>>435018013 (OP)
pic of your ex gf so I can fap to a mental image of her cheating on you in the crappy bathroom of a NYC bar......please.

You have done the right thing, op.
Do not feel any regret.

>>435018013 (OP)
maybe just a little harsh. then again, if it was that easy at the bar, hey. 4 years is a long time

Fuck that. OP you're better than that.

She would have been your fuck slave for the rest of your life, that was her way of offering it to you. You weren't man enough to use her properly.

i am an ESTP

but all my feels right here, im so sorry you leant that women are the devil the hard way OP. now go back to being single and whoring around, having a different gf every weekend.

OP you win ignore the white nights. Bitch got what she deserved. OP is not a faggot.

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>mfw I bent a girl over a stall in NYC
She was about 25
She gave damn good head, but I'm sure you already know that OP
Go cry someplace where someone gives half a shit, you beta bitch.

>>435018447
only part I found somewhat harsh was the keys getting thrown into the woods

>>435018773
fail troll is fail. OP isn't beta, kill yourself.

alright bumping with my story until OP delivers ex gf pics.

>insanely hot blonde rents apartment next to mine
>doesn't have a boyfriend but lots of male friends
>we like each other, become friends after 3 days, she hangs out in my place, we watch tv together
>3 weeks in she ask if I can lend her $500 to pay the rent, she was fired ''I'll pay you as soon as I get another job''
>don't worry about it
>next week she comes and says she doesn't have the money, ''can I borrow another $200? I'll swear I'll pay next week, I already found a job''
>I don't know, that's $700 in total
>''I'll tell you what, if I don't pay you next friday, I'l give you blowjobs for a month everytime you ask''
>take all my money and credit cards please
>bitch moves out of her apartment next day while I'm at work, never hear anything from her again
>facepalm.jpg

fucking whore, I was gonna buy a guitar with that money

>>435018013 (OP)
Good work.
The bitch deserves worse, as does anybody who cheats.

>>435018013 (OP)
Fucking GG.
Well played afterwards OP.

>>435018876
>Defending cry-baby OP
Where am I

>>435018652

ha yeah shit will buff. This was a year ago and im fuckin over it. How lucky was I that I didnt marry her and THEN have that happen??

>>435018773

youve never bent anyone over fagnuts go put your chode in that slimy pocket pussy under your bed and pretend its your cousin like you do every night at 4 am

>>435019239
No, really, kill yourself.

>>435018652
ISTP here, how do you manage to be STP but also an extrovert? I just can't see it

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>>435019283
>youve never bent anyone over fagnuts go put your chode in that slimy pocket pussy under your bed and pretend its your cousin like you do every night at 4 am

I know that feel op
I have a similar situation
>met nice girl through mutual friends
>she hits on me, I take advantage, I start to like her
>find out she's going through a messy divorce, she moved out and was living in small apartment
>2 months into our relationship, I offer to rent a nice house with her (I make 6k a month and she makes about 3.2k a month)
>we rent a nice house on 2 acres, I pay majority of bills so she can cover her lawyer fees
>I get introduced to parents, I introduce her to mine, I fall really hard for her.
>1 year in I buy an engagement ring
>she gets pregnant with my child
>miscarriage at 10 weeks, she goes all distant
>about 2 months of the distance and I start feeling wierd. Eventually I get distant right back
>she breaks up with me for some low ranking army enlisted soldier
>sad for about a month, depressed, couldn't concentrate. But now I'm back to normal I guess

>Fucked up things that have happened to you.

>Be me
>Switching on my computer
>Everything is ok
>Want to put usb in
>Wrong Side
>Flip it
>Won't enter
>Flip it
>Won't enter
>Flip it
>It's in
>Fuck my life

>>435018013 (OP)
op, please post pics of her
i need to know how she looks like
i like to think i can identify potential whores by just looking at them
anyway she's a horrible person, you lose nothing posting her, and she deserves any potential shitstorm she may get

my fucking god am I the only one with the shittiest luck in this thread?

here's another one:

>pick up hot chick at a work party
>can't believe my luck because I suck at speaking to women
>we fool around, go to my house and have sexy time with her
>we're both drunk, finish sexy time and she falls asleep
>while I'm trying to sleep she let's the loudest, most violent fart I've ever heard, she doesn't even move, she's super drunk
>''my god this is disgusting, I can't sleep next to her after this, maybe I should wake her up and send her home''
>she let's out this little baby fart
>''nah, grow up man, women fart too, you're lucky you got pussy today, no time to be picky about it'' proceed to sleep
>next morning I wake up, she's gone and my bed and sheets are covered with shit, not any kind of shit but beer shit, disgusting, smelly, liquid, brown beer shit.
>goddammitcocksuckermotherfuckersonofabitch.jpg
>arrive to work, she doesn't even say hello, haven't spoke a word with her since then
>never said anything to anyone because I fear she might kill herself if her work friends know she shat on my bed

is that worthy of your exes pics OP?

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bravo OP

>>435018475
Brilliant. I would have got the bitch checked for STDs, and then rode her for eveh!

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>>435019727
Hottest picture I could find of her

>>Third from left

prolly got fucked pterodactyl style with all these dudes right after the picture was taken

>>435019974

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

>>435019974
LOL god damn /b/ro thats some shitty luck hahaha

>>435018475
>implying cheaters stop cheating
Good luck in life! You'll need it.

>>435018013 (OP)
you're a champ OP, good going dude, you'll definitely do better

>>435019974
Oh that kind of bitch, get a mask, cut thee 2x2" squares our of it, and leave one with her name in the lunch fridge. 'Care to clean my shaft?'

>>435020158
you mean the short-haired blonde? or thhe sexy brunette to her left?

>>435018013 (OP)
Your closing line was pretty classy. Not your usual jaded asshole "All women are whores and bitches" stuff you get on here. Just acknowledging that of the pool of good ones, you got a shitty one. How does it feel up there on the high road? Must be pretty lonely.

>>435020405

thhe sexy brunette on the left. I meant third total person from the left

>>435018013 (OP)
I know this feel, OP. Fucking women, they're all the same, all sluts deep down.

>>435020551
wow, i bet she got a good dicking that night. My 18 year old gf cheated on me with a 40 year old cop, so i know the feeling.

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>>Eating Strawberry crunch ice cream bar
>>realize I ate it all
>>bitch left me without warning
>>whore got reproduced
>>throw her keys in the city
>>never went back to this day

Does she want you back?
Thats the best revenge when they can't get over you.

>>435018894
Do you have brain damage?

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>>435020158
sorry OP but she has the feared whore look on her face, not the kind of whore that makes your sexual fantasies come true, I mean the kind of whore who has drunken, sloppy sex with a random dude on a NYC bar.

>>435020983
I don't think so, why?

>>435018013 (OP)

For next week.

Just curious, did you speak to her afterwards ?

also, what did she say in those messages ?

>>435019372

I dont know, and don't care. at the end of the day im fucking awesome.

>>435018013 (OP)
Okay. I've never really told anybody about this, but I think it will be good to let it out.
>Be me, 18.
>Mad at the world for no reason
>Go to the local basketball courts
>met this group of guys who were just as pissed off about the world as I was
>started hanging out with these guys more and more
>blow off school and family for new friends
>start getting into drugs. Weed at first. Then cocaine.
>became known all around for fucking with people
>fight anybody who comes close to us
There was one kid that changed my life though.
I'll never forget.
>kid shows up acting like hes hot shit.
>kid isn't very big and must be new to the area
>we know hes an easy target so we wait until we get him by himself
>stupid kid chases a basketball over into our area
>surround the kid
>commence fucking with him
>start to beat him up but he seems to think its funny
>push him around hard for a couple of minutes
>i was trying to be cool. kept my hands in my pockets.
>saw his smug grin. Knew i had to ruin him.
>pulled my hands out of my pockets
>picked the kid up and spun him around
>friends started freaking out
>kid starts begging and pleading for me to stop
> MFW i will never forget those cries

Last I heard the kids mother made him move in with his auntie and uncle in Bel Air.

>>435018013 (OP)

>spend 4 years with a girl
>dump her over the fact that she fucked some dude while wasted
>didn't even try to lie to you about it

The fuck is wrong with you? You're ready to spend your life with her and then one mistake later she's a bitch? Get the fuck over it, you fickle cunt. Not only that, you passed up the opportunity to fuck another chick while you had a fiance and have her be totally cool with it. Hell, you probably could have convinced her to have a two-girl threesome.

You really dropped the ball on this one, OP.

>>435019491

That is the most fucked up story I've ever read.

>>435021514
Ha, creative, nice. A spin on it I haven't seen yet. That was a Shyamalanian twist, which means I sort of saw it coming and it was underwhelming. 6/10

>>435019974
You sound like a little punk.

>>435018013 (OP)

Fantastic. You did well.

Women really can't be trusted. Especially the ones that seem like they would never break your trust.

>>435019974
Oh wow, that's awkward.
Her never speaking to you again is entirely deep seeded humiliation.
Maybe you should talk to her about it one day and let her know you aren't mad.

none of you faggots are posting your shitty luck stories...

ok, here's the last one because I'm trying to cheer up OP:

>In my house, browsing random shit
>start reading a news article about a bunch of pedophiles that got busted in south america
>rent lady knocks on the door ''anon I'm here for the rent''
>''oh yeah just a sec lemme get the money Mrs.Rentlady''
>open the door, pay her and start chitchatting with her
>she looks at my screen and sees a non pedo photo on the screen (the kind of pic news articles use)
>''OMG YOU SICK BASTARD!''
>wait let me explain
>calls the cops
>explain to the cops I'm not a sex offender, I was just reading the news
>cops seize my laptop, ipad, phone, fuckin remote control to search for sweet CP
>find nothing, give me my stuff back, ''sorry anon''
>rent lady tells the whole building I'm a pedophile
>have to move out of that building because people are being jerks with me, even after I explain the situation

I swear, Ben Stiller could make a 3 hour film out of my life.

well that's all, gotta get some sleep. fuck you fags and OP...stay strong. Respect.

Wow op, that was a near miss. Lucky she told you, otherwise you'd be married to her and she'd be banging other dudes in bars on Saturday nights.

>>435018013 (OP)
You are awesome

>>435020158
should post her nudes and relieve a little of that hatred.

>>435018894

You're an idiot. You walked right into that.

>>435018013 (OP)
Dude, my heart dropped when i read that. sorry /b/ro so so so so sorry

>>435021593
May I fuck your gf after you've been for 4 years with her? You can keep her after the one night stand, of course. You cool with that? Great, thank you, anon! Have a nice marriage!

Op is not a glorious winged faggot.

You did the right thing. Now, go and fuck her one last time. When you're about to blow, do it in your hand and wipe it all over her face.

>>435020950

>>inb4 Billy joel

She did for the longest time. But Her whole family and our circle of friends were 100% on my side and after saw her as a messed up person. So she began to hate herself and is now known as that "drunk slut who doesnt care about anyone" At her job, family and friends, neighbors, mailman fucking everyone so she cant escape it easily haha

>>435021119
I did she came over and caught me off gaurd after I made dinner or something. We live in good neighbor hood so I dont lock the doors really. My dog started barking and I went into the living room and shes just standing there all coward like. "Im soo sorry that wasnt me you know I love you we can get passed this idk what I did you are always so good to me we never really fight you know that."

I kinda calmed down in that week.. basically I just said "you know it is what it is. You made a mistake and it was pretty fucked up and no normal person would do that. No matter what you do or what happens I cannot and will not be around you cause you fucking suck. Im not gonna get "revenge" and break your shit or try to ruin your life or whatever..just leave me the fuck alone, if you dont it just shows how nuts you are. Your a bad person so you should feel bad. I dont care about you,no one does. if you died next week I wouldn't go to your funeral...soo goodbye."

and she just sat there and took it. And then slowly walked out the door. Haven't seen her since. The last part was kinda fucked up but I just wanted it to make her feel worthless.

>>435021932
Also let her know you have no intention of telling. Maybe don't be direct about it if she is that embarrassed, but I bet a part of it is also living in fear, knowing you did something that monumentally embarrassing and that someone else could, at any given time for any reason, just spill the beans and humiliate you. I would hate to have to go day-to-day with that weighing on me, especially if the someone is a coworker.

That sucks OP but I wouldn't have taken her shit with you...yeah sure maybe she deserved it/maybe she didn't....at the end of the day this will only make you look bad if it gets around your social circle that you just left some chick alone in a city without any funds.

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>>435018013 (OP)
Ignored her for only a week?

At least you dealt with it like a man. Good job anon.

>>435021593

oh yeah cause girls are so cool with their BFs getting revenge sex and afterwards everything is A O.K because its even steven

get real idiot.

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>>435018013 (OP)
>>435022354
wow that is just low of her to do considering the situation and where she was in life
Question op
If you meet another what will you do different

>>435022354
what she did is wrong but what you said and did was totally wrong too. What you said to her was just evil. I wouldn't be so proud of yourself OP. What you did was just as, or even more, fucked up than what she did.

>>435022993
>>>/adv/

>Live in shitty area as a kid
>be 15
>been jumped more times than I care to count
>one day 3 guys beating the living shit out of me
>decide to fight back
>turns out I can't because I'm a massive softcock pussy ass teenager who can't fight
>during the struggle, dude puts me in a headlock and his thumb slips into my mouth on accident
>NOW IS MY CHANCE
>Bite his thumb as hard as I can
>he's screaming and trying to pull a way
>bring my teeth RIGHT THE FUCK DOWN and yank my head away
>His thumb fucking comes off
>I swallow intentionally it so he can't get it back
>Blood everywhere, a local has called the cops and they show up
>They call in an ambulance while trying to stop the bleeding
>Local tells the cops about what happened, that they attacked me and it wasn't my fault I was just scared
>Cops explain that I will have to come to the hospital so they can induce vomiting and get the thumb back
>I think about what a fucking scumbag that guy must be to attack people on the street for no reason
>Make a snap decision
>Fucking run for it and hide
>Puke in some guys back yard
>Bury the thumb under some bushes
>They eventually do find it but it's too late to reattach it
>That fucking piece of shit scumbag will never play nintendo again
>Mission accomplished

To this day I wish I kept it, I could have make the bones into a necklace.

>>435018013 (OP)
This is the one excuse where you could actually look up the guy who did it and mess him up

fuck the bitch too tho. Hope she learned a lesson

>>435022910

what another like serious relationship? girl I want to marry? slut?

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>>435022993

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Fucked up shit from my life

>go to olive garden with my family
>sit down
>talking casually with grandparents about my younger brother
>he's off at college
>football scholarships
>my family likes him more than me
>kinda shrug off their questions and break eye contact
>start eating the bread sticks
>waitress comes over
>takes our salad orders
>talk of my brother comes back up
>they ask why i cant be more like him
>my stomach starts to hurt
>waitress comes back with salads
>has all different kinds of cheeses
>my stomach starts hurting even more
>she whips out the parmasian and starts grading away onto my salad
>Waitress: "Say when, when you want me to stop"
>i stare into her eyes
>cheese starts piling up
>I dont say "when"
>restraunt fills up with cheese
>no survivors

Mfw no spaghetti

>>435023183
first 2
(and the 3rd)

>be at the movies high as a goat
>walking to my theater holding bag of popcorn
>see some tween dude walking in and out of theaters
>walking towards each other
>tonguing cheek to dislodge popcorn flake thing
>pass each other
>hear "yeah."
>turn around when my brain processes it
>see family restroom door swinging closed
>...
>considered it

lol not that fucked up, just a bit startling

>>435022218

>May I fuck your gf after you've been for 4 years with her?

Yup. Why should I give a shit? You got AIDS or something?

>>435021593
>>435021593
>>435021593
Shut your cunt mouth faggot. You go be some whores bitch.

>>435022993

oh ya she had to call home and ask her parents to get a fax copy of her license, passport, and $400

soo evil of me. People stuck in an airport during thanksgiving have it harder than she did that little bitch

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>>435023115

>>435023273

Yeah, like you've never cheated.

If you haven't, it's because you've never had the opportunity. Shit happens.

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>>435021075

>why?

well fucking /b/, this thread is getting interesting...

>>435022462
thanks anon, that's a good advice, never really thought of that, I think I'll do it this week, she seems like a nice gal and shouldn't be afraid of me telling the whole office for the lulz.

Also OP, I understand what you feel/felt. I had this gf, 6 years together, it was all fucking rainbows, unicorns and stars. After 5 years the relationship gets stale, we don't see each other very much, we argue a lot and stuff. We still love each other but it's like we're just tired of each other. I felt she didn't love me anymore and if she didn't love me I couldn't force her to stay with me so I decide that if after 1 month the relationship doesn't improve I'll dump her. One day, out of the sudden, she tells me that she's been secretly hanging out with a mutual friend, she tells me she lied a lot and she slept with him once. She tells me she understands if I want to leave her and rage and scream and make a scene. I just tell her ''no, I won't do any of that, just give me some time to think''

3 days later we got together to talk and she says that the affair was over because she realized no other person made her feel like I do, but she understands that I probably feel humilliated and betrayed, so she accepts the fact that we won't see each other again, she just doesn't want me to hate her.

What happend after you stopped ignoring her, OP?

>>435023485
Ok beta, you give away our position again, I'll cut ya, real quiet, leave a here... GOT THAT!

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If it had been you who had made the mistake, she would have done the same thing you did, and then people would have praised her for it.
Bitches dont deserve special treatment.
You did the right thing Op. Good for you.

>>435023696
I give her another chance, we talk about the things that lead to the affair, the things I was doing wrong, etc. I forgive her but I tell her that trust is something that you earn and at that point she lost it all, she accepts it and promises to earn that respect back. fast forward 2 years and now we're still together, never had a fight after that, getting marry next august and probly having a baby after that.

You acted like a child OP, instead of listening, understanding and forgiving, letting it pass and realize that as a guy you would have done the same, you left a girl you loved and deep down you still have feelings for her but now it's past the point where you can get back.

fuck that was long....

>>435023728

Just try it, motherfucker. I'll take your thumb off.

>>435021075
why would you lend $700 to a girl you know for 3 weeks? it's pretty obvious you do not see the money again.

>>435023485
You have a very casual opinion of relationships. Either that, or you don't respect your significant other(s). OR, you have shit impulse control. If you are in a relationship, you don't cheat. It is sort of easy. You act like "Oh, some chick was vaguely interested in me, what was I supposed to do? NOT fuck her?! Don't be ridiculous. Shit happens." And no, people aren't monogamous because they don't have the opportunity to cheat. I missed out on an opportunity to go out with pretty much my favorite person because i was in a relationship. You don't fuck around if you are committed. It is simple. And if YOU do, then why are you in a thread about a guy who dumped someone for cheating?

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>>435018894
>doesn't have a boyfriend but lots of male friends

Gigantic. Red. Flag.

>>435023876
Whatever, just get to tha CHOPPA!

>>435023840
I sure hope you're gettin' a pre-nup

also if a bitch cheats on you and you plan to 'forgive' her why not set the condition of forgiveness that you can bang some random as a once off seeing as they did?

>>435023253

Well if I got into another serious relationship it would be most logical to treat it like any other. I dont really wanna change myself and be all paranoid about a girl cheating on me and being over protective and not trusting. Girls don't like that shit and it comes off weird. But thats kinda hard to say id definitely wouldn't be that way before it happens. As for the marrying thing? shit idk maybe talk to her about marriage and the idea of it before asking the question instead of just surprising her.

as for a slut, if I ever encounter another one...ill find the person they love most and fuck their brains out...sister, best friend, mom....uncle?.. I could find a way

>>435018013 (OP)

>le double meme arrows xD lelelele

I'll post mine.

> date girl in high school
>not bad, never have sex though.
>break up because she moved
>texts me 3 months later wanting to hook up
>we do, and she forces me to cum inside her
>two weeks later, "im pregnant"
>already had plans of joining army after school
>tell her i'll raise it, with or without her
>she tells me she's going to "take care of it"
>I tell her i'll sue her (I was pretty naive)
>don't talk to her again for about a year
>come back from basic training, her and my best friend are roomates
>he's also engaged to my sister, which is okay
>me and her start dating again
>go back to basic
>we kept dating and when i come back again we get married
>had suspicions her and roomate/my best friend were sleeping together, but i was young and dumb
>tell her she has to move out
>she does. visits me in germany and then goes back to states and lives with her mom
>i was deploying in a month so i paid for her ticket and hotel room for 3 weeks, which is about 4k for all
>she tells me she's not coming
>i can't figure out why
>my mom calls one day and says "i folowed her, she's not living at her mom's, she's living at best friends"
>I call her and confront her about it.
>doesn't deny it.
>mfw when i'm crushed.
>mfw this shitbag is still engaged to my sister.
>they now have a relationship together
>I deploy and divorce her on r and r

mfw it's been about 2 years now and I'm happy with another girl who isn't a slut
she also has a kid with this guy who's only job is doing tattoos out of his house and has like 3 dui's.
mfw her life sucks and she did it to herself.
mfw I'm happily married again (just hit our year anniversary) and I can actually trust my wife completely

>>435023696
Your fiancee is a lucky woman to have your kind of loyalty. I hope she never forgets it again.
You're a gentleman and a sir.

>>435023896
Because I'm dumb and I was obviously looking forward for the bj's. Also I was very young and gullible.

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>>435018013 (OP)
bamping with my story

>be studying abroad
>meet girl, she is in long distance relationship
>i give it a try, she falls easily
>hang out for 2 months, awesome sex, she pays for more of her stuff
>she breaks up with bf
>find out her family is billionaire
>she goes to study to another country
>chat most of the time, re encounter her after 6 months, she is on holidays
>ask if she wanna b my gf
>says yes
>couple of weeks find out she is going out with someone else where she is studying.
>break up with her, but keep talking and fight/fuck/hang out all summer
>she stops talking to him, we go back together
>goes back to college
>I suspect she is seeing him again
>I was right
>break up with her
>she comes back after 3 months for holidays again
>fuck her brains out, but I keep seeing other girls
>she is jealous as fuck (women logic, lolwut)
>the other guy she was going out with finds out, leaves her
>she is desperate, she doesnt have me or the other guy
>she goes back to keep studying, guy rejects her
>she calls me a couple weeks after, I am on holidays

>mfw she paid for my holidays, return ticket to were she was, 1 month, everything paid
>be back with her after that
>2 months go by
>she quits career, moves back to where I am
>Already been 8 months
>mfw im just using her for her money..

>>435023840
Hey, bravo to you for getting over it. I don't think it is fair for you to generalize, though, as though anyone could do that, or it is immature to not look the other way. That was a fundamental betrayal of trust and commitment. And while you are clearly a pretty forgiving guy, I and apparently OP, and surely lots of others, can't rebuild trust like that. For me that isn't just destroying all the trust, for it to be rebuilt, that is permanently ruining the very foundations upon which any trust COULD be built. I am incapable of trusting someone who would do that. Fundamentally. I am not saying you are wrong, just that it is a personal thing and it isn't exactly fair to generalize that OP is "wrong", or acted like a child.

This thread is seriously making me consider becoming gay.

Fuck man, you can really never, ever know if your girl is honest and even then what are the odds it's going to work out in the long run?

I'd rather have a bro to play vidya and do cool shit with

>>435023239
hahahaha

>>435023485
Are you kidding, what is it you are not getting? If you are in a committed relationship, you don't fucking cheat. I do not understand how people don't get the most important aspect of a committed relationship. There are no maybes or shit happens, don't be in that type of relationship if you can't control yourself.

>>435023840
yeah, she probably fucks guys behind your back.

keep that delusion though

>>435024309
>she forces me to cum inside her

You got what you deserved, you retarded redneck.

>>435023935

>You have a very casual opinion of relationships.

No, I've just made mistakes at some points in my life and I don't pretend they didn't happen to make myself feel better. Do I fucking cheat on every girlfriend I've had? No. Has it even happened a lot? No again. Do I intend to do it again? Hell fucking no, but shit does happen. Nobody is perfect. In 4 fucking years, I can understand his girlfriend fucking up one time, especially while wasted, and at least she didn't try to fucking lie to him about it.

>why are you in a thread about a guy who dumped someone for cheating?

Because the thread is about fucked up things that happened to us.

All I'm saying is, if I was ready to spend my life with a woman, the fact that she fucked one dude while drunk wouldn't make me instantly decide she's a bitch. That's straight up fickle. I don't think OP thought the marriage thing through nearly as much as he should have, because if that's all it took to turn the idea on it's head - he was NOT ready to propose. You say I have a casual opinion of relationships - I think OP has a casual opinion of marriage.

>>435024174
Fuck the mother, plain and simple.

>>435023840

What a retarded stupid shit you are . She's a woman they don't think like that you idiot she will gets continue to do it behind your back .

You'll end up working to raise someone else's baby like an omega faggot

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I said this in the other thread, but women are nothing but fucking shallow whores where pretty much all that matters is attraction/sexuality.

Save yourself heartache and never treat them seriously. Fuck them over when you have the chance. Cheat on them if you want, it's your insurance plan if they break up with you.

>have fcking awesome GF
>she gets wasted and fucks up once
>go sperglord

I mean, breaking up with her would've been one thing, bt come on. OP, if that's actually true, yo are a cunt of the highest degree.

It's like if yo were going to art school and a Jew told you no, and then you the holocaust

>>435024657
redneck? I'm from a city

but yes, she did like a fuckin BJ Penn leglock on me and I couldn't get out.
I thought she just liked it in the moment.
didn't know she was planning on pregnancy

>>435024063

This sounds like every single marriage from the 17-21 year old enlisted guys i knew. I know your feel bro.

>>435024474
>This thread is seriously making me consider becoming gay.
>I'd rather have a bro to play vidya and do cool shit with

By "cool shit," you mean 'anal sex,' right? You fucking faggot.

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>>435019491
i feel for you

>>435024785
You're a retard. OP did the best thing in that case regarding the circumstances.

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>>435024785
>It's like if yo were going to art school and a Jew told you no, and then you the holocaust

>>435024458
brofist.jpg

>>435024858
Are you talking about mine or another one?
Because yeah now I see the same shit in my sodlier too. He just got his divorce before getting stationed here. He's about my age as when I got mine.

>>435024458
Hook me up bitch!

>>435024474
Actually laughed on your first sentence.
That being said, I can totally understand where you are coming from.

>>435024694
I see what you are driving at, maybe something could have been worked out with the OP and his girl, I don't know. Still that is some devastating shit to go through, cheating sucks and it is hard for shit to not get sloppy.

>>435024927

No, just cool shit I like to do that very few girls enjoy/are even willing to do like skiing, hiking, fishing, etc.

In the end all we really want in life is to spend it with someone who loves and understands us, why should gender make any difference?

>>435023239
You're killing me over here

>>435024694
Alright, i get that, one mistake. BUT, for at least me, the fact that it was a mistake doesn't change the nature of that mistake. Like I said in the post you quoted, that sort of thing would fundamentally and permanently undermine my ability to trust a person. Pure and simple. I couldn't. Like I said, it is a pretty personal thing, as everyone has their own neurosis and shit, and "trust issues" are different for every person. I don't consider it overly suspicious to be incapable of trusting someone that cheated, but whatever. And i agree, I wouldn't label someone a bitch for cheating, like they did it on purpose or flippantly. However, I WOULD label that person untrustworthy. Forever. Damage done. To each their own.

Also, sorry for that little wisecrack about "why are you in a thread about cheating..." I am also in another thread where OPs story is that he got cheated on, and conflated it with this General Shit Story thread. My mistake.

>>435018894
you deserved that because you are an idiot

>>435025229
If she doesn't enjoy doing the things you like to do, she's obviously wrong for you.

Someone like that shouldn't be that hard to find

>>435018013 (OP)
damn OP you got balls. The question is if she regretted it. I had the same issue not too long ago. This bitch was cheating on me with some other broke dude. I would give her money and she would buy this faggot things. I wondered why she bought from men stores and men items on credit card. She spent about $5000 on him. I actually have a pretty decent job so this was really nothing to me. Catch them. Video tape it. Take it to court to get a divorce. She even tried to counter sue and get half the stuff. Judge, no way you bitch. She had to pay me back $5000 bucks. Also most people on Facebook found out about this. Rather than side with her, they all called her a slut and what not. Anyways she continued to date that poor faggot. He used to beat her as well which to me was a plus for me. Anyways she would work her ass off to make ends meet. In the end he cheated on her. He bought things for more than one chick using her money. She finds out. Karma truly is a bitch. She can't get money back(nowhere near what she spent on this fag but it was large for her paycheck). Anyways 4 months later she comes knocking to my door. Said she had her priorities straight. Too bad I had just gotten with another girl. Asks me to please forgive her and take her back. Dramatically say, I already forgave you but can't take you back. This was the happiest day of my life.

>>435024463
I get what you're saying and I respect the fact that, as you put it, you can't trust back as easy as I did. It was no easy thing, I was angry and mad at her for some time after that but eventually everything went right back to normal, and in this case, the affair happened because we were 6 years into the relationship, the sparkle, the novelty had passed, take this dumbasses for example: >>435024652
and >>435024063

There's no point in forgiving and saying ''ok, i'll forgive you but I gotta fuck a random bitch so we can be even'' that's not how it works in the real world. There are thousands of 40 year old couples who have affairs, the marriage is crumbling, talk to each other, maybe see a shrink and work their shit, I guess that's what happened to me, but it was because I accepted the fact that people are not perfect, women feel lust and desire for other guys too, she fucked up, she knows she fucked up, why shouldn't I give her the chance to redeem herself? If I fuck up someday, I hope she gives me the chance to get her back if I'm truly sorry

again, I'm not saying you're wrong and I'm right, I'm just expanding on my views on this whole cheating thing

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>>435025124
well, she is in Asia.. You in?
>Inb4 not ching chong

I do feel I have a beta percentage on this equation..

>>435019668
i fail here and there with putting the stick blind into the rj54 jack...

>>435024694
Fuck that. OP did the right thing.
My story is in this thread and I put in there about how i'm now happily married to someone because she's not a slut

Howevere two days after we started dating I fucked some slut and never told her

When I proposed though I told her, and she forgave me, eventually.
my point is that she's a better man than I am because had she of done the same thing fuck that I'd have ditched her ass.

If she ever cheated on me she'd be out the fuckin' door.

>>435024319
thank you kind sir.

>>435025121
i meant to quote
vvvv
>>435024309

>>435024785
>At the bar with his GF
>She goes into the bathroom and fucks some random douche
>OP breaks shit off
How the fuck did the OP fuck up again, I dont understand what you retards are driving at. Even drunk, people fucking clearly know better. Even shitfaced, I would not get behind the wheel of a vehicle, what excuses this bitch?

>>435025229

You're clearly already gay.

>>435025207

Absolutely. I feel for him, and it would suck, I'd be livid with her too.

But y'know, if you're at a point where you are honestly willing to spend your life somebody, because you've known them intimately for 4 years and you've loved everything you've seen so far, you gotta take the bad with the good.

Nobody will go a lifetime without hurting you. Marriage involves getting hurt. It's probably for the best it happened because I very much doubt their marriage would last if it couldn't survive that before it started.

>>435024694

yeah you have a good point. I mean like I said "fuck it why not" on marrying her and I couldnt think of a reason. Rarely fought. Maybe I should have thought about it more. Just my parents got divorced when I was 22 and my dad straight up sat me down one night and said "there are things in life you have to do and should do. We were good parents and raise you. You're an adult now so we are just mom and dad. If you dont want to do or keep going through something..then dont. you dont have to, nobody is making you. Do what makes you happy and stress free"

so idk I just thought of all that bullshit and why would I have to settle for that? not 100% of the girls cheat. Im not mad at that dude..if I was at a bar and some hot chick wanted to F in the bathroom I just met and she didnt have a guy or whatever I would have done the same thing.

shit will buff

you did the right thing man. never go back to people that hurt you, just move on and improve.
trust me, our stories are pretty similar

>>435018013 (OP)
op you lucky basterd
imagine what happened if you would have married that whore

OP, I just want to say to you that you did the right thing. All of these people telling you that you didn't are just plain wrong. What happened to you would mentally ruin a lot of good men, hell It would probably ruin me. And a lot of people would bitch out and take her back, but you did what a person who truley knows their own self worth would do and you got her the fuck out of your life. Keep on living and I wish you all the best.

>>435025229
Basically, you want to live with a REALLY close bro, and spend time chilling and doing guy shit. I definitely feel that feel, man. The problem is, as far as I can see it, there is a level of interpersonal intimacy that that sort of relationship would not ever be able to achieve. So while I would fucking love that living situation, I would also sort of feel vaguely empty and want that little bit more that that shit can't provide.

>>435024474
After tonight's flurry of fucked-up relationship threads, I was thinking that too. But then I reasoned that some guys have the same ways of acting, and now I'm honestly thinking of an-heroing. I mean, if life is naught but struggle and I could never trust anyone I would want to spend it with, why bother?

>>435025576
I understand that, it just seems that she blatantly disrespected the OP. I mean to be at the bar with him then go fuck some dude in the bathroom. Believe me, I know what you are talking about, I have had similar issues with an ex. I would hate her guts now if I didn't decide to take the good with the bad but I can see why the OP did what he did.

OP, the thought of her getting bent over and penetrated furiously in the bathroom still gets you hard, doesn't it?

gonna give it a go, with my latest mishap
>been hurt in past relationships
>last serious relationship ended because she cheated on me and i had trust issues afterwards
>be 4 years later and a friend introduces me to really pretty shy girl
>become really close friends
>people think we are dating
>im still afraid to get into a relationship
>have major medical problems that are gonna require surgery and meds for the rest of my life that may change me (physically/mentally)
>tell her i have feelings for her because i want her to know it was me before shit changes me(of course i don't actually say that)
>she stops talking to me
>no more hanging out
>not nothing, no explanation
>been pretty broken up about it, don't know what to do now. Feel like no one likes me at all.

Fuck me i'm almost 30, i thought i was past feeling like this in my life. I hope my surgery goes bad and i don't survive.

>>435018013 (OP)
but I would have done it a different way
maybe because I am a horrible person
but I would not show my anger
talk her into a threesome with my best friend
tape it with my hidden cameras
and then break up with her

and would not tell her about marriage and shit

>>435025409
This. Sage advice.

This is why guys go for traps.

>>435024458
hahaha stupid bitch. Have you thought about just cutting her off? Like totally fucking her over. Maybe have sex with her at some random place. Steal her close and money and just leave.

>>435025805

DO IT, FAGGOT!

Fucked up things that have happened to you

>Have old friends who I get along and feel comfortable with while still being myself

>Have a loving 4­½ years relationship with the sweetest girl, who respects me and admires me

>graduated uni one month ago

>My best friend is my father

>born in the late 80's, grown in the 90s in a mid-class european household

>staying home on a lazy monday morning while people are wanting to die at work on a cloudy monday

>still feel very anxious and obsessive for no fucking apparent reason, wanting to die to stop this shit feeling

1st world's promises are a lie

>>435025368

>I couldn't. Like I said, it is a pretty personal thing, as everyone has their own neurosis and shit, and "trust issues" are different for every person.

I follow. Our convictions are probably equally strong here: You wouldn't marry somebody who could cheat, I wouldn't get married unless I loved the person enough to go through anything.

>Also, sorry for that little wisecrack about "why are you in a thread about cheating..." I am also in another thread where OPs story is that he got cheated on, and conflated it with this General Shit Story thread. My mistake.

No worries man.

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would everyones opinions change to 100% if the guy she fucked was black??

>>435024309

Good on you. Most military relationships I've seen have ended like yours, except without the happy ending.

>>435021593

this guy, never got laid

>>435025819
>been hurt in past relationships

Stopped reading there. Where have all you pussies come from?

There's a place for your kind. It's called reddit.

>>435025979
yes

>>435025910
I'm thinking about it. Don't get your hopes up, though. I won't stream it or anything.

>>435025414
I get that. And I envy you the ability to do that. It would eat at me from the inside, though. That sort of thing would be like a cancer, it would poison every interaction I had with the person from that point on. I just couldn't do it. But, accord reached--it is a personal issue of the ability to rebuild that trust and the willingness and desire to work together to repair that damage. Civil discussion achieved. Success.

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come on OP, i don't care about your whining. Give me some photos of her.

>>435025979
yes

It was your fault OP.
She wouldn't go looking for peanus if you had one nice enough for her.
learn2erection

>>435025979
yes

>>435025979
Well I was already on your side but...

A little bit yea, I personally find black males repulsive in a sexual aspect. Like I'm not gay but I can look at a dude and judge whether or not he's considered attractive and black dudes are always just fucking gross, it just makes me think of her as more of a bad person and push me further into your camp.

>>435023115

if true, boss

>>435025819

Ok, now I've read the rest of your post. Here's my response to you:

There's a place where losers go
To cry their troubles away
And they call it 'lonesome town' (reddit)
Where the broken hearts stay

>>435025576
better than spending the rest of your life married to a bitch you couldn't trust.

look, she made the conscious decision to let another man stick his dick in her, thats not a mistake thats a deliberate action.

whores are gunna whore, and you can't trust a whore to change..

Quick question guys.
>Dated girl for 6 months
>Best sex and intimacy (cuddling and shit)
> Separated for 3 months
>Break up, no butterflies any more, no spark because of my depression

Now
>Fix depression
>Make self better, leaner happier, funnier , more attractive, etc.
>Want her back.

Shall i try?
She's still attracted to me, and I took her virginity

>>435026008
Yeah, it's definitely a learning experience.
Idk wtf it is about the military that makes everyone want to hurry up and get married. Maybe the benefits or the living far away but there's something about it.

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>>435025902
I did threaten to show her nudes to her parents.. haha
And during that time she was away from me, she was lying to me all the time.. I confess, I did go through a horrible time.. But after I recovered.. Nothing could stop me, biatch..
I sent her nudes to the guy she was seeing in college..
I would pay to see the motherfuckers face.. I made a powerpoint, first slide was a picture of him and her, next slide were her nudes with cum on her face and stuff.. And since I had her email password, I sent it from there..
LMAO

>>435026157
>won't stream it

Because you know you'll fail.

>>435026023

Yeah, nah. See, I've just been laid enough to not get my panties in a bunch over meaningless sex when I've had my fair share of it.

I see it as worth getting pissed off over, don't get me wrong. I just don't see it as worth throwing away marriage plans, or her keys for that matter because that's just spiteful. If it was just some bitch OP only knew for 2 weeks then sure, dump her ass - she ain't worth the risk. But he was with her for 4 years, I'm pretty sure if she actually was a bad person and not just a good one capable of making mistakes, he would have figured it out long before then.

>>435026210

>>435020158

up there. Only picture I can find easily, mutual friend on FB had one with her. Not friends on FB anymore blocked etc.

>>435025416

If it's Thailand hook me the fuck up

>>435026345
If you think it will make you happy why the fuck not bro? I mean worst thing that can happy is she doesnt want to and then you're just in the same place you are now
.

>>435025748

Yeah man pretty much. My old roommate and I were like that. We would go on adventures and smoke weed all day and make fun of people and just generally share our lives. No homo at all, but it was honestly a deeper, more fulfilling and open relationship than any I've ever had with a woman. I cried when he moved away.

>>435026290

It is, and thanks. It was the first moment in my life I felt like I had some kind of genuine victory.

So fucked up as it is, it's a very important moment for me, and that's why I wish I kept the thumb as a trophy.

>>435026360

You are my hero

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>>435026427
Too bad, man..
She has a sister, although I suspect sister is kind of lesbo..

>>435026393
Nah, I wish to die as I live: beta as shit.
Out in a forest, so as to not bother anyone. I don't want to clog up /b/ with more useless shit. I don't want to have to worry about anyone cleaning me up.
Just me, a clearing, a chrome plated .38, and my pocket spaghetti.

>>435026345
go for it

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>>435025979

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>>435026484
Man I had some of my happiest times of my life with her. Everyone else has literally told me to move on and date other chicks, but I'm incredibly picky with girls and even if we don't last forever i'd be happy to keep her for even just a few months before i finish college for good

But thanks a lot for the reply, i appreciate it

>>435026345
how old are you anon?

>>435026832
She probs fucked at least 1 dude so if you're ok with that then sure

>Copypasta....
ITT: Newfaggots so new they aren't even Summer

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>>435026880
I'm 21. This is her

>>435025545
Oh okay so yeah you did mean mine,

>>435026996
She's fucking Richard Hammond

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>>435026996
>Richard Hammond (I'm pressuming)
>That face
>That skin
>Those eyes
>mfw

a better picture perhaps?

>>435026996
you took richard hammonds virginity? you popped that cherry? you get that little hamster back! wtf are you doing wasting time here, get her back!

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fuck that bitch

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>>435027062
Ahaha that would be hilarious.
>>435026940
I'm not cool with it but there's nothing I can do about it except act like it doesn't bother me. As much as it does fucking hurt and i've already assumed worst case scenario, I'm still gonna go for it

>>435027062

I would be honored if Richard Hammond fucked my girlfriend

People that say you should have forgiven her are fucking faggots I swear. It is called having self respect and finding the strength to find someone better. If she did it once, she will do it again. Fuck these beta virgin fags I swear.

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>>435027128
Try this one. She's cute as fuck.

>walking through the park at 0130
>be alone
>a wild bully from youth appeared
>just who i wanted to see
>coming down from mdma
>be boozed
>a wild great idea appears
>"hah, you little shit, remember me!?"
>slug the fucker in the temple
>fucker goes down
>not moving
>he dead /b/ro?
>feel throat for heartbeat
>...what heartbeat?
>me heart skips a beat
>ohshitohshitohshitohshitohshitohshitshit
>whatdoidowhatdoidowhatdoidowhatdoido
>ye he dead
>...
>remember Dexter?
>dragged the body into the bushes
>went home to get a knife, a hammer and a saw
>come back
>body gone

>>435025946
Yeah, we do, but I want to make it clear I definitely agree with that love thing. I hate the thing that happens too often nowadays, where kids meet, date for like five or six months, then get married. They don't know shit about each other, and while some of those marriages stand the test of time, I feel like people don't have that love and trust necessary to make a long-term relationship successful. So I agree, I wouldn't consider marrying someone unless I loved them enough to go through anything. The problem is, at least for me and the way I structure my concept of love in my head, the love comes after the trust. I can't love someone I don't trust, you know? That, to me, is akin to loving someone you don't know, like having a crush on someone. Your brain is releasing "love" chemicals, but you don't have any personal basis for it. For me, the trust is like the bottom layer, and all of the love and shit is built o top of it and wit it, intertwined. So if the trust in the relationship gets fucked, the love gets fucked too. I mean, i would still "love" them, but it would be without that foundation necessary to make it last. It might limp along for a year, but eventually that relationship would die. I think cheating is pretty much the only thing that would be a large enough betrayal to do that, though. So yeah, we are both definitely pretty staunch here, we just seem to be approaching it in similar but critically different ways.

>>435018013 (OP)
quick, solid reaction!
you made it sir!

>>435027332
Post nudes already

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>>435027332
better but we clearly have different definitions and opinions regarding cute as fuck

>>435025946
>>435025946
cont.
You summed up my argument as "You wouldn't marry someone who would cheat." But that isn't quite it. I wouldn't even DATE someone I thought would cheat, you know? That would be thing #1 on the check list, or close to it. So yeah, the cheating would be so fundamentally not an option, that if it did happen, it would mean a complete redefinition of the person I thought I was with, which would fuck the relationship. This is a good discussion; having to explain my thoughts on it helps to clarify them for myself. Solid introspection.

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>>435027503
I can't. She's underage and the last time I got banned

> good gf
> been with her four years
> move in with her, she was edgy but agreed
She didn't seem keen
> come home from work one day
> hears squeaking from floors coming from bedroom upstairs
> no.
> run upstairs sound definitely from bedroom
> open the door
> get on the floor
> everybody walk the dinasaur

>>435027274
this, dammit this!

it would be my introduction: ''hi I'm anon and this my wife anon, did you know that while we were on a break when we were still dating, Richard Hammond fuck her? c'mon here honey, tell Mr.Jones about the time you were fucking Richard Hammond, ohh Mr.Jones you're gonna love this story it's hilarious!''