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12/15/08(Mon)02:52:28 No.2443686Godfuckingdamn dejavu. I
have a close friend who I've been watching taking steps in the wrong
direction. Busy as I've been, as many times as I've taken time out of
my day to alert her to her poor decisions, she's heard what I'm saying
but doesn't really hear it. She's basically fucking a an old weeaboo
loser working a dead-end job when I know she's worth much more than
that if she weren't so desperate for attention and validation through
means of pussy. She recently went out and bought a bunch of outfits
like what the girl in the OP is wearing and we had agreed to go out
clubbing (I was all for it) but I don't want to encourage anything
worse than what I'm seeing of her. I'm also tired of being used as an
emotional tampon for when shit goes wrong (also, not friendzoned guy,
we're both notmale). She's very dependent on others to validate her
actions and pay her attention and spend time with her. At the same
time, she just doesn't really think and causes everyone trouble.
I
hate it so much but it's her life. As such, if she cannot make
beneficial decisions for herself, then that is her personal flaw that
she needs to correct and I do not want too much to do with someone who
can't care for themselves until the issue is rectified.
I'm
considering distancing myself and explaining that I want nothing to do
with the choices she's making as it's obviously wasting my time when I
have better things to do than beg her to keep her ass out of trouble.
OP, there's a good chance it's out of your hands. Tell her once, explain everything the best you can, and step out. |