i got my current girlfriend by doing nothing but sitting around and lurking all day. she's my friend's girlfriend's best friend, and he introduced us.

keep doing what you do. hopefully something great will fall into your lap, like it did mine.

You're alone and you always will be. Deal with it.

No

Also why does that picture get used with lonely threads so often

>>1954325
lurk forever realIy

>>1954317
Yeah, I'm starting to believe that.

>>1954325
Google Image Search.

I STILL AM WONDERING WHAT IT IS LIKE TO HOLD A GIRL IN MY ARMS

>>1954623
Anon, are you just trolling?

>>1954630
When is anon not just trolling?

I have, in fact. I go to a small liberal arts college where everyone kind of knows everyone and just as I was getting lonely because there are no decent guys here OUT OF NOWHERE I met an amazing guy at a coffee shop, I asked him if he went to school here and we struck up a conversation that ended up in a wonderful relationship.
tl;dr get out of your dorm/room/house and be assertive in your searches

>>1954642
Searching is the wrong way to do it.
OP probably doesn't have the confidence to do anything like that and so will only compound his misery.

Prove me wrong.

I seriously wonder what there is to my life.
If it continues like now, I'll be that lonely guy who comes in to work every day, issues the casual hellos and isn't seen until I'm driving away.

>>1954656
different ways for different people. some people can search, others let it fall into their lap

I never really cared about getting a girl. I never really cared about getting loved or appreciated by someone. I would never get involved in social situations just to get the attention of women. I never felt love...

'till 6 months ago.

6 months ago, I met a fucking beautiful, antisocial, nerdy, nymphomaniac, deep, music-loving girl that I could actually talk to and enjoy her company. We've been together since then.

Yeah, I guess I turned my ronery situation around, but believe me, I would never whore myself for it. I would never go to clubs, wear trendy clothes, follow fashion, go to social events to meet a girl.

In my case, everything was a matter of luck and good co-ordination.

>>1954735
Please share your story, I'd love to hear it.

ITT: shameless, outright fabrications

I chilled out and now girls like me.

>>1954782

I don't think that my story really matters.

But if you need inspiration, I can tell you that love will make you happy. It will make you dance. It will make you express yourself openly without fear. It will make you smile without a reason. It will make you do altruistic things that you never thought you are capable of. It will make you another person (if you fall in love with the right other). At least it did for me :)

>>1954735
im this guy, minus the girl.

>>1954813
That's depressing to know there's such a great feeling that I'm not experiencing.

>>1954825
Huh, what?
You don't care? Or is this an ironic comment?

One day in class I decided to sit by this girl that I felt was approachable. I felt I could rant on about shit during the class to her and she would maybe semi-listen. (Before this, we kinda talked once or twice, just about generic shit)

Anyways, we strike a cord and become friends. Out of the blue she asks if I want to watch a movie. We watch some movies one night and she is very forward and affectionate. She had a boyfriend, so beyond cuddling nothing went down, but I didn't mind because I felt close to someone for once.

We end up sleeping in the same bed and such (No sexual things, just cuddling/sleeping). I was pretty much super-friendzoned (she tells me she is a very forward person and some people get ideas, she loves her boyfriend, blah blah). I'm just like, "Ok, cool, whatever. It's all good, I don't like you, don't worry." And it was true, I just enjoyed the affection from someone.

Long story short, she decides to hook me up with her ugly annoying friend. I had the worst virginity-losing experience ever. But it was bad enough I can laugh about it. Fuck that girl. Never again.

Anyways, within a day, this friend was worried she wouldn't get to cuddle with me anymore and starts being really affectionate. So one thing leads to another and we fuck. She cheated on her boyfriend with me *high fives self.* We fucked a few more times before the semester ended and we went home for summer.

Anyways, over summer she broke up with that guy (still never telling him) and is back in the city for 2nd year. We just so happen to be taking most of the same courses...

As soon as she arrived back and got moved into her apartment, she wanted to see me.
We've been fucking all the time, hanging out all the time, just everything is awesome. We are not "officially" in any sort of relationship, but we are really the only people each other hangs out with... So it's pretty sweet. I feel loved.

Hopefully that's a decent enough story....

I was thinking of all the ronery threads that 4chan has up and though I haven't had a girlfriend in a few years I decided to build my confidence and talk to a random girl today. I got the chance at this pizza place when I saw a girl sitting across from me eating pizza and doing nothing else by herself. No ipod/newspaper/texting bullshit.

So I just ask her some random neutral question and small talk with her a bit. She doesn't seem to engage and had a deep voice. She finishes her pizza and leaves. I didn't get lucky that round but I'll keep trying. I'm gonna ask a girl from my class on thursday to see if she wants to get coffee or whatever bullshit. Wish me luck.

Just go out and talk /a/non. Don't look like a slob/fatty and if you take care of yourself you'll have enough confidence to simply go out and talk to girls. Try it with random guy strangers too. I find the biggest obstacle is /a/non tries to plan all this shit out and constantly analyzes the social situation they find themselves in.Just don't be overly critical and have an attitude where you aren't self concious about everything. Now go out of your rooms and do something stop wasting time posting in these shit ronery threads.

>>1954853
That I dont care.

I thought I was in love once with this girl I met online, but.. yeah, I dont think she wants to see me IRL, even though she says she does.
Ive forgotten about her now.. still talk to her, but just as online friends and nothing more.

>>1954890
I hope she finds new friends and completely stops talking to you

>>1954903
I agree with this post for the most part, but I don't recommend "cold calls" like this anon did... at least unless you've got balls of steel.

>>1954903
This anon is an example to others.

>>1954903
How do I not be self-conscious? And striking up conversation with strangers is the single most terrifying thing I will ever experience.

I few months back I lost a bunch of weight, started dressing well, and got a good haircut. Since then I've hooked up with a few girls (topping my previous record of none) and ended up getting involved in a horribly abusive relationship with the girl of my dreams. Basically we go on a few dates, she gives me an inch, then she stops talking to me for a few weeks, repeat.

I'm not sure if that's a success story, but it sure is fun for me.

>>1954932
Someone sounds bitter.

mewtblockaska

>>1954951
get xanax

>>1954903
>I find the biggest obstacle is /a/non tries to plan all this shit out and constantly analyzes the social situation they find themselves in
Yeah I totally do and I can't really help it

>>1954953
I can't really see why I'd be bitter

It's just you seem like an arrogant asshole and it'd be fun if she'd completely stop talking to you and you'd break down or something

>>1954959
Wouldn't I need a prescription? Also, drugs scare me.

>>1954951
>>1954962
I don't know it is simply a mindset. If you find yourself nervous to the point you don't like engaging with people who you order food, drinks, other services that is the first step you have to cross. I found that my super anti-social friends hating even ordering pizza on the phone.
Then go to simply asking classmates/co-workers stupid questions and see if a conversation develops from there. Once you got those balls go to an extra-curricular or other club deal and see if you can engage with people there. Then move on to complete strangers. That is kinda how I got to the mindset of being able to approach random regular guys and girls.

I'm not one who is going to the clubs and buy super trendy clothes but guess what... you don't need to do that shit.

>>1954975
Arrogant asshole? Because I sound confident and managed to get in a pretty decent relationship?

PROTIP: Confidence brings on the women.

Bitching and moaning and feeling so ronery is not what gets you women. When I approached the girl I didn't really map it out in my head. I walked up to her and said, "I'm going to sit beside you because you seem like a comfortable person to be around."

And everything that happened next was a result of that. I'm not even exaggerating this shit.

>>1954890
Oh god, you're (almost) me.

>>1954890
I'm now interested...
What's the difference in your story?

(I'm >>1954890)

>>1955053

Being confident doesn't make you an asshole. Putting the moves on a woman you know is taken and breaking up a relationship makes you an asshole.

I dream of a world where would-be-cheating whores meet not with ready cock, but universal disgust.

>>1955046
I had almost this exact conversation with a friend over the weekend.

I refuse to order food over the phone. The barista today asked me what blend/roast of coffee I wanted, and I wound up stuttering and stammering like a retard until I could blurt out my choice. I can't make small talk with people I know, let alone strangers.

>>1955281
I don't understand the people that take pride in destroying relationships.

I've just started in a new school of higher education, and found that talking to girls is a lot easier. Mostly because I have no old friends there, and had to make new friends, and there are a lot more girls than guys. Also, the girls there are actually nice to talk to, and not some airheads like most of the girls in high school. There's this one girl in particular that I'm trying to hook up with, but haven't got the nerve yet to ask her out or anything, but am thinking of to in the next few days/weeks. She's really shy, so it's kinda hard to start a conversation, especially since I'm really crappy at starting conversations myself. I'm actually pretty good at conversing if there is also a conversation going on, and if there are more than one people besides me. But one-on-one conversation is pretty hard, especially if the other person is quiet too.

Besides bawwwing, what I'm trying to say is that if you have to hang out with strangers for most of the time, you'll eventually have to get to know them. So I only have to say what everyone else has said before: force yourself out of the basement. If you don't have the nerve to talk to strangers in coffee shops and such, try to get into situations where you have to see the same "strange" people over and over again, and try to get to know them. Kinda crappy advice since I can't figure any other situations than school or work with people of your age, but meh.

>>1955046
I think you're right about ordering food.
Funny enough, it wasn't that long ago I'd trip over my words again and again but recently, it has been a lot better.

>>1955281
Ok, first off. I didn't put any moves on her. As I said, she was the one being affectionate.

And the relationship didn't end because of me. He never knew of me and her. They both decided to break up. It was mutual.

She made all the moves, even when it came to the cheating. We were cuddling, and she just started kissing me... and then sex just kinda happened.

>>1955237
Am I the only one to realize that he just quoted his own post...?

>>1954275
i f i s e e t h i s m o t h e r f u c k i n g p i c t u r e o n e m o r e t i m e i s w e a r t o g o d i w i l l b e c o m e a n h e r o .

I used to baaawwwww a lot, but now I have a beautiful girlfriend. She actually did most of the coming on, which surprised me. It just takes luck and time.

Yeah I've posted a bunch of threads asking for help and /r9k/ is useless, its advice is usually just retarded. So I'm still stuck in a hole with no hope of digging myself out. Currently obsessing over suicide.

>>1955352
For the love of god. What is with all this BAW faggotry? All those RONERY friendzoned losers would love to have the girl break up with the boyfriend for them.

Since when did a girl moving on to something better turn into "I'm an asshole for breaking up the relationship?"

Girls can make their own decisions. If she sees it fit to break up with the guy because she found someone better, GOOD FOR HER.

Just because something like that will never happen for you, doesn't mean you should BAW away.

Survival of the fittest. The Alpha male is what women want. BAWing is not the Alpha male. The Alpha male breaks up relationships and does what he wants. Girls crave that shit.

Quick question: how do I hit on a girl without potentially making a complete ass of myself?

met a girl on anonidate after like a year or two of being on it, had some conversations over aim for a week or so. We're going to the movies tomorrow. I think the movie itself will suck, but I could care less tbh. I'm trying my best not to over-think anything so I wont mess myself up.

I want this to work out, of course, but there is also that added sense of awesomeness and lol with 4chan gave me a girlfriend. Whatever though, i'd be happy with a new friend.

I used to be like that, then I read The Game. I'm still a ronery virgin type but at least now I know why.

>>1955281

To you and your whole universal disgust thing I have to say this. Its bullshit. I have been that other guy in a few peoples relationships and the thing is if your girlfriend is going behind your back to see me then you deserve it. It means that you are obviously not giving her something she wants and shes going to someone else to get it. You are obviously butthurt about some girl who cheated on you, and you what? He was probably better than you.

This is coming from a guy who has been cheated on as well, in before someone says "baaaw you've never been cheated on so you wouldn't know!"

>>1955490
But she couldn't be a fucking adult and break it off before finding someone else's cock to suck?