Gaining social acceptance is pretty fucking easy for a girl, so while guys might become rejects simply because they not socially aggressive enough, the only reason a girl would become a shut-in is if she's really fucked in the head.

Also, that girl you're talking about sounds extremely familiar. Was she a Japanese-American by any chance?

>>12843954

>Was she a Japanese-American by any chance?

She may have been, but I'm not sure. She never brought it up and I didn't see a photo.

>>12843907

>especially when I get the feeling that she just wants me to stop talking the moment I sent her a message since every response takes 20 minutes and then is just something that sounds completely uninterested like "Fine" or "Uh huh."

Oh god, this. I thought it was just me and I was extremely boring, but they do this before I even say anything past hello. Why do they post their contact info when seem inconvenienced by talking with someone?

>>12844018
1. playing hard to get
2. there are probably like 20 other open windows with guys exactly like you

I accidentally (not really) peeked at my sister's laptop once, she was doing exactly [2].

Why does it have to be a girl?

Would'nt you rather be shut-in friends with a bro with common sense.

Hey, maybe we can watch The Pacific together. I'm pretty much a shut-in since moving to America. And, that was two years ago.

>mfw i've only talked to like 5 girls from r9k but they were all chill as fuck, attractive, and talk to me on a near-daily basis even though nothing will ever come of it irl between us

sage

do we need this thread everyday?

moloko_plus@live.com

thats my msn.

Talk to me, decide if I'm crazy or not.

>>12843985
Oh well, I guess it doesn't have to be her anyway. It's just that I met a girl on 4chan who was shut-in and a high school dropout. To be honest, I fell in love with her, since I was pretty starved for female attention at the time, and she managed to give me that, and she was also attractive, and shared my hobbies, and sexual fetishes, and triggered that whole silly "I want to protect feeling" since she was a shut-in. But then I suddenly saw by pure coincidence on 4chan someone advertising her as a person you should contact if you want someone to treat you like shit. I asked her about it, and while she didn't give any kinds of details, she didn't deny it. Creeped the hell out of me and made me feel nauseous, took a while before I got over it. But eventually I realized that my attraction to her would do me absolutely no good, and it just pained me to talk to her since she had those moments more and more often where she expressed absolutely no interest in keeping a conversation.

...but the worst thing is that talking about her makes me want to seek her out again. I'm actually visibly shaking right now when recalling how she made me feel, but the truth is that I'm a masochist.

>>12844168

Snap out of it man! Never underestimate the power women hold over us.

>>12844153
Are you the OP? Or someone else in a similar situation?

>>12844206
But that's the thing, it excites me that she still has that kind of power over me after 3 years. And it's not like I have anything to lose.

>>12844062
this. I just hang out with my shut-in bros on vent, honestly the shit we talk about in there is 200% more interesting than the shit people talk about irl

>>12844265

Just forget about her. She probably has a army of men willing to grovel at her feet and "protect" her.

>>12844321
I used to do that, a long, long time ago. Those friends are all years gone. Even the people I play vidya with now don't talk outside of games.

I miss the old days of hanging out in Vent all day with people I actually felt like I knew.

I've found a girl like this, but I've been dating her for the past two years. She loves it when I come to her place and "keep her company."

>>12844336
...yeah, you're most likely right. That's one thing that's frustrating about shut-in girls, one moment you think they're your female counterpart, and the other moment you find out they got an internet harem for themselves while all you got is like 3 bros on MSN. They're just not like us at all.

I'd go for you, OP, except I'm not really interested in pursuing romantic love. It does get lonely being a shut-in, though.

>>12844399

Exactly. They'll get all the attention they desire just because they have the almighty vagina. We're nothing special to them, and easily replaceable.

Oh, man. This thread is almost classic /r9k/ misogyny except instead of hatred it's just resigned sadness. Look, guys, yes, women can be heartless bitches that take only their own feelings into account. Men do the same thing, probably to the same statistical degree.

I genuinely believe there's this whole missed connections phenomenon happening with nice, interesting, intelligent girls unable to find their nice, interesting, intelligent male counterparts and instead everyone only runs into the polar opposite of the thing they desire. It's gotta be some tragedy on a grand scale, because I know I've personally met plenty of people that qualify. Either that or the "nice," etc fuckers out there have been so surrounded by shit their whole lives that when they actually meet what they seek, they dismiss it as another example of worthless shit.

>>12844567
When it comes to shut-ins, isn't it common that they have bad experiences in high school and become shut-ins right after that and thus cut off any chance of meeting someone to change their mind?

I'm a little worried if that's the case with me, that I simply gave up too early, since I became a shut-in when I was 17 and almost all communication with the outside world since then has been with fellow virgins on the internet.

>>12844673

I became a shut-in when I was 16, and pretty much gave up on women all together during that time. Although I have very good reasons for giving up. Giving up has enabled me to deal with women very effectively though. I no longer look at women as potential partners. Which means I never put up with their bullshit just because they are a girl.

>>12843954

Femanon here, came from Japan to ny on november. Can't really understand like 70% of what other people tell me =( wat do?

>>12843954

This is spot on.

Shy girls are practically on every hot guy in the world's hit list.

>>12846845
FUCK NO. Have you ever tried to date a shy girl? It's about as much fun as trying to drive a bogged car. Seriously, if I just want to get my dick wet there are girls out there who are just as hot who won't take as much effort and if I want a girl who I can actually have decent conversations with then I can easily find a girl whose personality doesn't suck.

Shy girls fucking suck.