Why are bisexual males hated so much?
Because you keep making this thread.
Because homosexuals hypocritically generalize them, such as heterosexuals generalize homosexuals.They are generally seen as being extremely unfaithful, seeing as homosexuals often say they are "closet-breeding" a name for an act of adultery. Closet-breeding is a bisexual male/female cheating on a homosexual male/female, with the opposite gender. This is seen as closet-breeding, because you can't get your same-sex partner pregnant, so you cheat on them with the opposite gender. Whether this is in fear of never having kids, or simply boredom in a relationship, it doesn't matter. This is still seen as closet-breeding, and as a result, bisexuals are oppressed by the people who try to fight oppression.In other words, the bisexuals are saying>M-MUH BABIES!While the homosexuals are saying>M-MUH RELATIONSHIP!If anyone takes offense to this, let me just say, I'm not wise, and I'm not choosing sides. I don't do any of that shit, as I'm dearly sorry for those you got offended, but I do not care, as I don't think I at any fault.
Because they can piss off insecure straight guys AND insecure gay guys who have issues with themselves they need to lash out about.
On 4chan: because they have a persecution complex so threads like this are guaranteed bait. In real-life: because the visible ones are the loud 19yo girls who just want to talk about 'mah struggle', rather than chilling the fuck out.
>>614506As a bi-male... why closet breeding? I mean, why not the same options gay/lesbian couples have? Artificial insemination and surrogate mother (if having a child that's related by blood is important) or adoption?And if it's just boredom... Man the fuck up and change things in the bedroom. Be honest and work it out! It's what relationships are about...
I don't mind dating bi guys if they are 100% vasectomized. Otherwise, just fuck-buddies and not dateable.
>>615937Can you elaborate about the vasectomy thing?
>>616380He doesn't want them to leave him for another breeder.
>>616380it suggests they're not longing for baaaaaaaaabies?alternately, it makes it less likely that when they cheat on you with a teenage girl that they'll knock her up and have to take responsibility?
Because we're sluts and want to fuck everything. Which is pretty much true in my case but probably isn't for the majority of us, I hope.
Because we're better than everyone else?Merit is the most offensive justification. Check the statistics. If you're a male that is, bisexual women are a third as likely to be obese than straight women. Lesbian women even more so than bisexuals.Meaning that if you're a bisexual male, you have the best potential.
>>616487>wat is basic logic.
>gay men>so insecure they require bisexual partners to have vasectomies my sides
>>616490>Bisexual men are twice as likely to be of a healthy weight than straight men.>Bisexual women are a third as likely to be OBESE than straight women.
We're apparently promiscuous, unfaithful, attention-whores, or that's what one gay guy told me. My "straight" friends don't like it because I won't suck their dicks, or because I get angry when they try to take my clothes off.
>>614461 (OP)Due to the fact that most of them are simply confused homosexuals who haven't yet accepted themselves, so they instead choose to lie to themselves and everyone else. They've done studies showing that unlike in women, physical arousal pretty much dictates sexual preference in men, and the majority of self identified bisexual men in the study showed an exclusive sexual arousal to men despite claiming to be attracted to women as well. There are also statistics showing that the majority of young self identified bisexual men tend to shift to being self identified homosexuals later in life.tl;dr nobody likes liars. Especially obvious liars.
I think Bis get a bad rap because the most outward facing kind seem to be the "i only date women, but cheat on them constantly with men" kind of Bis. Or the "I'm straight but I like to kiss boys for attention" Bisexuals. It's like how straight people all think gays are flamboyant faggots.
>>616571"studies"top lel
Are we hated? Because im an attractive bi male and most gay men 'forget' the stereotypes when I spoon fuck them raw in their beds and end up falling in love
>>616571Ha ha ha fuck you no.http://www.advocate.com/news/daily-news/2011/08/23/bisexuality-exists-study-shows
>>616754what's with all.these bogus studies? Do people do studies on gay guys and transvestites too?
if sexuality is a spectrum in the first placewhy wouldn't there be something to describe some of the middle ground
>>616760You must be new to this board.
>>616820le generalization face
>>616820>not being in the polyamorous bisexual masterracePipe down son, I know not all of you can be us.
>>616748I don't "forget" them when I take a bi guy to bed. They are very clear in my mind. This is why I don't allow any emotional attachment to develop afterward. I've been burned too many times before and it won't happen again. You're only good for fucking.
>>616760the research is in, buddy. bisexual men exist. sorry it makes you so mad, i guess.What do you think Larry Craig is, if not completely (ex-)closeted? He has a wife and kids, yet seeks sex with dudes. If we can assume that he's attracted to his wife, then... HUH, what does that make him?Any time you hear some stupid fuckhead raving about how homosexuality is a choice, you can probably assume, yeah it's a choice... for him, because he's bi.
>>616833see? proof that bisexuals are only concerned with themselves.
>>616863I only care about your dick and what comes out of it m8
because they take it in the butt. It's dirty and disgusting
As a bisexual male, I must inform you that it's probably because someone makes this thread every fucking day. Even I'm sick of them. Let people dislike you; who gives a shit? How does it affect you, really? It doesn't if you don't let it.
>>615937All dat insecurity. He wouldn't leave you because you can't have babies; he'd leave you because you're pathetic.
>>616533Um, get new friends? Seriously, what the fuck, man?
>>616533Wow, what the fuck are wrong with your friends?
>>616820This pasta is stale.
>>616406Vasectomized bi guys are worthless to bitches, who want babies. They would be single forever and would regret dating gays afterward. It is the perfect revenge for gays being traumatized by bi guys. Big trap for bi guys.
>>615937I can see it. It is about making sacrifices for gay partners bis love. These bis don't need that, so they cut it off for convincing gays that they are very serious about the long term relationship. If bis did it, they have my huge respect. Truly gentlemen.
Straight Guys Hate Bi's because:>dude you can't just like both>your gay>fuck a girl, be a manGays hate Bi's because:>Why can't you commit>I know your seeing that chick>You're eventually going to want to be a dadPersonally, I've had my experiences with Bisexuals and they always quit on me, as a gay man, it was clear the benefits I gave them was confidence like "dude i can get a guy to fuck im so awesome" but these are bis that settle down into hetero lifestyle and thats cool, they had incidental homo but letting me down in the end. I used to be bi before my gay phase, people hated me, so i hated them. I had it easier though before my gay/pan came out and about, because at least then people knew i liked girlsDont hate guys, love your refrracted lighted community
>>616952confirmed for butthurt bi guy, I don't care if he doesn't like it. This tells me he will leave me someday anyway. Just being a sex tool for gays. I will enjoy them till a gay one shows up. This way makes me happy. Don't like it? too bad! >>617558Yup. It is easy to determine if a bi guy is willing to give up his balls for a long-term gay relationship. Unfortunately, these bi guys chicken out. So coward! Inconsiderate to gays!
>>616820I can see your obesity from the other side of the ocean.
These fucking victim complex threads, man. Just go enjoy your threesomes with married couples already.
>>616833>>616863>>616872Samefail.
It seems like insecure people see bi guys as confused and insecure. That is a bullshit generalization IMO.
>implying bi males are a turn-off to most women
>>614474I am bi and this. The same 10 people will reply with the same shit they have been doing in everyone one of these "bi's will be bashed here" threads.
>>615937>they might leave me and want kids, better make sure that if he does leave me he can't have kids haha faggot
>>620705Then, don't date gays! Deal with it, butthurt bi!
>>620705see >>617547> the perfect revenge for gaysand >>617558>It is about making sacrifices for gay partners bis love. These bis don't need that, so they cut it off for convincing gays that they are very serious about the long term relationship. and >>617915> It is easy to determine if a bi guy is willing to give up his balls for a long-term gay relationship. Unfortunately, these bi guys chicken out. So coward! Inconsiderate to gays!Interesting. >mfw
It's 4chan.Everyone needs SOMEBODY to shit on.
Being a bi male is fucking shit. I can barely be myself around ANYONE.Straight guys: I have to be cis as fuck and put up with homophobic remarks or I'm being "too sensitive".Gay guys: I don't want to go act like a fucking fruit and prance around GAY MEN ONLY FINAL DESTINATION so apparently it's see you later breeder.Straight girls: Don't care for them at all after long term relationshit burn. They just don't interest me mentally or sexually anymore.Hanging around lesbians is about all I can do. They make the best friends ever. Except when you go out clubbing with them or something, then yay you all connect, then suddenly they're all hooking up, you're attracted to them, but you can only just stand there wondering why you're a guy. Also, they all automatically assume you're gay.So much angst. Urgh.
>>620978What about dating bi guys? Most trans are bi! Dating these will solve the problem you have.
>>621018.....good answer.I guess because I've never really found another bi guy? As silly as that sounds? Well, outside of high school anyway. The last guy I dated was gay and flipped out when he found I was bi. Would be open to trans as well as long as they're cute and not a bucket of crazy.I really just want a lesbian partner as stupid as that sounds. I'm seriously confused I think. Sigh.
>>621053Well just find a butch bi girl. They do exist.
People be hating on us Bis because we get to have the best of both worlds.If Bis are just pretending to be Bi for attention, then gays choose to be gay.As for the stereotype that Bis are whores - guess what? They exist in all categories. Straight whores, bi whores, gay whores, lesbian whores.Stop thinking in black-and-white.Bi pride forever!!
>>621650Not really though. No one will trust you and you will never have a relationship longer than a short fling.
>>621665I'm Bisexual and I've been happily married now for 14 years. So, um ... you're wrong.
>>621677So you were just pretending for the attention then. That doesn't count.
>>621665Ah, but you are so wrong there. This coming from a bi in a long-term relationship.Go write your generalizations elsewhere. You have only failed on every level here.
>>621679I do not understand this stupid mentality of bis faking it for attention. Yes, there are some that do. Should that speak for the rest of the bi community? Hell no.
>>621685>long term relationshipInternet 'relationships' don't count.
>>621665that's fucking retardedwhether someone respects commitments in a relationship is nothing to do with their orientation
>>621694Nice try.It's a real relationship.Maybe you should try it out sometime ;)
>>621679It's not a matter of pretending.When a heterosexual man gets married, he doesn't stop being sexually attracted to other women - he just doesn't go out and fuck them.When a homosexual man gets married, he doesn't stop being sexually attracted to other men - he just doesn't go out and fuck them.When a bisexual man gets married ... do you see where this is going?Your identity in the LGBT community is tied to what you're sexually attracted to, not by what you stick your dick in. Sexuality and sexual attraction is a mental state, not an action.
even in its begrudging accommodation ('tolerance') of liberated flows of homoerotic desire (homosexuality), heteronormative society imposes conservative notions of sexuality as 'masculine fixity' (the 'stable family' is the desired outcome of conservative sexuality). straight women participate in this oppression of 'nomadic' male sexuality whilst tolerating 'nomadic' female sexuality (patriarchal misandry!). deterministic gay men cannot fathom other male sexualities apart from their own fixed 'departure', and the norm from which they 'departed' from. [fascism everywhere.]"either all for me, or nothing at all" - straight women, gay males"make your mind up" - straight males
>>621710You: -1Bis: 1I've never cheated on ANYONE. Regardless of whether I was dating a guy or girl.It's quite unfortunate that you a bi cheated on you, and now you assume that all are cheaters.Guess what? I have plenty of friends who have been on cheated on who are straight, gay, and everything in between. It exists in all categories.
Haha, I see someone deleted the post I replied to, because it was obviously a stupid post.Glad to see you recognized it was stupid.
>mfw homosexual accuse bis of being promiscuous and untrustworthy
>>621737I know, right?Not to mention when gays accuse bis of choosing to be bi.Wtf?
>>621740Nobody's that stupid are they? Actually yes, they are.
>>621710I'm bi and for me to cheat is impossible. 1. I am loyal2. Cheating would mean finding two or more people that would find me good enough looking to cheat. 3. I have never had a relationship with any sex. Not a proper one anyway. Guess what? Straight people cheat, and gay people cheat! Isn't that a newsflash (!). People cheat and sleep around - marriage and being monogamous isn't really natural. Maybe for the most part, but deep down its not - men ((like me)) are normally wired to want to fuck most things that move.
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>>621650>>620347>>616952>>616497It's funny how we're derided by bisexuals for being clingy and insecure, yet they always seem so desperate for homosexual attention and approval. If you're really so much better than us "monosexuals" why do you care if we "accept" you or not?
I would think a bisexual would have a greater chance for infidelity, having both a larger pool for sexual partners and a desire for something that the partner inherently lacks (vagoo/penis)So I wouldn't date a bi guy.
As someone who was pretty biphobic (is that a word?) as a teenager, I can say that my reason was because I thought bi guys were just sluts who only cared about getting laid, and they weren't very romantic. Now, I think I'd be pretty okay dating a bi guy, so long as he was interested in settling down and not just interested in one night stands. Not that I have a problem with people who are into that, but that's not my kind of thing.
>>623647that's such a shallow perception, i feel sorry for you, would you like a cookie? I think I have a pity cookie around here somewhere...
>>623647>>623647Like the other anon said, that's an extremely shallow view to have, and really just speaks to your own insecurity
Why are bisexual males so whiny?
>>623777>>623814Lol what... Why be so fucking sensitive to a logical answer? Honestly tell me why you would date something that has been none throughout the dating community as trouble. If they marry a woman in life you usually hear about them having an affair with some rentboy. If they settle with a gay they think about having a family. People might not like the hearing truth but if you want a long lasting relationship you would want someone you can trust.
>>625647>they settle with a gay they think about having a family.And what is wrong with a same-sex couple having a family? I want an honest answer not the same right-wing BS I always hear.
>>625650Not the poster, but this is too fucking retarded.Are you only able of reading a sentience that can be turned into something homophobic?That's not even related to the fucking topic.He was talking about bisexuals, he was not trying to be detected on your butthurt radar.
>>625658You are fucking retarded, aren't you? If you can't read the obvious criticism of what the other poster said, I think it is pretty fucking obvious.I am dating a gay guy, and we pretty much agreed that we will have a family, and I don't think there is anything wrong with that, but clearly the previous poster does, because he thinks I should leave my partner who is practically my husband to have a family.So again ANON, what is wrong with a same-sex couple having a family?
>>625665Nigga I don't know. I'm xanned the fuck out.
>>625665He means they think about having BLOOD kids. Not adopted kids. That what he means by "they think about having a family".
>>625676Have you ever heard of surrogacy?http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Surrogacy
>>625676>>625676WHat's wrong with that, nig? By blood kids you mean like, in vitro and surrogates, yeh?
>>625681>>625678>>625676I'm starting to think that most gay people on this board must equate having a family with the "straight lifestyle". Dude fine if you don't want kids, not everyone likes kids, but my partner and I do. We need to accept that more same-sex couples will choose to raise children in the future. I don't care for having a biological child anyway, I have shit genes, my partner would be better for that anyway. But honestly I think I would prefer to adopt, I'm still on the fence, I do believe I can have the same bond with an adopted child as with a biological child.
>>625676Nigga I dun even know anymore. im balls deep in bars
>>625678>>625681I know what surrogates are, and I'm not even discussing it, I'm saying that's what he meant.
>>625703You're saying the poster insinuated that I would dump my partner of over 3 years, who I'm crazy in love with, on the off-chance that I could actually find some woman I am even remotely compatible with, and actually likes me so I could have kids, assuming that doesn't end in divorce in a few years, or a horrible marriage? That is the MOST ridiculous thing I've ever heard.The poster must have never experienced love, I mean real love. Probably just lust. I feel sorry for you poster, don't hero yourself just yet, you'll find someone eventually. :-)
>>625700I'd be too worried about my adopted child being unintelligent or having a mother who drank when she was pregnant or otherwise interfered with its intelligence. I couldn't love a person of less than average, or even average intelligence. Yes, I am acutely aware of how shallow this sounds.
>>625700No anon, I actually do want a partner and a kid one day to raise. It's refreshing to see loyalty every once and a while, but the phrase history repeats itself feels accurate to me. I've already had abandonment issues since my family left me and I've been in long term relationships where I've been cheated on. I just kind of want to somehow control it and stop that pain from happening again. Listen anon from the sounds of you, you seem lovely and will probably make a great parent. But me personally, I just don't really want to get in a relationship with a guy who has even more options to cheat on me with.
>>625711Sigh, I never said anything about anyone relationship, I was only clearing things up.
>>625714You should probably not bring this up around possible boyfriends, no offense but your statement reeks of insecurity. Do you check your bf's text messages? Guys will worry that you would or make big deals about occasionally working late. I'm sorry anon, but I've had my share of insecure boyfriends, and the paranoia gets to be too much.
>>625731No, that's a fair statement and I'll be honest I used to be but now I just kind of accept life as it is and what happens, happens. If someone loves me they just simply won't hurt me like that. But dating a bisexual just doesn't seem like a good idea to me. I know there are exceptions to the rule of course, but me personally I like betting on things that are a million in one instead of a billion in one.
>>625712That's just you being a God-awful parent. Please never have kids?
Fellow gay males, don't date bis. They can't do relationships.Play around and have sex and all, but then toss them away like a used condom before they do the same to you.
>>625799GTFO.
>>623539The ones being insecure about bisexuals are the ones who are derided for being insecure. I care about approval from potential sexual partners, but just because you're gay doesn't mean that automatically includes you, because I'd never date someone that was that insecure and bitter.>>616571the study people who make this argument always quote had shit experimental and sampling methods that were quite biased, and it's not taken seriously anymore.
>>625876>the study people who make this argument always quote had shit experimental and sampling methods that were quite biased, and it's not taken seriously anymore.Wait wait, are we talking about the 2005 Northwestern study that was debunked by Northwestern itself in a revised study several years later? Are we seriously using stuff like that as something to argue with now?
>>625887The ones who like to justify their usage of the word "most" when they talk about the percentage of bisexuals who "aren't real" love going back to that study without actually directly quoting it, because it perpetuates the misconception without linking to the shit study itself.
Wow, I would have never though such prejudice capable from a board like this.
>>614461 (OP)It's like a guy that thinks he is nice but really, he's just indecisive.
>>625647Those are the only bisexuals YOU hear about, and you ignorantly base your your opinion of ALL bisexuals on those people. That's illogical, hateful, and only shows your own mental infancy.Grow up. Not all bisexuals fit the prejudiced stereotype.
>>625927>indecisive>sexual orientation
>>625948I never though I'd see the day... An actually mature person on 4chan. On 4CHAN! This is too good to be true.
I think I said this before;The only "Bi Guy" that exists is the one that cheats.If you're a "Bi Guy" in a committed relationship of one particular gender people assume "Oh, he was really <straight/Gay> not Bi." And thus, to the public eye you become that and not "Bisexual".That is, unless you cheat on said partner with a person of the opposite sexual disposition then it's "Fuck those Bisexual sluts; unfaithful as always!" (As opposed to sleeping with someone with the same sexual disposition)
>>625948You are now god and I will sacrifice men, women and children for you.Well done!
>>626068
>>626068>Hey let's base our opinion of an entire demographic of people on the actions and words of a few people who are clearly immature and not representative of adult bisexualsOne time a gay guy hooked up with another man in a bathroom and gave him AIDS. I can't believe all gay men are such disease ridden sex addicts.
>>626068That was a dumb thread and you thinking it that it presents all bisexuals makes you even more dumb.
>>626068tl;dr please?
>>626105most gay men do it in the pooperthat automatically makes most gay men sexual deviants
>>626126Bi-slut got fucked by 30ish men because his girlfriend wouldn't put out. He would end the relationship, but he is using her for financial reasons. Its all her fault because she doesn't want to sleep with someone who cheats on her.
>>626139
>>626139Yeah that totally means all bisexuals are terrible people. There's no way it's just that guy is a shitty person that happens to be bisexual. I bet no gay or straight person has ever cheated ever or been a bad person. Why don't we just kill off all bisexuals?
>>626146I've been telling people the same, but they just won't listen
I guess I'll just keep going around not telling people I'm bi then.
>>626188Don't do that, it leads to more erasure. We need to be out as bisexuals so people view us as normal people. Staying closeted just perpetuates the stereotypes that bisexuals are just sluts or closet gays.
>>620638Bi Males: /lgbt/'s genwars variant.
>>625799this fellow knows what's up#cannotrelyonbi
>>626196But they won't change their minds. Even if *we're* decent, faithful people, bi's like Bingo or pic rel. will always have gays hating us.
>>626188melodramatic much?
>>626228How was that melodrama? It was just a statement.
>>626188I do the same thing I tell girls I'm bi an guys I'm gay, fucking drama queens... Omg they don't love me cuz they don't awnser my text within 8 minutes or they don't wana see me now so they must hate me...fucking a
>>626226Don't let bitter people who are hateful and prejudiced force you into living a lie. It's not healthy.
Honestly, the bisexuals I've met IRL have been ok. On here, for whatever reason, people spew vitriol over each other for the sake of it.
>>625638Anytime I see an anon say something like "lel I'm bi and I'm a whore and all bis are sluts like me MASTER RACE", I know for a fact that they're just lying and bitter.
>>626068typical bi. Old news.
>>626246You are a pathetic coward for not telling gays the truth. Enjoy your untrustworthy status.
>>625799What's wrong with this? It is why you, bi guys are butthurt over being rejected by gays?
>>626196seriously, back when I first started going out with my boyfriend I told him I was bi and didn't mention it afterwards, because there was no need to; five months later, he's completely shocked by me telling him I watch straight porn sometimes because he apparently just assumed I was confused and sorted myself out by then
>>626407I think your bf wants you to be turned on by him, not porn chicksporn always causes tension in relationships sooner or later "what, am I not pretty enough?" etc
>>626421yeah except for the tons of couples that watch porn together lol
>>626421he watched more porn than I did but was really insecure, so yeah, that was probably a factor too
>>626226>poor baby can't handle ze blitzkriegfuck this is hilarious
>>626226dat pic *SAVED*Niggers and bis that suit each together.
>>626789>basing your opinions of entire demographics on 4chan imagesstay hateful, anon
>>626824confirmed for butthurt bi
>>626226>my face the entire time while reading this
>>617915That is a pretty douchey and manipulative move, long term relationships are not absolute, im gay but if I were bi i wouldnt give up my testicals if they were demanded of my spouse. In fact if my spouse was that douchey that requiring a kind of butchery of an organ of my body just to feel secure in me being faithful is a requirement, then fuck them, and fuck you, I would divorce your ass.
>>626827Confirmed for fucked in the head faggot
>>627044You're a fuckin doormat to bi guys!!
>>627050Your bi tears are delish.
>>627044>That is a pretty douchey and manipulative move.Whatever, weakass faggot >if I were bi i wouldnt give up my testicals if they were demanded of my spouse. In fact if my spouse was that douchey that requiring a kind of butchery of an organ of my body just to feel secure in me being faithful is a requirement, then fuck them, and fuck you, I would divorce your ass.Why do bis need that? Plan to have kids in their 40s after ditching gays? If you're that bi, you're not suitable for committing a long-term relationship with a gay man period.Oh, I won't date a pussy faggot like you, so fuck off you battyclunge
>this thread
And this i why i say im gay instead of saying im a homoromantic bisexual.Why not just take the bisexual out of this board name?