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!l.dKaf0xhM 12/18/08(Thu)22:44:54 No.2484176He's
obviously doing this for attention. He also may find it easier to make
friends by being a faggot, and enabler loser girls in school have
accepted him into their group of friends. Explain to him that he is way
too young to make such a definite decision about his sexuality - he has
barely hit puberty. Also explain to him that this is some form of
attention seeking protest. I know a guy that became gay just to piss
off his father. This is probably the case. Gay men usually have fathers
who aren't emotionally involved in their lives, so involve yourself and
be prohibitive. He may hate it, but that's what he needs.
The
last thing your brother needs is an enabler. Someone in his life is the
enabler, and is probably responsible for him thinking that he is a
homosexual. Regardless of who this person is, you have to positively
reinforce the right values to help him grow into his sexuality. Set him
up with some girlfriends if you want, but don't try to scare him
straight, just let him get a taste of all the awesomeness that is
lusting after females. Porn, etc. Meanwhile, try to find out who this
enabler in his life is and remove or block that person. It may be your
mother, a friend, or even you and you don't know it.
Shocking
him with some potentially frightening sexual encounter won't really
work, but promoting manly heterosexual behaviour will eventually
condition him properly.
Of course, I don't how for certain how
to deal with this, but that is my take on it anyways. My family
consists of three boys (20, 18, 11) and not one of us is close to being
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