This new board sucks delete it moot
Fuck u u ugly cunt wanker
I first realized I was Pansexual (to some degree) when i met this neighborhood boy, and we looked at tranny pornt ogether and touched dicks n shit. i was like 8 he was 12 and had just hit puberty...i wonder if he identifies as pan? i bet he does he was the one who pointed out the trannies in the porn magazine we had
For those who don't know, he's an internationally-syndicated sex advice columnist, also described as "weapons-grade gay" by stephen colbert>http://www.avclub.com/features/savage-love/30/I've been reading his columns since I was maybe 14 or 15, his advice has pretty much flawlessly guided me through many successful relationships. I very often copypasta his advice to /fit/ in sexual health threads, with good results.Thoughts, opinions?Are you one of the crazies who believe he is transphobic because he used the word 'shemale' once almost a decade ago?
>>20386http://jcem.endojournals.org/content/85/5/2034.fullit's real
>>20425how so. please cite a quote or action.
>>20346 (OP)trans person here.Shemales are hot.I don't see the issue and I love dan savage.
>>20539apparently it's a hate termhonestly i kinda agree, it's a pretty nasty word, i wouldn't want it thrown at me
seriously, nobody else?no wonder so many 4channers are sexually dysfunctional
>Be lesbian>7/10, from guyfriends>Every once in a while being hit by random guys in parties>"Sorry, I'm lesbian">"Really? Can I join in?"
>>20237>>19856
>>20181fucking hell every time. you try to keep going because pausing will ruin your momentum so your either forced to fap at some guys ass or moaning face OR lose it and masturbate later. its like the porn industry wants us to become gay. those fuckers
>>20052>this board will get better when the trolls get bored with it.But when all the trolls leave, the only people left will be faggots.
>>20524>implying everyone isnt already a faggot
I know that feel. If they'd just drop it it'd be fine but NO as soon as they get denied they follow you around all night trying to change your mind. At that point I wouldn't do it if i was straight and desperate.
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>>13539Hey, I forgot about that. I wonder if they were intentionally addressing transsexuality in sports?
this is why mum was right when you complained far too many times, just that one time too farwhen she put that shrewd look on her face and shrieked at you ' YOU GET WHAT YOU'RE GIVEN ' and you made the best of it, mum was rightnow you gotta deal with the implications of shit like this
>>19199>...and even feeling shame if their body does have a particularly athletic build, because it doesn't conform to the passive, sex-object standards of femininity that we know and love.But that's wrong you fucking idiot, and you based your whole goddamn argument on it! What barbaric shithole do you come from with such ideals on women, Angola?
>>20502Planet Earth! You think this doesn't happen?My argument is based on the premise that society conditions women to enter physically-demanding professions such as sports less than it conditions men to do so. You would argue against that?
>>13619you're so adorable! :D
I suppose this is as good a place as any to throw this up, I may cross post in /soc/ and /d/ due to relevance....I have a good number of lady friends and a couple male friends, who are all rather comfortable with each other. various combinations of the friends have hooked up in the past. Some straight, some lez no fagging (yet, lol) and two threesomes. (that I know of)My question to you /lgbt/ is: Have you organized an orgy or group sex before? Best method? HALP!I think I'm going to set up some ground rules first, contact each person individually, and test the waters. I've got the space at my house, I've heard less alcohol is better at these events. Is it better to get going like once a month before inviting outsiders?Should I tell them to bring anyone they think would enjoy? Is it really more of a one and done kind of event?Should I get a couple escorts there as well as toys for people? tldrA little direction on orgys please, I'm hoping theres a voice of experience in the room.
Why does it seem a lot of the gays on this board don't like to be associated with bisexuals, transgenders, and lesbians?I agree on the point that pride parades are counterproductive in getting ourselves taken seriously in society, but the majority of LGBT folks I've interacted with seem like normal dudes. To me, it seems like a vocal minority of LGBT people, and their straight friends who think every gay person is all about glittery rainbow dildos, are fucking things up for everyone. Grouping all lesbians, bisexuals and transgenders in with that vocal minority just fucks things up even further.
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Sup, /lgbt/.Do you think that gender is a social construct?Are you in disagreement with scientists trying to find biological causes in gender roles and sexuality?
>>18755I took a gender studies class. We never talked about biology, just women bitching about how this one guy with an angry face on the subway was totally going to rape her at 3 PM in Penn station. It was all personal anecdotes, most of them involving the phrase, "I could bet he was going to...">>18801Is it not possible that gender roles came from differences that made one gender more suited for one thing over the other? When physical strength was so much more necessary, would not the naturally increased muscle mass and increased aggression from testosterone in men make for a better hunter, which became the normal gender role for men after generations?
>>12931Hjernevask
>>13588It's not defined, it's observed. That you can predict the sex of babies relatively accurately based on knowledge of their preferences makes it so. See http://dx.doi.org/10.1016/j.yhbeh.2012.08.008
Isn't saying that gender is a social construct, pretty much the same as claiming that the homosexuals of the past that wanted to heterosexuals, were just too weak willed to make it?
>>10375But they are already treated like second class citizen due to affirmative action.
Here's my respectful question and discussion:What is the deal with people, straight or otherwise, not being able to distinguish between "gay" and "homosexuality"?I think the identity of "gay" is deplorable and despicable. It is promiscuous and promotes terrible behavior (I understand that "gay" as an identity might as well just be the construction of a few old jews running MTV to make money, or the result of oppression, so I'm not holding homosexuals wholly responsible for this).That being said I don't find any problem with homosexuality. That on is attracted to the same sex doesn't actually bother me. What bothers me is an "identity" that is predictable as mass on Sundays. That is being "gay" also implies a whole lot of other things that have nothing to do with "homosexuality". Most gay people, for instance, are anti-gun, but being homosexual doesn't imply anything about one's relationship to firearms.Any attempt to bring this distinction up, results in being labelled a homophobe. Apparently one is able to criticize the whole Jersey Shore bs culture, materialism, consumerism etc, but to criticize an identity that happens to belong to homosexuals means you must hate all homosexuals and those who commit the homosexual act.What gives folks?
>>20587Liberal Arts university, so not choice there.... the most oppressive place with regards to honest discussion.
>>20631If you went to a theological university in North Dakota, it would be the exact opposite. College kids are stupid. Get used to it.
>>20380 (OP)OP, you are imposing your own definition of gay onto the population.There are many people who self-identify as gay who do nothing that you listed. You just don't notice them because they are being polite.
>>20680I know there are lots of homosexuals not like that. I also argue I am not imposing "my own" definition. All it takes is a quick look at media, pride parades, rallies, websites, etc, to find what "gay" is supposed to mean.I am not saying this is right, or the doing of the community itself, but to say I am imposing "my definition" of gay is absurd. It's been created for me. Whether I accept it or not is irrelevant one someone I might be talking accepts it as inclusive of all homosexuals.
>>20776"When someone I might be talking to accepts it as an all inclusive....****As a quick example, last year there was an article in a paper bemoaning how "closeted" the city's gay population was because they didn't have as many pride parades, events, rainbows, etc. Not joking, the person's argument was essentially "you aren't a hollywood pride parade gay therefore you are closeted and oppressed"As usual, it was a white straight person arguing as to what being "gay" is. My point is simply this:"gay" identity existit is not necessarily connected to "homosexuality"Criticizing "gay" makes one anti "homosexual".For groups that are supposed to be super aware of identity issues, the social construction of identity, and the like, I find this incredibly odd. Its mostly an issue of straight people attacking straight people for allegedly being anti-homosexual.
if I'm a boy who think he's a girl but still likes girls does that make me a lesbian?
>>20153 (OP)i really dont see why it matters. if you like girls you like girls if you like guys you like guys if you like something inbetween then fuck you you'r a sick bastard who should be taken out and shot
>>20153 (OP)I know that boy. I mean feel.
>>20714That image is cute, too bad your tits will never be that big for reals.
>>20439even CoC doesn't use that made up pronoun crap
>>20153 (OP)It makes you delusional.Straight women don't want you, lesbians don't want you either, post-op trans and men who won't mind you having a dick before are maybe your only chances.
faggots
I fucked your dad last night.
Bi thread. Bi-deniers can go suck a dick or eat a pussy, depending on their preference.
I'm [spoiler]gay[/spoiler] bi-curious. I just can't really get into the vag sometimes yo.
>>20567>Bi.>Very dom.>People like you are the reason i live.
>>20681Nothing to spoil on this board, girl.
>>20604Yo, that's what I do. I still find women attractive but it's so much easier to just say I'm gay.
While searching for bisexual communities online, I found a group of gay men in straight marriages who called themselves "bisexual" while cheating on their wives.Things like that really rustle my jimmies.
Does Homosexual rape happen?Dont mention prisoners
>>18921 (OP)You probably have to be fucking retarded to ask that question
>>18921 (OP)In jail your butthole gets so ravaged that it feels like millions crabs were tearing your asshole to be larger and larger until every inmate could be inside you with their dicks at the same time.
yes obviously
>>18921 (OP)a girl I know was raped by a lesbian in college.so, yeah.
>>20351You ever been to prison? That's a big lie. Sure, it happens to some people but not every damn day, and not to every damn guy either. Doing time is mostly boring routine. If you keep your head down and don't stir shit for no goddam good reason.
I go to parade. Other than that I can recognize one or two of trans people a month on street. Most I know about them is from internet.I know some or most of them don't fare very well. Many people I know are cut off from families or heavily closeted. In my country they have legal issues every corner. They don't have proper paper and ID until they have SRS and they have to make big money to pay for their SRS. I know they live very discretely and don't want attention.trans people general
right now their problem is that less and less psychiartrists are welling to take trans cases. they need psychiatrists to vouch their SRS
yo the rebel ins here to drop some knowledge on your faggot assesgays and lesbians are the same fuckin thing you stupid bitchesPEACE
>yfw when it doesWait, am I missing something here?I never thought about it huh. But I guess lesbians are just gay women, so...>mfw this could ruin the lgbt movement
I've always considered lesbians to be gay women. Actually, I'm a little annoyed (meh, not really) that gay women have a title but gay men don't (oh wait, faggot).
