Pt. 2

Next week I hang out at her place and watch some movies. By the end of the night we were making out pretty passionately and suddenly the time comes for me to leave and as I huriedly kiss her farewell, "goodnight. I love you." slips from my mouth. I exit and just after it hits me what I just said.
The next night she calls me and at some point in the conversation she asks if I have anything to say to her, I say no, she insists I do but I say no, still believing its too soon and will fuck shit up.
The next week I feel like she is paying less attention to me and we both go on this giant fucking field trip on which I'm pretty much ignored throughout. When we do kiss she doesn't kiss me nearly as much as she used to. Apparently she feels like I'm ignoring her. I feel shes ignoring me and therefore I try to escape into my friends.
Tuesday the week after the field trip she stops holding my hand. At the end of the school day I feel I MUST do something about this dying relationship, I tell her I'll call her tonight she says she won't be there to answer, shes busy. Desperate, after school I miss my bus to find her and I tell her I love her. She tells me to calm down and we walk around. She seems to be coming on to other guys.

Pt. 3

Wednesday she says its not working out. I ask her if she still likes me, she says yes. It'd be best if we split. I came up with this idea, hoping for it to be temporary so we can resume how it used to be. I ask her if there is a possibility of anything happening in the future, she says definitely. I just need emotional maturity, and I was asking more from her than she could give. We should stay friends, she doesn't want it to be awkward. Over. She walks away, seemingly unfazed. I cry for the first time in years.

I see her again every day and she doesn't really seem to care much at all about me. She acknowledges my existence and laughs at my jokes here and there but never like before we started going out.
This lasts until the end of the year. She graduates, moves to New York to pursue a career in theatre, I never see her again.

i like where this is goin keep goin

be glad you've even ever had a girlfriend. seriously, fuck you op.

All the girls I fall for are silent, and I talk quite a bit.
FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF

More like this is my blog and I will get more views here then the real one that I maintain at blogspot, or whatever they call them.

stopped reading at >>my first girlfriend at highschool.

I feel like the best of us just skip these threads.

I had an affair with an older woman when I was 15. We got very close and I would skip classes to go see to her. We made love passionately and I couldn't ever imagine living without her. We went on a bicycle trip stopping at various towns and just resting in beautiful spots along the way.

I used to read to her often, she loved it when I read to her. I read her lots of books, like the Odyssey of Homer, Lady with a Little Dog, etc.

One day... she just up and disappeared. I never heard from her again and her work had no idea where she had gone. She was just about to get promoted...

As a loner who has never touched a woman before, I want to ask why saying that you love someone is a bad thing

>>2824110
Because it's not something you say so soon. Sweet? Yes. And it could be honest-to-heart. But if she doesn't feel the same way just yet it becomes increasingly awkward in the relationship.

OP's story is pretty much my own. First girlfriend (at least I'd consider as such, unneeded story), we get along great, despite vast differences. Last about 4 months before we both break down. She calls me clingy and not her "Edward Cullen". I fucking rage and cry at the same time. I'm a pussy, I know.

sounds like this happened recently, mr underageb&

It was high school, dude. It wasn't going to go anywhere. With the first few guys a girl fools around with then, its just practice to them. Years later she'll refer to you as some dork she made out with and probably say things like "oh god, I can't believe I kissed someone like that." Ask any girl who's been out of high school for a few years about the first guy she kissed and whatnot and she'll say the exact fucking thing.

For most guys the first girl they get with they fall in love with. Of course it goes no where and the guy gets burned. Realizing bitches ain't worth shit, they turn into the future assholes that women constantly complain about being afraid to commit and just using them for sex.

Cool livejournal post breh

>>2824167

HAHAHAHA. That is very telling if she actually said that, and more than a bit sad. But, it is very true. About six months or so ago I spoke with a female co-worker about a break up she went through. I was so trying to get into her pants. Anyway, she told me she broke up with the guy because she sensed that his love for her was more delusional than earned. I can now assume it is a more common sentiment than I originally thought, so be wary of moving too soon too fast, women will pick up on it being more creepy than romantic despite what Hugh Grant movies would have you believe.

well op, i was excited and intrigued at the start, then sad and depressed at the end. I enjoyed reading it.

Reminds me of my one and only girlfriend OP.

She was about 5,0 in height, and a wonderful girl in all respects. We go out, hold hands, and everything is fine. I'm so much of a pussy I don't even advance it further.

I go on vacation the next week and she fucks my friends and etc.

Life I guess. That was when I was 18. I'm 22 now.

my first girlfriend went out with me for over a year, almost two.
Calls me one day after a week of silence (I had just gotten back from a trip) and says she doesnt love me. Dumps me there, walks away uncaring.
She starts going out with someone two weeks later.


only time I ever cried since I was past age ten.

>My first girlfriend in highschool.

I stopped reading there.

OP, you should not "love" females, because when you lose them you end up whining as the faggot you are.

I lol'd OP. Sorry, but the ending was so abrupt I couldn't help it. I was expecting her to die from AIDS or in a car crash or something while you're on the phone, just as you're about to I LOVE YOU.

When I was 15 I'd be going out with a girl for just over half a month and we had an absolutely perfect day with each other. I had my arms around her shoulders and she had her arms around my waist tight. We were looking deep into each others eyes (first relationshipfor both of us) and I just melted inside and said "I love you."

I didn't mean it, it just sort of slipped out of my mouth and there was nothing I could do to stop it. The expression on her face was priceless, she'd have probably looked happier if I said I had injected her with HIV. I kept trying to brush it off and convince her that I didn't mean it (of course I didn't, but up until that point I was having one of the happiest days of my life) but she was off with me after that. We broke up a couple of weeks later and we did stay good friends for a while.

After that she turned into a complete slut and did pretty much any drugs she could get her hands on.

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OH GOD THIS IS SO TRUE WHY DIDN'T I SEE THIS EARLIER!?

This is my failed love story.

In the first day of my highschool life, I was seated beside a girl named Jhozelle. She was nice, and we had so much in common and so much to talk about (favorite anime, favorite band, showing each other scars and telling stories behind it, etc.) She was just awesome and we were so close I never talked to almost anyone else in my class. We would position our seating together in the our monthly Friday mass (it was a catholic school) so we could hold hands in the Lord's Prayer.

But the thing is, I have the hots for many girls in my class. Girls hotter than her. I would tell her these feelings I have for them and she would listen. I noticed every time I talk about other girls, she would have this blank and far off look in her eyes, as if she is sad about something. We just kept getting closer and somewhere in my heart I know I like her, but I wouldn't register it. It wasn't that she looks bad. She was skinny, a bit above average look, and wears a long, beautiful ponytail. Her hair was so long it was up to her ass and I absolutely loved it. But still, I was more attracted sexually to the other girls in my class.

In our field trip, all day, it was like she wants to tell me something, and I know what it is. She wants to confess. And I was scared. I kept avoiding her for most part of the trip, and if she wants to talk to me alone, I run away, saying I'm gonna buy juice or something. This part, I found out later, was the biggest mistake of my life.

to be continued...

>>2825358

Jhozelle is a stupid namr

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A week later, there was a university-wide Christmas Party. It was after our class christmas party ended that we went to a mall to watch a movie before going to the party. I realized that dy that gifts are unrequited and even if you give everyone presents, they won't give you anything back. I gave everyone who I can remember a gift and guess how many presents I got back.

Just one. It was from her.

After the movie, she told me she wants to say something, then she hesitated and told me she won't be in the party later that night. I was hoping we would go together and I was planning a confession, but things didn't go to plan.

The worst part is, she sent me her confession via text message, using one of her girlfriend's fone. It also happened that friend of her was the one who was always pitting us together and telling me Jhozelle loves me. I thought she was just kidding, but the way she types it was serius and similar on how she sent me messages, so I saved it in my inbox and will clarify it to her when vacation is over (the next day is the start of our vacation).

In the party, I talked with friends, danced, ate till I looked pregnant. A friend, who was also Jhozelle's friend, wanted to borrow my fone for some reason I forgot already. I let her borrow it for a while, and i went back to dancing. I didn't know she went reading my inbox and found the confession and showed it to as many people she could. The news went to Jhozelle and she thought I was spreading the message, making her look like I conquered her.

Things went downhill from there.

>>2825397
fuck you bastard. I think her name is cute.

>>2825416
How so? Hurry up goddammit!

ITT we cry.

>>2823790

FUCKING B'awwwww :(

OP why did you do this too me :c

I met a girl at a party- the first party I had ever been to. I was a shut in throughout my mid-teens because of a medical condition, I didn't go to high school, and my selection of friends rarely exceeded five people. My friends convinced me that she was single and therefore I could get her.
We exchanged phone numbers and began to talk- a lot. Every day, if I didn't text her she would ask me if I was mad at her. I learned everything there was to know about her, from her favorite colours and foods to her birthday. When she was sick I would go and hang out with her to keep her from getting lonely.
She was into one of my friends, and used our friendship to learn more about him. He took her to her prom and she then convinced me to take her (insanely hot) friend who was completely uninterested in me for anything more than having someone take her to prom and drive her home from the after party.
At the after party the girl I now loved got drunk as it began to rain, and my friend foolishly told her he did not want to date her. She began to cry and said he was going to walk home. She started to run away until I ran after her and pulled her into my arms. She buried her face against my chest and sobbed, asking me why no one loved her.

>>2825599

"I love you." I said, lifting her head to make her look me in the eyes as the rain poured over both of us. She said nothing for a moment before she put her head on my chest against and continued to cry. It was in that moment that I realized the woman I was so in love with didn't care one iota about me- I was a shoulder to cry on, nothing more.
I hoped that eventually she would come around and realize that she and I would be fantastic together, I watched as she went through other boyfriends- lesser guys who wanted her simply because she was arm candy- and I held her as she cried when they dumped her. She met someone else who now plays to her insecurities to keep her on a leash, she said she hates him sometimes, and that he keeps her from seeing her friends. I know he'll hit her someday when she steps out of line, he has just that personality. It kills me to know that she's walking right into that.

>>2825604

She still doesn't care about me, even though I love her so much still. She never goes out of her way to talk to me anymore, and never wants to hang out because it will make him mad.
I told her I know she doesn't care about me in any way, but I hoped I could see her one last time before my condition worsened enough that I wouldn't be able to function the way I do now. She never even responded. I know now I'll never see her again. As much as it pains me to say it, I'll never get to look on those beautiful eyes again, or hug her when she feels sad, or spend an afternoon sitting on the couch with her talking about absolutely nothing, or ever be able to walk along the beach and carry her over tiny streams to keep her from getting her feet wet.

We'll never do those things again, and she'll never care. I'll fade away as some stupid guy who fell in love with her in her memories, and in mine she'll always be the girl I simply wasn't good enough to get.

k, here's my story:

I had a girlfriend who'd I fucked every day, best sex evar, we get along fine and actually finds me interesting, I am a noob and totally emotionally crippled.

One days she says "We're better friends than lovers", I agree.

Then I move and become homeless.

Now I don't find what do I want in life, and might become an hero sometime in the close future.

Had best friend. Really loved best friend. Felt as we will be best friends forever and will move in together after school and stuff.
Than all of a sudden best friend decideds to distance herself. Doesn't kiss or hug me in the morning anymore, seems distanced and doesn't invite me over or hangs out here.
Finally, I break and tell her I feel she doesn't love me anymore, and than she says she loves me too much, and she doesn't want to be a lesbian, so bye. I tell her it's just a crush and it'll pass- she says she's inlove with me for over a year.

Feh, that was some years ago but it still crashes me. We could've made a really good couple, too. I tried to sort things out but it didn't work. On the bright side, she turned into a slut and I got a new best friend who is a million times better, and also said I'm not her taste because my eyes are too big. Still a shame, though.

>>2825660
You should have just kissed her and seen what happened.

>>2825676
Well I couldn't, she confessed in msn. She was too much of a coward, I guess.

>>2825680
Happens alot.
She'll probably realise she's gay eventually, takes a long time for girls usually.
She probably still has the whole "married with 2.5 kids white picket fence" idea, and it takes alot to get "straight" girls out of that. They think being gays not the lifestyle they want.
Her problem not yours, forget her closet bullshit.

>>2823840

I agree with this man. Never even been kissed right here and less than a month until I'm 20, whoopee!!

when i was 17 i met this girl from a friend. we started hanging out and meeting up at the park not to far from both of our houses. by then we started hooking up and i invited her to the movies were we snuck into the same film 3 times and watched bloody 'happy feet' 3 times all the way through, by the last time of watching happy feet i built the courage up to ask her out.

Things were going swell we kept meeting up at our park and making out and carving our names into this large tree at least once a week. 2 months into the relationship we started faultering and i was getting fed up with her. she was complaining that i wasnt around hardly and i didnt care for her but every nite id call and id always choose to meet up.

She later on left to italy, i knew she still liked me but my fire was dying out but we decided to stay in the relationship. i stayed up till 4am just to talk to her on msn but shed get shitty with me as i wasnt so 'alive' on msn.

She came back two months later and we picked it up from their. but she started getting jealous of me hanging out with my best friend who was a girl. as time flew by we kept yelling and screaming at eachother and shed bully my best friend and pick on her at school. she believed to that the cure to all this though was hookin up. wenever we'd have an argument we'd hook up and everything would be better.

part 1

well its not about me.
but
this girl has diabeetus, asthma and a rly shitty immune system [not aids]

if that isnt the saddest, idk what else is...

shes fucking ugly too ._.;

My brother died when I was 13 in a car crash.

Worst moment of my life when Dad calls mum on her mobile as shes picking me up after school, she tells me to answer it -- Its dad.

He tells me to tell mum to pull over and then hand her the phone.

My grades plummeted over the next 5 years and I barely got into college and even then nearly dropped out before I got my act together. (ausfag).

>>2825616

Your condition, what is it?

my older brother died at the age of 18, dad died of a heart attack the same week, a month later my mother committed suicide
I have no living family

>>2825863

Did you get good inheritance though?

My best friend is dying of stomach cancer. He has 3 more months to live. His mother passed away New Year's Eve. His father got fired for missing too many days of work (accountant with decent pay, well, enough to live off of anyway) because he spent so much time with his dying son, and when he failed to show up New Year's Eve, a coworker texted him (under command of the boss) and said that he was fired. My friend, his father, and I sat next to his mother 2 hours after she passed away, all of sobbing. With the economy in this condition, his father cannot find a job that will support the massive piles of bills, and the unemployment office won't give him money. My friend and his father will be homeless before the other one even passes away.

First two weeks after being dumped by my first boyfriend for a girl his been after for 3 years Truly heartbroken.. and still am after nearly 2 years.
Dont give your love away so easily

jesus christ I almost felt bad about being an alcoholic.

Thanks for making me feel better about my woes. At least I'm not hurting anyone else with my problem. I'll just be one less statistic.

Went out with a girl for 3 years.

Lived together for a little over half of those 3 years.

Planned to get married.

Found out she cheated on me.

Claimed it was a one time thing and that she still loved me.

Broke up with her regardless as I am not a pussy.

I haven't talked to her for over a year.

Shit happens. You guys baww too much.

The only thing that could be considered even REMOTELY sad is this picture I am attaching. And even then, it's kind of funny.

Here's my story. I was adopted. It was all fine and dandy at first. Being a child, you don't really care or realize what it means when you're spoiled as shit. Then you grow up and all those material items don't really mean much, since you don't even know who your parents are, what they were like, why they let u go, what's in your genes, etc. so on and so forth. It gets even worse when you see other normal families. Brothers and sisters and parents all one big happy family. While I feel like an outsider in my own family. I'm like crying as I type this just thinking about how lonely it is, just having like no real connection like that with anyone. Shit sucks.

wtf is this, underage b& thread?

my god kids, go grow up.

OK rohbits, here's my story

So I didn't date anyone for reals until college. I asked a few friends (girls) out in high school and they all rejected. One even rejected me with the response: "But you're [$MYNAME]."

Went off to college. Had a class with this awesome girl. For a year, though, we were just friends as she helped me out pursuing this other girl in her dorm. I didn't realize she really liked me.

Summer came, and I just started driving to her town to visit her every couple weeks. We did all kinds of fun stuff together, ice skating, chilling at the mall, watching TV, etc.

Now, Name by Goo Goo Dolls is one of my favorite songs. Well, I decided I was going to ask her out at the end of one of my trips to visit her. Name started playing on the radio, I looked right into her eyes, said "Hey, I like you." And kissed her. She kissed me back.

Long story short, I got into a top law school in the country and I'm in the middle of my class there. She got into one of the best med schools in teh country and she's at the top of her class.

We're getting married in a year and we'll be a doctor-lawyer couple. Hells fucking yes. BAW. /s

>>2825965
Don't be so retarded, your adoptive family love you. Get a fucking grip. Trace your parents or ask your adoptive parents if they know why you was put up for adoption if it means so much to you.

>>2825973

Law student, Ausfag law student here, does Louisiana Napoleonic based civil code clash significantly with Federal common law to the point of great conflict and confusion within the Louisiana judiciary?

>>2825965
Oh come on! You were adopted! That surely means your parents wanted you- they even paid money to get the right to have you at their home and to spend money on you!
>It gets even worse when you see other normal families. Brothers and sisters and parents all one big happy family.
Are you kidding me. I have a tiny winny family and a shitton of problems, but they're still my family. Families who are all happy with each other are quite rare. If you feel so ronery talk with your family about it, don't go all emo.

>>2825731
Thanks ;)

>>2826020
I don't know much about Louisiana. But typically you don't have a problem, from what I'd wager, simply because the general way you resolve such an issue is:

1. Is case in state court? If so, use Civil Code
2. If not, is case federal DIVERSITY jurisdiction, or federal SUBJECT MATTER jurisdiction?

If diversity, apply LA's Civil Code. If subject matter, apply federal common law.

There are two types of federal jurisdiction in the US. One is subject matter jurisdiction. Basically, this is where there's a federal law that is in question (i.e., when someone violates various federal civil rights acts and discriminates against someone because of race or something). The other jurisdiction is diversity jurisdiction, which is where non-federal law is implicated (i.e., defamation, which is handled by the states), but the parties on opposite sides are from different states. E.g., if I (Texan) defamed a Louisianan, they could sue me in either Louisiana state or federal court. Louisiana law would apply either way, though.

The real exception to this is if Louisiana law violates the US Constitution. For example, if you are a celebrity and I say "XXXX is a crappy actor," if you sued me for defamation and Louisiana law said you would win, the First Amendment right to free speech would trump that Louisiana law, regardless of how awesome or lame Civil Code stuff is.

Ask me o clarify if I got bogged down and confusing. 4chan's Comment-input box is so fucking tiny I can't keep track of much sophisticated writing.