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12/15/11(Thu)09:04:36 No.368333971OP, are you me?
My bf and i have similar problems. I
don't feel like I don't want to have sex anymore, but when the best he
can do is "can we have sex now?" instead of ACTING to do anything - more
just putting it out there he wants to bang, and then when we don't it's
MY fault because I don't want to do it anymore.
But when
someone says to you "I want sex" or whatever, without being proactive,
it's really shitty. The reality is, for whatever reason, even if he
wants sex (i.e. his boy hormones are telling him he wants sex), for some
reason he doesn't do anything to make it happen.
Could be: - lack of motivation -
expecting you to do all the work (long term relationship might be
getting stale, and he sees it as your place to make shit happen, because
he "always wants sex" or something similar)
it sounds like
he's either got some anxiety/depressive issues of his own, or his time
of enjoying your relationship is running its course.
how are you
together outside of the sex? does the fighting/attitude affecting other
aspects of your relationship? are you living together? |