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Has anyone else felt a strong homosexual attraction to a specific person. I have this friend that I've known since freshman year of highschool, and we are room mates now in college. My friend and I got really drunk last night/morning, and we made out with each other.

I'm sitting here now thinking how good it felt, and I just want to be with this person.

-I'm a little confused and affraid of fucking up my friendship, any advice
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...any help
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I don't get it. I take it you're not used to having an interest in the same sex? If so, don't spend too much time fretting about it or trying to find a full-proof reason or label for it.

If you really fell for the guy, that's okay. You now have to work out if you want to be bold and ask for more, or to try and get over your feelings with time. It's clear he was at least down to make out, so you shouldn't feel like it's all on you.

Either way, the dynamic of the friendship has changed and that's okay. It's just something else now.
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>>716581
Wise words internet friend

and no, I've never really experience any actual attraction to someone of the same sex, I've never really had any interest in people of the opposite sex either.

I used to want a girlfriend, but the past two years, I've just given up on that idea. I'm just not that interested in dating a female.

My friend is the first time I've felt a strong emotion other than friendship for another human being

Thanks for responding
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>>716603

You're welcome. Just play it cool, and roll with the punches. This is going to be a formative experience for you and you're going to learn a lot.

I, personally, would mention to him next time you see him that you actually enjoyed his company, and would like more of it. Keep it casual and be bold :)
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>>716621
"Next time I see him"
I live with him, its been a great year or so living with him. He just got out of a long term relationship with a girl, hence the heavy drinking last night.

Thats what makes me the most confused, I'm not sure if it was the liquor talking or not last night

I've had these feelings for him for a while though.

We made out for a short period, but then he started feeling nauseous, so I planted my ass beside him in the bathroom, just being as supportive as I could. Didn't go to bed until I got him to bed
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>>716634

Alcohol is just a social lubricant to let your inhibitions drop. Sounds like he might have a lot to work through post-relationship, you might want to feel for whether the time is right for anything else.

You looking after him is so very fucking cute and has given me the little boost of humanity I need to sleep. Goodnight, sweet prince, and good luck.
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>>716656
I'm just glad you responded, it was nice to make a connection with some one on here, I just woke up a few hours ago, good night


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