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    24 KB Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:24:48 No.1049237  
    >that feel when socially awkward on the internet

    anyone have this problem. whenever I post anywhere that isn't Anonymous, I can never seem to fit in and talk to people. forums, online games, chatrooms, whatever. there's just something weird about me. I can't seem to interact with other people.

    I don't even know why I'm making this thread.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:26:23 No.1049248
    same here, i have no friends, not even online, i don't even talk to my parents other than them asking mundane questions. I feel like a man child with my family. Are you also doing nothing with your life and quiet 24/7? i find it to be too much of an effort to even open my mouth.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:28:13 No.1049258
    >>1049248
    yes. the only thing I do is sleep and browse 4chan. I don't even want to say basic things such as "good morning" to the people I live with.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:29:03 No.1049261
    >that feel when non anonymous forums are full of normalfags talking about their gfs.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:30:45 No.1049265
    >>1049261
    even here on 4chan I've tried posting as a tripfag (on another board) and I can't seem to fit it with other tripfags. also I don't when safe when I'm not posting anon.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:32:00 No.1049272
    >>1049261
    Even anonymous forums have started doing that.

    Not OP, by the way, but I know that feel. I'll start typing out a long winded message, and then reread it, decide I don't like it, and just lurk or say nothing of value.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:33:46 No.1049282
    I know that feel bro.
    >Go on omegle with generic titty chart
    >Find awesome girl
    >Talk for over an hour about about life, vidja, music
    >Gives me her email without me asking
    >Haven't emailed her yet

    GOD FUCK WHY DAMN
    I hate myself.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:34:27 No.1049285
    Back when I used forums I always ended up as one of those old fuckers in positions of power who every new user probably hated, either a mod or just well known enough to do whatever the fuck.

    >that feel when I can't emulate this at all in real life
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:34:52 No.1049287
    >>1049272

    I know, it seems we have no place safe from the normal hordes who want to tell everyone about everything. I say what is needed about the task at hand no more, no small talk.
    >> TripsAin'tShitButHosAndTricks !ozOtJW9BFA 01/10/12(Tue)05:36:19 No.1049295
    same here, i mostly lurk and rarely post in threads, and when i do type shit out, most of the time i don't even post it.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:36:30 No.1049296
    HOLY SHIT I know exactly how you feel. On forums everyone just kind of ignores me and the only time I'm acknowledged is when someone's being polite. Even when I write out a huge well thought out, interesting post, everyone just ignores it.

    Beta in real life, beta on the internet I guess. It's like normalfags have a secret code and anyone who doesn't use it is immediately exposed as a friendless loser. I don't understand how people can recognise this over the internet, but they somehow can.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:36:42 No.1049297
    >>1049258

    what are you doing with your life if you don't mind me asking? What else are you doing once you browse 4chan? Want to keep in touch with hotmail over our shitty friendless lives?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:36:42 No.1049298
    >>1049282
    Are you anxious in emailing her?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:38:12 No.1049305
    >>1049296
    >forums
    >normalfags

    4chan is more normalfags than forums are in the 21st century. That shit is niche as fuck. The only less normalfag mode of communication is IRC.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:39:53 No.1049313
    >>1049305
    Not niche forums, just general ones. Granted, the last time this happened was years ago on some teen forum, but yeah.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:40:59 No.1049321
    >>1049282
    at least you got that far. I've tried talking to people on omegle and I usually pussy out after a few mins.

    >>1049296
    I know, I feel like there is something about the way I talk or something that makes people not want to talk to me.

    >>1049297
    send me an email if you want. disclaimer: I might start ignoring you if I become too afraid to talk to you.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:41:16 No.1049325
    >>1049296

    in public I can imitate a normalfag pretty good (clothing and hygiene wise at least) but for some reason people can always figure out I'm the friendless loser. Can they smell our fear? is it some signal that just screams beta?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:41:53 No.1049326
    >>1049313
    >years ago

    There ya go. Forums have been decimated by social networking and more centralised sites like Reddit. Most of the population left using them is 4chan level of abnormal or below.

    A lot of previously normalfag forums for music and such are ghost towns now.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:42:40 No.1049330
    You know that feeling when you're about to post but you feel like you would be annoying people by posting so soon after your last post or just sounding annoying in your post at all?

    IGNORE IT!
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:44:15 No.1049338
    >>1049325
    I don't fucking know, man. I always think I'm acting perfectly normal as well, yet people just avoid me for some reason. I dress fine, I don't smell or anything, I'm not super ugly, I can act confident... what the fuck is it? Maybe we just release beta pheremones. Seriously though I have no idea at all.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:44:54 No.1049342
    >>1049321


    trust me...do you really want to know about my sheltered life? I'll give you all the details, you can do it for me as well, it's up to you though, send me an e-mail as it's in the field.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:45:46 No.1049347
    >>1049338
    If you could see it, you'd be able to fix it. It's the curse of the foreveralone that we can't even comprehend what's wrong with us.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:47:54 No.1049358
    >>1049325
    >>1049338
    >>1049347
    OP here, so much this.

    it's been like that my whole life. even my family members think I'm weird, hell my parents told me that they always thought I was going to turn out gay. they probably do think I'm gay.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:50:03 No.1049365
    OP, you probably have social skills, friends, a life, and everything. Stop complaining about nothing.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:50:47 No.1049367
    >>1049358
    >mfw my mother told me she thinks I'm a psychopath

    Felt pretty bad man.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:51:41 No.1049371
    >>1049365
    Stop posting this exact fucking post day on day for fucking years you fucking asshole. I hate you more than anyone else in the world. Quit trying to bait people into your little pity party. We're all fucked up here, deal with it, faggot.

    Jesus Christ.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:52:47 No.1049377
    >>1049347
    >>1049358
    Sometimes I think you're right and it's just extremely obvious, yet we just don't notice it. Honestly when I sit down and think about it seriously (like right now), I get slightly afraid that I'm actually slightly retarded. You know those retarded kids who were obviously slow, but not quite touched enough to be in the special class? They never seemed to notice. What if I have that degree of retardation, but socially instead of academically/cognitively? It's not like your parents would ever come out and say "hey son, you're retarded!" or anything. Oh god oh god
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:53:06 No.1049378
    >>1049358

    for me it was never really fitting in, even when I was younger I was the kid that watched everyone else play instead of playing himself.

    I never understood the various teenage cliques and social groups, did they really believe in the tenants of the group or were they merely putting on a face for social reasons?

    I tried to fit in, but it just seemed all fake and superficial.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:53:30 No.1049380
    >that feel when you post and the thread dies
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:54:00 No.1049383
    >>1049371
    hahaha wow,continue with your awesome life then
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:55:48 No.1049389
    >>1049377

    yes! I worry about that all the time. like what if I'm fucking autistic or some shit but no one ever told me and everyone knows and they just play along like I'm a normal person.

    >>1049380
    that happens to me so much.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:55:58 No.1049391
    >>1049377
    Well yeah, that might be a harsh way of putting it, but basically that's the case. We don't have the natural social capability of your average person.

    Makes sense you can't notice it yourself. If you could tell what the little things you're doing wrong are, you'd just stop doing them. It's the fact that your radar for that stuff is reduced that makes it hard in the first place.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)05:59:36 No.1049406
    >>1049371

    haha it's no wonder why you have no friends, you focus way too much on this website you tend to see me post here constantly, get a life faggot.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:00:57 No.1049412
    >>1049371
    OP here. just to clarify, this guy is not me.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:01:24 No.1049414
    >>1049377

    oh god, I remember now around 1st or 2nd grade the school wanted to put me in the retarded class and put me on medicine for supposed add. My mom wouldn't let them. i do wonder how my life would be different if she had. Would I be a stupid normal? or just retarded with the same problems I have?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:03:15 No.1049420
    You seem to be talking to people fine to me OP.

    I think you're just an attention whore.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:05:57 No.1049432
    >>1049420
    see but I can only do it when I'm Anonymous

    I've tried to talk to people as a tripfag and I always end up dropping trip and deleting my posts
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:10:12 No.1049439
    God damnit r9k, I know all these feels
    >tfw you put effort into posts, and they either get completely ignored or the thread dies immediately
    >tfw when you're too beta to even post anonymously
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:10:58 No.1049441
    >>1049432

    I know that feel. On normal forums I guess I'm scared that somehow, someone is going to trace my posts back to real life me. Even if their perfectly legitimate (like game and tech forums)
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:12:52 No.1049450
    >When I post. This kills the thread.
    Every fucking time.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:13:43 No.1049454
    >>1049450
    It's fucking terrible isn't it?

    Especially when it's a well thought out and on-topic post
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:14:44 No.1049463
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    Sometimes I've tried adding anons and talking them on instant messengers. I figure it would be cool to have some anon friends whom with I share plenty of interests and experience.

    >mfw the faggots are incapable of conversation and then I never see them online again. Because they've either blocked me, given up and never logged into their messenger again or shot themselves.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:15:13 No.1049468
    >that feel when you have a normal forum account that maybe has 20-30 posts over a couple years.

    >that feel when another account that joined around the same time as you has a couple thousand.

    >that feel when you don't see how it's possible.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:15:57 No.1049473
    >>1049463
    THIS! I say 2 words to people, and then I get blocked. Idgi.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:17:56 No.1049481
    >online friends keep telling me about a girl they met online and have so many similarities
    >keep rubbing in my face of how they found their soulmate
    >I keep finding girls online that I can connect well with but each of them already have a boyfriend/don't seem interested in a relationship

    Why can't I find my true love online as well?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:20:06 No.1049489
    >friendless faggots trying to befriend other friendless no lives that get surprised when they can't hold a conversation

    There is nothing I can say other than you're all retarded.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:20:34 No.1049492
    >>1049454
    In my experience it's just because of the boring normals, so don't feel too bad. They won't respond to anything that isn't trolling, meme-spamming, extremely stupid or intentionally trying to start up an argument. They don't respond to well-reasoned posts because they either can't be bothered to put any effort in beyond ad hominem attacks and catch phrases.

    >>1049468
    >that feel when you've been living in a city your entire life and have a couple friends
    >that feel when someone is here for a month and knows hundreds of people

    Same concept?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:25:39 No.1049514
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    >playing online videogame.
    >fairly small community, ~50 people on at any given time.
    >~20 of them are lifers that have played every day since release.
    >5-10 of them are player admins.
    >lifers all know each other and circle jerk constantly.
    >after posting on 4chan for years i'm an antisocial asshole.
    >rarely chat in-game.
    >when i do i'm a rude jerk.
    >calling people out on their faggotry, taunting them mercilessly, ect.
    >everyone gets butthurt.
    >they go crying to the admins.
    >i get perma-banned for hurting people's feelings.
    >> Brockslockedcock !gspGKOQQMU 01/10/12(Tue)06:25:51 No.1049515
    Virtually all of the online friends I have are those I met 10~ years ago, prior to the advent of mainstream social networking. Back in the day, you could make friends just by talking to people. Now, you can only make friends if that person is a friend of your Facebook friend, and you get introduced.

    It's a really sad state of affairs.

    I've offered for people to IM me before, and they do, but they say things like, "hey", and then that's where it ends; they don't ask questions and they don't tell me anything about themselves. --And so I simply let them go. I honestly don't have time to drag information out of people. If you want to talk, you better have something to say. It doesn't matter how awkwardly you say it--but if you want friends you need to have some kind of voice (and I'm saying this as a mute). Otherwise you're just an inanimate object.

    If any of you want to chat (about anything; I'm extremely old and experienced), I'm always available at "RAFPCA" on AIM--but don't expect me to prod you; if you don't have more to say than "hey", don't bother.

    And just an FYI: If you're looking for friends, 4chan, the site where being a "tripfag" is looked down upon, is a fucking terrible place to start. Of course it's impossible to make friends when you're anonymous. --And that's why I'm not anonymous. I have the trip not because I want to be a famous 4chan movie star, but so that you know that I'm the guy who owns 10 dildos before you consider IMing me.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:30:55 No.1049537
    >that feel when there is nothing you could say that would make me feel worse about myself
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:36:23 No.1049559
    >>1049515
    You're a gay submissive mute? Like, mute by choice or cannot speak mute
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:44:46 No.1049588
    Do you think the theory of multiverses is vial? Imagine, that in a parallel universe you are an alpha normalfag getting his dick wet erryday.
    >> Brockslockedcock !gspGKOQQMU 01/10/12(Tue)06:46:55 No.1049595
    >>1049559

    I'm low-functioning autism mute. I'm not "submissive", though.

    >>1049588

    In my opinion as a physics expert, parallel universes don't exist--but there are many physicists out there who have been in the field longer than I have who believe that they do.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:47:37 No.1049597
    everyone loves me on the internet i'm super cool
    irl i'm a socially retarded loser
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:47:49 No.1049601
    >>1049514
    >that feel when after years of being on 4chan you have a pessimistic outlook on most people
    >that feel when you feel like calling them out on their faggotry
    >that feel when you've become a robot and hate how annoying most people are
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:48:53 No.1049604
    how many of you don't even talk in real life and have never been to a party, concert, rave, or even had a female friend?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:49:04 No.1049605
    >>1049601

    >that feel when you hate everybody
    >that feel when you are still too beta to tell them so.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:49:27 No.1049606
    >>1049325
    it's because you act like a weird motherfucker
    there is no secret mind reading power friendhavers have
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:51:23 No.1049613
    >>1049595
    Fuck off you stupid faggot fuck.

    You may as well cut your dick off for all the use you can get out of it you autistic twat.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:52:24 No.1049619
    >>1049604

    Sounds like me 100% and I'm 26 years old so all is hopeless now anyway.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:52:40 No.1049622
    >>1049595
    You are submissive. You have your cock locked up and it only comes out when your master says it can
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)06:56:19 No.1049631
    >>1049604

    I went to one concert when I was 15, it was too loud and I hated the fuck out of it. I only went because I heard a girl I liked was going to be there (this was a local scene gig, not a big name band or anything) she never showed and I got pushed into the mosh pit.
    >> Brockslockedcock !gspGKOQQMU 01/10/12(Tue)06:57:51 No.1049638
    >>1049622

    That's sort of like saying that prisoners are submissive. The reason there's a lock and key is because I wouldn't listen to him otherwise.

    >>1049613

    I'll keep that in mind.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:01:02 No.1049650
    >That feel when you're an asshole without realizing
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:03:19 No.1049660
    >>1049619
    >>1049631

    state who you are after you write back, but how have your lives been since your high school years? I'm 19 and just go out of high school last year, a little late because i was kicked out.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:05:54 No.1049671
    >>1049638
    Same way you keep your bunghole clean every second of the day for him, right?
    I'm not one of the haters either, I like you and I'm just saying how I see it
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:07:22 No.1049674
    >>1049380
    I consider it an art. You should too.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:08:01 No.1049677
    >>1049660

    >>1049631

    here, I'm now a 21 year old community college dropout foreveralone neet. The girl ended up thinking I was creepy fuck (seriously how bad do you have to be when an emo/goth chick thinks you're creepy?)
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:11:07 No.1049689
    >>1049677

    emo/goth chicks are no different than "normal" chicks.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:16:53 No.1049708
    >>1049689

    she had a reputation of scraping the bottom of the barrel (she wasn't hot and was a landwhale) I just set my sights on her because I was being somewhat realistic about the type of girls I could get, even that was too high.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:18:18 No.1049714
    Oh god I never thought about it this much but now I'm panicking so much.
    Fuck you OP seriously I was perfectly happy.

    I don't think I've posted on a forum since I was like 14 though. Maybe I'd be different now.
    And I've never really bothered talking to people when I play games apart from a couple of times.

    Oh god I don't know.

    As for IRL I have friends and go out like once a week. Although I haven't actually been out for like three weeks because I secretly hate everyone I'm friends with and wanted to isolate myself so I could use this time to learn an instrument and work out for like the next eight months till I go to sixth form college (going a year late, I'm 18)

    I'm trembling I've never thought about it like this before.

    Also practically 8/10 of my posts here get ignored. It's the worst feel imaginable.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:18:24 No.1049715
    >>1049708

    Be lucky you can get any female attention. I'm 26 and never even befriended a female.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:21:39 No.1049731
    >>1049715

    who says I befriended her, she straight out rejected me, didn't try any friendzone shit. I made last real attempt at 18 (another girl obviously), same result.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:23:29 No.1049743
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yj7Hw00LUG4
    this guy has emo girls all over him
    why can't you pull this off
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:23:31 No.1049744
    >>1049677

    did you want to add my e-mail to keep in touch and talk about your shut in lifestyle? Sounds odd, but i'm sure you're a great shut in that has more of a life than me.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:26:37 No.1049760
    >>1049744

    I don't leave the house save to take out the trash, I play vidya and am on the internet all night then sleep all day. I haven't talked to someone that wasn't a family member in real life for over a year. trust me I don't think it's possible to have less of a life than I do.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:31:18 No.1049788
    >>1049338

    It's probably your body language that gives it away. You can act confident, but your body says otherwise.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:36:22 No.1049820
    >>1049788

    I really wish I could mask that, I know that's what gives it away. I'm always so nervous in public I feel like they are vultures ready swoop at me for the tiniest mistake. I know it isn't true I'm still so uptight and unable to relax.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:39:05 No.1049835
    Do you think working out actually helps? I don't mean necessarily online, but more irl or just in general.

    Does it make you more confident automatically if you're ripped?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:45:44 No.1049865
    >>1049835

    I've never worked out, but unless you can change your mindset people can still see right through you.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:48:28 No.1049875
    >>1049835

    yes, of course.
    it wont fix your anxiety but it really helps with your confidence.
    plus, it makes you feel good.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:49:16 No.1049876
    >>1049835
    Of course it does, but being ripped only makes a difference if your only issues are physical. If it's mostly mental it can actually make it worse since people expect your personality to be alpha as fuck if you have a body to match.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:51:17 No.1049888
    >>1049760
    my email is in the field. let me know a little more as i like talking to fellow shut ins and i can relate with everything you said...just send an email and i'll get back to it.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:53:19 No.1049902
    get a vpn bro
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:53:20 No.1049903
    >>1049888

    saved for later, the suns coming up and it's time for me to go to bed.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:54:44 No.1049910
    I know that feel op, it happens every where in real life life as well, over the last few years i've become increasingly detached from society and other people in general, I find it hard to relate to people and the same goes in reverse. Seems to be the older I get the harder it becomes to socialize. I won der if all loners experience something similar to this.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:54:47 No.1049911
    >>1049903

    alright, just continue where we left off, or hell, tell me about your past life or high school life, whatever comes first, night man.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:54:54 No.1049912
    ahaha, I know that feel OP. It's silly, but I really envy how "popular" people can get on forums, especially when I've been there longer than said people. It's just bizarre. Maybe I'm compensating for being foreveralone IRL, I don't know.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)07:58:29 No.1049928
    every forum i've ever posted on i've either been really popular or gotten banned within a week or two
    just act like an idiot and people will like you
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)08:00:43 No.1049938
    >>1049928

    I can't do that in real life and I can't do it on the internet. I'm far too serious of a person to even use an abbreviation, or to not have a well thought out post.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)08:17:39 No.1050016
    I'm pretty much this thread.

    A few of you have mentioned working out, I just went to the gym and even though I felt a bit unwell from the strain I felt slightly better. Unfortunately a kilometer down the road as I was driving home I passed a couple of bars and the sight of the gorgeous girls that I will never meet just destroyed any boost the workout gave me.

    It's quite often the case, that I am really easily discouraged whenever I find myself in a positive frame of mind, anyone else find this?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)08:20:22 No.1050033
    >>1050016

    all the time, whenever I start to feel good I know life is about serve me another plate of "you think you could actually be normal? Nope here's some more shit"

    or I see someone better than me (nearly everyone) and any good feelings i have vanish.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)08:39:33 No.1050135
    >>1050016

    imo it's mostly just mindset problems.

    For example, whenever I come here I pretty much nearly always leave here depressed because there's just so much negativity.

    To be fair I'm in a shitty place atm.
    18, NEET (until I get a job or go to college in september) most of my relatives think I'm a weird shut in, I've isolated myself completely from all my friends because I secretly hate them all, and I live in a shitty one bedroom flat with my dad.

    But the good thing is we're moving into a nice house in the next month or so and then I have until September to improve myself as much as possible. Going to buy a gym set and work out. Learning the ukulele, trying to look for a part time job, improve sense of fashion, etc.

    Of course the real bad thing is I'm still unbelievably TERRIBLE with girls and I secretly hate people in general and can't really relate to most people (I blame 4chan for this). I just hope my social ability doesn't worsen over extended periods of time in isolation.

    But I know some crazy weird girl who's like 6-7/10 who knows how retarded I am and has offered to hang out with me and help me to not be retarded so I could take her up on that or whatever.

    sorry ranted a bit. Kind of completely irrelevant to what I meant to post about, actually, but I don't really talk about my situation so yeah.

    But yeah. Mindset. Avoid negativity.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)08:48:19 No.1050159
    >>1050135

    I really try to think positive, it's just so hard controlling your thoughts though!

    >Tell yourself not to think something and see if you think it lelele

    This girl sounds like a god send, I've never had anyone IRL offer to do that for me (only a couple of people "if we ever met" from the other side of the country...it's a big country), I think it's timely in so much that you're only 18 so you haven't missed out on too much yet, very encouraging.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)09:05:46 No.1050214
    >>1050159
    yeah I know what you mean, it's harder than it sounds to be positive all the time. But it's better in the long run. Negativity is pointless.

    The worst thing is when you just stagnate in the same situation for months and months though, right? As long as you're doing something positive I suppose it doesn't matter whether you're thinking negative things or positive things.

    Yeah, it's encouraging. It's a long story though. Known her for years and years and never actually had the balls to talk to her irl (she was in my school ;_;) but that's the typical r9k story I guess.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)09:08:47 No.1050229
    I have old and trusted friends in real life

    But I've never fit in any online community

    I played an alien vs predator MUD for four years and everybody thought I'm weird because I hardly talked to anyone

    so yeah I know that feel
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)12:32:48 No.1051381
    I know that feel all too well.
    mootbloxosoef
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)12:40:26 No.1051439
    not akward but anxious in games. impacts my performance, annoying as fuck.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)13:23:54 No.1051739
    >>1049237

    if you're still here op, i'll get to your messages on hotmail soon, i'm just tired right now.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)15:17:19 No.1052489
    ujyror9u4sryer7ueuetueu
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)17:46:51 No.1053958
    i gussthe op is no longer in the topic?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)17:51:02 No.1054010
    For a long time I never used email because of social awkwardness. I've also never really used chat apps like aim, msn, icq, etc.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:34:09 No.1054406
    >>1054010

    i use hotmail to talk to other loners and shut ins, are you completely friendless with no goals or life?
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:35:51 No.1054418
    >>1054406

    Bro, email me back. I know you're online now.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:36:43 No.1054430
    >>1054418

    who were you? i just woke up.

    bloxcosion'tcare
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:37:17 No.1054432
    >>1054430

    All of us :(

    pls respond
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:40:39 No.1054471
    >>1054432

    okay? that doesn't really give me much information.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:40:52 No.1054473
    >Post on a forum with a user base of 16-24 predominately
    >Rule the roost. One of the GOAT posters. Do nothing other than complain and tell people why they're fucking idiots and get respect for it

    >Post on a forum with a user base of predominantly mid 20s - 50 ish.
    >Pipe the fuck down because I get told hard whenever I stick my neck out

    It swings in roundabouts OP. You have to lurk for a long time first and then spend a good few years posting before you truly "fit in".
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:44:05 No.1054508
    >>1054473
    beta. interact in real life, be alpha immediately. drop all pussy forum discussion shit
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:44:35 No.1054511
    >>1054508

    You're on /r9k/

    Pipe the fuck down.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:48:57 No.1054559
    >>1054511
    i come here to laugh at stories and laugh at you.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:50:20 No.1054579
    >>1054559

    We all come here to laugh at stories.

    The fact that you come here at all is a damning indictment of your social status.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:51:56 No.1054594
    >>1054579

    When you start going to the gym, get a girlfriend, and get friends, come talk to me.

    I can't help if I used to be beta and know the "bellies" of the internet. Sure as hell not going back to that.

    Faggot.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:53:46 No.1054618
    >>1054594

    >implying I don't go the the gym
    >implying I don't have friends
    >implying you're not mad as hell
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)18:55:37 No.1054636
    >>1054618
    >implying i'm not more alpha than you
    >dontgiveafuck.jpg
    >lolz
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)19:09:49 No.1054815
    Personally, I come here to laugh at THIS SHIT.

    >>1054636
    >>1054633
    >>1054618
    >>1054594
    >>1054579
    >>1054559
    >neckbeards raging about who is less beta
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)19:27:07 No.1055031
    >>1054010

    why don't you use them?
    you have a ton of friends.
    >> Anonymous 01/10/12(Tue)22:25:24 No.1057117
    yijyo057ty8u46ut6hu6j
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)01:45:19 No.1058917
    how do i not feel like a complete loser?
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)05:33:09 No.1060414
    bumpan out of entertaining friendless bros.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)06:54:28 No.1060774
    pissed off and hateful towards every single person

    usually only register to call out people

    shit shit
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)11:33:07 No.1062055
    Well, at least I'm not as beta as /r9k/
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)11:41:19 No.1062097
    I used to have the same problem until I sat around for a year and observed everyone's interactions and came up with a fool-proof method for fitting in:

    >Talk like them. They use perfect spelling, grammar and punctuation? Copy that shit.
    >Say things that are hard to disagree with without looking like a) an idiot and b) you're trying to start a circlejerk.
    >Be nice! Even if you get into an argument, try to be polite about it. People can't hate nice people.
    >If all else fails, make a new account and try again.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)15:25:52 No.1063699
    same here OP.
    same here...
    bloxannn
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)16:34:08 No.1064360
    that feel when no god damn girlfriend cryan
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)18:36:25 No.1065524
    oy908i9305ti90wri90two0-rtw0-eto
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)20:21:52 No.1066751
    the op is still here?
    I know that feelan, can i borrow it?
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)20:24:54 No.1066781
    It might be bad but at the same time, it might not OP. Don't judge yourself so terribly.

    Then again, I can't fit in for the life of me either.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)20:43:33 No.1066953
    That feel when you're a highly regarded member of a forum that has over 450,000 members.

    That feel when at work/school you don't talk to anyone unless absolutely necessary.

    That feel when people ask who your closest friends are and you immediately think of people you've only met on the internet.

    That feel when you're continuously muted for not having an original image, so you give up and post without one

    That equally depressing feel when you go back after being muted and your captcha is "deserves. betafun"
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)21:04:25 No.1067170
    I know all these feels.

    I tried being an active member of many forums but my posts were either ignored, or the threads died. It's like my posts were invisable or something.

    I've tried being a part of the most welcoming place ive ever found, ponychan, yet the same thing has happend there. I even posted some Forza related Pony artwork a few weeks back & it was ignored. I would have liked it even if someone said it was shit or whatever.

    Seems like we are doomed to spend our lives living in the shadows.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)21:13:44 No.1067279
    I know what you mean. I just lurk. Whenever I post I just seem to say something wrong or get ignored. I also repeatedly refresh to see any response while worrying what you people think of me.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)21:15:30 No.1067292
    >>1067170
    You from OCremix bro?
    Lot of pony talk going on in that house.
    Yo.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)21:20:07 No.1067341
    >>1049377
    I'm also afraid I'm retarded. Maybe I am and I just don't realize it and no one will ever tell me.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)21:33:35 No.1067528
    >>1067279
    >>1067341

    do you guys do anything interesting with your lives? what are your interests and how are your family members close to you?
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)21:42:22 No.1067650
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    48 KB
    Does anyone know if the dude who posted his email is online? I sent him an e-mail and I'm eagerly waiting for a response
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)21:47:03 No.1067730
    >>1067650

    i think it might be me, i just replied to all of my e-mails. you're looking for a guy with "dead" in the address? If so, yes i just replied to your message.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)21:49:54 No.1067764
    >>1067730

    nah i'm looking for platshot, when did you post your email?
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)22:06:16 No.1067965
    >>1067170
    Abd here I though i was the only one. Seems like people actually can't see me post. Why !!
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)22:12:31 No.1068043
         File1326337951.jpg-(147 KB, 780x439, 23424242.jpg)
    147 KB
    >>1049305

    We set sail tomorrow.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)23:00:13 No.1068697
    >>1067528
    Those were both me. I doubt you're still here but i'll answer anyway. I'm doing nothing interesting. I'm terrified about my future and I don't know what to do with my life. I don't really like anything that much. I have a pretty bad relationship with my family. My mom probably has BPD and definitely has depression. All the things she's said and done have made me hate her. My dads usually okay but is also an asshole. I have a brother we're not close. No relationship with extended family for years.

    What made you ask those two posts?
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)23:06:21 No.1068782
    >>1068697

    you'd be surprised, i'm actually still here waiting for another person to respond. did you want to carry this conversation over on hotmail? I'm very similar to you. it's in the field.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)23:19:24 No.1068931
    >>1068697
    I have the same kind of relationship with my parents. Why are you afraid of your future? Don't you have goals? I wanna travel around the world cuz one of the few things I enjoy is walking so that keep me going
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)23:23:09 No.1068979
    >>1068782
    can i add you too anon?
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)23:32:07 No.1069074
    >>1068979

    okay, send me an e-mail, what are you like though? life wise i mean.
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)23:36:59 No.1069140
    >>1069074
    I'm mixture of nerdyness (when you first know me) and then pure coldness (when you interact with me) but acording to my 3 only real friends I get to have in my life I can be a good bro.
    I sent you a mail
    >> Anonymous 01/11/12(Wed)23:44:36 No.1069225
    >>1068697

    are you still there man?
    bumpupmypost.jpg
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)00:10:31 No.1069503
    >>1068697

    that feel when he wont reply back.

    well, it's in the field, i think i messed up my e-mail.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)00:15:15 No.1069545
    >>1069503
    I'm here. I might reply.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)00:20:19 No.1069594
    >>1069545

    continue the conversation in the email, i can't really keep track of these threads.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)00:28:45 No.1069676
    >>1069594
    Do you have a similar life or something? After I post I'm going to bed. I'll email tomorrow.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)00:33:33 No.1069724
    >>1069676

    As I stated before, I can resemble your family lifestyle and most of what you wrote before you replied back to my message, alright, talk to you later then.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)00:35:17 No.1069743
    Online game chat box
    >join game
    >"hi guys!"
    >"please respond"
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)01:54:28 No.1070377
    that feel when no one...

    wait...op you there?
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)04:00:01 No.1071208
    that feel when all you do is play runescape.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)05:13:51 No.1071597
    if you're on here, then you're on here for something.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)09:26:45 No.1072777
    then why would you be on here? i mainly lurk.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)13:57:49 No.1074180
    do you guys even talk online or is this your only medium?
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)17:20:22 No.1075781
    >>1069676

    i just woke up, are you still in the thread?
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)17:58:36 No.1076217
    wow why does everyone carre so much about "fitting in" with society. our society is made up of old people who shit their pants, wiggers/chavs who think they own everything, these people are the ones that would kill you over nothing, midaged boring fuckers with nothing better to do, were the interesting lot fuck fitting in you bunch of fucking cunts faggots and assholes fuck you all!!!
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)19:05:39 No.1077100
    no one else really came up to me...i was always a loner.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)20:59:21 No.1078086
    is the op still here?
    i sent you an e-mail a couple days ago.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)23:26:09 No.1079499
    it's a shame that we can't add each other as the op left.
    >> Anonymous 01/12/12(Thu)23:35:28 No.1079621
    Non anonymous forums are one giant pissing contest faggotry.

    You've got the post whores who only +1 usually with "wat" or "lol". They usually have a ridiculous amount of posts since they signed up. They've been on the forum for two years and have 10k posts. They contribute nothing and are considered celebrities and operate in a huge circlejerk of other post whores.

    The "bad boy" or infamous "troll". Usually someone in their mid teens that thinks he's "doing it for the lulz". Doesn't know what trolling is. When called out on his shit he either says nothing or flips shit looking like an idiot. But it was all part of the plan. You just got trolled. Fucking retards. These people make up about 60% of the community.

    The mods who do whatever the fuck they want and get their dicks sucked for it. Threads aren't locked for breaking the rules. They're locked because they don't like it. Huge egos fueled by legion of suck ups.

    A handful of women who are a mix of hambeasts acting like hot women and average women using selective angles to look "hot". The latter are hardcore weaboos and the former are normalfags wanting to boost their self esteem because women make up 2% of the community. Will probably be made a mod because of white knight mods.

    This is what finally drove me away. Also forum drama that ends up dividing the community forcing the site to shut down.
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)00:02:26 No.1079908
    >Be online FPS
    >Play for 2 years straight
    >Super skilled
    >Super popular
    >Have rl friendships with people found to be from same region ingame
    >Friendly to everyone in clan, always say hi, always say bye, always helping out etc.
    >Every time I log on, always get a wave of 'Hi Anon!! :D:D:D'
    >Famous, not youtube famous, but pretty damn respected

    >Have a break for a year, tell noone
    >Most people I know stopped playing
    >Those that still play think I died
    >Nowhere near as good as I once was
    >Still friendly to those still play
    >Nearly all ignore me now

    >Only a small fuck was given
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)01:40:29 No.1080701
    >>1079908
    Happens to me too, what game?
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)03:37:02 No.1081490
    that feel when i quit my old mmo because of this
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)06:16:30 No.1082615
    fjeijeii9eui9eruiejg
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)08:54:20 No.1083276
    how many of you neckbeards mainly lurk? s
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)10:45:41 No.1083817
    that's why i got rid of all my online friends.
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)14:39:06 No.1085206
    we all know that feel op.
    well...most of us nowaays.
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)17:49:34 No.1086564
    that feel when you can't even remember the last time you had a conversation
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)20:56:10 No.1088363
    >not being a socially awkward hermit
    >2012
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)20:58:37 No.1088389
    >>1083276
    I post only in one board (not this onr) and lurk a lot in at least 8 other boards.
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)21:03:05 No.1088444
    >>1088389

    You must be very proud of yourself.
    b
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)21:06:32 No.1088480
    >join a forum
    >say hi
    >couple of automatic hellos
    >try to talk with them but they're a tight nit group of people
    >half the time they're not even in the chatbox, they're in their own ventrillo talking to eachother
    >been on the site actively for two years
    >one day admin up and leaves
    >they appoint a new guy
    >he didn't even have an account on the site before he became admin, he just knew the staff personally
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)21:11:59 No.1088538
    >that feel whenever you post, you wish you didnt
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)21:13:46 No.1088558
    I can post on 4chan because it doesn't occur to me that the other anons are actual people as well.
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)21:26:40 No.1088660
    >that feel when someone here share his e-mail, you send him a mail and it does not answer back.
    Even the other loners ignore me. FML
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)21:30:36 No.1088694
    I had an e-friend for years who goes on 4chan but when I met him IRL he had the shittiest personality of anyone I'd met. I think we're all just terrible people.
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)21:33:17 No.1088713
    >>1088694
    How bad was he?
    Was he a /b/tard? That would explain everything
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)23:16:26 No.1089451
    >>1079621
    >10k

    smalltime

    On IGN the popular niggas have like 100k posts
    >> Anonymous 01/13/12(Fri)23:31:44 No.1089571
    >>1088660

    was it deadbanshee? I just sent all of my emails out last night. You didn't get it back...?
    >> Anonymous 01/14/12(Sat)00:09:22 No.1089790
    >>1069676


    let me know what your email is bro, i don't think i received it.
    >> Anonymous 01/14/12(Sat)00:12:45 No.1089806
    I'm a little bit like that, but I think part of it is that the internet can be very cliquey and I don't really roll like that. This is mostly based on forum experience. I have become a "regular" on a few forums, but on only about half of them did I meet anybody I actually cared to speak to off of the forum.
    >> Anonymous 01/14/12(Sat)00:21:49 No.1089873
    It's comforting to know other anons feel the same way as I do.
    >> Anonymous 01/14/12(Sat)02:39:35 No.1090941
    yuryrutyetyyeteyrtrt
    >> Anonymous 01/14/12(Sat)03:53:20 No.1091354
    op are you still there? Do you even talk to people via instant messengers?
    >> Anonymous 01/14/12(Sat)03:56:53 No.1091373
    I can identify. Makes me feel more socially retarded than ever. Although I do prefer to speak to people in person if and when I have the balls to.
    >> Anonymous 01/14/12(Sat)05:41:49 No.1091817
    >>1091373

    what is your life like? what can you talk about and what are your opinions on politics and religion?
    >> Anonymous 01/14/12(Sat)11:26:57 No.1093763
    bump out of simple convince and interest.


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