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I need help. theres a Trans MtF highschooler who's my friend, but she keeps flirting with me, and by flirting i mean "my hole is ready when you are" in a serious manner. how do I, a straight male, turn her down in a nice way?

tl;dr I dont want the D, how to turn down a girl with one, politely?
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Just pull her aside and say, "Look, you're nice and all, but I'm just not attracted to you."

You can use the whole "it's not you, it's me" excuse if you want to be a super pussy. In any case, you need to grow a pair and your friend needs to just deal with it.
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say it like this

>that nigga comes up to you
>"hey boi wanna fuk"
>you say to it
>"no your disgusting and you should burn in hell, traps are a cancer on humanity"
>slap that thing in the face
>walk off like a boss

problem solved
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say you only like men, and see what "she" says.
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>>20642 (OP)
If you consider her female:
"Piss off slut I don't want to fuck you, now get lost"
If you consider him male:
"Piss off fag I don't want to fuck you, now get lost"
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>>20789
But if you wait too long to have a sex change you'll be too manly
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>>20642 (OP)
Actual Trans MtF, or just a gay dude with crossdressing sub/dom fetishes?
By your description seems like the latter, at which point you can safely tell the faggot to go away
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>>20736
Do this.
Please
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Give your friend my phone number, and we'll see what happens.
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The same way you'd turn down a girl you don't want to touch, faggot.
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>>20642 (OP)
Tell your friend they are a slut, and you don't want no horny sluts.
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I fucking wish... pics OP.
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>>20819
gay dude, who will probably stay a trap. its p common in Vegas.
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>>20642 (OP)

Does she have a vagina and breasts? Cuz, I mean, I don't know why you're being picky if she does. Is she butt ugly or something?
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>>20911
its p much a dude, but saying "I dont like dick" seems pretty rude
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>>20701
This.

>>20789
>>20819
>>20778
>>20736
>>20720
>>20693
What the fuck?
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>>20642 (OP)
Fuck him
Take pics
Cut off all contact
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It's a [b]man[/b] in girl's clothes.
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>>20937

Then just do the whole "Hey, I'm not attracted to you like that, but we can still be friends" thing.

Although... you could give her a whirl. Might be fun.
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>>20990
not even that. its p much a dude who identifies as a girl, but shes still my friend, and i cant get her to stop flirting
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>>20959

Take pictures of what? His cock? Blackmail?
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>>20892
>pretty common in Vegas

Is this recent? I grew up in Vegas and never met a single trap.
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>>21097
I was more thinking OC as blackmailing is hard when you cut off all contact plus I wouldn't suggest being that malicious. He might be hot.
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Does he atleast looks like a girl?
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>>21041

Just pop some E and let her give you a blowjob.
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>>21041
Oh nevermind
>>21041
Just tell him to stop. Being trans has nothing to do with being an annoying cunt
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>>21190

It's an invasion of privacy to post someones intiamate parts on here
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>>20990
>[b]
You're on the wrong website, faggot.
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>>21369
This board is so damm sensible
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>>21433
What'd you expect son, this is literally Mental Problems- The Board
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>>21469

It's mental problems to ogle over the nudes of a person unrightfully posted here
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The same way you turn down anyone else who is coming on to you.

What makes you think someone who is trans needs to be turned down in a special way?
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>>21159

"I think, therefore I dick"
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>>21503

Question. What gender is a XXY?
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>>21574

It's a Klinefelter
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>>21531

He doesn't want to get harassed by the PC police.

They ride around on motorcycles and beat people like the OP with bats.
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>>21503
Have you learned that the only thing chromosomes affect is physical features that can be changed?
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>>21614

That's not a gender, silly!

It refers to both XXX and XXY as a collective chromosomal disorder
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>>21503
Actually, we've learned in modern medical science that genetics is just the beginning when it comes to humans. There are even things that beyond genetics that cause certain traits to be expressed, and it's fully possibly for a person with a male genetic set to be born with female genitals if there was too much estrogen and it turned off their genetics which said to express the penis.
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>>21627
It affects what gender you are, just like DNA testing for haplogroups decides what race you are. This is not a difficult concept.
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>>21618
p much this. tons of hipsters and Social Justice Bloggers out here. its hard enough that i cant find girls that arent 2 years younger than me...
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>>21749
>p much
Speaking of which, OP is under age, shouldn't he be banned? I saw you mods out there earlier deleting threads, come on now.
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>>21777
im 20
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>>21749

I remember the last time I held a door open for a woman. She literally turned around, maced me, stomped my balls, and then I was carried off in the PC Police van where they deprogrammed me and reeducated me with radical feminism and queer theory. OP doesn't want to go through all that
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FACT: Turning xir down is rape. REAL WOMEN HAVE PENISES. Having sex with xir is also rape. Talking about xir on an image board is rape.
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>>21777
I wouldnt be surprised if half of the is underage.
Groundups laern deal and getover their emotionals problems.
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>>21614
Klinefelter is not a gender
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>>21846
>Not telling her "it was my privilege"
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>>21574
Mutant
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>>20693
What the fuck?
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By calling it a "she" you are only enabling its mental disease
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>>20937
Stop raping
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>>21895
Theres a difference between a having a mutation and being a mutant dumbass.
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>>21920
Go back to /texas/
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>>21496
>It's mental problems to ogle
u wot m8
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>>21928
Im trying
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>Transphobia

So wait, you're all high and mighty because your civil rights movement is well under way but you're shitting on those under you?

Isn't that pretty hippocritical of you?

Or are you actually the unfeeling fucks Fox News tells me you faggots are?
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>>21531
Because it's rape
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>>20642 (OP)
This is literally sexual harassment, and you don't have to tolerate it. If this person cared about you, they wouldn't put you in such a uncomfortable position over and over. Tell it to stop and if it continues go to your principal and file a complaint.

Being gay isn't a free license to be a disgusting whore.
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>>21920
And also raping it
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>>20642 (OP)
>she
>her
u wot m8?
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>>21989
>my hole is ready when you are
implies OP is male, so the girl harassing him is straight not gay
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>>21972
You're raping me as we speak, trying is rape.
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>>20642 (OP)
The same way you turn down any other girl, son.
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>>20642 (OP)
>tl;dr I dont want the D, how to turn down a girl with one, politely?
blast her with piss
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Just tell her you aren't Pansexual and it's not her fault you aren't physically attracted to her.
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>>21846
So basically, she gave you a dirty look because you acted on altruism?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Price_equation

tl;dr: Its scientifically proven altruism (kindness) exists only to better your odds of reproduction or protect your own or to make up for severe psychological flaws and perceived guilt.

She's miffed that you want to get into her pants and she's disguising it as a matter of privilege or civil rights.
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>>21989

>Guys getting sexually harassed

HAHAHAHAHAHA

When did this generation become such pussies? Just tell him/her to fuck off. I mean, you've seriously never turned down a girl before?
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>>22084
LEL
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>>20642 (OP)

Don't turn her down if she swallows.
Seriously speaking, it goes along the general lines of "Thanks, but no thanks" more or less aggressively, as you see fit.
The most important element is confidence: if you are totally sure of how convinced you're turning her down everything is going to be alright. If you doubt, stutter, or say it in a playful or bland way you won't be taken seriously.
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>>22085
Because womens and minorities have the upperhand in rights
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>>20736
>>20736
>>20736
>>20736
>>20736

Do this. Report back.
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>>22084

omg lol this fuckin guy
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Why are you all enabling mental illness and degeneracy? People like that shouldn't be allowed to live, let alone act like jackasses.
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>>20642 (OP)
say whatever variant of "I'm not really interested in sexing you" that you like? I mean, if a cis woman you didn't want to fuck was hitting on you, how'd you turn her down politely?
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>>22244
It's too late bro.
This board is the beginning of the end.
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Go out with her and see what happens
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>>22085
>Just tell him/her to fuck off. I mean, you've seriously never turned down a girl before?

Because a woman can fuck a guy over if they don't have their way.
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>>22378
It's not a woman though.
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>>22085
>>22085
>2013
>Still thinking guys can't be sexually harrassed

If she asks you over and over again, that's annoying or uncomfortable and harassment. If its in a sexual context, its sexual harassment.

Are you literally so retarded that you can't wrap your head around basic semantics?

I mean yeah, you could bury yourself in machismo and stoicism but increasingly we're discovering that when guys who do that hit about 40-45 are offing themselves at record levels. The lead cause is that inability to find a role and blend into a changing society and evolving gender roles.

You flat out just aren't even trying to keep up. You just keep your head down, your mouths shut and do the whole stoicism thing. When you have a problem, you don't admit it, thinking there's some mythical ideal of what a man is and what a man isn't.

Sure, keep calling other dudes pussies.

But remember: You're an endangered species now.
The science says you'll be extinct in the next 15 years.

Adapt or die.
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>>22412
Its a goal oriented person with 3x the sympathy from authorities that any boy or girl gets. I'd be very careful.
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>>21978
>Isn't that pretty hippocritical of you?
I'm a horse and I find this offensive. Check your privilege, speceist scum.
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If you think nature should decide who you are instead of your human conciousness and your feels, you don't deserve to live with the rest of us.

No, seriously. If nature's so fucking right, go live in it. Flush your medication and hygine products down the toilet. Take off your clothes. Bin your pre-packaged food, your electronics and any synthetic objects you have..

Oh and while you're out there... No speaking. No books. No metal so no knifes and no building shelter.

Because that's nature.

Everything that defines us meaningfully as a species, we've invented.

If you want to reject what it is to be human, fuck off back to nature you self-entitled fucktard.
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Bifag here

>TFW you will never have a 3.14 qt shemale wanting you to hold her down over a table and relentlessly plow her cute little ladyboy asshole from behind while wanking her cock, hearing her moan as you pull her hair and grind your cock inside her, hitting the g-spot

;____;

Does she have her dick left anon?
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>>22567
Brohoof horse bro.
I identify as a robot horse, they should check their meatbag privilege.
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>>22663
>her
>dick
pick one
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>>22694
Well... Saying "it" is kind of mean no?
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>>22718
>muh feelings
These creatures don't have feelings.
Don't worry.
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>>22663
yes
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>>22663
>tfw it'll take me at least a year of effort to become that boy slut you just described
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>>22769
Could you... Post a picture of he/she/it? Is she cute? Just fuck her anon, don't be a faggot.
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>>22798
Call me when you are. I have yet to fuck a trap ;___;
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>>22816
>fuck him
>don't be a faggot
haha, oh wow
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>>22718
How about a singular 'they'
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>>22838
>trap
You mean man.
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Take your friend somewhere quiet, and private.
Take him by the hand, look into his eyes, and say, "Friend, I would like to tell you about my personal Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ; and would like to discuss with you Gods love for mankind."

If your friend doesn't freak out and run away, you should totally do him in the /b/-hole.
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>>20642 (OP)
Are you dumb or something?
How do you turn down ANY person?
"Hey you're nice but i'm not interested in you"
End of story.
Damn young people are so fucking slow mentally.
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>>22838
Alright, I live in australia though. You fly here and ill provide the ass
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>>22889
Yes. This is guaranteed to work.
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>>22889
You forgot to say that he is worry about his souls and wants to help.
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>>23007
Shut up nerd.
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>>22237
>>22113
Hey, the guy's using hyperbole out of confusion and indignance because he's too SPERG to know what's going on around him.

True altruism doesn't exist. Its scientific fact and the one guy who came up with the equation spent his entire life trying to prove it wrong and ended up comitting suicide.

If this upsets you, go cry to your mother. Humans are shit, that's basically the jist of it.

Breakdown: She views you being nice as an attack because you don't understand why you're being nice, only that you are.

Why does she view it as an attack? She likely views anything sexual as an attack. Damaged goods, maybe? Its likely her defense mechanism because she's learned nobody wants to date a survivor of rape and deal with the sexual bullshit and iffy nerves so she doesn't let people get invested into her in the first place so she doesn't have to deal with the rejection.

That said, I don't want to paint her as the victim. Yeah, he's ignorant but in his life he's never encountered any of this shit and has no idea what its like when men stare at you pretty much constantly and society values you for your looks over any other merit (and worse, this standard is actually imposed by other women, not men).

Truth is, folks just need to communicate their feels moar and not act so fucking indignant when something either confuses you or someone can't read your fucking mind.

Fuck this privilage bullshit.
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op you should let her suck your dick. you won't be disappointed.
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Post a picture of he/she/it Anon!
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>>22816
>it

You're literal dogshit hth
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So apparently I was WARNED for lwhat I assumed was...

1) Linking to wikipedia?
2) Deleting and correcting a comment?
3) Responding at a half decent post speed well beneath the limit?

Or did I do something personal that pissed off a mod?

Would like some clarification plx.
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>>23128
Rule 57
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>>23451
>A bloo bloo muh feeling.
It is the correct word faggot.
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>>23514
they (as a collective, not saying they/it) get upset if you say "they"(singular) or "it"
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>>21496
>It's mental problems to ogle over the nudes of a person unrightfully posted here

w0t the f00k did u jus say 2 me u lil bich? ill slap u in the gabba so fast ur f00kin he@d will spin


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