Queer cisgendered femalefag. We have this thread every other day. When will moot make a /gay/?

Not much to report here... I've only ever been with one guy, who I'm still dating. We've been getting along great for 7 years, and we're planning to get married whenever it finally becomes legal :3

>>10135459
I've heard that he has said he won't, but I don't know why. I guess he imagines it will turn out to be trollbait like /new/, except for homophobia instead of racism.

Lezbot reporting in.

Even though I have zero attraction to any guys and don't like the idea of raising a kid, I have a major impregnation fetish. Pretty sure me sex drive has no idea what the fuck it's doing.

>>10135431
That is a really hot cartoon, where is it from? tineye is no help ;_;

Bisexual here

Having regular sex with my best friend and also sort of seeing a guy on the side (who has no problems with me hooking up with my best friend).

shit rox

confusedvirginfag here

I fap to drawn gay porn all the fucking time and fantasize about having sex with guys, but REAL gay porn and real-life guys seem to do nothing for me. Its the exact opposite when it comes to girls. So I have no fucking clue.

>>10135565
Oglaf. Lots of excellent fantasy humor + sex. Here's the epilogue to that comic.

>>10135649
I was like this too for a while, except the opposite. I could only get turned on by looking at female or lesbian hentai but irl girls turned me off and I didn't think I was gay

but now I'm turned on by guys and girls. more by girls to look at but I prefer having sex with guys

I don't know. Learning about your sexuality is a long process and a lot of people have a hard time labelling themselves because it's not always so cut-and-dry

>>10135649
I was somewhat similar... I knew I was pretty damn gay by the time I was in high school, but I still had some minor attraction to girls and I had no attraction to any of the guys I knew IRL.

Turns out I was just surrounded by unattractive guys at the time. I got to college and it was COCKS AHOY

> at a party with friends, at newyears eve.
> one of friends says ow lawd im so horny!
> so i take him by hand and walk to the cemetary
> and give the guy a blowjob.
> after that he tells me that he want me to do it again
> i do, after that he simply get back to party
> and im like wtf.
> then friend who is girl comes out.
> she's pissed at me cuz she wanted the guy.
> i go back to party
> happy 2010

I used to think I was bi in high school.

Then I realized I wasn't bi, I just enjoyed flirting and drunkenly making out with my gay best friend. The thought of having sex with a guy much less being in a relationship with one never appealed to me at all.

>>10135659
That's pretty funny, right there.

gayhumorblox

just because their married doesn't mean anything.

relationship wise? while i would do it again in a heartbeat i'm currently in a 6 year relationship (gayfag here) and miss being single occasionally only because two males living together, especially when the two of us are super straight acting is really tough.

>>10135649
>REAL gay porn and real-life guys seem to do nothing for me
Sounds like you are bi with some internalized homophobia you've haven't yet resolved. You'll probably get over it after losing your virginity and becoming more comfortable with your sexuality.

First guy I ever slept with (my cousin, actually) was like this to the extreme. He would be loudly homophobic and hyper-macho most of the time, but every once in a while he would do a complete 180 and be absolutely fucking desperate to "fool around." And as soon as he came, you could practically watch the guilt wash over him and he would just completely clam up and pretend it never happened.

I have no fucking clue what I am. I mean the only two people I have seriously liked were my friend and her brother. :\ I see guys and girls who I find physically attractive, but many more guys than girls. I also masturbate to... videos of girls, written stories about guys.

wat

I've tried going gay a few times just because I was curious and have plenty of opportunity, but so far it's done absolutely nothing for me. I could barely even get hard, despite the best efforts of the guys I've tried it with. I've never even seen any gay porn that was attractive to me.

I am actually somewhat envious of gay guys. All the gay guys I know seem to have their shit together and have awesome lives and good relationships despite all the shit they have to put up with for being gay. Whereas I am tired of putting up with BEACHES AND SHORES and going nowhere career-wise, despite having pretty much every advantage (generic middle class white male). Feels bad, man.

Something that's been bothering me for a while now: Why is it that gay guys have such a reputation for being flamboyant and promiscuous? Is it just a media stereotype? Because all of the openly gay guys I know seem to be pretty much exactly like all the straight folks I know in terms of relationships, monogamy, etc. And I've only ever met one flamer (who was really just slightly effeminate and lispy).

>>10136215
It's mostly media stereotype, but it's also partially historical and pyschological.

First off, there's a great deal of selection bias: people don't notice "regular-acting" gay guys, but they do notice the flamers, so it cements the gay=flaming association in their mind, especially since that's the way media protrays gay guys as well.

Second off: the older gay generation was very different; they had to stay underground and very secretive about their sex lives, so they couldn't have normal relationships and had to resort to things like bath houses and other very sexually-charged meeting places. Combine that with the fact that casual sex itself was very scandalous in the first place back then, and you can see part of where the stereotypes came from.

I'll just drop some fun facts:
-I knew I was gay since I was 4
-I pretended not to be since then
-had sex with a girl at the age of 15, didn't enjoy it ofcourse
-came out 17
-haven't had sex with a man
-have had plenty offers but I don't want quick, anonymous sex
-I kind of regret every time I've said no right now
-Will probably say yes next time

oh and today I was at the csd in munich and some guy grabbed my crotch. I didn't see who it was though as I was passing through the crowd and it could have been like 5 guys.

I'm bi, and I've done a fair bit with both sexes. I can understand alot of the whole "I think I'm bi but gay sex = ew" thing, hell I didn't think I could bring myself to even kiss a guy until it was basically that moment. I don't enjoy gay porn one bit, and I'm almost impossibly picky about what I find attractive in someone, either male or female, but I certainly think with gay sex for bisexuals, it's something you have to try before you can say for sure. I enjoyed sex with my (gay) best friend far more than I thought I would.
That being said, a relationship with a girl is far more appealing than one with a guy.

>>10136274
you wanna fuck?

>>10136336
>That being said, a relationship with a girl is far more appealing than one with a guy.

Really? Because personally, I can't even imagine having as satisfying a relationship with any girl as I do with my boyfriend. We're both extremely nerdy, introverted guys (both scientists) who are into video games, technology, and goofing off on out computers all day. So we're basically best friends plus sex and cuddling. Sex during video games > all.

I don't think I've met any girl who shares even half of my interests or mindsets--it's not that I dislike women, it's just that they have such different life experiences from me that they might as well be a different species.

Plus, I got doubly lucky: I'm a stereotypically chubby nerd, but my boyfriend is a smoking hot chubby chaser. I seriously doubt I would end up with a girl anywhere near as hot as him even if I were straight.

>>10136607
>(both scientists)
Picture related?

>>10136607
Yeah, I'm biased that way I suppose, I just can't see myself settling down for the long haul with a guy. I understand where you're coming from though, sharing an interest gives you something to work from, and I doubt I'll find any pretty girls on my course anytime soon.

Every time there's a gay thread it's always full of cool people who have awesome relationships of ~10 years or get laid on a daily basis.
Is there something wrong with me if I'm 22 and kissless virgin?

I consider myself to be straight, but I love cock. Strap-on's don't cut it for me, I need real cock in my mouth and ass right now. I wish dickgirls were real...

I'm a 'gayfag' but I've never had any relationships, sexual experiences or other encounters that would give me stories related to my faggotry.

>>10136896
>I wish dickgirls were real...
They are. They just aren't nearly as attractive as they are when drawn. Much like traps.

Another confusedfag here...

I'm kind of caught in the middle, but not exactly bi... I'm sexually attracted to guys, but romantically attracted to girls, so yeah...

idk.... I think I'm just fucked up from the variety of weird sexual experiences I had as a teenager... kinda hoping I'll just grow out of it and figure things out...

Bianon here. I am currently getting the best of both worlds, since I am in an open relationship with both of my roommates right now (one girl, one guy--they were dating when I moved in). The arrangement is a little tricky to navigate (whenever one pair of us has a spat the third gets dragged into it, so double the drama), but other than that, it's by FAR the best relationship I've ever been involved in.

It's really hard to find decent bisexual porn, BTW :(

>open bisexual
>date girl who was bicurious when we met, then says she's bisexual a while before we start dating
>eventual breakup
>about a month later, she tells me she's "not that way anymore"
>I ask her why she feels that way, and she says because she's not attracted to anyone
>"You just ended your first relationship, of course you're not attracted to anyone right now!"

Am I just a bitch, or am I right to feel a bit... used? Like I was just her experiment?

I met a guy online a week ago. He's clingy and probably mentally unstable, told me he loved me after one day of chatting and wants to move in with me in November.

I know I'm setting myself up for disappointment but... I'm going along with it. I usually feel empty from day-to-day if not outright suicidal. Talking to him just fills my stomach with warmth and I'm genuinely smiling. Who knows? Maybe something will come of this.

And damn is he good looking. And he says the same about me.

I just wonder why he hasn't responded to his e-mail all day today........ :(

>>10137671
>Like I was just her experiment?
Possibly; she might've just been a lipstick lesbian. Or it could be that she's just not able to fully come to grips with her sexuality. Or that she honestly did think that she was bi, but actual experience changed her mind. Either way, I wouldn't feel too bad about it.

>>10137714
>Moving in together after a week of dating
Uh.

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but you really should get past the infatuation phase of your relationship before you decide to move in together. Or at least meet up in person, first?

Bisexual male reporting in. Being straddling the fence since 15.

Currently courting/sleeping with a man and a woman. They don't know about each other. I use a condom. I've told them both it is just casual. I've been alternating days. If I wanted to, I could avoid my house entirely.

Roneryfag here. I have a highly one-sided crush on my really hot "straight" roommate. Even though he has a girl and acts kind of like a stereotypical macho douchebag, he lets me suck him off every once in a while (usually when he's drunk/high), so he can't be COMPLETELY straight.

I'm afraid he'll freak out if I try to get him to go much further and return the favor or anything... at most, I could probably get him to fuck me (he's suggested it a few times), but I'm a bit scared of that since I'm an anal virgin, he refuses to ever use condoms, and he's hung like an elephant. Which is ironically stereotypical, since he's black :P

vyn mggrug nipgur mwj nxaln i n lhukw sa sg hjmpwjh j r

I cheated on my girlfriend with my ex boyfriend. Now neither will speak to me.

Fuck my life.

>>10138016
>On one hand, she's from a conservative Hispanic family
>On the other, she was vice-president of her school's Gay-Straight Alliance

I'm trying not to, and relationship-wise I'm over her (as in if she asked me out again, I'd say no in a heartbeat), but I don't even know if she meant any of what she said anymore.

>>10135431
Man I love oglaf

>>10138354
Most guys with big dicks hate wearing condoms because it's really hard to find condoms that fit. Seriously.

My ex had this problem... he had an absolutely MONSTER cock (10" long and as almost as thick as a fucking coke can), and it was impossible to force a condom on it without it being extremely tight and visibly painful for him.

Turns out those XL/XXL condoms you see in stores? Completely bullshit advertising gimmick--they are just slightly longer (which doesn't matter because you don't need a condom to go all the way down your dick in the first place) and the exact same fucking width. They just exist to stroke the egos of guys with average-sized dicks.

We eventually just ended up getting a bunch of STD tests and going bareback. I honestly haven't bothered with condoms since then--I just avoid dating skanks and make sure any guys I'm dating get tested before I let them fuck me.

>>10138423
>fuck my life
>over something that is entirely your fault
boo hoo.

Is there such a thing as a cute little gay/bi guy that isn't a huge fucking flamer?

I swear to god they don't exist.

>>10138443
>she's from a conservative Hispanic family
Ding ding ding ding. She probably has a great deal of internalized homophobia and sexual confusion she is still figuring out. I've noticed this seems to be the case with the more "activist" sorts of gay folks I know, so it makes sense that she's part of the GSA.

She probably meant the things she said, but she didn't really have them resolved internally either.

>>10138488

u mad at my promiscuity broseph?

>>10138495

well i guess i'm little? (5'6") and i hate flamers. the problem is that only the flamers come out, leaving us normal guys in del closeto

I once fooled around with both halves of a couple, without the other's knowledge or consent. I got along better with the guy, but I desperately wanted my face between the thighs of the girl. Cut all of that off once they got married, though.
I now have a crush on some Norwegian girl I've never met. Woo, being a lesbian is so awesome.

ye asj p noi r ygv jsm rweo bsmrj od

>>10138505
nah, dude. I'm sure everyone in your life is mad enough as it is.

Bifag here. Anal play isn't as scary as you think <3

>>10138546

Yeah they actually are. Enough trolling. I fucked up big time bro.

>>10138495
Huh? I've met plenty of cute, smaller gay/bi guys who aren't flamers. They are more likely to be bottoms/submissive, but not flamers.

Actually, the only gay guy I know who I would describe as a "flamer" is a rather homely, tall, chubby dude. Maybe you are just traveling in the wrong circles? It wouldn't surprise me, I swear the GBLT community is so fucking labyrinthine and packed full of micro-subcultures that I don't see how anyone can keep track of it.

>>10138646
>the GBLT community
>GBLT
>Great Bacon Lettuce Tomato
Sonny, true love is the greatest thing in the world. Except for a nice MLT: a mutton, lettuce and tomato sandwich, where the mutton is nice and lean and the tomato is ripe. They're so perky, I love that.

>>10138646
The only flamer I know is tall and chubby as well. He is such a queen! He does my hair.

>>10138646

Seems like you're right. I'll keep a look out when I'm back at uni.

Bisexual male here
cocks everywhere, I love it

I'm not gay, but if I were I'd be rolling in dicks right now.

I go out clubbing nearly every week (not to fucking gay clubs) and so far I've been hit on by 3 guys and 1 woman in like 3 fucking years of drinking socially. Plus several of my gay friends have been pretty fucking obviously flirting with me. Shit sucks being straight and still a virgin when quite a few dudes want my dick.

I kissed a girl but no, Katy Perry, I didn't particularly like it. It was just a kiss.

>>10138833
Wow I swear too much when I type without thinking about what I'm doing.

Straight guy here. I used to be bicurious and thought I was gay because I liked playing with my butt and at one point I liked traps. I could never have a relationship with a guy, I know straight sex is better and I find gay sex immoral and lustful now.

I guess I picked up the bicurious from hanging about with furfags at the time.

>>10138833
Well, if you want to lose your v-card, you could at least give it a shot. Best case scenario: you turn out to love it. Worst case scenario: your straightness is confirmed. Not a big deal.

I've actually seduced quite a few "straight" guys over the years (hooray for alcohol). Every one of them enjoyed the sex, even though most of them decided it ultimately wasn't their thing and didn't want to try it again. My current boyfriend was actually a kissless virgin who thought he was 100% straight until I deflowered him, and now I can barely keep up with him in bed :P

>>10139004
You dirty faggot, spreading lies and your mental illness.

>>10139004
Eh I dunno. It'd have to be a pretty girly boy... and I don't think I'd be at all comfortable even touching another guys dick...

I'm just not really attracted to the male body tbh. I could fuck a guy I guess if he was bodyhair-less and skinny and it was 1 way traffic.

>>10139110
Well, I am a pretty girly boy, which is probably why I was so successful :P

Also, as the old joke goes:
Q) What's the difference between a straight college kid and a gay college kid?
A) About four beers.

>>10139004
Can you describe this deflowering?

>>10139204
I even let a guy buy me a beer once. I just kinda ran away from him after. Kinda felt bad for doing that. But then I realised I had free beer and felt better.

Any girl I'm with is 'afraid to hurt me'.

I'M NOT FRAGILE AAUUGHHH JUST FUCK ME AND MAKE IT HARD YOU CRAZY LADY.

I'm a masochist and whenever I want a little pain it's all "U-um.. mmm.. I don't wanna hurt youu.."

>feelsbadman.jpg

>>10138912

what in fuck are you talking about? you were curious and now are an intolerant cunt. simple.

bifag here.

I went to a bath house a year ago and had sex with about 4 guys, maybe more since I was drunk. I don't know how I didn't catch anything. Never doing that again.

Bifag here. I feel like I'm attracted to femininity, being genderqueer, or being gay or bi. What is this?

welp, gay fag here
im 18 and tiny (could pass for like 12ish if i tried)

i use my shota moe to attract big hairy muscley guys
shit is so cash

>>10139236
It wasn't really any special, kinda spontaneous, but okay, here's the full account:
Him and several of our mutual friends were at my apartment for some poker and movies.
We all had a good time and got a little tipsy. Folks started heading out. My roommate left to crash with his girlfriend, leaving me and my future boyfriend alone.
We were shooting the shit, he jokingly complained about his virgin, I non-jokingly offered to rid him of it.
He initially laughed it off, but put up only token resistance once I started getting his pants off. I started giving him head and got him to come in less than a minute.
After that he was kind of in shock for a little while, we continued watching movies and started molesting each other.
He eventually got my dick out and jerked me off for a while (fucking adorably nervous the whole time), and eventually asked to try giving me head.
I ran to get some lube and started fingering him while he gave me a clumsy blowjob (TEEEEETH). He starts getting into it, so I get him to sit in my lap while we make out and dry hump. Eventually he let me slowly stick it in.
He took it surprisingly well for his first time (I guess the alcohol helped), and managed to come right before I did.
Then we went to bed and made out some more before passing out. I woke him up with a blowjob the next morning and got him to fuck me. Then we went to lunch on our first ever date (even though we didn't call it that).

Kinda sappy, but I still have very fond memories of the whole night, even if they are a little hazy from the booze :P

>>10139506
You're mad, fag.

Lust = Bad.
Promiscuity = Bad.

FAX.

Gayfag here, went out alone on new years to downtown Denver on the bus. My roommate stayed up with her boyfriend doing whatever, boring night.
Go to gay club, have a good time, no a GREAT time, then invited to afterparty nearby via some gay guys limo, take some E from complete stranger for first time, dance till 5 or 6 feels good! Party's over and I left my coat in the limo that's already gone, fuck. Take a taxi a few blocks to bus station that's not running due to holiday. Still high from the e, so without a coat i wait outside in freezing air for an hour for another bus to take me 2 miles from my house. Call a nearby friend to meet me at the stop near a Target to buy a brand new coat. Finally get home and fall asleep at noon. I can still see guys dancing around me when I close my eyes for some reason on that day.

>>10139592
It means you still haven't worked out your sexuality yet. You'll figure it out as you have experiences. Just play it safe.

timeline:

10-16: spent being emasculated and emotionally abused and convinced that I was gay. My sexual fantasies are strange and mostly non-sexual.

17: fall madly in love with a girl. Too beta to do anything about it

18: gay best friend comes out as gay. I come out as straight, probably breaking his heart

19: watch a lot of straight porn

20: have sex with a girl. Not really into it. Later, start watching some gay BDSM porno

21: fall madly in love with a guy. Too beta to do anything about it. Start watching regular gay porn. Pretty much never watch straight porn these days.


...should I come out as bi to my gay HS best friend? That seems appropriate, right?

I like dicks in my butt

>>10140431
>...should I come out as bi to my gay HS best friend? That seems appropriate, right?
Are you still in close touch and on good terms with him? If so, he will probably welcome it. If not, contacting him out of the blue to tell him your gay might make him feel like you are just indecisively jerking him around emotionally.

>>10140576
nah we're still bros


although I guess the more important thing would be to Alpha the fuck up about this guy I'm currently worshiping....

Gayfag here. My love life is more fucked up than most, cuz the only guy I've ever slept with or even been attracted to is my older brother.

I've been kinda sliding by for years being dependent on him, but now that we're both in our twenties I get the impression that he's been feeling guilty about the whole arrangement lately and is getting ready to cut me off and move on. I know it's probably for the best, but it still makes me sick to my stomach to think of us "breaking up". Feels bad man ;_;

>>10141028
that's pretty fucked up, sorry.....

>>10141028
Brocest? It's cool by me. I actually messed around with my own brother quite a bit as a teenager, and we both turned out fine. But yeah, you should grow out of that shit *eventually*--don't want to be codependent for the rest of your life.

>>10138354
>he's hung like an elephant. Which is ironically stereotypical, since he's black
I think the racial penis size stereotypes are a myth. Dick size seems to be more related to height than anything else, it's just that black guys are usually taller than average.

I've slept with several black guys who were all average height, and they all had average dicks. The biggest dick I've ever seen belonged to a really tall Chinese guy that me and my boyfriend had a threesome with.I couldn't even take half of the thing before I wimped out, and even though my boyfriend is a much better bottom than me I still had to help pull him up and down that monster.

There are outliers too, though. The guy I lost my virginity to was a short, scrawny ginger kid who had a huge dick. It was massively out of proportion to the rest of him. He wasn't very gentle with it either, so I had damn near chewed through a pillow by the time he was done fucking me. It was quite a while before I learned that anal sex isn't SUPPOSED to hurt...

>>10141746
blacks are on average an inch shorter than white men.

right now there's this straight guy who i think wants my dick. he's given me cute cheek kisses on multiple occasions, a few months ago he told me he'd always wanted to hook up with a guy (and that i was the first person he's told), he always asks me questions about my sexuality when we're alone, he told me he liked my body which admittedly threw me off.

i actually alpha'd up and asked him to hook up. he said no but keeps bringing up the fact that i asked, occasionally denying that he has any homosexual inclinations, occasionally saying things like "i wish i could be the guy for you"

so anyway weird signals. don't really know wat do. he's really fucking hot and actually quite a sweet person, but motherfucking weird as shit sometimes (not just in this specific situation, in general really). i also hope to god he's not reading this.

>>10137570
v true about decent bi porn. i'm sure it exists but it's probably made on a boutique basis by vegan lesbians so you have to pay for it instead of just trolling youporn for gross people having gross sex

i fapped to this book so many times in high school that i kind of forgot it was a literary novel instead of like three pages' worth of sex scenes surrounded by a bunch of stuff about gangsters and college

>>10141920
i used to fap to William S. Burroughs novels

>>10141920
Michael Chabon is the world's gayest married father of four

>>10138503
>She probably meant the things she said
:']

>>10139592
you watched too much anime growing up

>>10142140
I watched Yugioh for one season, that's it.

>>10141981
outside of the republican party

bifag here.

ive been attracted to the male figure since I can remember...but I also have been in numerous straight relationships, several of which lasted a long time and had much bumping of uglies.

The hardest time I'm having is that I'm currently in a relationship with a girl, but my bi-ness is connected to my bipolarness (as opposed to just attracted to men and women, 100% of the time), so 50% of the time I'm just flat out unattracted to her, and she doesn't know why.

But I am DEFINITELY attracted to her 50% of the time, and I can only imagine the future myself settling down with a woman and having kids...

But I'm still so gay 50% of the time, and my current persona/ego does not facilitate it. So it basically a pissy fag half of the time, and it sucks. I just want to cuddle with a twink :3

bi curious fembot here, why arent there more girl-on-girl pictures in this thread? I would post some, but I dont have any saved to my computer. I'm too scared of someone finding them. :(

>>10141802
He very obviously wants you, he just hasn't worked up the courage to go through with it yet. Depending on the guy's personality, you might have to be the one to make the first move (beyond just propositioning him, I mean).

>>10142210
>my bi-ness is connected to my bipolarness
Uh. What? I can see your libido in GENERAL being connected to your mood, but are you sure your sexuality is really swinging as well?

Me and my best friend sucked eachother off one night. We were drunk and high.

Haven't spoken to or seen him since.

I'm not even that attracted to guys. Sometimes I jerk off to it though :)

>>10142242
go to /u/

>>10141802
dude, he certainly still wants your nuts, but as >>10142264 said, he hasnt come to terms with it yet.

my suggestion would be to hang out with him, get drunk together (if that's an option) and just fuckin' go for it and make a really bold move. he sounds like he wants it to just happen in the heat of the moment, that way he has an excuse if he regrets it. and it doesnt threaten his sexuality as much.

>>10142300
It's hard to describe. If you don't buy it, let me try to help. maybe its not connected to mood specifically, but it swings like bipolarity, yes

Bi fag her. Been with semi-serious relationships with girls before. Have massive crush on best friend but I'm in the closet. Feels bad man

>>10142210
I have the same thing. Sometimes I wanna just wanna go with girls and other times I have the irresistible urge to suck cock

Lesbian reporting in.
>Had affair with best friend.
>She couldn't leave her boyfriend for me.
>Heartbroken.
>Built a bridge and dyked over it.

Homo here. I made out with my roommates coworker when all three of us were really drunk. He like to hang out and smoke with her and I liked to just drool over him. I just asked to kiss her midconversation and then he asked to kiss me. Never really talked about it afterwards, but it's cool. That was the first time I kissed a girl and the first time he kissed a boy. Too sloppy drunk to do anything else, oh well.

>>10142402
This is the roughest thing man. It would make a good plotting obstacle in a romantic comedy or drama or something

>>10142617
aye, ive thought about it a lot. problem is i work in film distribution, so i know firsthand how it would be completely unmarketable o.O

>>10141746
>It was quite a while before I learned that anal sex isn't SUPPOSED to hurt...
I always hear stories like this from fellow gayfags, about how their first time getting fucked was painful or at least uncomfortable. Is it really that common? I must be a bizarre fluke or something, because I've always had a very easy time taking dick... Even my very first time felt awesome and made me cum hands-free, and that was some of the roughest sex I've ever had (I was still practically a kid, and it was a quickie with a very well-hung older man). I know a lot of guys can't even stay hard when they're getting fucked, though, so I guess I'm just a natural bottom?

confused likely bigirl here; kind of reassured to see other confused and bi people in this thread.
I've been with two guys and liked it and have had lots of crushes on androgynous girls. The one girl I had the guts to approach rejected me by telling me she had a huge crush on my best friend (also a girl). Feels bad man.

>>10142660
Some guys get a lot of physical pleasure out of anal sex.
Other guys find it uncomfortable, but get a lot of psychological pleasure out of it.
I think for most guys, it's a mix: the mild discomfort/pain is outweighed by the psychological/physical pleasure.
A rare few find it completely unpleasurable (though this is probably due to a bad top more than anything).

Personally, my boyfriend has a big dick with a severe curve (it's seriously like a goddamn banana), so it's difficult for us to find an angle where it's not at least a little bit uncomfortable when he fucks me. And he always has to use lots of lube and work into me very slowly at first. But once he gets going, it's fucking awesome, even though it's overwhelming at the same time.

Also:
>a lot of guys can't even stay hard when they're getting fucked
This is usually due to overstimulation rather than pain. Some guys just find getting their prostate's hammered too overwhelming to keep an erection.

I think I'm bi.

I'd have a relationship with either gender.

I fooled around with my best friend when I was like 12.

Or maybe it's because I'm still a virgin that I'd fuck or get fucked by anything that moves.

>>10142743
>a lot of guys can't even stay hard when they're getting fucked
>overstimulation
This is so true; one drunken night with a fuckbuddy being a perfect example. I dragged him back to mine and we went at it for fucking ages, potentially some of the best sex I've ever had. He paused at one point and asked me if I was even enjoying it, he couldn't have been doing it more perfectly, it felt so good I didn't even notice, much less care.

Closetfag here wanting to know...um...ah fuck it.

Oh great, another gay thread to make me wring my hands and stress about my sexuality, cuz I sure haven't had enough of that lately :(

Fine, fine, here's my sob story: up until a couple months ago, I thought I was completely straight. I've dated several girls, and enjoyed sex with them, and never seriously considered sleeping with a guy before.

Then, to celebrate finals being over with, I ended up drinking with my openly gay roommate, and we wound on the couch all night long drunkenly making out and dry humping through our underwear. Out of fucking NOWHERE. Then I let him suck me off, I came buckets, and he jerked off on my stomach. Then we went to sleep cuddling all night. I woke up the next day to find myself grinding my morning wood into his stomach, GTFO'd, went home for the summer, and promptly proceeded to have a semi-nervous breakdown.

So, I've been dealing with a wonderful sexual identity crisis all summer, as I have no idea if this means I am gay, or bi, or what. I really fucking enjoyed it and have been fantasizing about doing it again, so I'm obviously not fucking straight as I thought. I haven't seen him since all this happened, though we've been chatting over AIM, but he hasn't even mentioned it, though he's been kind of flirty and complimenting me a lot. And I have absolutely no idea what's going to happen when we're rooming again this fall.

Any suggestions, /r9gay/? Should I just embrace the gay or what, because I'm really tired of stressing over this shit :(

>>10142946
If you're not cheating on anyone, what's to stress about? You found someone who flips your switch, whoopdeedoo. Have fun with it.

>Sick of queer scene in area.
>Post on CL in different state where queer community is better for giggles.
>Some pretty, talented local musician in Seattle contacts me.
>Hit it off for a few weeks.
>Tell her the truth, but I can come visit her in a few weeks.
>She breaks shit off.
> Never hear from her again.
>Still think about her.

Feels bad, man.
Serves me right.

>>10142946
>Oh great, another gay thread to make me wring my hands and stress about my sexuality

goddamn drama queen.

>>10142853
Come on... come onnnnnnnnn... out with it.

Polysexual chick here. Shit sucks.

I'm desperately in love with my ex but she's still in High School (18) and her mom's a fucking bigot and her high school teases the shit out of her for being bi. If her mom found out she was with a girl, she'd disown her, and if her school found out, they'd make her life a living hell.

Uggh I wanna be with her so bad but we can''t really risk this right now.
I fucking hate sexuality.

can anyone tell me about enemas? Your experiences with them... overuse? necessary?

I'm confused. I like to admire other females' beauty and stare secretly. I don't feel like I'd want to kiss them or anything though.
But there are other girls who i probably would, none of which I know in real life though.

>>10143050
Long-time gayfag here. Never used one; never needed one.

If you have a bad diet, or you are into rimming or other anal play beyond simple fucking, you will probably want to use them. But for me, going to the bathroom at a regular daily time, washing well in the shower, and using plenty of lube is more than enough to avoid any messiness with anal.

>>10143050
Gayfag: I usually open up under a shower when I don't have a douche, fill 'er up than clean up over the toilet. Works fine.

>Go to house party.
>Girl I like is there, she's a closet fag.
>End up making out in the hosts kids room (he's at his grandparents house) on his race car bed.
>She rips my shirt open, buttons everywhere.
>Have to wear two sizes too small spiderman shirt next morning.
>Never invited back to house ever again.

>>10143018
I know, I know, I'm being overwrought. It's just been bugging me a lot all summer, and this whole thing came on so suddenly. I guess I really can't complain--it must be way worse for the guys who go through this kinda thing in middle school or high school.

>>10143124

It's worse for guys like me that never have that good stuff happen to them so stop fucking crying.

>>10143090
I've been venturing further and further into what I'm willing to do with a guy but I felt conscious if it was going to smell or make a mess... I have regular bowel movements and a good diet... I guess its like me wanting to be perfect for the time... like the time I shaved everything down there and he said I didnt have to go through all of that...

>>10141920
>>10142946

Also, it is just crazy to me that people regularly use enemas. Seems kind of anal (lol) unhealthy

Closeted virgin here, afraid of being "taken advantage of", you could say. Are my fears groundless? Apparently my city (USA) has a high population of gays but I'll be damned if I've ever seen any.

Basically I know that I'm going to make a fool out of myself the first time, so help me lessen that. I'm clueless.

gayfag here. freshman year said i was bi, later figured out i was really just gay and wasn't comfortable admitting it. finally came out came out to friends junior year. some don't believe me but fuck 'em, i'm not like OOOUUUUUT but people are curious so i'm honest.

i'm overweight and hairy so i'd make an awesome bear but i've got a below average cock. worser is that i really like traps and femboys and would love to pound them, but they're probably better endowed than me. it's not a HUUUUUGE HUUUUUGE deal, i mean, sex toys, yeah? but still frustrating. i'm sure some have a thing for dominating a larger man, so it works out. maybe college life will bring surprises.

>>10143467

>i really like traps and femboys and would love to pound them

Where do you live?

>>10141802
Glad to hear I'm not the only one being blueballed by a "straight" guy... my roommate pulls this shit all the fucking time. I'm openly gay, and he KNOWS I'm attracted to him (he's got a body like a fucking Greek god), and he always doing everything he possibly can to tease me... walks around the apartment in boxers/naked 90% of the time (basically has no modesty at all, doesn't even close his door if he's fapping or fucking some girl), he constantly "jokingly" touches me (hugs me from behind, grabs my butt or crotch, rubs my abs under my shirt, shit like that), compliments and "fake" flirts with me constantly, etc, etc. Every once in a while I'll finally make a move and molest him back, but he always just laughs the whole thing off like it's a big joke.

The worst thing is, it might really BE a big joke for him, because he's seriously the most easygoing, quirky, hyper, self-confident guy I've ever met, so he might just honestly not realized how hard he's blue balling me. As it is, I'm not sure how many months more of this I can take before I just snap, tie him to the bed, and rape ahoy.

>>10143489
godspeed with the whole rape idea, bro

>>10143484
SE texas

>>10143489
IMO you should bring it up with him. mention you know he's a trickster and it might be all in fun, but it's not fun for you, and if he's trying to get serious or sexual, it has to get that way soon or you're done, even if it might be on the down low if he's insecure or something.

>>10143542
>>10143512

seriously. he's totally asking for it.

>>10143467
>they're probably better endowed than me
I have a very average cock (6" long, slightly thicker than usual), and every guy I've ever fucked has been better hung than me (at least 7"+). Coincidence? Maybe guy's with big tools just naturally prefer bottoming? I'm not really sure. My current partner puts me to fucking shame (he's 8"), but he claims to prefer guys with smaller cocks (easy to suck, easier to take up the ass). He could just be stroking my ego, but he certainly seems to enjoy it when I top him, so I guess I can't complain.

>>10143588
i'm 5.5 inches and my girth isn't impressive, i think it seems even less so because i'm large and quite tall. also a virgin, so no idea if it's just me or not.

i wouldn't mind a mutual relationship, you know, switching off the "roles" and so on. i'm not too insecure about like my weight or whatever, i can change that if i really try hard enough, but ironically the thing i can't change is what makes me so nervous and stuff.

I'm bi-curious but I'm way too terrified to tell anyone even though everyone I know is LGBT friendly (although none of them are actually LGBT themselves)

Been with women, but would like to try guys. Fap to straight, bi, gay, and lesbian porn.

How do I meet a non-creepy guy if I don't know any gay people? Honestly, I couldn't see myself as having feelings for a guy though.

>>10143619
I used to feel the same way. Then something just snapped and I got a huge monster crush on a guy. It was pretty disorienting.

>>10143619
you might just be sexually attracted to men and emotionally attracted to women, or it's just latent insecurity. think about it though, you don't fall in love with every woman you see, and you probably don't want to fuck every woman you see either, y'know?

>>10143542
You're probably right, but I'm not sure if I can bring myself to do that... as much as I hate getting blueballed, I have to admit that I DO like the attention and the constant "possibility" of doing something with him. I feel like if I put down an ultimatum it will ruin any slim chances that might currently exist of hooking up with him...

Which also means I don't really have any right to bitch about it, I guess! I just wanted to vent, I suppose... here, have an approximate example of me getting blueballed as thanks for listening to me whine (credit goes to /co/ for their constant wonderful gay superhero threads).

I had my first and last gay experience at 16. For about a year I thought I was bicurious. I met with a classmate at his house and we fucked.

I didn't cum, I sucked him to finish though. He said I was really good, I didn't enjoy any of it at all, especially taking it up the ass or getting a facial. I haven't had gay thoughts since. I'm 21 now.

>>10143637

Come to think of it, I've never had a crush on a guy before -- only girls. I feel like I just need to try it and get it out of my system. 20's -- time for sexperimentation

I don't really like males all that much, but I love cock.

Where'd I go wrong? o.O

>>10143619
go troll for cock on okcupid

>>10143637
It is pretty weird when romantic affection finally catches up with the state of your boner

Sometimes I think I love my best friend, but she has a boyfriend ;o;

>>10143467
not sure if anyone cares, gotta head to bed and someone might wanna chat sometime, e-mail me sometime. wouldn't mind 'casual encounters' or whatever. doubtful as it may be.

>>10144017
REPRESS IT

REPRESS IT MY FRIEND

Bifag, prefer guys, might as well be gay.

have had two guy fuck buddies without anyone noticing, I came out a month ago and I had to convince my friends, they didn't believe me.

can we throw some aim screen names in here for us horny secretly bicurious fags here that wanna talk?

Am I gay if I fap to shota? I find real males repulsive though and would fuck and fap to real females.

>>10144230

probably not gay, maybe bi-curious at the most.

/bump/

/bumpfagblox/

>>10144217
bigirl here
I've been in relationships with men since i was 17 (i'm 21 now)
I finally have the opportunity to find out just HOW gay i am
i am shit scared

You have made a terrible mistake, all of you. People look down on you now, even if they act like they are OK with your lifestyle.

Gay male here, sup?

>>10144388

I came out a month ago, it's scary as all hell, do you have any friends to support you?

I've got a friend (she's gay) who without her, I doubt I'd of come out, probably still be in denial, she takes me to clubs and shit, talks through things and all that. Helps so much.

Can we haz gay hookups? Msns and such

>>10144432
i have absolutely nobody, i've never even been friends with a gay woman.
My msn is ej_orlando@hotmail.com, i'd appreciate some advice :)

>>10144230
not gay, but you might have bigger problems

>>10144451
I sympathise, I was miserable for years before accepting myself for who I was at least, regardless of what others thought.

>>10144510
>implying an implication implicitly
And what might those be?

>>10144538
Chris Hansen type problems

>>10144713
>implying attraction to little boys
I said all real life males are repulsive. I hate all children boys and girls if you want specifics.

>>10144734
people on 4chan hate women but they still wanna fuck them

bumping for advice:
I've been bicurious for a few years now and I think it's finally time I actually tried it out... but I have no idea how to actually make a move on another guy...

I am friends with a gay couple who I have tried to hit on several times (yeah I know a threesome is jumping right into the deep end, but I don't know any other gay dudes), but they always just laugh it off like I'm joking... I don't know if I'm being too subtle, or if they aren't interested and are trying to let me down easy, or what... I mean, I'm on very informal terms with them both (I've been friends with one of them since we little kids), and when I try flirting they seem to flirt right back, but then as soon as things start getting charged they always back off, change the subject, whatever... reading some of the other threads here, I'm worried that maybe I'm coming off as an indecisive "straight" guy who just gives blue balls or something...

Basically, how blatant should I be in trying to proposition them? I don't want to make a huge fool of myself and make our friendship awkward if they aren't interested...

Pic somewhat related... watching them kiss was one of the first things that got me thinking that I might be gay/bi...

>>10149148
Are they a monogamous couple? Me and my partner have had to turn town several bicurious friends who have hit on us over the years. It seems like a lot of guys who aren't part of the gay community buy into the stereotype that all gays are promiscuous cockhounds who will fuck at the drop of a hat, and that gay couples aren't anything but fuckbuddies++ in fleeting, open relationships. Or sometimes they are just drunk and think propositioning us is worth a shot :P

Lesfag.
I was in a relationship with another girl for over a year. She was my first girlfriend. I came out for her, I was fucking devoted to her. She, unfortunately, was just going through a phase. We were happy for maybe two months, but then I started wondering why she refused to tell anyone we were together, refused to tell her parents (even though they knew because they'd seen us together), never came out to see me. I went abroad for a month, she didn't give a fuck, but still told me she wanted to be in the relationship. I was miserable for most of it. My mum booked us a holiday to go on together for my eighteenth birthday, and she cancelled on me the day before because she "needed to do coursework". My mum and her boyfriend ended up going instead, and she couldn't afford to get me something else.
Going away for a month is what made me realise how awful she was for me. She might have liked me originally, but then she just started liking being a special snowflake in our college of otherwise straight people. Now I'm with a different girl at university, who's wonderful. She told her mum about me right away, because she was excited to be with me, despite not being sure what her reaction would be (it turned out to be good, if you're wondering). We go on days out and short holidays together. She's happy and pleased to be with me, even though it's her first lesbian experience (she's 24). I'm going to visit her in her home country in a few days, and we're both so excited, as is her mum, because it's a great relationship.

I went through a bit of a bi thing between 13-15.
Peaked at 14, then slowly went away at 15.
Now I'm straight, and only like girls.

...I guess that was a phase?

>>10149148
They probably realize that you are bicurious, but they also recognize that you are unsure and inexperienced and don't want to "take advantage" of you and risk ruining the friendship if you don't like it. The fact that they flirt back is an indication that they are receptive, but you'll have to be much more aggressive in making your move--you should talk very openly about how you think you might be bi, make sure that they know you aren't all wishy washy about the idea, etc. If all else fails, you can just swallow your pride and proposition them directly, though I'm kind of at a loss of how to proposition a couple rather than a single guy... maybe wait for some sexually charged situation and let them know in no uncertain terms that you would like to experiment, but no hard feelings if it doesn't work out?

Also, when you make your move, do it when you are sober. A lot of gay guys have been burned by sleeping with their "bicurious" friend when they're drunk, only to have the bicurious guy freak out about it the next day after sobering up. I personally had a "straight" friend that used to hit on me very heavily all the time whenever he was drunk. I eventually caved in and gave him a good solid fucking (I did a great job too, got him to come three times that night despite whisky dick), but he regretted it the next day, cut off contact, and spread rumors throughout our mutual friends that I had intentionally gotten him drunk and "tried" to coerce him into sex. Feels bad man.

I'm a bicurious dude, I think I suspected that im bi since I messed around with my neighbour when we were both like 13, but I think i at the same time denied it for a large part of my life.

Anyhow, I'm only attracted to extremely feminine guys so I don't see myself hitting town to LOOK for a guy to fuck anytime soon. I like the idea of flirting over the net though, which I've done quite a lot lately. Surprising amount of cute guys on 4chan, actually. I'm attractive myself so it's fun to mess around like that.

But I have no idea when or if I'll actually have gay sex.

Gayfag reporting in. I stayed in the closet until I got to college, but somehow I had WAY more luck getting laid during middle+high school that I've had in college so far :(
1) Was first introduced to sex by my older cousin. Did pretty much EVERYTHING with him despite the rather large age difference. He moved across the country after a few years, but we still hook up every time we see each other. Dunno if that will continue in the future though since he apparently just got engaged...
2) I hooked up with one of my neighbors on a semi-regular basis... he was a few years older than me so we didn't really travel in the same social circles (he actually used to babysit me), but our parents were friends, so I always saw a lot of him. Even though he was older, he was very skittish about the whole gay thing, and I was always the one who had to initiate things and goad him into sex. Pretty much the only time I've ever been in the "dominant" role (though I still usually bottomed during sex)...
3) During high school I had a fuckbuddy who gave me a ride to school most days... we weren't exactly friends because we never really hung out together, but pretty much every day on the way home he would stop off on a side road in this old abandoned park and let me blow him. He was always wanting to fuck me too, but that was never very much fun for me since it's really hard to pull off quickie buttsex in a car. Also didn't help that he had a big dick and almost never had any lube or condoms.

I think my problem is that I've only ever hooked up with closet bi guys who were older than me and just interested in sex... so now I'm having a hard time finding an openly gay guy who wants a real relationship...

This thread needs more cuddling guys :3

Bisexual fembot here. I'm getting pretty fucking sick of everyone thinking that I'm a lesbian just because I was "molested" as a teenager (I wasn't really, long story), or that I am otherwise somehow "faking" or doing it for attention.

Basically, I prefer guys for sex, and girls for relationships. Really wish I could meet a guy and a bi girl who are open to the idea of a triad relationship ;_;