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Faggot, it scarred me for life

>>421286

>posting a racist caricature of a black gentleman

Seriously?

I have never been the victim of homophobia and Im in a sick way disappointed.
But im confrontational as fuck at times.

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>>421286

Got called queer bait and told I was going to get raped in prison one day

Was frequently verbally harassed about it in high school, most people now a days just ask a few polite curious questions if they find out I'm bi

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>>421291
Funny, I never thought of the man as black, I've used the image multiple times, and always assumed he was some old white dude?

*shrug*

Pic is MFW

>>421295
This picture made me laugh harder than it should have

Also uh I guess faggot whatever I was an undercover brother

Some guy threw a beer bottle at me from a truck, and yelled Faggot

Bottle missed

I was shopping with my partner when a very small, very frail elderly woman found it necessary to stop her life, repeatedly cross us and chant "Two asses! Two pussies! Exorcism! Exorcism!"

It was actually pretty comical thinking back on it.

He peed in a toilet instead of the urinal next to me.

>be in closet
>surrounded by straight guys that joke about being gay and sexually harass me as a joke
>touch my ass, dick, pretend kisses, feel guilty for not telling them i like cock
>boner all the time

>make swastika out of city pieces while playing Settlers of Catan
>"You're really going to do that?"
>say "Fine, I'll make it go the other direction. That's okay right? Isn't that a symbol the scouts used to use?"
>girl says "you should watch out. My family are scouters"
>don't know what to say. Sit there quietly.
>table turns into discussion about gays in the boy scouts
>girl says "The bible means different things to different people.
>Asks me "How would you feel if you were with a bunch of other boys and you were scared they were homosexual?"
>blurt out without really thinking "I would probably feel like a bigot"
>another girl also replies to her "You hang out with straight boys all the time and you don't lust after them"
>conversation about that topic ends abruptly
I've never experienced homophobia really. But not telling people accounts for that. I guess I would call that conversation misguided, but looking back it sounded a little homophobic. It felt really weird listening to that.

>>421469
do it back

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>>421379

>>421476
I do.. But half the time I am just messing around. I go to a boarding school so it is fairly common. Lots of hot boys, naked a lot

When I lived by a community college I constantly got yelled at by people driving by screaming "faggot!" or "you're so fucking gay"
But idk if that counts since it feels like something they would probably do to everyone.

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>>421269 (OP)
had people on the same soccer team as me ask if I wore a sportsbra.
Also had people cover my locker in duct tape and wire ties.

>>421546
>if I wore a sportsbra.
Well, did you?

Some hick tries to run me off the road whenever I'm out for a walk.

>>421546
Are female athletes not supposed to wear sports bras? Or are you male? the fuck

>>421529
>>421596
How did they identify you as gay?

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>>421587
No, I'm a guy.

>>421603
I'm male but looked fem.

>>421627
>No, I'm a guy.
You're no fun.

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>Over at a friend's house, waiting for her to finish making cookies
>Boyfriend and I threw ourselves on the couch to watch TV
>One of her other friends, some mormon girl, lets herself in the door and enters the front room
>She makes a face like someone's pissed on her and goes "EW WHAT THE HECK"
>Have to apologize profusely for my boyfriend, who started removing his pants on purpose the moment he heard her come in
>Friend comes in to see who it is
>We sit up and make room for her on the couch
>She refuses to sit next to us
>Asks friend why she "lets this go on in her house"
>Boyfriend fuels the fire by trying to assure her that no balls touched
>She tells him to find a woman and tells me in a very roundabout way to stop tempting men and spreading AIDS

y-you too

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>>421546
I got asked the same question when I played soccer.

When I was in middle school some wrestlers and football players thought I was gay so they they played catch in the locker room by throwing my body back and forth to each other. Not even joking, I was airborne.

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>>421657
Also nice taste in prettyboys.

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>>421620
Caring about my grooming, I assume.

>>421529
Holy shit are you me?

When my family found out, my uncle beat the shit out of me and they disowned me.

I had a class project where we talked about other people through these little 'interviews'. This bitchy blond headed bimbo wrote that my favorite actress was Ellen Degeneres. The entire class erupted and said 'ISN'T SHE A LESBO/DYKE?' and 'YOU MUST BE A LESBO THEN'

I never said she was my favorite actress and when the girl said that out loud she made the smuggest face possible. I told the class that I never said that, but the damage was done. I was called dyke for the rest of the semester. The girl also said that I lied and blah blah blah.

I am still upset over that.

I have never experienced homophobia. Especially in HS.

My grandmother was not fond of it, but her and I have come to the agreement that we will never come to an agreement. I have had a boyfriend and she has met him. She was nice, and kind as she can be. She doesn't hate me, or him.She just comes from a different time, and is so stuck in that time that she will never get out of it. My grandmother is also an atheist too. A republican voting atheist.

>>421751
Are you a dyke though? Who is your fave actress btw?

>>421807
Yeah, I am. And it's Rosie O'Donnell, not fucking Ellen Degeneres.

>>421807
I don't really have a favorite actress, but I generally enjoy 1930s-1950s films. And no, I am not a dyke.

>>421817
Why mock me?

>>421469
OH GOD THIS FEEL

...It's worse when your best friend does it.

And you like him.

Got called a fag a bunch in school but it never really bothered me. Other than that, maybe some of the homophobic shit my family says but it's never directed towards me so, nevermind.

My sister's boyfriend didn't want me around his daughter because he thought I was gay. I generally ignore people being homophobic (I'm closet bi) but that was one thing that really pissed me off.

Luckily he's a deadbeat asshole so I get to spend more time with her than he does, so I can teach her some tolerance. :3

>>421895
this. Stepmum told friend's mum to keep their kids away from me.

>be in college
>hear christian girl "these gay people complain about intolerance, but they refuse to eat at chick-fil-a, its like so hypocritical"
blessed life I know, but also in 'murica, not shoving your face with god-approved heart attack meals is "intolerant"

>>421917
I think the whole Chik-fil-a thing was ridiculous. A person's political beliefs shouldn't have an impact on their business like that.

>>421947
it wasn't just their political beleifs, it was their financial support of "ex-gay" camps that use conversion therapy and electroshock.

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>told by my parents they don't trust me babysitting my little brother anymore since I'm a sexual deviant

>threatened with murder by my dad

>ass kicked routinely in school

>>421972
did you have any idea they were going to react like that and if so... whyyyyyyyyyyyyyy come out?

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>>421664
You do too.

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>>421990
:3

>>421987

I was outed. And in school I wasn't out, I just was obvious without meaning to be, plus tiny, late-puberty-ing, and femme-lookinh.

>>421329
He's referring to the man in the background

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>tfw when you're never experienced homophobia despite living in the bible belt

I'm sorry my fellow legbutts, I wish I could share my privilege with you.

>>422000
How were you outed?

>>421947
>A person's political beliefs shouldn't have an impact on their business like that.

If they said they disagreed with interracial marriage there would be a merciless shitstorm and no public figure would even think of defending them.
Why do anti-gays get a pass for their bullshit under "alternate social and political beliefs" but not racists?

>>422019

Fucking this.

I'm in the fucking buckle.

And nothing.

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>>421871
This. THIS.
I was questioning my sexuality at the time and had been denying that I liked my best friend for a month or so
>cold night
>wraps his arms around me
>we're so close our noses are touching
>he starts jokingly grinding against me
>"hey anon, does this turn you on?"
>"uuuh..."

Masturbated furiously when I got home.
Told him I liked him the next day, to which he responded by laughing in my face and telling me he didn't know I liked Asians.

>6 month "friends with benefits" thing
>mfw I still fucking love him more than ever and he hates me

eh despite growing up in south texas not much really

>be lesbo
>go to inner city high school happens to be weirdly full of either lesbos or pregnant girls
>even old conservatives are ok with it as anything that lowers pregnancy is great
>most ever get is some folks just saying it's a fad
>do sports throughout high school, fit in fine, have gfs, graduate and go out of state forever

the new administration my last year was weird and tried to ban gay couples from going to prom, this was how it failed stupidly:
>administration says no same sex couples will be allowed to buy couple tickets or enter prom together or "fraternizer" there
>ghetto ass school already hates new admin so no ones gonna listen
>student senate selling prom tickets are full of dykes and gay boys
>obviously don't give a shit to enforce anything
>entering into prom is such a large crowd that there's no way for admin to judge who's couple or not or group or stag
>lesbos grinding on each other vs just slutty girls grinding on each other is a difficult and uncomfortable distinction for adults to make
>lipstick lesbian from volleyball whens prom queen
>whoops and makes out with her gf on floor
>admin and teachers do jack shit
>everyone gets high/drunk and goes to ihop

that's why I laughed at the hearing some up north school asking for internet signatures to change their straight-only prom via petition. Bunch of pussies. Just fucking be gay at prom and watch as they can't really do shit about it. It's a fucking prom. What are they gonna do? Bring police and tear gas to keep you from touching each other?

>>422527
>*whens = wins

fuck that was dumb of me

I'm sure that new drama teacher from San Francisco was sure we were all homophobic. She was obviously gay, short beiber hair, kinda butch but in a chapstick style, taught drama, was from San Francisco, etc. But we could never get her to say it. Then she got all pissy at us for using gay to describe someone that was gay (I think the lack of context she thought it was the "stupid" way, but really dude liked cock) and dudes started shouting "NAH THEY MEAN LIKE FAG! LIKE HE LIKES DICK CAUSE HE'S A GAY FAG. WHY CAN'T I SAY GAY? YOU GAY? PRETTY GAY IF YOU AIN'T OK WITH FAGS" and pissing her off more. Then she blew up, sent half the class outside and they just wondered the fuck off while the rest of us got a lecture on words and homophobia.

Then finally some girl got a cellphone picture of her cousin and the teacher at a gay bar kissing (lightly on the cheek). That got around quick. Don't know if she ever saw it. She seemed like a nice enough women, just very naive about going into that shitty ghetto school expecting to be the freedom writer of a blow off drama class.

Is anyone actually afraid of gay people? I always assumed they just didn't like them.

It's not like the boogeyman where he's hiding in your closet... actually nevermind.

>>422579
That's the problem I have with most people-based phobias, they simply aren't phobias. As far as I know, most homophobes aren't actually terrified of gays.

>>422579
My mom says she just doesn't get it. Just doesn't get why a guy would want a guy or girl a girl. Which is fine enough. My dad is just disgusted by it, also fair enough.

I can get how people would take that uncomfortable or disgusted feeling make it to hate. Like how you can be fired from food industry/children care jobs for being gay because "ew dirty gay people touching my food/child and rubbing their aids all over it".

And then they don't want to think of gays loving each other like we would so fuck marriage. Maybe some guys are actually afraid of being raped by another gay guy. I don't know. Actually fuck if I know. People are weird.

>>422603
Some people don't get it because of religion and it's influence on society. The whole Ew gay sex thing is just immaturity and antigay attitude.
FUCK THEM.

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>>422597
>>422603

>they tell you "only God can judge you" while also judging you
>you point out legitimate flaws in them and they tell you not to judge them
>they think you're destined to get AIDS (you don't get AIDS from other people, you get HIV from them) simply because you're gay
>they think you're not a real man, while unironically asking for you to lift all the heavy stuff for them
>they think you're attracted to them, when they are always incredibly ugly

The South is hard mode.

>>422658
>they think you're attracted to them, when they are always incredibly ugly

This, so much. And it's always the ugliest, most unkempt looking guys who do this shit too. They don't even ask if you're attracted either, it's just "OH BRO YOU WANT MY DICK WELL YOU CAN'T HAVE IT", as if their body odor and pitbull-faces aren't an instant boner killer.

Sorry about the ranting but I hate this shit so much.

>>422597
It's not expressed as fear, but anger.

>>422616
I actually got fired from waiting tables when boss found out I was gay. He just said it was a health liability what with higher stds. At the time I didn't think of it as homophobic because my brothers got turned down for jobs for being half black (literal "Ain't havin' no nigers workin' for me" shit) so I thought my ex boss was very polite about it. Still didn't bother me much as I just got another job pretty quick. Like I gave a shit to work for some weird guy.

Ugh, hick south though. Meeting racist/homophobic people isn't special. You're just jawed at stupidity and ignore them.

>>422658
That is why I never came out as anything when I lived in the south. I was so fucking scared of anyone finding out anything about me.

>>422674
As in, the fear is there but not actively expressed as fear, or anger takes the place of fear?

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>>422674
fear leads to anger

>>422680
God what a stupid fucking "boss"

A co-worker keyed my car with "Die fag die" on it.

When I tried to get my HR person behind me, I was literally told "Sexual harassment applies to one sex or the other, not people in between" (I'm trans).

I'm still a little bit bitter about it.

>>422690
True dat yodanon

>>422702
Yikes. Is there anyone else you could / were able to take this issue to?

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>>422690

AND ANGER LEADS TO GETTING SHIT DONE.

> reckoned icwthe

>>421871
Sorry for replying so late, left the thread ages ago and just found it again.

I know that feel as well.
There is this boy I know who does it all the time, he is incredibly cute and has the best body.

We have the nicest hugs, one time he was tired and we just layed shirtless hugging. I always grab his bum as a 'joke'. And this other boy, looks hrrrnnnnnggg shirtless... Always see him naked.

I just want to kiss and hug them.
Good luck with your friend, I'm just happy someone else is in this odd situation because no one else seems to understand it.

>>422702
I'd be more than a little bitter if that happened to me.

>>422694
didn't even think to look up stats or correct him but not like it'd matter

I'm pretty sure it's still legal to fire someone over their sexual orientation in some states. Or maybe it's DADT.

My mom was just all "welp, that's life. shit sucks. go apply at those other places or you're stuck at HEB".

>>421972
I have never lived what you have, but I feel very sorry for you. Wish I could hug you.

>>421917
I don't care that the buisness owner or whatever doesn't like gays
but I do care when their buisness actively donates money to hate groups
speaking of chick-fil-a...

>share news story on facebook about chick-fil-a donating money to anti-gay stuff
>'stepmom' flips out and screams at me about how being gay is a sin and not normal
also: she doesn't think she's a bigot because she "has a gay friend that works at chick-fil-a"
also also: I'm not even a lesbian, and she knows I have a boyfriend

>>422702
you ever watch that british gay show where they key a guys nice jeep with FAG and him and his buddy just drop off some high school twink at his school in the morning in the FAG car and then peel off giving zero fucks about the staring and shouting?

I'm asking cause I can't remember the name of the show but it was funny

>>422707

There probably was, but it really wasn't worth it to push back further. I just took it as the final straw that led me to move away from that redneck town. Granted, the place I moved to wasn't much better, but baby steps.

The best thing about being gay, aside from the obvious, is that it makes one wiser and gives good insight into the depths of retarded hypocrisy on this world. Homosexuality has evolutionary relevance and gay sex is just sex.
Why did abrahamic religion spoil this world?

fuck I still eat chick-fil-a

I've know they were mormon and homophobic since high school but their chicken and waffle fries are just so fucking tasty. I also don't imagine my not buying some junk food makes a difference anymore than me not buying diamonds saves african babies.

fuck they have such great waffle fries. And if you dress as a cow you get free food. Why not all dress up as trans cows and get all the free food and put them out of business while also having chicken and fries instead?

>>422742
I like that plan.

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>>422740

Religion didn't spoil the world; man spoiled God's kingdom.

>>422742
Fuck man, those chick-fil-a ads are fucking creepy.

And if you're in the south, which I would assume you are...., why not go to an actual waffle house?

>tfw I live in the NW and cant get legit chicken and waffles...closest thing we get is Ezell's

>>422750
Only irrational people validate their misanthropy with made up dogma.
Because religion told man he was better than everything else, is the reason why man went on to spoil the world.
Religion excuses bad behavior.

>>422751
the idea of a cult of cows trying to convince humans to eat chickens is very funny coming from mormons

also no waffle houses close by

>>422746
let's do it

>>421291
it's not though

you're a newfag

>>421799
>Especially in HS
How can you especially not experience something? Also, the upper intellectual classes are all republican voting atheists. Your grandmama seems like a cool guy.

>>422182
By outing himself.

>>421655
wow, what happened after

>>421291

>whining about unrelated black racism

>homophobic

Can you guys please use a better fucking word? I've hated how the LGBT movement has moved forward and the basis of adopting a McCarthyism-style word and labeling one another "homophobic" if they don't agree with exactly everything you say.

It just sounds stupid and childish.

>HURR UR AFRAID OF GAYS.

No, it's clearly an established social trend that makes people resistant to the acceptance of homosexuality.

Sheesh

>>422680
>gay
>half-black

good god you're a little mutted freak aren't you

>>422930
Anti-homosexualist or homohater are better choices. That word, homophobia, wasn't voted in by Democratic lgbt process ffs. I don't even know where it started, but it doesn't define antigay people clearly enough.

>>422936
Hmm. I read that as his other brothers were half black implying he's white himself. You're rather retarded aren't you?

>>422930
>has a child's understanding of linguistics

>>422947
It's not a coincidence it ended up being called a phobia. The word was carefully chosen. Calling someone a "homohater" wouldn't work, because people would just say "fuck yeah I hate homos, what of it"? Fear implies weakness, you can't embrace it like you can hatred.

>>422957
That's true thanks for clarifying.

>>422947
My preferred terms are pro-hetero and normal

It wasn't said to me but I was in the room. Guy1 dislikes guy2. Everyone thinks guy2 mught be gay, so guy1 says this: "If he's gay I wouldn't fight him, but if he's straight I would" Meaning he wouldn't throw punches at a gay guy in the same way he wouldn't punch a woman. Probably pretty tame but w/e.

>>422954

You can use the word homophobic and I can use the word faggot. How's that sound?

>>422973
>normal

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>>423000
It sounds like you're a bratty child who hates gays because "fuckem"

I don't know, some people I didn't know were planning to beat the shit out of me just because of the way I dressed but I never did meet them so that was a close call, I guess.

Other than that, it's mostly just inappropriate and lewd comments and the like. "Hey, I bet if we all gangbanged you in this elevator right now you'd like it." Also random strangers insulting me or coming up to me and preaching at me (like actual fucking monologues) without me even doing anything to them.

In retrospect, good times.

I was walking home from the grocery store because my 83 year old great aunt was out, and as I was enjoying the beautiful morning and the cars driving by, some teenagers in a car yelled, "KEEP WALKIN', DYKE." And like increased their speed. I barely heard it because I had earphones in so I'm ASSUMING they said keep walking, but I'm sure of the dyke part.

>mfw people can't even tell I'm gay
>mfw I have long hair and dress girly
>mfw I have no mfw

It kinda fucked up my day.

>>423082
Meant to say my aunt was out of milk.

>>422947
From my understanding "phobia" was not meant to imply fear but just a general evasion of, dislike of, separation from or anything of the like regarding homosexuals. Think of the word "hydrophobic" in regards to substances. Oil cannot fear water, but it is still averse and will not mix.

People have latched onto the idea that phobia=fearful because it implies that gay people have power over these pathetic fearful people.

>>423094
>implying they don't
it's true these people are often the ones who have the actual power to kill the gays but from an outside perspective, they are the primitive animals who give into anger based out of irrationality

Someone who is homophobic lets their personal life be affected by things that don't have anything to do with them and create problems for themselves. All a gay has to do is exist and they are already ruining someone's life somewhere while their own life may be going perfectly, thus, the homo has the real power.

>>421269 (OP)

My mom was joking about homosexuals and said "I'd rather have you nailed in a coffin and buried alive instead of seeing you with a guy in your arms". Since then I made decisions that help me stay in the closet.

>>423129
All kinds of wrong.

Your mother sounds absolutely disgusting btw.

>>423138
>mother caring that her son turns out healthy and normal
>absolutely disgusting

Whatever you say bro

My friend once said it's worse calling someone faggot than nigger. I tried telling him they're both just words and can't actually hurt anyone.

I'm straight btw.

>>423165
Id rather be gay then have a mother that says that about me being straight. It's not normal or healthy to wish your gay son be buried alive.

>>423165
>mother preferring her son to be buried alive instead of being healthy and slightly abnormal
>not absolutely disgusting
FTFY

>>423174
Sorry but homosexuality is a variant of heterosexuality. The word abnormal can apply to behavior within a certain sexuality.

One of my parents' farmhands once told them

"Hell, if I found out one of my kids was gay I'd shoot 'em myself."

Glad he doesn't work for them anymore.

>You're too pretty to be a lesbian.
>What a waste

That's it really, they're almost compliments though still offensive towards lesbians in general. I'm lucky to live in a nice place,

>>421655
Oh man that made me boil

>>422597
I see it more as that they're afraid of homosexuality, not the people. They don't want to be gay or let people think they might be gay by supporting it, and they have some pretty ignorant and twisted ideas about what would make someone gay.
If that's not fear, I don't know what is.

>>422672
A nice condescending "don't flatter yourself" usually puts them in their place.

>>422732
Queer As Folk.

Four muslim guys in the class noticed how I acted with some of the other guys when we horsed around in gymclass. And I suppose I act slightly feminine too so that might have set them off.(Many of the other guys in class already knew I liked guys too and teased me about it. But in a good friendly way. It weighed up the bad by miles.)
Anyway, after gymclass I had showered last and where going back up to the school, and someone hit me hard in the back of my head and I couldn't really think straight (pun not intended). Then someone shoved me and I went facefirst down in the mud. I tried to get up but was kicked back down. It didn't really hurt much at the time. I was just fuming with rage over how humilated I felt. Didn't even get a fair chance to fight back.

So I skipped school and went and sobbed in the nearby woods for some hours instead.

>>423189
I'm now imagining you as Kon-El.

One day in the HS locker room a guy aggressively tried to make a big scene by calling me a faggot and other shit when guys were still in there. Nothing really happened though and I wasn't really butthurt about it, especially since he was a manlet. I had long straightened hair at the time and wore skinny jeans so I guess I had it coming.

>>422388
I live in the south in a small town and people are tolerant.
Well except maybe students, but that's just immaturity.