How do you deal with straight crushes, gays and lesbians? Isn't it tragic that most people in the world are straight, and so we're automatically biologically unable to have them love us back when we fall for them? All this talk about friendzones and shit does not compare to a statistically superior chance of falling in love with a physical impossibility such as a straight crush. It is the gay curse. Tell us your stories.
Idk, I've never had a straight crush. Dunno why.
>>752874 (OP)>How do you deal with straight crushesGay guy here. First and only crush so far in my life was on a straight friend, and it lasted for 2 or so years (~2007-2009 or '10)I try to seek out other gay men these days, but HIS face still pops up in my mind from time to time... And I occasionally hug my pillow pretending it's him I'm caressing. ;_;It still hurts seeing him with his gf whenever we meet. But at least we're still friends. At first when he found out I'm gay, he acted weird and distant. Then when I met him around ~6 months later he was cool about it, thankfully.
Honestly, it ticks me off whens straight people bitch about their crushes turning out to be gay. Boo fucking hoo, now you'll have to settle for one of the other 3 billion options still available.
>>752874 (OP)>It is the gay curse.
>>753007ikrStraights have what, 90% of the population to choose from while gays get 1-10% depending on country.We have a severely reduced dating pool, and it sucks.
i've had a straight crush.had.it's just a phase, you will move on.
>>752874 (OP)High school was basically four years of crushing on four different guys, two of which were my friends. It depressed me, sure, but, with each event, I was able to handle it better. By the end of the fourth crush (which was, without a doubt, the worst interaction I've had with another human being), I was able to stop myself from seriously crushing on straight guys, and have developed a rather effective way of stopping myself from falling for people I don't want to.Then I went to college and met other gay people my age for the first time. At first, I though "Yay! A chance at a boyfriend!" But no. The guys I liked didn't like me back, and the guys who liked me I had no interest in. The worst part was that there was the possibility of attraction, so I let myself fall for them. But I think my experience with my straight friends matured me well enough that I was able to handle these new scenarios of unrequited love with... a bit of... dignity.
if you're ugly, noone will love you back either.of course, if you're gay and ugly, you're completely fucked.
>>752874 (OP)havnt had em since high school. but it was pretty bad back then.
>>753183throw in a minority race in there and u have my life
one gay friend pretends he has the ability to convert many straight guy's but he said it takes times and lot of ressources but i've seen it work !!
>>753183When I was poor and good looking I had enough relationships go south that I started believing love was either myth of social construct wherein all the worst things a person could do to another that gave a shit about them could happen, or that it was rare enough that it wasnt worth ripping my heart out over and over again trying to find it just for it to fuck up again.Now I am old and passing, but silly by my own standards.But Im not poor anymore and know how to show a good time without risking it being gold-miner and cheater bait.So I dont worry about love much. I had all I'll ever need. I figure if I want love, I'll get a pet, which pretty much works off similar equations. Nature has its rules everywhere.
>>753204Its such poor form to try and convert them. Just show them a good time and let them go. Unless youre a monster, its no fun being the cause of someones identity crisis. Let them sort stuff like that out on their own time.Its one thing if they come to it on their own, but recruiters are just self absorbed, egomaniacal manipulators and usually horribly insecure. The type of person that tries to upset someone elses life flow for their own satisfaction are typically just horrible people in general
>>752874 (OP)Arguing with holocaust deniers (or "revisionists") is pointless. Trying to convince them of the obvious, blatant truth of the Holocaust is a lost cause, because they are not interested in the truth. They are interested in making go away whatever crawling feeling they get when the meanings attached to the holocaust - the dangers of racism, classifications, and intolerance - call out their own value set as dangerous and potentially destructive.A "direct attack" on their methods - pointing out the thousands of witnesses, showing the immense amount of physical evidence (both the grounds of the camps themselves and the vast amount of paperwork created by this event) - is a waste of time, because it doesn't address the real issue; that the person so denying doesn't want it to be true. He isn't looking for the truth. He isn't actively researching the subject to reach a conclusion. He starts out with a conclusions, and then goes in and searches for whatever little flimsy evidence he can find to back it up.Why don't they want to holocaust to be true? Maybe they are convinced by racism, just a little, in their heart of hearts. Maybe they hate Israel and equate all Jews with it, like the Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad seems to. The thing is, you can't know these other reasons. If you don't know what their problem is, you can't change their mind by arguing.Therefore, I suppose, the only thing to do with Holocaust deniers is to feel contempt for their methods, ignore their attempts to engage you in a public conversation, and pity them that they could have such a conflict inside them it causes them to forsake reality.
>>753239Shouldn't you be in an oven somewhere?
>tfw when crushing my best friend>he's a tan 5' 10" cutie>works on cars all of the time. Really rugged, muscular guy > i'm completely out to him and he's really cool with it>he has a girlfriend and is showing no signs of swapping teams I'm in love with him and I'll never have him. Dat gay struggle
>>752874 (OP)>talking to a girl from school>told her I'm a lesbian>3 days later>she comes and tells me "Hey anon,there's a friend of mine and you totally should meet her">yeah sure,why not?>start talking on facebook>aww,she's so nice,I should check her photos>damn,she's hot>2 months later>"A-are you gay?">"No anon,I'm not">mfw not only is she the hottest girl I know,but she's into the same things as me.Exept that lesbian curse of course.
straight guy here.>gf is bi>nervous as fuck about hitting on other women>"but gf, you've got pretty good gaydar">"Anon, my gaydar only works on guys. Don't ask me why, I don't know!"
>>753292Dyke here, I'm the same way, it's fucking frustrating. Damnit brain, I don't caaare if that guy's gay or straight!
Bisexual here: I did had a straight crush at one time in high school. Sadly the male I had a crush with was a Mormon. I still remember his name, his voice, his hair. That was the first time I realize that I was bisexual.
>>753239Which thread are you trying to reply to?
>Straight guy. >Have a crush on lesbian friend. >Slightly dykish but still very feminine and cute. >On one hand is a total bro on the other hand want to kiss and cuddle her so much :c
>>753371wtf,I'm probably that lesbian friend of yours.Where are you from anon?
>>752874 (OP)Honestly what's the point of being gay if you don't live in a major cityBecause like who the fuck knows anyone who is gayIt's seriously like wanting to try out Mingle Mode on The World Ends With You or play Tin Pin Slammer with somebody but nobody fucking wants to play TWEWY, nobody has a DS or any interest in it, so you just end up playing by yourself and forgetting about the cool pins you can get via Mingle mode.That's what being gay is. No multiplayer due to lack of player base and no perks.
>>753562there are perks,like,actualy be friends with your partner,understand each other,and more!
>>753576I could do that with a female partner but I like men infinitely more. It's annoying because I finally processed my faggotry and came out but what was the point? It made me a magnet to daddies and gross dudes my age and if I want to just have sex with a woman they'll be like "but you're gay"And I am, vaginas just feel nice
>>752874 (OP)Still dealing with one as we speak. Everytime I see him I immediately become incredibly anxious and I almost begin to feel physically sick. And every time I see him with his gf I literally just wish I was less of a faggot. He's the first person I've ever had any feelings like this for and I've felt this way for about 2 years now. I just wish it never happened, I wish I never met him, but God do I miss him.
>>752874 (OP)currently have straight-girl-crush on a french coworker. try to ignore her. doesnt work
>>752989>And I occasionally hug my pillow pretending it's him I'm caressing. ;_;ahhh, the tell-tale sign of a straights crush
>>753684I fucking want to leave him behind completely. We meet IRL from time to time and I can control myself then, but as soon as I get home I go into >feels mode, and think of him again.
>>753183I recognise that image...The abaddon?
I was just thinking, but what about people who have some kind of brain issue and feel attracted to animals, or furrys, kids or aliens? They can't do anything about it either and some of literally can't find a "mate".I know my situation isn't good but I thank God every day for not being worse.
>>753807Some people are attracted to buildings>Here I am, complaining about being a gay man in a woman's body while some bitch married the Eiffel Tower
>>753853>marrying only big buildingsFuck size-queens
>>753875lmao
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