Anyone?

>If I was born in such an environment I would have told my parents to choke on a dick and leave for a foster home

No, you would not.

But let's not waste time on discussing this. What kind of "bullshit" do they poor on your poor poor girlfriend.

Its because you are white.

Family values in white society ceased to exist in the 70s.
Whites are indivdualistic people, they dislike taking orders from anyone.

Every other race deeply values the family unit.

Im a chink, and my parents are very strict, but i 'put up' with it, because they gave birth to me and raised me well, and i should respect their wishes.
They dont mind me banging other races though.

>>3379478
Except I would, I have no love for someone who treats me with such disrespect even if they are the very reason I am alive.

And
Unrealistically high standards.

Physical and mental abuse where she never defends herself.

She come to me crying over her parents hitting her and calling her a failure and telling her how worthless she is.

She has no Self-esteem because of them.

Shit like this is pretty common amongst lots of Asian families too

>dating an Asian girl


get out weeaboo trash belongs in /jp/

>>3379481
>Family values in white society ceased to exist in the 70s.
For lower and lower middle-class whites: true.
The upper 20%: Nope - they've remained very stable on most indicators. Good damn hippies ruined everything for the poor:

http://www.c-spanarchives.org/program/WhiteAm&showFullAbstract=1

>>3379481
My girlfriends parents don't mind that I am white so I am kinda happy about that.

I still don't like them because of all the pressure they put on her in terms of education and the abuse they give her I stated previously.

Enjoy banging women/dudes of whatever race you want though.

>>3379495

You're failing to realize that this mindset of yours is a result of your upbringing and the culture you lived in for the first years of your life.

There is no question that your opinion of this events would be drastically different had you grown up in a likewise drastically different environment. To deny that is to fail at self-analysis.

>>3379481

That's why we run the world.

>>3379509
It's never right to insult or hurt anyone ever, regardless of culture.

This form of parenting is cruel and can emotionally cripple a person.

>>3379516

Yeah, and its why your grip is loosening more and more everyday.

White people actually promote homosexuality, what kind of fucked up shit is that and getting married and having kids is looked down upon.
Enjoy being an endangered species.

>>3379529
I thought "homophobia" was basically a white christian invention and was mostly accepted in non-european societies (inc. east asia) who only overtook it from european culture.

>>3379529
Should we care the continuation of the white race?

Not really, it doesn't matter.

Who cares about anything other than being happy, and having kids makes people miserable usually.

Us going extinct while being happy is probably better than living on with insane pressure from society giving us an insane suicide rate like Asia.

>>3379449
because asian parents, while they might be strict and misguided are fairly reliable providers, and create a stable home.

unlike white folks who will come home drunk and beat your ass, then when you turn 18 kick you out because their job's "finished"

>>3379522
>Implying this is true

Welcome to the history of parenting til the 1970's you fucking fag

Woah here, you can't say shit like this without giving specifics? HOW are her parents vicious monsters? Come on lol, this is a troll topic.

>>3379560
See
>>3379495

>>3379543
Historically it's acceptable in East Asia as long as you do your actual family duty as well.

>>3379559
It was a dated concept, that form of parenting.

Like slavery

>>3379572
So get married, fuck once and have a child, cheat with men?

>>3379578
In east-asia cheating didn't matter that much as long as you had children with your wife.

That's my understanding at least.

>>3379495
>>3379566
Okay I see.

That does not characterize average asian parenting...

Yeah they can be strict, they hold you to a high standard, but that's retarded, what you described there.

She just has abusive parents, independent of being asian or not.

>>3379529
>White people actually promote homosexuality, what kind of fucked up shit is that and getting married and having kids is looked down upon.
>Enjoy being an endangered species.
It's the result of being developed. Look at Japan and South Korea.

>>3379516
>baww jevvs run the world
>fuck yeah white people run the world

make your mind up /int/

Because they actually care about their daughter, its a shit world out there and its only gonna get worse. They're training her to deal with the world so that she will have the capabilities do whatever she wants.

>>3379543
>was mostly accepted in non-european societies (inc. east asia) who only overtook it from european culture.
lol what? Asian countries hate gay people with a burning passion.

I'm not an Asian-American OP but I will answer your question. Short answer is that Asian-American children are raised in Confucius values of honoring their parents. Even if there is a natural conflict of living with Asian-American parents and being socialized as an American, they have to put up with it.

>>3379449
>If I was born in such an environment I would have told my parents to choke on a dick and leave for a foster home

...or at least wait until they're financially independent to to say "choke on a dick"

enjoy being reliant on welfare cheques, OP.

if my parents didn't beat me, I wouldn't be doing my 5th year of medical school today. I'd probably be slaving away at mcdonald's, with an alcohol abuse addiction, just like a lot of the other guys that I grew up with in middle school.

Asian parents cherish their children more than any other parents in the world.

Ask the dry cleaner owner who works 100 hours per week and spends 70% of what she earns sending her children to college.

>My culture is correct
>Their culture is incorrect

You desperately need to travel, go on /trv/ and ask for some advice.

>>3379851
You don't need flawless perfect grades forever to get into medical school.

Even with bad grades you can go to a community college and transfer to a 4 year, etc.

You can just chill for the most of school until college/uni.

>>3379851
No stable person I grew up with was ever beaten or ridiculed for individual let-downs, it's in fact the very opposite. It's just motivation and having some spine.

I am half white half asian and i am willing to admit that i do both the choke on a dick way and the put up with asian bullshit way. Depends on my mood.

>>3379915
Wrong. In asian culture the children take care of the parents later on so they push their kids to do well and become as successful as possible to secure their own retirement and future.

Srsly.

>>3379990
Maybe if they grow up on a farm

> If I was born in such an environment I would have told my parents to choke on a dick and leave for a foster home

If you were born in that environment, you would be a totally different person, and it's impossible to know how you'd handle it, you stupid american cunt!

>Be a Korean
>Spend all the best times of life studying
>"Just suck it up until you be a College student"
>Manage to survive 6 years of STUDY STUDY STUDY
>Get into college
>Still need to study fucking hard, no joy in life
>Dunno what the fuck to do even when I have free time since I NEVER GOT TIME TO BE FREE

Such is life of a Korean. You live, you lose. You kill yourself, well... You lose.

>>3380085
Yeah that's why a lot of Koreans flee to America, not because of economic hardship, or bad conditions, but to get away from that horrible crushing culture.

>>3380093
>Hard work, diligence, and education is bad

>Partying hard, skipping school, and being poor for the rest of your life is good

This is why so much of white America fails hard, and why Asians are so prevalent at our best universities.

>If I was born in such an environment I would have told my parents to choke on a dick and leave for a foster home

protip: no you wouldn't, cunt

Concepts like human dignity, privacy, and personal privileges are foreign to most Asian cultures.

They work like drones, but never get the rewards, and they rationalize it with "culture".

>>3380115
You don't get the point. Studying hard at university is good, because that's real deal.

But everyone having to study fucking hard just to *enter* good university is INSANE.

In my high school days, I had to stay at damn school from 08:00 to 22:00. Hardly had any time to do anything.

>>3379481
This.

Asian people take education and work seriously.
We don't.

Blame it on the Confucian culture. That kind of mentality did irreparable damage to the Asian psyche, similar to what multiculturalism is doing to the West.

>>3379481
>very other race deeply values the family unit

That's bullshit. Just because you experience it personally doesn't mean it applies to every minority, nor does it mean it does not apply to white Americans. However, it's endearing in a way that you think that minorities are more special and are under the impression that minorities think family comes first.

>>3379529
It will happen to Asians and every other group too. All remaining forms of traditionalism basically constitute one last hurrah before the entire world surrenders to modernism as smartphones with gigabytes of porn proliferate throughout every land.

>this entire thread

I'm asian and this thread reeks of shamefur dispray.

>>3380328
Every minority in America with the exception of blacks values family more then white people.
It's just a plainly obvious fact if you've ever spent any time around these people.

>>3380493

Now that I think of it, even my fucking mexican friend have family values.

Which is a good thing.

Why do they "take it?" Because they can. You probably can too but you've just been so spoiled you've become weak.

The Asian parent is right in believing in their child's strength and not assuming weakness that any scolding will make them break and buckle.

The fact is, you don't know WHY your GF takes it but she does and can. Many Asians can. And they bear no resentment to their parents later on despite how much you'd hate your parents for things like not buying you a PS3 or whatever.

>>3380493
The black family problems have occured within the past generation