>>2120033
>Try to tell parents about my mental issues ( Find it really hard to focus, Tired all the time, no confidence, no social skills cant stand being around people or being in public )

How old are you?

>>2120033

OP, you maybe have a depression or something similar. Well if you points about your well being are accurate. You should visit a doctor and ask him for advice. This is no laughing matter.

I know how you feel, op.

But... what will you do if you go to a therapist and find that the therapist agrees with your parents. The therapist tells you there is nothing wrong with you at all.

>>2120055
I am 18 nearly 19

>>2120063
Where the fuck am I supposed to go?
Who do I talk to?
I just dont know where im supposed to go.
I feel so fucking broken when it comes to going outside and fitting in with normal people it makes me want to fucking scream.

>>2120070
Trust me there is something wrong with me and I want to know what it is I feel like shit everyday and I want this to stop.

>>2120063
This post is so awkwardly written, I can't tell if you're trolling or if you just don't speak English that well.

Train up your body and prostitute yourself on CraigsList

>>2120033
>Live with parents
>GET A JOB ANON
>Try to tell parents about my mental issues
>Find it really hard to focus
>no confidence, no social skills cant stand being around people or being in public
>ANON YOU ARE JUST LAZY
Know that feel

I have to say though, your post reads pretty childishly and sort of pathetically. I'm not saying that to offend you, just in case you don't realise that.

Your not even going to college?
The easiest you can do is the next step of education in your country

>claims to have mental issues
>not actually diagnosed by a doctor

Cool story, bro.

Quit being a faggot and get a job. The only thing stopping you is your own laziness.

>>2120103

Don't you have a regular doctor you go to? Oh please don't tell me you're from America ...

Otherwise, normally you go to your regular doc, talk to him, then ask him if its maybe some sort of mental illness. Next step would be a psychatrist or psychologist, which take a good look at you what you may have, how it manifests and how it shows and how they can treat it without much medication. If you're lucky you get a good therapist or a good rehabilitation that fits you.

Seriously, I am no doctor, but your symptoms sound almost like the shit I had to go through when I had a severe depression. Just keep an eye out, because it could be something else.

Depression is hell.

>>2120110

Why is it awkward

>>2120125
Back when I was in college every day I felt like shit because of the abuse from people every day.
and at the end I just gave up completely I failed my exams.
I just stopped giving a fuck.

>>2120080
Ok. If you have health insurance, go see your family doctor and talk to them and explain how you feel. They usual listen and would refer you to a psychiatrist nearby.

Assuming your parents don't oppose this request you'd be able to get the help you need to adapt and progress in society.

Do this tomorrow( I assume your in the U.S.)

I am 23 now and am the distribution manager for a courier company. I have had suicide attempts in the past and got nervous when I went for interviews in the past.

You can still go forward OP.

>>2120144
>you maybe have
>a depression
>you points
>well being
>This is no laughing matter.
That last line made me laugh hard by the way

>>2120135
1/10

Fuck you Moot

Also without this line the comment was unoriginal

>>2120137
>>2120159
I am from Britain not US

>>2120157
>abuse from people
Who, what and why?

>>2120172

Think about it. Why hasn't OP already been to a doctor? Because he doesn't have any mental issues and will get laughed out the doctor's office.

He's from the Britain so he doesn't even pay for healthcare.

>>2120178
bullies, Just disgusting chavs I swear P.E. was the worst time of my life I actully wished for death.
and the funny thing is nearly everyday I think about college and them bullies.

>>2120165

Oh well, having a depression fucks up your mind

I forget words and how to speak properly in a different language

it sounds weird, but a depression is not lulzworthy

even when I just realised what I typed and laughed aswell

but just for you

>go to regular doctor
>then to psycho-doc
>follow his advice
>hope for the best

>>2120194
>Why hasn't OP already been to a doctor?
>>2120033
>no confidence, no social skills cant stand being around people or being in public

>>2120202
>and the funny thing is nearly everyday I think about college and them bullies.
Way to let them continue having power over you

>>2120206

That's not a medical condition or disorder. It's called being a whiny faggot.

>>2120203
It's just depression, not a depression. Not telling you this to be a grammar Nazi, just so you don't sound retarded.

>>2120174
Ok, I lived in Bristol for a few years before I moved over to the U.S.
>In Connecticut now)

Your access to health care is far fucking easier and far fucking cheaper. If anything the help you get will most definitely be free.

Don't play any games tomorrow morning. If your really want help, find a way to go to a local doctor or hospital and talk to someone to get someone help going.

>>2120222
>social anxiety
>social phobia

>Find it really hard to focus, Tired all the time

Go to a fucking doctor, those are physical problems.

>>2120125
Actually it "reads" pretty flawlessly. You must just be slightly mentally retarded.

>>2120232
>Your access to health care is far fucking easier and far fucking cheaper
It's also far fucking shittier if it's not a commercial enterprise.

I'm not from the UK, but I'm utilising my local free mental health services in NZ and they're pretty fucking shitty.

>>2120226

Well thanks

I should stop browsing 4chan, because I can never make out what is right or not

>>2120238
They're also symptoms of depression.

>>2120239
lmao

OP, I was telling you that for your own good. You sound very childish and very pathetic in that post. And if you're referring to grammar and punctuation, you fucked that up too.

I don't even believe this shit (depression) is curable anymore.

>>2120234

Except he has not been diagnosed with anything by a medical professional. You can't self diagnose yourself.

OP doesn't even try to improve his life in any way. He just sits around playing video games all day instead of facing his problems.

And getting angry at his parents who pay fund his lifestyle sounds very immature.

Dont doctors just want to prescribe medication? its all about making money.

>>2120270

No, OP is from the UK where there is public healthcare.

>>2120261
>getting angry at his parents who pay fund his lifestyle sounds very immature.
They might support him financially, but they certainly don't support him emotionally. Shitty parenting like that is probably part of the reason he's like this.

>Except he has not been diagnosed with anything by a medical professional.
You don't need to have gone through med school to know that you have an aversion to social situations that inhibits your day-to-day life

>>2120270
American doctors do.

>>2120258
Focus on the positive
Focus on solutions for the negative

Except for depression, that shit never goes away

>>2120279
but you still have to buy the pills.

>>2120305
In NZ the prescriptions are dirt cheap

You can get a bottle of pills that would be $150 in the U.S. without insurance for around $10, probably less

>>2120291

Boo fucking hoo. Plenty of people have had it worse than OP growing up yet they didn't turn out like him. He is over 18 and should not be acting like a child any more.

If OP hates his parents so much why doesn't he move out? Oh wait, I forgot he's too much of a pussy to step into the real world.

OP should should just kill himself.

>>2120291
This, People don't understand parent's are part of problem too. My parents raised me wrong too. I didn't do anything as a kid on my own, they did everything for me. Whatever i did was and is still wrong. I ended without social skills and without confidence. When i realized all of this i tried to change. But it's fucking impossible when you cant do anything and if you try only people you know (parents) will tell you you are worthless. So i sit on computer whole day, it's already imprinted in my brain that its impossible to change.

>>2120325
Oh I get it, you're trolling

4/10, you had me going for a while

>>2120340

>Tell the truth
>Get called a troll

Never change, robots.

>>2120325
You know nothing. Really. I can guess you are teenager or without any education. It's not about who has worse problems but how people learned to deal with them. Eh, i won't even care to write more its above you anyway. Don't respond to this, your retardness just hurt my eyes.

>>2120325
Why don't you kill yourself? Have no balls to follow your own advice fag?

>>2120330
>I didn't do anything as a kid on my own, they did everything for me.
I can relate OP

People will rag on you for being spoilt (it's your fault your parents did shit for you) and "lazy", but this just actually means you missed out on valuable life experience

I still to this day have no idea how to brush my hair, because no one taught me

I learnt how to use a washing machine when I was 17, because my grandmother refused to let me wash my own clothes until then
>>2120348
>Get called out for being an obvious troll
>keep going
>>>/b/

>>2120245
>It's also far fucking shittier if it's not a commercial enterprise.

Unless things changed dramatically in the last 7 years since I moved he shouldn't have an issue.

moving out of home really helps, you are forced to learn some new things and you get confidence that way.

>>2120351

Wrong on both accounts.

>It's not about who has worse problems but how people learned to deal with them.

Exactly. OP chooses not to deal with his problems at all and gets angry when his parents give him suggestions on how to improve his life.

And instead of others like me telling OP that he actually has to try harder to improve himself, everyone here just reinforces his negative behaviour.

>>2120397
>afraid of water
>jump into the deep end
Yeah that's totally not a great way to drown

>>2120330
>>2120291
OP here you guys are right I dont know my parents at all I know jack shit about them, I cant recall my dad or mum ever asking how I was.
I want emotional support not financial support and its because of this I dont think im ever going to change I dont know how, Im trapped in the cycle of video games and 4chan until something breaks this cycle and it will have to be something big, cause this snowball cycle keeps piling up.

>>2120403
>his parents give him suggestions on how to improve his life.
You don't know their motivation for wanting him to get a job.

>everyone here just reinforces his negative behaviour.
We want him to get help, not just ignore his problems like you want him to

>>2120325
>>2120397
If someone gives an advice to move out i immediately know they are kids without any experience. Only those have no idea that moving cots, own place cost, food cost, bills cost. And those guys would recommend moving out to someone with depression, social anxiety, no work contacts or money.

Really how more retarded can you get?

>>2120270
>get put on anti depressants
>feel a bit better
>quickly realise they're just tablets and aren't going to solve any of my problems
>makes me depressed thinking about it
>not really sure what to do

good job I get them for free due to being a student

The OP has simply lived an easy lifestyle, being pampered by parents most of his life. Now later in life, he finds it hard to fend for himself and being independent, such as finding a job or even leaving his room. As a result, he only finds happiness whilst he is plugged in (video games, computer, etc.), or so he thinks. He simply hasn't had need to be in any social situations in his life, and finds no logical reason to do so now, since he has everything he needs. The problem comes along when he disregards this and views himself as the victim. He believes shitty parenting has made him the way he his, and that he has a disorder that prevents him from being social. And since he does this, he doesn't think he has any influence over it.

>>2120325
This guy is absolutely right.

>tl;dr OP is a lazy, whiny, scared baby-man

>>2120439
i'm sure they have some welfare system in the UK to help pay bills etc, how old are you OP? if under 25 thats ok if you're still at home.

You have a roof over your head, food, internet etc. Thats better than some people have it.

>>2120413
SOME of us here know you want emotional support. But being mad at your parents, playing video games and especially coming on 4chan isn't going to help.

>go see a doctor for help
>go get fit
>gain confidence and self worth
>find a job
>find bros
>get a gf
>life significantly improved

>>2120413
I know this. It may seem silly but i would want to be accepted too. Someone who would be ok with my choices. But i'm being torn in every direction, they want things from me i dont like. But they teached me too i should listen to them. It all is stupid, but in my head everything is conflicting, i'm stuck and can't make any choice. If I only had someone who would help me break out of it.

>>2120477
>I just can't be bothered

that's lazyness right? It's just whenever I do go and hang out with people for more than a night I get bored and agitated and just want to be alone

>>2120445
OP here you dont get it I NEEDED the fucking punishment I never got punished when I did something naughty and look at me now im a fucking abomination.
All the time I think there is something wrong with my parents all I ever recall doing since I was 2 was playing video games on my own thats all I have ever enjoyed, Why dident my parents ever punish me? Why am I such a failure as a human being? I want help I dont want to be like this I feel so broken.

>>2120462
I'm not OP. People post here from all over the world. Not only first world countries. I have job, but can't move even out, because i would need to take credit for around 20 years and i don't want to go this way.

sure its not autism?

>>2120494
So you trap yourself in fear, and remain absolutely dependent on those who apparently raised you into what your life has become. If you feel that your parents are shitty parents, talk to them about it instead of bitching on the internet.

>>2120477
this is why normals advice is so stupid.

you have the order all wrong.

what is he supposed to be confident about until he attains the things listed below it? Confidence doesn't appear in a vacuum. You can be positive things will get better, but confidence needs something more.

I am personally confident I will get another gf if my current one goes sour and make even more money going forward because I have never had a problem in the past doing so, if I was one of the depressed shut ins here I doubt I would feel the same.

Building confidence starts at home at school, and the OP missed out on that which means he has every disadvantage to our advantage.

>>2120476
Ah the answer to everything. I want you now to go to nearest hospital, find kids without one leg and tell them "You don't have so bad. There are kids without both legs". Go now, bring everyone joy.

>>2120515
The can't never understand. That;s because they have normal lives. Some successes, some failures. They have life experience, know some people. There is always way out in those conditions. They just consider everyone is the same. It's over their head how impossible this shit is to get when you messed your childhood and teenage years.

>>2120526

>comparing having no leg to being a pussy

That analogy is ridiculous.

>>2120477
Not OP. I tried those things. Nothing worked. Now there is no hope left and i consider ending it all. There is no hope for some of us.

>>2120515
Thanks for writing that, man. Gives me hope that there are indeed people willing to understand.

>>2120559
I know this was just to hard for you to comprehend. I would say you shouldn't worry and there are more retarded people that you. But sorry it would be probably a lie.

>>2120576
No, you did not do all of those things. You probably didn't do any. Quit lying and go outside. If you did all those things you would not be here now.

>>2120515
>>2120558
>>2120578

And here comes the normal-bashing bandwagon.

Guess what? I'm a socially anxious kissless virgin who isn't as much of a whiny faggot as OP.

I don't blame anyone but myself for my failures. The difference is that I have been doing things to overcome my issues instead of crying about them online.

>>2120614
LOOK HERE
SOMEONE GETS IT
HOLY SHITS

>>2120614
If you are blaming yourself then you did nothing. Normal person won't do that. See you soon when your attempts fail and you start one of those threads.

>>2120599

Nice ad-hominem attacks.

It is impossible for one to grow a new leg. It is (easily) possible for one to stop being a pussy.

>>2120614
lol, you blame yourself for not being raised properly?

forget beta, you going omega there bro.

Sounds like you've got Fag Syndrome.
Such a sad disease. I hope the gubment pays you well

>>2120608
But i did. I got master degree in programming. Got a job. Hold it for 3 years. Do shit like horse riding, glider license. Didn't do much lifting, but had other activities. Generally healthy. I never get any bros, in high school, and uni days i want to many open parties, but it was impossible for me to find friends.

And you know what? I was forcing myself all the way. "It will be better", "Soon i will stop pretending i'm happy and it will be true". It never was.

Suddenly it all crashed on me i couldn't do anything. No hobbies since then, no job. Tried to seek professional help. I tried many random meds. Never did anything for me. There is no way out because my brain is fucked. Money are running out and there is no other way out than to end myslef.

So what would you propose now?

But i know no one will respond to it. Only thing you can tell me is to get out and lift more.

No man. It's on you. I'm the same but I realize that I am the only person holding me back. Your parents may have too high standards for you but that doesn't mean that there are no jobs. Your problem is probably the same as mine; too insecure to go out there and look for every job available.