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    46 KB Anonymous 01/27/09(Tue)08:36:35 No.2927488  
    Warning: baww thread below.


    Hello /r9k/

    This is a unusual baww thread because Im not a normal fat social failure /r9k/oneryfag. Since I started some higher education I have been a popularfag. Im also a very smart student and will be getting a good engineering degree from a top uni in few years. I have a good cash flow, fair sum of money in reserve and own a nice car. Im moderately muscular and look slightly above average. I party every weekend, got many friends and have fine social confidence. I feel comfortable talking to new people of both genders and I can keep up a conversation fine.

    However, I am a 18 year old virgin, have never even kissed a girl or even gotten a hint that some girl might like me. I have excuse up to two years ago, since before then I was a social outcast with shattered self-confidence and couldnt talk to anyone without being awkward. But its 2 years since then and my girl situation is still stuck in the same shit. What am I doing wrong? I have been friendzoned a couple of times but those were girls I wasnt that attracted to anyway and are now fine friends. Usually I dont get friendszoned though, its more like I dont get to know that girl well in the first place.
    I also have a hard time developing attraction myself. Even with really good looking girls Im not interested until they flex their brains, which doesnt really happen. Only reason I try hitting on them is because I feel like my time is running out and Im frustrated with my failure. Im mostly just attracted to superior intelligence rather than looks but I almost never meet girls like that. And when I do they are way too old for me and usually in stable relationships OR someone I met on the internet, and while I would really like to meet girls from the internet I live in a remote island so that is not likely to happen.


    So, /r9k/, what am I doing wrong?
    >> Anonymous 01/27/09(Tue)08:39:02 No.2927504
    You are trying too hard. Don't look for one that is meaningful, just look for a fun girl and try to hit it. If it turns out better afterwards, then awesome. if not, you got laid bro. Just have some fun with it, they aren't emotionally fragile and can handle some social playin.
    >> Anonymous 01/27/09(Tue)08:41:43 No.2927516
    Stop feeling like you're some almighty genius entitled to have women flocking to you faggot
    >> anon 01/27/09(Tue)08:42:23 No.2927521
    its so obvious...you are just a faggot... go back to /b/
    >> Anonymous 01/27/09(Tue)08:44:42 No.2927535
    >>2927504

    Thats what Im trying now, since I have given up hope on anything else. However, that isnt even working.

    My relationship with a girl usually goes like:
    I make a fine first impression and get to know her -> we like each other, some light flirting and touching occurs from both and this goes on for few weeks -> we get more and more distand again and ether stop talking or become not-so-close friends.
    >> Anonymous 01/27/09(Tue)08:46:54 No.2927547
    >>2927521

    Left /b/ long ago and actively work on getting all of my friends who go there to stop that faggotry.
    >> Anonymous 01/27/09(Tue)08:48:04 No.2927553
    >>2927535
    >I make a fine first impression and get to know her -> we like each other, some light flirting and touching occurs from both and this goes on for few weeks -> we get more and more distand again and ether stop talking or become not-so-close friends
    You missed the step where you take the initiative to kiss her or have sex with her since that's what she's expecting from you and doesn't want to be your friend. But since you y'know explained that you don't get attracted that easily I think that you're one of many latent homosexuals.
    >> Anonymous 01/27/09(Tue)08:50:38 No.2927568
    What you're doing worng is LOOKING for a solution to your virginfag problem.

    Not until you forget about it and focus on where your life is headed, will they COME TO YOU.

    Or lower your standards so greatly, that you'll get laid within the week.

    I honestly don't understand this whole "I need to lose my virginity, I'm a failure" thing.

    I was a virgin until 19... Sure, I put lots of stress on myself because of it... Now that it's over, I have a girlfriend, have constant sex... I don't see the big deal. I would be prefectly happy masterbating in my room to porn that fits my darkest desires. Besides, a girl will never be as good at getting you off as you are. Being anti-social isn't necessarily a bad thing. Especially when everybody else is a fucktard.
    The internet is the most social outlet there is. Being social with the fucks around you will not give you the vast array of opinions, news, stories, ideas that you get online.
    >> Anonymous 01/27/09(Tue)08:50:50 No.2927570
    your idea of the /r9k/ userbase is grotesquely unrealistic
    >> Anonymous 01/27/09(Tue)08:51:25 No.2927574
    >>2927488
    I think it's because you're a boring person with no personality or "edge". I can tell because even though you started your post with "This is a unusual baww thread" it turned out to be the usual lame bullshit we've come to expect. My advice: Commit suicide in a quirky and interesting way, it will be the only interesting thing you could ever do with your worthless, middle of the road body=mind. Sound good?
    >> Anonymous 01/27/09(Tue)08:52:39 No.2927586
    >Now that it's over, I have a girlfriend, have constant sex... I don't see the big deal.

    But you did before. Its natural.



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