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THE WAY IS CLOG /r9k/

>>1520977

>be like fuck friends

Is he/she your fuck buddy? Sorry, your post is hard to comprehend.

I forgot this is /r9k/ I should include

TL;DR my best friend of 5 years has suddenly stopped talking to me

my bros stopped hanging with me as well..

that's why im here during my free time instead of having a life.

welcome to 4chan

My fiancee did this to me, OP. I've moved on now, but I couldn't tell you what prompts this at all. The best advice I can give you is to recognize it's all on them, keep yourself distracted, and call them occasionally. Until you know more, assume there's a good reason for the avoidance, which may only be "avoidance" on your end.

>>1520995
No, we're not fucking I'm not gay..I mean I want the attitude like fuck it I don't need friends but I'm crushed they're acting this way..

And then they actually talked to a mutual friend of both of us and when I asked what they said our mutual friend just said they asked how things were going with school and shyt. I'm getting more pissed off just thinking about it.

>>1521030
I'm sorry bro. It just doesn't seem normal for people to walk out of our lives like that. It doesn't make any sense, we were so unbelievably close as I'm sure you were with your fiance. It's bullshit and selfish to leave things up in the air without any explanations.

I did that to a couple guys I was very good friends with in high school. I started to get serious in college, around age 20, and realized what fuckwits they were. I started to want to work hard and build and actually accomplish thigs with my life, and they were essentially 20 year old kids. One is 30 now still living in his mom's house, perhaps unemployed.

Idk, I think either they have some good reason to cut off their friendships, or they don't, so they're doing it for some stupid petty reason. Maybe this will help you figure out what happened.

>shyt

where you from OP?

>>1521090
We're very different but have always respected each other. The thing that we enjoyed about each other was our sense of humor was identical and we always knew how each other were feeling in a given situation. Basically what I mean is its not like I was immature, too needy, or too stupid. I just don't know. I asked them several times in a message to let me know if I did something to piss me off and they just ignored them. Yet making statues etc..

>>1521112
I am from central IL

>>1521069
For the most part, I've moved on like I said, but I agree entirely. Ironically perhaps, I'm going to school to become a marriage therapist, which may have been a factor in her refusing to go to one. The only explanation she's been able to come up with in the few times we've spoken afterward is that she suddenly just didn't feel it anymore. She didn't question why, didn't talk to anyone for at least a month, pretended like everything was fine (fooled EVERYONE, including myself whom lived with her), and even afterward mostly wants me to accept it like she did as something that "just happened." I cannot emphasize enough now how adamant I am about becoming a marriage therapist and encouraging good, solid communication in everyone from teenagers, up. I can accept the breakup. What I can't accept was her unwillingness to try and make it work, to so easily accept her feelings (and I believe her that she did not cheat, in spite of everything I still have no reason to doubt her on this whatsoever, no signs of any sort in the course of the months before the breakup that anything whatsoever was amiss). The girl herself admits that nothing was wrong.

I'm 100% sure that family history plays into this, but there ain't nothin' to be done at this point in the game. Perhaps in the future, but I'm not sure I'll have any interest by then. It's a shame.

I know I'm venting here, but the gist is that people should communicate. Friends, family, romantic partners, it is utterly selfish not to tell them [nearly] exactly what is going on if it will affect them too.

>>1521219
>didn't talk to anyone for at least a month
Clarification: didn't talk to anyone about her doubts for at least a month, which I still think is fair, to try and figure out things on your own, but if that's not working then it's damn well time to try something else. A breakup? Sure, if nothing seems to be helping, but for closure's sake you both ought to at least understand more of what was involved. I was nervous about the wedding and wished it were under different circumstances (we're both fresh out of college, but as we'd been dating eight years and she and her friends kept hinting at marriage, guess what I did so as not to miss the window and disappoint her somehow?). So, for me, if anything, that was to blame: the pressure of the pending marriage. I get that, if that's what it was. i get that entirely, but it's definitely something that can and should be discussed.

>>1521219
Exactly, I guess people are just really good at convincing themselves because I'm sure its not a matter of not giving a fuck anymore. I think it is probably hard for them as well but not enough to make an effort to change.

I am going to move on as difficult it is to accept. I know I sound like a bitch and weak but its just so strange. All of my past relationships w/ people have failed because we had a fight or they moved away. There was a reason regardless. Good luck in school btw.

Thanks guys for the feedback, this night can go fuck itself, I'm going to attempt to sleep so it can be over.