How did you come out of the closet legbutts?
Didn't. 23-year old virgin masterrace.
I didn't.If someone asks, I tell, but there's no reason to make an announcement or anything, even for the family. At worst they'll learn when I present them a qt bf.
I told my (at the time) gf I had something important to tell her.. she said "go on then" while I held her on top of me for about 5 to 10mins before I got the courage to tell her "I'm bisexual". "Oh is that all? I thought you were going to say you didn't love me anymore.. or you killed someone or something!"
Never have, never will. Far too much shame.
>>1087989 (OP)Opened the doorGot on the floorEverybody did the dinosaur
>Parents walked in on me and my girlfriend making out at age 15>"hey I'm a lesbian">didn't accept it>never brought it up again>now be 22>mom helps run the lgbtq group here>accepting of all my life choicesfeels good.
They already know even though i never announced it or had a boyfriend. I guess i have a nice family.
>>1088016This is my plan. I have a qt bf now, so it'll probably be son.
Raped a dog
>Come home one day after school>My dad immediately demands I come into my room where he is>He's on my computer>He checked my history, found that I've been watching an absurd amount of gay porn>He turns the monitor towards me with the porn on the screen>He demands I explain >I'm frozen with fear and shock, eyes darting between my dads stone cold face and the hot as fuck gay porn on my computer>I just stutter and start crying>My dad starts pushing and yelling at me>He pushes me outside, tells me he doesn't want a faggot for a son and that I don't live there anymore>I walk to my moms 10 miles away crying the whole time>Barely have spoken to my dad since
>>1087989 (OP)My parents talk frequently about how accepting they are of gays around me. They think I'm gay because of the fact I've turned down so many women. In return I act extremely homophobic. How can anyone even "come out of the closet"? It disgraces your family.
Dad found gay camwhore pictures everywhere.Later, stayed at a friend's house afterschool, we end up sleeping together, didn't come home that day, ended up telling him.He was so nervous and shaky. It's was despicable.
>>1088592>sleeping with your dad at your friends houseYou've got balls anon
My mom asked me if I was a faggot to insult me, she didn't expect me to say yeah I am.
>>1088588My family is poor white trash that will never amount to anything, so I don't give a shit. I have no sense of legacy at all.
>be 13>computer breaks and dad takes it to the computer repair shop>computer comes back>a month later a woman from the shop calls>tells my dad, "I have been struggling with this for the last month but I feel it is my Christian duty to tell you. Your son is gay and you need to get him some help or he will burn in hell."
>>1088643so, did he get you help? or did he decide to abandon his christian and fatherly responsibilities and let you burn in hell for all eternity?
>>1088643Wow, this makes me angry.
>>1088019Why does lgbt hate bisexuals?
>>1088723They are poison.Delicious, irresistible poison...
>>1088723apparently we're all cheating pretending using assholes... and are incapable of legitimate affection with either gender and therefore can't have monogamous or long term relationships.it's fucked, I know.
>>1088540dude that harsh ... thats why im so into the closet than I can see narnia from here
>>1088750But that's true. That was originally me and most bisexuals I know when they first came out. I've wised up of course.. sort of.
>>1088750I believe your affection toward women is probably real.
i have a story, but its not mine. its my best friends. would it be right to share this story? she will never find out.
>>1088477u wut m8?
>>1088812go ahead HUNNNNNNNN
>>1088540How old were you back then?I feel sorry for you, deeply.
>>1088812so my friend was always a bit tomboyish. i really didnt give a fuck. she was fun to play with and we both loved star wars and naruto and other cool stuff :3. we go to school and hang out. we were both also in this club. its like boy scouts but its for girls and boys and it goes up to like age 18 then you can become an actual leader of a club or some stuff. At this time she is 16 and im 17. I show up to our Tuesday meeting for and before we all get started on our merit badges and stuff, all the teen leaders get asked to follow the leader of the club….
>>1088893now this lady is a huge bitch. she had a grudge against me since I was about 10 because I showed up her son at a competition (me and her son are bros though lol). The woman also has a daughter that’s a cold bitch like her and is kinda a huge slut (this will be important). Im talking attempted fucking or successful fuck with 10 guys within a month, all from our school. Anyway we follow her and we all sit down.“guys I have something very important to tell you”at this point I notice my friend isn’t in the room….i start getting a bad feeling….
>>1088019>coming out as bisexual
>>1088900“we have had an incident between 2 of our teens here”notice her daughter isn’t here either…oh shit*deep sigh* “we have discovered that *name withheld* is a lesbian”horror on some peoples faces and im stunned that she would share thiswhy the ever living fuck is this an incident“we have decided not to kick her out of the club, but you all need to watch that she doesn’t molest the other girls”im pissed.anon says “why? If I was gay would you have to watch for the little boys.”bitch lady “yes, but it goes deeper than that anon”anon “why are you telling us all of this”bitch lady “because she is”pissed as fuck now. Storm out and get a ride home
>>1088940riding home and vow to never go backremember “we have had an incident between 2 of our teens here”oh fuck did she molest someone? Shit!see friend next day at school. looks super depressed“are you ok”“…yeh”“what happened”“I heard anon”“heard what!?”“you stormed out once you heard I was gay”I look like a dick“I was mad because they were being creeped out fucks. They think gays automatically are fucking pedo”“…oh”“wtf happened friend”She takes me to a private place in the park“bitch ladies daughter told her mom I sexually assaulted her”
>>108882716.
More!!!
>Dad, I'm gay>Are you sure?>Yes>Can't you just get with that lesbian friend of yours?>If she masturbates with dildos, she'll take a dick
>>1088982fuuuuuuuuck“but I didn’t!”Thank jesus“I told her I was lesbian because we have been friends for a long time”getting pissed at daughter now“maybe I did something that made her feel uncomfortable anon. maybe I am bad…”“no friend. You weren’t. bitch daughter does these things to others too…”Shes almost crying“how the fuck would you know that anon”“because she did the same fucking thing to me. We got into an argument about politics and I got pulled aside later that night by bitch lady telling me never to do that again. I told her she didn’t have proof and that she could go fuck herself. She threatened to tell my parents and I threatened to sue for slander (as if lol) if she did.”friend is now stunned“im sorry anon…that sucks”we go and play some battlefrontNow we going to the same university and basically are inseparable unless she kissing her gf :P.We all hang out at friend gfs place and watch netflixsMe and friend gf happen to both sing in choir and elite choir see all besties
>>1089000nothing more i can give you so let me try anon
>>1089012the end
>>1089007he does have a point
I came out to my Mom when I was 17. All she said was "I really don't believe you."I'm 22 now. My Mom has never brought it up, and she watches the Glenn Beck Channel "The Blaze" like it's fucking porn. She still acknowledges me as her son though, so whatev's.
>>1089079But he just assumed my lesbian friend masturbates with dildos, I don't know that and neither does he
>>1087989 (OP)I guess Wallace.
>>1087989 (OP)Met my first bf, then had separate talks with my parents, pretty much just amounts to me being all "Hey I'm gay, this is the cute guy I'm dating." and parents being all "Cool whatever." Mom said she'd had a feeling I was gay for a while. Also said my lesbian aunt had told her she thought I was going to turn out gay when I was like 5.
>>1089012Jesus Christ that is tldr.
>>1088588>How can anyone even "come out of the closet"? It disgraces your family.Maybe if you're troglodytes
>>1088540It always amazes me people don't take vengeance for shit like that. I would have gone back the next night and wrecked some serious shit. Slash every tire, take a sledgehammer to the car, that sort of shit.
>>1088723They're all jelly that we can have qt bfs and gfs.
>>1089012People like that bitch scout lady need to be god damn exterminated.
>>1087989 (OP)>Be 20>Come home from christmas between semesters>Crazy mormon college, devout mormon parents>use family computer, mine was out of battery>somehow I left my facebook logged in>I don't really understand how, I am anal about those kinds of things>I'm out with friends>get a call, I can hear it in my mother's voice>get home, gonna vomit>we get in the car and go to a restaurant (I guess so my siblings wouldn't overhear)>apparently my sister (who came with) got on my facebook and looked at my messages to friends>Basically got asked all the questions:who touched you when you were little?you had a girlfriend, why did you date her?when did you decide you were like this?what did I do to make you rebel like this/are you just mad at us?you do know that this is disgusting and we don't believe that choosing this lifestyle is okay, right?etc>forbidden to tell anyone else that I'm gay>can't date anyone while under their roof>if they find out I had a date or had any sexual contact I would be kicked out and no financial support whatsoever>forced me to go back to mormon college>almost kill myself 3 months later>been fucked up ever since>muh medicationsand that was 2 years ago, I eventually had to move back in after avoiding it until a year ago. Still a virgin, haven't done anything with a guy yet.
last week my sister and I got drunk and finally talked about the fact that we're both gaywe both felt really dumb for not doing it earlierwe could have had someone to talk to about it in high school ;~;
>>1089285Growing up around Mormons gave me a deeply ingrained hate of religion. I'm sorry you have to live with that bullshit.
>>1089285Damn, I feel sorry for ya anon. And here I'm getting all pissed and depressed about something that's much lighter and unrelated compared to you.
>>1089409Mormon teachings to be very insidious, it is really uncomfortable to move out of the framework that has been taught to you since you've been born.Other gay mormons I've met are pretty screwed up. I've seen some go full closet and marry, I've seen others kicked out and become heroin addicts.>>1089492Thanks anon. I don't really tell my friends and I can't talk about it with my family, so its feels good to get if off my chest.
>>1089510*are very insidiousI accidentally a verb
>>1089285FUCK. I tell myself not to hate anyone, but when I hear stories like this. fucking religion man
>>1088601I've done that 2 times, and my mom still thinks I said it out of anger, if she just knew...
>>1089510One day, those religious nut fuckers won't matter.You'll escape only if you want to though.I think you're strong enough.
I'd give my mother and stepdad hell about religion when I was 17. I brought up I'd go to hell. Mother asked if I killed someone. I said no. Then she asked if I was gay, I said nothing, she cried. Then I had to go to therapy. Everything is dandy these days, I'm 20 (almost 21) and my relationship with her is great and my nearly my entire family knows I'm gay.
>>1089012>>1088982>>1088940>>1088900>>1088893Go fuck yourself you stupid cunt and don't come back until you learn how to fucking format your shit and tell stories that are actually interesting.Cunt.
>>1088016same here, never felt the need to tell everybody. my friends don't have a chat with about how straight they are, so why should i do something special 'cause I'm homosexual? it's not special, so I won't make a big deal out of it.Besides I hate the change in the behavior towards me I experienced with some friends years ago. might be a reason, too. Nor did I tell anybody spontaneously when I had a girlfriend. they could see me, that's fine, but I was never that kind who needs to let the world know how awesome they are. Though I never did anyway, I wouldn't like to act like a 14 years old girlie...therefore I have no idea if my parents know or not. maybe. I'm sure it's no big deal for them either, we're not religious or so.