lot of you really helped a lot in what I could or should do, so I think I'll give it a try. And I think you're also right in saying that I'm just pitying myself, it didn't feel like that at first but the more I read the more I feel like I am. thanks for the awesomeness and verity of responses.

and I didn't get anything for chinese new years :\ the only family members i have here are my mom, dad, and 5 year old sister. Not much communication here, haven't talked to my family for 12 years, haven't seen them for 12 years, my parents seem to be at a disagreement with them. Though I wish I could have gotten some red pockets :)

any who, thank you.

hey op, im going to use your pics to pretend i'm a girl. just letting you know

>>2976112
Good, I made another one...

Nothing comes to mind? Seriously? Jesus Christ...

What's your favorite band? What was the first CD that you bought? I bet you're a fan of TI. You think you're all cool in that cardigan but you're probably hiding another side of you.

STOP GIVING THAT WHORE ATTENTION! NO MATTER WHAT YOU SAY SHE'S NOT GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU!

>>2975948
I would like if you don't, but i don't think you care what I like and what I don't like. and there's not much I can do to stop you... but just keep in mind that I will be very angry if you do it
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>>2975522
I would like to save this if you don't mind :) it's something to read over

>>2976246

I saved it, so go ahead.

>>2976242

Finally you realized why you give a damn about society. How pitiful it is for you to do anything ~ seeing that you are virgin.

>>2976226
First album I bought was a Deftones white pony album. My favorite band right now would be Living Legends group, I've gotten introduced to underground music a few years ago and loved it ever since. My mom works in a sowing factory so she brings home cloths for me :) Most of my cloths are free or out of a sale rack. I like bargains. Um... I steal sometimes for pants, they are expensive, but it's not something I'd like to admit to people irl. blah... what else. I am a ceramics major, I make exotic pieces, or would like to consider them exotic pieces... I smoke sometimes, I would like to meet more people that I can smoke with but don't seem to know where to look, um.. arg

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>>2976261
Reading something is pointless unless you take it to heart and actually follow through. Words are just words. They only have meaning when you apply meaning to them. So instead of just saving it and reading it to try and cheer yourself up, just better yourself.

I have the same problems as OP here but I am boy. all this is relieving for some time and kind of sad for some reasons most of which are obvious.also i am pathetic enough for have wished to meet OP...thats r9k for ya.now back to my awkward social life
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