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Hey /legbutts/. I'm super confused so I'm just gonna give you the tl;dr of my life story and hope someone can help k? thx.

>be like 5 or 6 year old boy
>older best friend's sisters "force" me into a poofy black dress
>be super embarassed but actually a little comfortable, can't handle the emotional overload so take it off
>time skip, now teenager
>try on mom's stockings when she leaves them in bathroom, search internet for futa porn before knowing what futa is
>go to college, develop porn addiction esp. for futa/traps
>consciously admit wanting to be trap for first time
>suck a fellow student's dick, i-am-disappoint.jpg
>fall hopelessly in love with awesome kinky gf who unfortunately is totally uninterested in threesomes, genderplay, or anything that deviates from her idea of me as her confident, masculine boyfriend
>harbot intense desire to be fucked in a dress and share a nice fat cock with her while knowing it will never come true

Fuck, people, what do I do? I'm actually getting more comfortable with my own desires, but I can't act on them. I love this girl but I'm starting to lose hope on ever having any of my kinks fulfilled outside of master/slave roleplay. When I'm not horny, it's no big deal, but when I'm hard it's so intense I feel like I'm going crazy.
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>>962312 (OP)
>*harbor
also pic is not me, but I super super wish it was. and that I was that hairless naturally. and that I owned that dress. et cetera.
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Tell gf what you told us. Obviously. If you can't be honest about what you want/desire without the fear of rancor from her, then she's not worth it anyway.
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so, if you could wake up tomorrow as a woman (bearing in mind that being a woman is not a purely sexual role, you gotta actually deal with hair, makeup, clothes, etc. every day whilst dealing with male bullshit), would you do it?

do you truly think being a woman for the rest of your life without porn/sex would make you happy?

if yes, congrats you're trans.

if not then what you described is filthy trans objectifying roleplay and you suck.
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>>962341
I have, just not in such graphic terms. I've worn her panties with her knowledge, she knows I'm bi, she just isn't aroused by these things and feels threatened by my interest in them.

>>962376
>you are only trans if you can be happy as a woman without any pornography or sexual gratification
okay I'm definitely not trans, I acknowledge this, but I have honestly no idea what you're on about. Do you have a legit reason why I can't be a thoroughly bisexual crossdresser or are you just gonna be pissy?
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>>962482
>do you have a reason why blah blah blah

because you're a fetishist and invalidate me as a woman. oh wait, you don't care.
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>>962529
kill yourself
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>>962558
>transphobia

yawn, what's new?
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>>962587
you're the one that is kink-shaming crossdressers
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>>962597
yes

and you should be ashamed haha. i don't understand your argument? go back to the bedroom.
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>>962597
You're being trolled, stop responding to them.
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>>962599
someone complaining about transphobia that doesn't like crossdressers

wow

trannies are fucking crazy
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>>962602
i've always giggled at how quick people are to call "troll" when someone disagrees with them. do you honestly believe your opinion is the moral absolute?
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>>962607
if being crazy is preventing ourselves from being fetishized and overlooked as women in a society that is already against us, then i guess i'm fucking insane...

you're transphobic, end of story. bye.
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Wow, and here I expected tolerance and help. Guess I forgot where I was. Fuck everything, guess I'll keep being ashamed of who I am inside

Thanks a lot /lgbt/
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>>962610
It's got nothing to do with what they're saying, it's how they're saying it. This anon is quite obviously trolling.
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>>962618
trans people aren't real women they're just men who crossdress and take hormones, sorry
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>>962628
your post is wrong, but if we're playing by your reality i'm just letting know that you're insinuating people who crossdress are less validated than trans people...

sigh
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>>962312 (OP)
>I love this girl but I'm starting to lose hope on ever having any of my kinks fulfilled outside of master/slave roleplay. When I'm not horny, it's no big deal, but when I'm hard it's so intense I feel like I'm going crazy.

I'm sorry, but them's the breaks. It sucks, but when you're in a relationship and the other person is really not into your fetish, it's just something you need to keep to fapping. The most you can probably expect is a compromise on her part and letting you crossdress with her or something.
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>>962632
people fetishize everything, what's your fucking problem? tits, asses, legs, hands, feet, glasses, noses, anything and everything

what makes you so special? if people get off on dressing up like girls so what? tolerance my asshole
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>>962376

>implying being trans isn't just an effect of consummation having to do with affirming the reality of the sexual fantasy of being female...


OP there's a good reason why you should feel shame for your 'desires'. It's because they aren't natural desires at all but things which develop because of some internal complex. Something which you yourself could perhaps know nothing about, and this sexualisation is a way of venting all of that subconscious emotional turmoil.


If you're interested in talking to me I think I could help you understand yourself better.
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>>962652
>angry

just wanted an esoteric congregation between two seemingly verbose individuals. i suppose my initial hypothetical assumption was deemed devoid.

i apologize that you're upset or caught up in yourself. good luck in your future life, friend.
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This thread is hilarious.
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>>962668
Not the guy you responded, but
>oh ny he seemed a little upset when i insulted is personal sexual preferences, now i'm gonna use a lot of unnecessarily "intellectual" words so i'll look calm and mature and oh so clever
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>>962685
literally this
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>>962323
Dude you just wasted two super super wishes on a razor and $25 gift card
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Lets all blame other groups for our own shortcomings. There is no way this is not the best way forward.
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>>963536
>Implying anyone wants to be here.
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>>963503
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>>962376
> do you truly think being a woman for the rest of your life without porn/sex would make you happy?
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>implying women shouldn't/don't enjoy sex.
>ultra-virgin detected
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>>963654
i think they were eliminating the "wanna be a girl for the sex" facet...
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I'm confused by these responses. There's nothing wrong with crossdressing for personal pleasure or comfort or sex. If we reversed what OP wrote, and he said that he was a girl who was really into dressing up as a guy, I feel like nobody would bat an eye but because he likes wearing feminine clothing that means he's fetishizing women and trans people.

Nope. I'm calling bullshit on that. OP, there's nothing wrong with your desires and it's good you're feeling more comfortable with them. It sounds like maybe you need to have a really open and honest conversation with your girlfriend. It might not fix or change anything but at least you could figure out if you can both ever be on the same page or reach a compromise.
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>>962661 i wish you would elaborate (not OP here, but similar).
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Christ, the T's ruin everything.
They're clothes. Wear them. It's fun.
Why is this an issue?
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>>963678
Thank you.
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>>963678

>There's nothing wrong with being sexually perverted. It makes me feel good so it must be okay!
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>>962312 (OP)
>I'm super confused so I'm just gonna give you the tl;dr of my life story and hope someone can help k? thx.
A tl;dr is only a sentence or two. Usually because someone posts too much, like you did.
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>>964945
Are you trying to be sarcastic?
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>>964964

Of course not. It gives ME sexual pleasure therefore how could it be wrong? Whatever makes ME feel good is necessarily moral.
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>>962312 (OP)

Sounds like a fetish. Keep it in the bedroom and have fun.
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>>965196
>It makes ME uncomfortable therefore how could it be right? What ever makes ME feel uncomfortable is necessarily immoral even if it doesn't hurt anybody
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OP's pic is fappable as fuck
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>>965766

Except I'm not made uncomfortable by it at all
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>>965862

Yeah but this is what /pol/fags actually believe.
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>>962529
>>962587

Stop playing the victim. OP is doing nothing to hurt you. You, on the other hand, are embarrassing the trans community.
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>>964945
>being prudish about "sexual perversion"
>on /lgbt/
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>>972988

I actually clicked one of the banners and it brought me here.

>inb4 sure


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