fuck off scum

I don't care. Take it to /a/ or /b/.

Understand what? If you want to change your life don't post about it on an imageboard, just fucking do it. Do you need someone to hold your hand or talk you down from changing?

No we don't, but glad you have the motivation to change in to what you want to, but don't go bothering us about it.

see you again next week

I don't understand all of that. But if you want that, then go after it then.

I understand that you want attention. Maybe you'll get it if you post your dick on /soc/ with the rest of the trash.

How the fuck does having a job relate to being attracted to 3D or being able to talk to people. You seem to think that NEET and normalfag are polar opposites on some sort of normality continuum, when that isn't the case.

>>7505058
This.
>>7505060
And this.

It's really nice that you want to change, but you have to respect those who don't.

>>7505062
I just decided to see what on earth was on there. There's a trap thread.
>>>/soc/5231237

>>7505074
Not as if it matters what type of person you are as long as you don't... Don't ask don't tell.

No one's stopping you but yourself.

I am a neet, but i am not a hikkomori

>>7505116
It comes as a package. Stop lying to yourself.

>>7505125
Package? Are you telling me that if you're NEET you're also hikikomori? If so, that's not the case and I'm proof of that. I enjoy a slow-paced life mostly by myself, going outside to enjoy the sights and the food.

No you don't, reality isn't a cakewalk.
Seeing all your hard work go down the drain is not fun, getting back up isn't easy.
There is only disappointment and misery waiting for you.
Enjoy your fantasy for as long as it lasts.
You can have a few of those things you mentioned and still be able to live as a NEET, but the more you have the harder it'll be to go back when things get rough,
But go ahead, this is one of those things you have to experience for yourself before you can believe it.

>>7505125
No it doesn't. A NEET can go around and have fun with his friends while still having no job and leeching off his parents.

On the other hand, a hikki can also be a prolific writer or artist, he could be managing his business without ever leaving his home or seeing other people. Think of Sean Connery in Finding Forrester.

Good luck OP.

I've been trying for 5 years.

>>7505054
If you don't have any old friends from highschool or uni.
then second best way to find new friends is trough a job or try some sport

No, you don't.
You want to support yourself financially, but you don't want the soul-crushing workload that's required of you to support yourself.
You want to have someone to talk to, but you don't want the constant social obligations that you'll never be free from.
You want to feel the warmth of a woman, but you don't want to spend the ridiculous amount of time required to maintain a relationship, which still wouldn't negate the risks of it all going down the drain when she decides to cheat on you.

>>7505076

>but you have to respect those who don't.

>respect parasites who don't work

>respect people who are so shortsighted that they can't see where their path will place them when they're 50, or how getting on their own two feet will only become more difficult with age

Respect is a privilege, not a right. It has to be earned.

A willing bum who leeches off of their parents isn't anymore worthy of respect than a willing bum who leeches off of the welfare system. The former just has access to nicer things.

That "be nice and tip-toe around offending anybody" crap that some people stand by isn't really respect, either.

If you really want it, go make it happen. Otherwise you're full of shit. /jp/ isn't your personal help group, go post this on a support forum.

I just want a job I'd enjoy.

>>7505202
Nobody cares. If you want to be normal, go be normal somewhere else. Reported.

It's cool but you see this is really a summation of YOU, OP. You are a fucking quitter. How can you succeed anywhere in life if you couldn't even stick to being a NEET? The easiest thing to be. BAWWW IT'S TOO HARD. Well suck it up faggot. You think we all like playing Touhous and Erotic Visual Novels all day? You think we like debating whether a fictional character enjoys rice or fish? Yes we do but we don't give up when things get hard. So I don't want to see you go. I want to see you in /jp/ fucking sageing and reporting like you own the damn place because that's how winning is done.

>>7505238
This guy's got the right idea.

>Guys, I don't want to be NEET anymore.
>I want to be able to support myself financially.

Just get a job and don't spend more than you earn, pretty simple.

>I want to be able to like and talk to people.
>I want to be sexually attracted to 3D

These will never happen, you missed the part of your life where you develop social skills. If you pursue these, you will be miserable.

>>7505257
It's never too late to develop your social skills. It may be too late for attraction to 3d though.

>>>/adv/
>>>/soc/

>>7505054
Get rid of your trust issues. Also, you don't need to stop posting on /jp/.

>>7505226

>wants respect simply for existing

Nope.

You know that judgmental air that people direct towards you when they catch wind of what you do with your life? You deserve it.

That trashy redneck with poor hygiene that works at the McDonalds across the street with no plans to ever attend college and spends all of his money on drugs is more respectable than you are and contributes more to society than you do.

When you're a 60 year old with no income and no job experience, you'll fully deserve your status as a dirty homeless person who has to steal shit to survive.

>>7505269
Whoa, sounds like someone is a little too American for this world!

Stop replying, retards.

>>7505277
Or else what?

>>7505238
I still love you sometimes /jp/

>>7505269
>more respectable

Only according to other people. If you are unaffected by praise (depressed people tend to be like this), this matters not.

A better path is to respect yourself regardless of whether other people do. Then you can do whatever you like.

>>7505292
I am affected by praise.

But not by the praise of normalfags. That's why I'm trying to learn to draw and make music so I can get respect from the people I want.

>>7505292

And what exactly about you is worthy of self-respect?

You're a parasite who's sole accomplishment is being a drain on his parent's finances. You have an unearned and undeserved sense of entitlement. Your lifestyle will inevitably lead you to a time where you're no longer able to enjoy your hobbies to their fullest due to poverty. You've let your fears and procrastination conquer you. You've contributed nothing to society except hardship on the parents that raised you.

There are few on the face of this Earth less deserving of respect than you.

A truly better path is to become a person who's at least a little responsible and who's path is self-sustainable. If you're just a working man who's standing on his own two feet and using the money that he's earned through his work to live the life that he wants, nobody can really criticize you for what you've chosen to be.

>>7505321
In the first place, it sounds much better to be praised for creative efforts, than it sounds to be praised for meeting the minimum standards for not being considered a leech on society.

>Oh great, you managed to get a McJob, at very least that makes you better than those people who live on welfare. Good job, man, I'm proud of you

>>7505353
>How in the world can you respect yourself if others don't respect you?
This is what your post boils down to.

>>7505358

>"Hey son, don't you think you that its time for you to get a job? Finances are tight, and I really want to see you become self-sufficient and do well in life. I don't want to throw you out on your face, but..."

>"Fuck you, dad, I'm drawing anime. Go tell mom to hurry up on dinner."

>"Hey, nice picture!"

>"Thanks! Now that's some worthy praise."

Alternatively:

>"Christ, I'm getting tired of my money going towards supporting lazy faggots like this guy. Couldn't that money go towards teacher's paychecks or something instead?"

>"Haha, look at you faggots over there working while I leech off of your income. But its okay, I draw anime for the internet."

ITT

>>7505366

What exactly is it that you find respectable about yourself?

The fact that you're "content"?

You do realize that you're total dumbass who's walking a long road to ruin, right? Ma and pa can't support your forever. Unless you an hero, you'll likely outlive them. And you'll probably be going into your old age at that point, too. Your continued happiness is also completely dependent on their goodwill. You could be stuck with your current PC a decade from now, and if you ever have the urge to do anything, you'll always to ask permission from them first.

You also appear to be a complete self-centered douchebag who doesn't care about the hardships of his parents.

>>7505399
I respect myself because penis.

You don't deserve respect because penis.

>>7505611

Too bad he's right. Society holds pretty much all of you in the highest contempt. Self-esteem and respect are bad things if these attitudes are not shown towards you by others. What matters the most is pleasing society first - it has made everything possible for you up until now, the least you can do is give everything for it.

>>7505733
>Society holds pretty much all of you in the highest contempt.

Oh noes

>>7505733
Let us partake in the game of dicks.

>>7505734

Actually yes, 'oh noes', as society might not feel obligated to look after parasites when times get rough for them.

You want to continue living? Contribute back, and take as little from society from then on as you can, while contributing as much as possible.

ITT: People who don't know how to take it easy

>>7505733
>Self-esteem [...] are bad things if these attitudes are not shown towards you by others.
>self-esteem
>by others

You should know already that real life is one big NTR eroge.

>>7505735
Set the stage and lay the tissues.
My anus can't await the froth!
A manful battle of the pricks
Shall be staged devoid of cloth.

May the best man win this slaughter.
And without a doubt, victory's infuse
Will bear a sweet and lovely daughter
Out the ass of those who lose.

Now, start the dance!
Swing your lance!
Take a chance!
Advance, advance, advance!

And tear
And bite
And rip
And smash
Blood running down your thighs.
And only then 'tween corpse of men
You see through my disguise.

>>7505733
Modern day society is shit.
Women are sluts and bitches and are even more self entitled than /jp/, yet no one looks down on them for being that way.
People can get away with anything if they have money or looks, and no one gives a shit.
Why should I have to care about this society.

>>7505738
Nobody chose for society to do any of this. Destroying who you are to take part in a cruel shitstorm where people kick each others teeth in to get ahead, destroy friendships for money etc is an abomination. Even more simply, fuck dealing with the uncaring, egotistical people out there. I always think of the scene from Steppenwolf with the university lecturer when it comes to having to deal with people.

I would rather abuse and manipulate it or totally reject it as much as I can and scrape by surviving as best I can.

Also consider how manipulative things such as culture and patriotism are.

>You want to continue living?

Sure!

>Contribute back

Ah, I see, well, the thing is, you know...

>and take as little from society from then on as you can, while contributing as much as possible.

Wait, what? No deal.

>>7505760

You mean women finally begin to approach a level outside of 'utter chattel' and you, in your absolutely overprivileged position as a (most likely white) male shit yourself realizing that your undeserved and unwarranted power might be facing just the slightest threat? Jesus Christ, grow the fuck up. No wonder women hate you: you're a piece of shit who merely wants a woman as an object for your sexual gratification. Good thing your diseased mind dies with you.

>>7505764

Wow congrats for getting some easy cynicism and trying to pass it off as insight. Something you lack. You're a pathetic coward who seems more afraid of being hurt by even the slightest social obligation than anything else, so you automatically grab onto the very worst incidents and essentialize from them. You are a social and intellectual coward with nothing to offer. Grow up.

I started working full time yesterday, after two months of living a pretty much hikki lifestyle.
Feels bad man. Spending 9 hours a day in an office and having to interact inane smalltalk with normals all day is awful.

>>7505784
You offer nothing but ad hominem. I may be cynical but that doesn't mean I am incorrect. Society is horrible and people can be fucking awful to deal with. Are you saying it isn't and the world is filled with people that are a joy to deal with?

>>7505792
Yeah yeah yeah, they made a sitcom about that exact experience. Just muscle your way through it.

>>7505803

Society has some good people, a very small number of bad people, and mostly a bunch of people who just want to get through their lives and accept that they owe everything to society, and thus seek to contribute to it in some fashion. I never said society was absolutely perfect (but ti's certainly better than isolation and parasitism) but if you want to get better, you have to get into it: you cannot hope to change society from without. Don't want to change society? Don't complain about it. You lose that privilege.