Just curious how many other blacks such as myself visit here regularly and don't let the usual climate dissuade them.My question is this: How have you dealt with being gay?/People assuming you are gay?/Having a gay family member?
as a white person i'm really not qualified to answer that because it's just not the same
Gay sex with a black man is literally just injecting AIDS into your body.
inb4 you're the somali guy from /int/I'd piss myself laughing.
>>192999no i'm from the US.
>tfw whitey with a black guy fetish
>>193016What a fine modern white man you are. Just as planned.
Nigga you on tha down low.
anon would you date someone who is not black?i think black men are really attractive, but i've never met one who was gay and out.
>>193140:Pi'll be honest. I never thought much about sexuality, i was a boy, we hung out with boys and we scared of/didn't like the girls.As i got older, there were basically two ways to go, i could either stay in school or join the people out in the street. That was it. I chose school.
>>192991>>>/b/>>>/pol
>>193171>i think black men are really attractive, but i've never met one who was gay and out.I know that feel. Especially living in Australia where there are pretty much no black guys around
There's quite a few black guys I could get into. Trouble is, blacks insist on hanging out with other blacks, which guarantees they'll chimp out at some point.
hmm, i guess i'm the only one on atm.I'll bump again after a few.
Does half and half count?
>>193850Post pics!
I only peek in occasionally so I don't know how the "usual climate" is here (Aside from the usual 4chan-isms).>Gay family memberDon't really sweat it much. I had a gay uncle that I only knew for a couple of months before he died. When I came out as bisexual to my mother, she came out as the same to me. No one else in my family has spoken about it.My dad is worried that he gives off a gay vibe, though.> People assuming you are gayDepends on my mood, honestly. Some days, I run with it. I don't announce my orientation, but I don't tell correct them either. Other days, it can get annoying, but that's usually when someone assumes that I'm gay for some asinine reason (Ex: I care about my appearance so I simply MUST be gay). Most days, however, I just shrug at the assumption (be it gay or straight) and just say "Yeah, you're half right."> How have you dealt with being [bisexual]?Used to struggle with it a lot back in the day. Father has some strong anti-homo beliefs so he was ever vigilant to stamp out any "gay traits" that he saw in me (thanks for that, dad). As of now, I am at peace with it but I'm finding it harder and harder to relate with others who only think of sexuality with a binary (Either you're gay or straight) mentality. That, and having a lack of bisexual friends/confidants is really starting to make me feel kind of isolated. I'll chill with hetero and homosexuals but I can't help but feel like I'm the odd man out in such gatherings.
i rarely see black people. they usually are pakistani trying to sell me stuff and they are all quite ugly with few exception, so i rarely get to have sex with them.why can't i find more than 2 nice black men? i am sure many of them are hot.
>>193904on 4chan? surely you jest good sir!
>>193882as being black?Well. I think it counts as being part black. I was brought up to just be inclusive concerning that, but the truth is a mixed race person is regarded differently by everyone and perhaps rightly so. I think it's ok to acknowledge difference as long as you can also accept that different doesn't necessarily mean "better" or "worse." - At least that's what i'd like to believe.>>193967Thank you!>"Yeah, you're half right"Ha :P>Father has some strong anti-homo beliefsYah, it was like that in my household too, well my parents separated when i was about 11 (Father was heavily into drugs, became abusive) so we left. My older brother asked me once if i was gay, i told him no, but i was on the fence at that point. I wasn't really sure which way i should go.I have a question for you, when was it that you 'realized' you were gay? If you don't mind sharing.Also, for you is it easier to be yourself around people your color or a more diverse setting?
>>194163Yeah, my dad was really strict about making sure that I didn't turn out gay. I think a lot of it stems from his own insecurity since, as previously stated, he is EXTREMELY worried of people thinking that he, himself, is gay. I think the knowledge of having a son who is no stranger to sucking cock may make him feel less manly.>when was it that you 'realized' you were gay?I actually started acting on my homosexual desires before I even realized that it was such. Had a male friend in middle school who I would trade "favors" with, but I always explained it away as kids just exploring: Nothing more, nothing less. It wasn't until I was in high school and find myself crushing hard on one my male classmates that I became aware that there was something more there. I didn't really have anyone to talk to about it at the time so I just kept that part of me hidden, but I found it hard to express myself properly because some of my friendly gestures had ulterior motives. >is it easier to be yourself around people your color or a more diverse setting?I'm a halfie like dude-man up there, so I feel more comfortable in more diverse settings just as a rule of thumb.> tfw too dark to fully fit in with my white friends> tfw too light to fully fit in with my black friends> tfw too gay to fully fit in with my hetero friends> tfw too straight to fully fit in with my homo friends.I get a lot of hand-waving done in my direction. Like when talking about troubles or experiences that I've had, it tends to be dismissed since I "have it easier for (x) reason."Hope I answered your questions well enough.
Isn't being gay in the black community even worse than in the white community?
>>194327Depends on the community, honestly.Where I live, more blacks are open and accepting of homosexuality than the whites. But, I have friends of friends who roll through from other parts and they are, by far, worse than the whites here in their disgust and hatred.
>>194337>Where I live, more blacks are open and accepting of homosexuality than the whitesI see. I'll be honest when I say my perception of every black community is based on the one from my town and I can't imagine them being very gay friendly.
Don't be black and gay in the south, I cannot guarantee your survival.Where I'm from though, you're pretty much okay. I can't say they'll accept you, but they'll generally leave you alone. Wasn't always this way though.Then again, I'm straight, so there's probably things I haven't seen. Most gay people I've seen though seem like they don't face too many issues.
>>194365The world is pretty big, Anon, with lots of different people and lifestyles running around. I live in the bible-belt of America so there is a big religious presence here. I think the reason why there is such a a fip-flop is that Pat Robinson lives and operates out of this area so he has a rather strong grip and pull on the minds of some whites here.
HOLY SHIT, WTF ARE YOU DOING ON HERE NIGGER, GET BACK FROM WHERE YOU CAME FROM, THE INTORNETZ IZ NOT FEWRS YEW!You just go therehttp://www.gnaa.eu/
lol ur a nigger xd so random
>>194453read about that group - their trolling is quite magnificent.>>194304Oh half eh, So your dad is black and your mom is white? Hmm. I wonder if there was something in your dad's past that caused him to worry, though u could be right, it is seen as an attack on the father's manhood.>>194337>disgust and hatredI think a lot of it is based in religion. I think what's most ironic about the religious aspect - Especially for the super religion black people i know.We put so much mental energy trying to reconcile the ideology of their "beliefs" and their actions but never question the fact that the belief system they put faith is was provided by a people and during a time we were thought of as worse than animals.
I'm black and gay and my family is amazing. I live in Sweden though.I don't give a fuck about racists on the internet. They like to bully people to make up for shortcomings in their real life.
It makes me wonder though. This new identity many are adopting. There are a few media approved identities for black men in america:If your very talented, (such as raping singing or playing sports) You can be the successful sell out. (make it big and marry white)Or you can be the urban entrepreneur.That option has the added bonus of entering you in the lottery for the all expenses paid extended vacation, at one of many of our nation's exclusive gated communities.And of course now the new identity that a lot of support is thrown behind in the media - Homosexuality. I have no problem with that in and of itself - if it wasn't for the historical assault on the very idea of what it means to be a black man. It's sad that many of our people or so quick to just swallow what's presented to us instead of doing our own research into our past. http://diaryofanegress.com/2012/10/17/buck-breaking/true, they don't do that anymore, but that doesn't mean it's no longer the message they express to our young people.Those who never learned about their past are destined to relive it.
>>193171Most black people are super racist and don't date outside their race. I don't know why. Black girls are the worst because they think that it will "Ruin" their reputation and they will be labeled a race whore. Seen it happen. It's a shame.
>>197415Cause having 4 different baby daddies is so much less whorish.
all the black gays I've met have been massive whores/fags
>>194327If you live in the Caribbean being gay is the worst thing ever apparently.
>>197626I can attest to this, the only gay black men I've met have been incredibly flamboyant. They aren't transgender as they all identified as men but god damn were they ridiculous.
>tfw genderqueer bi black guyNeedless to say I live a double life. Black people are ironically quite racist and very homophobic. My moms side is more tolerant (and also less black because some chinese, white, native american, etc) but i still think they'd label me a fag. I'm not like a fucking flamethrower in public 24-7. Why does it mater what I do in private.
>>197777Nice quads fag,But sometimes what you do in private, like love someone, spills out into public in ways like holding hands or walking arm and arm, which quite honestly, I wish more men had the BALLS to do.
>>192991surely hed be the one injecting you
>>197350Hahaha holy shit I've been reading that blog since you posted it. This is some timecube level batshit crazy.
>>197415>Black girls are the worst because they think that it will "Ruin" their reputation and they will be labeled a race whore. Seen it happen. It's a shame.If that really will ruin their reputations, then its the community's fault, not their own.Really a shame though. I dated a black girl once, and it was one of the best experiences of my life.
>>197415>tfw when you're a black girl and dated outside your raceWhat black girls have you dealt with? lel>>194409what state are you talking about? We have a gay area in my city and my lesbian cousin is doing fine. So is my gay cousin.
>>197415>>197777>black people are ironically quite racistBlack people have hate for whites. But it's not racism. There is good reason to hate this system and those who maintain it if you are black.Our people's persecution was and still is the direct result of a belief (that has always existed) that we are inferior to whites and as such, it's fine to use/treat blacks like animals toward whatever ends you embark on.Take a little time between enjoying yourself and get educated on the true past.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greenwood,_Tulsa,_Oklahoma#.22The_Black_Wall_Street.22http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_York_Draft_RiotWhite Racism goes deeper than just hate. It's a system of financial, pyschological and physical assault to make sure black people remain "less", in keeping their long held beliefs.
Oh god, a nigger thread.
>>198583America, where everything is everyone else's fault.
>>198583 >whitey is keeping me downyou're not a hoodrat are you?
>>198583Niggers like you actually make me beyond furious. Get that fucking chip off your shoulder you entitled bitch, If you people stopped acting like goddamn animals, people would stop treating you like that.
>>198583If you hate someone based on their race, then you're a racist. It doesn't matter what color you are or what color they are, and it makes me sad because it reduces the likelihood of debauched interracial orgies.
>>198583And potato to you too, Tumblr. I hope this evening finds you well.
>>198583I call shenanigans! I'm black and neither me or my family have been oppressed. Granted my grandmother was adopted by white people and my father is more Irish than anything, but my life is pretty sweet. I am well on my way to medical school as well. I'm shooting for neurosurgeon. If you don't act like animals people won't treat you like animals. You are like those people who pretend that they are a victim, because they need to blame someone for their failures. But, then again, my parents are rich. So, I can't really be oppressed. Lel!
>>198620> Ben Garrison's signatureYou people are going to do anything to destroy him and it is comedy gold
>>198583Circumstance is not a racial thing unless you make it one. There are tons of white people that blame them dirty shitskins getting free mansions from Obama (I really wish that were a euphemism), it sounds just as lame coming from them.
>>198619>>198620>>198647>>198650>>198673I'm hearing a lot of anger, but not a lot of rebuttal.>>198741by that token (no pun intended) i suppose since Fredrick Douglas married a white woman in 1884 (his 2nd marriage), then that means blacks during that time weren't being lynched, raped, and treated like shit.I'm glad you brought up the 'civilized' argument though. That was actually a big part of the reasoning white women touted as to why they should be given the right to suffrage. They saw themselves as being the ones capable and responsible for (given their purity and wisdom) the civilizing the "lesser" races, i.e. non-whites.
>>198897>Circumstancei like that word. Sort of like, Luck of the Draw, right?
>>199046You seem pressed. Why is that? I was just telling about my family and how you should be treated like you act.
>>199165I acknowledge your stance, i just find it lacking.Just because the shackles are harder to see, doesn't mean they don't exist.You don't spend that much time, gathering a litter of dogs, breeding them and disciplining them just to let it off the leash. = If i were to borrow their thoughts on the situation. Believe it or not, i'm with you, our people shouldn't just sit and wait to be given something. That's not what i'm getting at.
>>199319 but niggers are the only ones who're keeping themselves down, they don't want to change, they just want to wallow in their own filth & trashall the regular smart blacks figured it out a long time ago & want nothing to do with thembut go ahead & keep blaming whitey for all your problems
>>199369so it's your position that informing black people just how persistent and systematic the actions against blacks have been and are still is... a bad thing to be aware of?Interesting.I feel like that was the main thing missing from Cosby's speech. It's not enough to say 'try hard', 'do better.' It's sort of like trying to untie a knot, first you have to understand where to start and how, if you just start tugging at strands haphazardly, u have a small chance to undo it, but more often than not you'll just make it worse.Now imagine it's a sentient knot with over 400 years experience thwarting those who seek to untie it. And add to that the fact if you start get half way done the knot will alter itself to counter your efforts.http://beyondboundariessite.com/2011/06/hard-work-or-hardly-working-how-white-people-got-so-rich/it's a long read but well worth it. But i do agree with you, it's not enough to just talk about it. Action is also required. I just think awareness is important too.
>>197350This. I dislike the idea that assumes to be gay you have to be white and rich or leave blacks and poor or something.I think there are alternative gay cultures in the past, which is not shown in the mainstream media
>>201132it's something like a chain of false dichotomies that can be employed when you want to push an agenda and divide a people or group. Once you set up the argument properly in the media and the lines are drawn, the majority of your targets will divide themselves accordingly (if you did your job right). So you end up with a people splitting into two new groups by choice, in this way you can divide them without having to physically act against them. The more contentious the subject the more anger and resentment can be fostered. The larger the target audience or the lower their collective critical thinking skills, the more effective this is. (yay for poor nutrition/exposure at public school and at home!)Once effectively implemented you can have them fighting each other over issues you deem important and reduces the chance they will band together in pursuits that would reduce your influence.It's sort of the "Lesser of Two Evil's" myth in practice. There are always more than two choices. I suppose it's human nature to tend to coast on the path of least resistance though, Maybe that's why this tactic is so effective.
I'm Bi, friends don't give a single fuck. Parents don't know.
>>192977 (OP)It's a nightmare.
Halfling here.Most black men and women who were raised "Christian" hate faggotry with a vengeance. The men are slightly more accepting of lesbians. The same cannot be said of women and gays, I daresay they hate the gay men more. Only one of my black family members (not including my mom) knows I'm teh faggots. The rest of them discuss "fun" things like putting a bullet in a faggot or chopping genitals off.tl;dr this is why I will probably only date white and aznsAnd for point of reference, this is based off of data from living in Baltimore, Buffalo, New York City and Atlanta.
>>202296In all seriousness though I'm quite ashamed to be black most of the time. MY race does nothing but make fools of themselves and do things that are just beyond stupid. >>194409Black, Bi, and live in Texas. guess I'm just lucky =/>>197415>> don't date outside their race.Your trolling right?most of the black people I know avoid black girls like the plague cause "They are crazy" and the black girls i know want white guys. maybe I just know oddball people. >>198583Please stop
I assume that everyone knows, I don't act especially flamboyant yet I dont propetuate any kind of masculinity. My ambitiousness astounds everyone and I find it hilarious that no one can just ask me. I wouldn't lie or anything but I get a chuckle every time someone asks my opinion on a girl and I redirect the conversation to something mildly relevant yet still considerable to an answer.I especially hate when my gayday is flaring and the faggot in front of me is talking about getting pussy while the straight guys are laughing in his face..
I've only told 1 friend and he was cool with it.Havent told my parents im Bi, but I dont think it would fly too well with my mom considering how hard she tried to stamp out "gay" behavior from me when I was growing up.Oh and my current bf is white but it doesnt really matter to me
Gay blacky here. Ill answer your questions.1. I don't treat my sexuality as something that needs to be dealt with. Being gay is a small part of who I am.2. A few people have in high-school for very arbitrary reasons, didn't talk about my sex life, my voice is a bit high, didn't have a girlfriend etcetera. Im out to anyone who asks however. Being closeted sucks.3. A few of them are yes. They are all deeply involved in the drug game and have been in and out of jail and are generally just very toxic. So I refuse to associate with them.My first boyfriend was white, but I really want to date a qt3.14 dark skinned LatinoSwoon~
>black people on 4chanwhy does this surprise me
>>202508i remember feeling ashamed of those types in our culture too. But i have a new understanding of it, it still is unfortunate but i understand the genesis of the behavior a bit more.Don't worry, in time i'm sure a greater understanding my find you in time.But yah you are right on about some blacks avoiding blacks. I know i ran from black females for the longest time. But i'm done running. If i won't stand up for my own people, who will?
>>202508HARLEM HELLFIGHTERS. No people make fools out of themselves. You have your great feats and your great defeats.People do stupid shit. Races dont.
>>202667Poor Dumb People are too blame. And the Irish
>>192985... actually... I think I would have to argue that the perception of there being a difference in the way humans experience life is the very crux of racism.Gay blacks are just like gay whites are just like straight black are just like straight whites are just like asians or europeans or ...Terrestrials.E. Homo Sapiens.
>>193171I think most blacks are actually rather ugly. There's something about the shape and proportion of the face that just seems repulsive.Southeast asians, too.I don't know any out blacks, either.
>>202663>>Don't worry, in time i'm sure a greater understanding may find you in timeThank, I sure hope it does. When shows like "All My Babies' Mamas" are created(got canceled thank goodness) it makes me want to cry>>202667I didnt know about them, very great people. I know there are lots of good people in the black community.>>People do stupid shit. Races dont.BUT it honestly seems like this race has people that are more likely to do stupid shit. I hope that it's just cause smart blacks blend in more then the hoodrats
>>194163I'm not sure that humans are capable of acknowledging differences without attributing any kind of value to it.evidence: history.Paleolithic emotions, medieval institutions, godlike technology.
>>202698to a certain extent. But i'm also starting to think the whole 'we are all the same' idea may be a bit flawed too. We are all homo sapiens. But black white asian arab russian et al do have differences - different susceptibility to diseases and genetic defects. I just believe that those differences don't raise or lower that person's intrinsic value. Like saying, 'Oh i'm better at driving.' Well that makes me a better driver, not a better person, and so on and so forth.Is this a radical idea or is it just me?
A question: not trying to be racist, but why is it that blacks in general seem so much more hostile to gays than whites are?
>>202768god plz don't let this be. Jersey shore is bad enough.
>>194304I tend to hand wave at bitches who bitch about their lives -- not because they "have it easier for (x) reason" but because I want them to shut the cunting fuck up.All god's chilluns got problems, and YOURS are nothing special and nothing I want to hear about.
>>197350>what it means to be a black man... it doesn't mean anything, though...
>>202794well according to my limited research. Whites in general had more reason and practice with homosexuality itself, it was preached as virtuous in Greece, the 'Center of Knowledge and Philosophy' In Europe. to say nothing of the Mentoring and gymnasiums that went on there...Maybe it wasn't embraced like that in our culture, at not until we got you guys as roommates. ;_;speakin of which - WhY u white bois always gotta be doing borderline gay shit when a nigga pass out over yo house huh?
