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    36 KB Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:37:37 No.204992XXX  
    Question for loners or people with no friends.

    How the hell do you manage to keep your sanity when you have no friends to talk to? I work a 9-5 job, and the only social contact I have is outside my work hours, perhaps once a week with a friend or two. But even that little social contact is killing me. I want to know how people with no friends manage to keep their cool and stay sane.

    pic unrelated.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:37:54 No.204992XXX
    lmao, look at this... spread the word we all need to see it!
    http://top-secret.cwahi.net

    65151865
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:39:29 No.204992XXX
    bump
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:40:23 No.204992XXX
    I don't
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:40:52 No.204992XXX
    some people need solitude, and wonder how other people can be around people for longer than a few hours a week.

    reporting in
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:41:17 No.204992XXX
    I never think about it really, dont need friends
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:41:31 No.204992XXX
    why cant you make friends at work?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:41:38 No.204992XXX
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    whenever i need to have social contact i go and hang out with some people who i think are complete idiots and smoke weed with them
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:41:38 No.204992XXX
    unsure if im going insane or not, but more or less like you. i was thinking hobby possibly that granted access to more people interested in said hobby, dunno.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:41:42 No.204992XXX
    drugs
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:41:44 No.204992XXX
    lmao, look at this... spread the word we all need to see it!
    http://top-secret.cwahi.net

    35503691
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:41:56 No.204992XXX
    people hurt us so we stays alone where we be safe.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:41:56 No.204992XXX
    better have 1 good friend than 10 friends you just talk to imo
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:42:16 No.204992XXX
    I only talk to people at school or on /b/, but I guess I'm one of those people who can be happy while alone all the time. Fuck people, I say, because they suck. But you are right in the fact that it gets tough, not having social interaction. So I got a cell phone and myspace account. Now I'm able to talk to people whenever I want, and my friends are willing to hang out after school.

    And if you don't have any friends, you have family. If you don't have a family, go buy a dog, you lonely chud.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:42:19 No.204992XXX
    fap. . .fap so much it fills the loneliness.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:42:31 No.204993XXX
    I masturbate to Asian women having anal sex.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:43:00 No.204993XXX
    Why talk with others when you have too many friends inside your own head already?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:43:02 No.204993XXX
    I have a few friends and hate 98% of humans.

    I've got my inner circle and my GF(imagine that), and I'm pretty much set.
    >> Mr. Blue !!tSR+TLYmfWS 03/09/10(Tue)10:43:16 No.204993XXX
    Who needs friends when you have /b/?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:43:16 No.204993XXX
    I'm a loner because I can't stand my family or "friends"

    When you have positive social contact, you crave it

    But when all your sister does is cause drama 24/7, with everything being the end of the world, and gets you into trouble 24/7 even over things that shouldn't have been more than a "Hey!" or an "Ouch!"

    And when all but one of your friends don't want to be bothered with you, and the few that I hung out with regularly in highschool are as bad as braindead cheerleaders (but without the good looks) with too many inside jokes to count that just get spam-repeated like forced-meme-rape here on 4chan......it gets old....and so I avoid them like I avoid my family
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:43:28 No.204993XXX
    I stopped caring about shit, I see no point in anything as long as I have a place to sleep, food, and internet I could give two shits about anything else
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:43:31 No.204993XXX
    play WoW
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:43:41 No.204993XXX
    Most of us with no friends or close family ARE slightly insane, so yeah
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:44:00 No.204993XXX
    >>204992492
    i just applied for a full time job, school is fucking killing me right now. my major has nothing it first promised me and im basically wasting my money throwing it into fire really. put it this way, in a suck ass economy, you have a full time job and making money, things could be a lot worse?

    as to the social contact, thats what facebook and myspace are for.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:44:30 No.204993XXX
    >>204992492
    fucking faggot stop complaining we are all goddamn lonely.
    Play some fucking video gaemz cunt.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:44:30 No.204993XXX
    >>204992492
    >How the hell do you manage to keep your sanity when you have no friends to talk to?
    >implying anyone on /b/ still has their sanity
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:44:52 No.204993XXX
    msn? sms? all that social networking bullshit?

    21st century man
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:45:13 No.204993XXX
    eh you dont go insane from not seein your friends you go "insane" in absolute solitude, im a chef, been in the industry for 6 years now
    5 days a week 8 to 10 and i rarely see my friends i havent gone insane or lost my cool. but another thing, what do you work at op? cant make friends at work?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:45:21 No.204993XXX
    >>204992492
    im an only child

    you get used to it i guess, to me it feels "normal"
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:45:23 No.204993XXX
    I can't stand anyone, Not even my family.. I have no friends because in my mind I would not make the best friend and try to save other people the embarrassment.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:46:08 No.204993XXX
    No worries mate. Going insane is fun, it's sort of a mental evolution to deal with whatever may come.

    also, smoke some weed.
    >> op 03/09/10(Tue)10:46:08 No.204993XXX
    Solitude can be good, but total social exclusion is not (for me, anyway) - I do like being alone sometimes, but it wears off eventually, and then I will just feel like shit when I have no friends to hang out with. Fuck, I would hate to not have any friends.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:46:11 No.204993XXX
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    OP should go to church.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:46:14 No.204993XXX
    >>204993112
    i was about to say just this.
    >> Mr. Blue !!tSR+TLYmfWS 03/09/10(Tue)10:46:43 No.204993XXX
    >>204993412
    Wut?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:47:11 No.204993XXX
    whats a sanity and who do i kill to get one
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:47:34 No.204993XXX
    well, the funny thing is that I have a girlfriend and I have fuckloads of friends.
    I don't really know why I hang out here.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:47:37 No.204993XXX
    >>204993112

    might as well, honestly.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:47:42 No.204993XXX
    u don't. U start to make friends that dont exist. U start to act like people uve met once are your best friend. U think about killing urself constantly. tbh ppl who are loners when their minds are not occupied are like time bombs. lol
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:48:21 No.204993XXX
    My solution is - Who gives a fuck -
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:48:24 No.204993XXX
    steps to live your own perfect life

    play wow
    buy nintendo wii
    start playing guitar
    drink alcohol
    get a job (buy an ipod to be able to ignore every social contact arround you like me)

    feels good man
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:48:53 No.204993XXX
    >>204992492

    I just don't think about it too much.
    I have my PCs, guitars, music and other distractions that keep me happy.....meh.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:49:52 No.204993XXX
    Do you at least have people to interact with at your work in a way that satisfies you socially?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:49:54 No.204993XXX
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    Obvious solution is obvious: Be more likable; get more friends.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:50:44 No.204993XXX
    >>204993889
    oops- I was referring to >>204993303
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:51:03 No.204994XXX
    lmao, look at this... spread the word we all need to see it!
    http://top-secret.cwahi.net

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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:51:21 No.204994XXX
    1.smoke weed
    2.make imagainary friends
    3.??????
    2.profit!
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:53:05 No.204994XXX
    >>204993101
    >>204993217
    >>204993316
    >>204993404
    >>204992939
    >>204992938
    >>204992869

    this
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:55:34 No.204994XXX
    i have /b/

    /reaches for the vodka
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:55:46 No.204994XXX
    you said it
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:57:18 No.204994XXX
    >>204992492
    Sanity does not exist in my life, but other than that? WoW & /b/, to be honest.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:59:18 No.204995XXX
    ...I'm actually losing my sanity.

    But years ago I keept myself cool by just not worrying at all.

    Now I have too much pressure to just ignore problems.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)10:59:34 No.204995XXX
    lots and lots of pot and /b/ = sanity?

    pot+/b/ + random lays = sanity

    bitches love nerds
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:00:01 No.204995XXX
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    Every today: Watch porn, play Xbox, browse interbutts.
    Every tomorrow: Make friends, get job.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:02:40 No.204995XXX
    I sort of don't hate myself like others do.
    Therefore I can spend allot of time "with myself".

    Most overly social people seem to me like persons who can't deal with themselves and are scared as shit to be alone and look into themselves.

    Anyways, I get contact in school, at my dojo and now and then I meet up with old friends.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:02:48 No.204995XXX
    /b/, reading, anime, manga, music, flash games, console games, tv... any number if distractions to fill the growing void.

    actually, I'm not lonely. I enjoy being alone.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:05:20 No.204995XXX
    >>204995533
    crazy dude. I dont know how i would cope being in your shoes - don't you at least have any desire for some social contact even if you enjoy being alone?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:05:33 No.204995XXX
    My existential nihilism is the reason
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:06:30 No.204995XXX
    >>204995516
    This.

    If you are at peace with yourself, its ok to be by yourself.
    Just gotta be able to motivate yourself and not depend on other for that too.
    Be busy, have work/study and routine.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:09:08 No.204996XXX
    the interwebs. simple answer. I could go for days without speaking to real people, except for the odd mumble at the person working in a shop. In fact, I have.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:10:41 No.204996XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:10:42 No.204996XXX
    >>204992492
    >keep your sanity
    I have no sanity bro. Read, play games, watch shows/movies. Replace the life I don't have.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:12:11 No.204996XXX
    Chat rooms. My only friends are on the internet.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:12:11 No.204996XXX
    Play video games, browse the web and watch Anime.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:12:13 No.204996XXX
    >>204995839

    friends? I'm sure people consider me to be their friend. I'm just not interested in interacting with them. hell, I don't have a myspace/facebook/phone or any other shit that would make it easier to contact me. I do go to school, but the closest anyone gets to me is in the capacity of a lab partner.

    I feel sorry for them, too. I spend half the time making puppets out of dissected organs.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:14:07 No.204996XXX
    what keeps me sane?! i talk complete convo's with myself, and when someone looks at us, we stare back at him
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:16:39 No.204997XXX
    Don't be a fucking weak minded dickfaggot.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:16:51 No.204997XXX
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    >>204996885
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:17:04 No.204997XXX
    friends?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:17:46 No.204997XXX
    I only have my fiance, because she is a jealous bitch who never wants me to have friends so I play video games it keeps me occupied.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:17:53 No.204997XXX
    >>204996885
    I'm
    >>204996470
    I actually do that sometimes on 4chan/IRC and shit when there's no one else there.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:18:58 No.204997XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:21:19 No.204997XXX
    get used to it
    >> CouRageFlow 03/09/10(Tue)11:22:40 No.204998XXX
    ITT: A lot of sad lonely people in denial. Seriously, turn off your computer, join something (a sport, a club, ANYTHING), get some real human contact besides the fake contact you think is a social life on /b/.
    And before anyone says anything about me being here... I just troll on my 3G at work. My jobs a joke and I get paid 20 dollars an hour to sit around on /b/.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:23:06 No.204998XXX
    Play WoW, fap.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:23:18 No.204998XXX
    >>204992492

    I've never been a very social person, though I did have a few good friends that I hung out with regularly. As I got older I spent more time going to parties and being around a lot of people, but I still valued my alone time. Solitude is my thing.

    After my fiance (now wife) and I moved in together, I had issues with alcohol, so I shut myself off from everyone I knew. The only two people I really had contact with was her and my boss, who is pretty much like my best friend anyway.

    I went on to work seven days a week between two jobs. I have no real time or energy for a social life, even if I wanted one. It'd be nice to be able to go out and do stuff, but I don't feel like I NEED friends. I can say that I'm more awkward now when dealing with people than I was ten years ago (I've always been awkward) and I probably seem a lot more cold (if not boring), but all in all, I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything. I don't need people and I never have.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:23:19 No.204998XXX
    Sanity? I gave that up before I even started surfing /b/.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:23:38 No.204998XXX
    >>204992492
    Social interaction is not a requirement of sanity.
    I spent most of the years that I was a Medic with the U.S. Army being an antisocial body with skills. Even when I was deployed and serving intimately with the same squad every day for almost three years; they probably couldn't tell you anything more about me than that I had several advanced patches on my uniform and that I didn't need much sleep to function properly.

    After the military, I remained socially backwards; just kept to myself while working behind a desk.

    Went back to school and jumped back into the social game while shooting pool in the college's lounge area. Just happened. Apparently my charisma hadn't deteriorated at all in the years I spent barely talking.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:24:39 No.204998XXX
    Friends are to much work, you have to deal with their drama and their life half the time (hint I said half, I do believe their are friends out there who don't whine and QQ about their life all day but those are rare) and if they ever want to do something it'll always happen when youre most busy and you can't turn em down or youll feel like a dick so you just gotta shove all your shit aside and change your schedule for them
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:24:55 No.204998XXX
    >>204998013
    every couple of months I'll go "What am I doing being so anti-social, I should go out more" then spend about a fortnight constantly going out. All it does is remind me that doing shit is boring as fuck.
    Going out with one or two friends a week is good enough for me.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:24:57 No.204998XXX
    36002 --Declaring WAR against /b/ - Fuck all you faggots. If you want anything you can hit me up on MSN: fail-ninja@hotmail.com. I'm not scared of you.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:25:01 No.204998XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:26:09 No.204998XXX
    >>204992492

    >implying I havent already lost my mind
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:26:15 No.204998XXX
    It helps to never have friends to begin with.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:27:11 No.204998XXX
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    just give in to the call of insanity you know you want to >>204992492
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:27:30 No.204998XXX
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    I have no friends and the only people I talk to are my family and people online, I have aspergers syndrome though so I guess I'm pretty cool.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:27:55 No.204998XXX
    Anime, internet, video games, going to places such as malls, cinemas.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:28:18 No.204998XXX
    World of Warcraft
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:28:56 No.204998XXX
    >>204998662
    I'll bet you self-diagnosed, you internet superhero.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:29:25 No.204998XXX
    >>204998662
    >I have aspergers syndrome
    You realise that once the new edition of the medical journal gets published (if it hasn't already) there's no longer such a thing as aspergers? There's only autism now, enjoy your autism faggot.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:30:26 No.204999XXX
    I went out and made new friends. Was surprisingly easy too.. 3 months ago I used to sit at home pretty much every weekend. In the past 1 month, I haven't been home on a single weekend, been out till early morning next day each Friday/Sat. Next few weekends are already booked too.

    Just go out to events and shit, similar events have similar people .. eventually you get talking and become friends.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:30:54 No.204999XXX
    i'm just married that keeps sane
    other than that no friends
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:30:58 No.204999XXX
    >>204999055
    I've done that. Didn't enjoy it.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:31:39 No.204999XXX
    >>204992492
    Because different people have different needs.. Some people are quite content with their own space and company. I for one have friends but do my best to avoid them at all costs.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:32:38 No.204999XXX
    >>204999131

    Didn't enjoy going to events, or didn't like the people?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:32:43 No.204999XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:32:45 No.204999XXX
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    I generally fill my time with projects. In the absence of social connections I simple filled up my schedule 24/7 with various tech experiments and work. And drinking. And drugs. It's weird, I get a long with people. I bring home chicks from bars, generally have good conversations with people... I just don't make connections. I never call people back. I get bored and chew through single serving friends by the handful.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:33:24 No.204999XXX
    >>204992492
    I go to school and am forced to socialise lol
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:33:36 No.204999XXX
    >>204998862
    >>204998920

    I got diagnosed by a psychiatrist. That's horse shit! What medical journal?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:33:54 No.204999XXX
    >>204992492

    First of all, Trollie McTroll Troll.

    Second, how do you keep *your* sanity when your brain is seemingly incapable of processing even a few moments of silence?

    learn2meditate.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:33:58 No.204999XXX
    >>204999341
    Events. I prefer to just go out for lunch with friends a couple times a week. Fuck doing shit.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:34:02 No.204999XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:35:03 No.204999XXX
    >>204999458
    I certainly hope that by "school" you're referring to a college course. If not, it is extremely likely that you are currently too young to be visiting /b/.

    Kindly GTFO, thank you.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:35:25 No.204999XXX
    I have 2 friends that I never see, a GF that I almost never see, my family lives over 9000kms far from where I am and it's cool. Why would you need people in the first place?

    Still, I definitely need society : transportation, food, internet, etc.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:35:49 No.204999XXX
    I don't have any friends, but I don't mind. I am a loner, but I'm not awkward or anything with people. And, or I maybe should say 'but' I have a social job...
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:35:52 No.204999XXX
    I got a job at a brickyard lots of noise so I hardly have to talk to people.
    I had a girlfriend for 8 years and lots of friends, but then I got tired of it. Now I have a big 51"LCD TV, a powerfull pc and loads of money for games and I dropped everything. No friends, no girlfriend. It's way better, I do what I want, when I want and no one bothers me.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:35:59 No.204999XXX
    >>204999707
    second year of college in england, so 18.

    Is that underage b&? i never actually paid attention to the age limit lol
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:37:02 No.205000XXX
    >>204999850
    The limit is 36, so GTFO
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:37:51 No.205000XXX
    >>204999850
    >18
    you faggot, 4chan is 36+ gtfo underage b&.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:37:55 No.205000XXX
    >>204999850

    No, you're cool. I forgot that in Europe people are actually smart enough to start higher education at that age. Just lookin' for cancer.

    These aren't the droids we're looking for. Move along.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:38:00 No.205000XXX
    >>205000002
    nice get but stfu :P
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:38:01 No.205000XXX
    >>204999341
    what kind of events do you mean
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:38:47 No.205000XXX
    >>205000002
    >>205000124
    Hivemind
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:39:26 No.205000XXX
    >>204992492

    dont think i can say that im sane anymore. ive started talking to myself and doing more things thats really weird.
    ive barely left the house in 1,5 year. and under this time ive only met the few friends i have left, not more than 10 times.
    and im too shy to start making new friends. fml
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:40:06 No.205000XXX
    >>204999547

    Ah. Well going to be hard to expand social circles then. To a large extent I am like you actually, would much rather go for a quiet lunch/dinner than a loud club. But over time I found out that I had to force myself to do it. The nice thing though is that it is not something you have to keep doing. I went to clubs and shit for the first little while. Eventually I got invited to the quiet brunches/dinners/get-togethers and it just took over. Now I go to clubs maybe once every 2 weeks, and that is only because I want to (hot random chicks are still fun :)). Rest of the days it is just watching movies, going to dinner, small get-togethers, etc.

    So it is a more of an initial effort that you have to suffer through. Totally know what you mean though. Fuck doing shit.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:40:17 No.205000XXX
    what is love?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:40:21 No.205000XXX
    >>205000388
    As long as the voices are coming from your mouth and not your brain you'll be fine.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:40:35 No.205000XXX
    >>205000388
    shyness sucks donkey balls
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:40:36 No.205000XXX
    I get absolutely nothing merely from "talking" to people. In fact, there are few things I hate more than those who open their mouths just to fill the air with noise.

    It's like this: I'm very intelligent. Different from my peers. I have been aware of this "condition" since early childhood. I'm equally cognizant of the fact that most people are A) idiots B) degenerates C) emotional wrecks D) addicts, or some combination of the above.

    I "talk" to people by arguing with them over the internet. Because I have an extremely logical and analytical mind, I derive satisfaction from solving problems and proving my point of view in arguments.

    Another thing I have is high aspirations. I'd like to preside over an entity with global influence and to make decisions which influence the lives of countless people whom I'll never meet. In other words, I want to be a leader of men, a man among plebes. Being highly intelligent and antisocial gives me just what I need to realize these lofty goals.

    People are here to be used. The entire domain of human social interactions is one large food chain. The enlightened individual recognizes his position in the food chain at all times and doesn't fall prey to the delusions of "friendship" and "brotherhood" subscribed to by most humans.

    If you need to be around people so much, that means you aren't destined for greatness. Normal, everyday conversation is almost always stupid, meaningless crap, devoid of any intellectual substance.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:41:11 No.205000XXX
    >>205000158

    Usually clubs, concerts, etc. I also joined some local sports clubs, event clubs, etc to add variety.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:41:20 No.205000XXX
    >>204999850
    Ignore the trolls. 4chan is 18 and over so you're OK.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:42:09 No.205000XXX
    >>205000532

    eh. i have conversations with a made up persons. thinking that they are sitting next to me and shit. lol.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:42:12 No.205000XXX
    2441 - fuck this stream is awesome - http://camstream.t35 dot com/rachelgerik.php
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:42:14 No.205000XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:42:16 No.205000XXX
    >>205000532
    Wait, does that mean me talking to myself in my head is bad? I know that it's not someone else and it's still me, but I carry out fucking hueg conversations in my head.
    I'll just sit down in silence for like 40minutes while talking to myself.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:42:29 No.205000XXX
    >>204992492

    Just bottle emotions until you don't feel them. work out for me
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:42:33 No.205000XXX
    84696 --Declaring WAR against /b/ - Fuck all you faggots. If you want anything you can hit me up on MSN: fail-ninja@hotmail.com. I'm not scared of you.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:42:54 No.205000XXX
    >>205000532

    and its usually just voices in my head.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:43:28 No.205000XXX
    internets. various ways to entertain myself (games, anime). eating. doing drugs whenever possible. close relationship to my cat. etc.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:43:28 No.205000XXX
    >>205000559

    it sure fucking does.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:43:31 No.205001XXX
    Video games
    I do chat to people online, technically i have a lot of friends, but i never ever socialise with anyone.
    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)11:44:04 No.205001XXX
    work from 5-9
    no social interactions what so ever,
    i keep my sanity by....... i have no idea. i guess i just have fun by myself and forget everything else:).
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:44:39 No.205001XXX
    Just keep yourself busy (vidyageams work fine) and you won't miss them.
    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)11:44:44 No.205001XXX
    >>205000388
    talking to yourself isn't weird. its actually quite normal. :).
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:44:48 No.205001XXX
    Simcity motherfucker. I have conquered the entire map, my cities make millions of dollars.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:44:51 No.205001XXX
    I talk to the pink elephant outside my window
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:45:13 No.205001XXX
    >>205001001
    lucky, over the years i've even lost most of my internet friends, and can't make more it seems. i just get annoyed at people too easily and yell at them, hoho
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:45:35 No.205001XXX
    >>204993055

    I agree with this fine gentlemen and applaud his actions, as I too am of the same circumstance as he.
    >> anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:45:41 No.205001XXX
    Spend very little time with people - to stay in the loop I Warhammer once a week, and Dnd Once a week. That's pretty much the limit of my need for human interaction, occasionally call a fuck buddy when I want a screw.

    The majority of fucking idiots my age want to Get high, Get drunk and do stupid shit. Fuck that, I work 12 hours a day.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:45:45 No.205001XXX
    >>204992492
    Hermione Sex Tape! http://foa.me/Hermione
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:45:46 No.205001XXX
    60726 --Declaring WAR against /b/ - Fuck all you faggots. If you want anything you can hit me up on MSN: fail-ninja@hotmail.com. I'm not scared of you.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:46:27 No.205001XXX
    >>205001265
    i would rather troll people online than befriend them. so i have very few internet friends.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:46:36 No.205001XXX
    >>205001194

    yea, but i talk to made up persons too, as i said a bit later. this is hard as shit to talk about.. i usually just keep everything to myself.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:47:05 No.205001XXX
    >>205000822
    If the voice is yours and you're consciously talking to yourself don't worry.

    If the voice appears to be some third party and beyond your control, worry.
    >> That One Guy 03/09/10(Tue)11:47:08 No.205001XXX
    Well, let's see:

    I go to work, come home, and do nothing. I do things, but not much that could be construed as productive to most.

    Keeping my sanity is easy. I smoke pot, which chills me out, and I tend to play a lot of games to let out potential anger. Sure, I get insanely lonely or depressed, but I don't act like a pussy or anything. Just suck it up.

    I do have roommates, and a few close friends who I see occasionally, but if I had my way, I wouldn't talk to anyone but online. Not sure why I feel that way.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:47:11 No.205001XXX
    >>204993055
    Same as you bro. Except I know no girls and neither do any of my friends. Hell, I'm not even strictly hetero but I don't know any gay/bi guys. Feels bad man.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:47:12 No.205001XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:47:15 No.205001XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:47:19 No.205001XXX
    Women can never be your friends.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:48:07 No.205001XXX
    We can stand it because we choose to live this way. People are retards. If you're lonely go to a bar or a coffee shop and Fucking talk to people.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:48:47 No.205001XXX
    >>205001354
    I work 12 hours a day too, that leaves another 12 hours to get high, drunk and sleep
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:49:00 No.205001XXX
    >>204992492
    i listen to music, lots of music and cruise my car around town with nowhere to go , stop at the occasional walmart or store just walk around hoping to meet someone...
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:49:17 No.205001XXX
    /b/
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:49:45 No.205001XXX
    >>205000564
    you sound like Sheldon from the Big Bang Theory
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:49:48 No.205001XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:49:57 No.205001XXX
    >>205001697

    everyone doesnt choose to live alone. some people, like me, just cant/dont know how to make friends.
    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)11:50:17 No.205002XXX
    >>205001489
    so? i do that shit too trust me its normal =D
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:50:36 No.205002XXX
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    >>204992492
    Start exercising. Running releases a lot of endorphins. After a couple weeks of suck this will seriously make you happy. Worked great for me. Seriously try it you will shit brix.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:50:40 No.205002XXX
    I just keep constantly busy and never think about it.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:50:49 No.205002XXX
    >>205000564
    >>205000564

    lol'd at antisocial leader of men. What are you 13? maybe 15? People get promoted based on their social relations with bosses, not merits. Leaders get elected on their charisma and ability to communicate to people, not their policy.

    People don't make decisions on cold hard facts, that's just not the way it works unfortunately. They use intuition and 'softer' criteria rather than merit. People listen to and take advice others with whom they can relate. Your worldview is sadly inaccurate, and will result in disappointment only my friend.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:51:00 No.205002XXX
    I love the silence. ahh the silence...
    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)11:51:42 No.205002XXX
    >>205001554
    hell no, i hear other voices besides my own but i control them, :).
    >>205001977
    i choose to live alone, therefore i want to die alone.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:51:46 No.205002XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:51:59 No.205002XXX
    >>205002025
    lol, ty. my ex bf yelled at me and said that i was sick and needed help asap.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:52:02 No.205002XXX
    Well, I've made 3 real friends in these 28 years, none who live less than 1000 miles away. I tried being social where I live but people here are really shitty in this culture (Northern Alberta) Now I've wasted enough time trying to be social and know that I'm better off to stay at home.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:52:54 No.205002XXX
    >>205000564

    I think you and I will have some problems in the future. I won't be easily dissuaded from my path of global conquest.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:53:00 No.205002XXX
    >>204993055
    Damm i have a few friends. But hatting humaity is fucking dumb. You should change your attitude and you won't be a loner.There are a lot of nice people you just have to find them :D!
    I KNOW I WAS A LONER FOR 3 YEARS AND IT FUCKING SUCKS :( !!
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:53:11 No.205002XXX
    friendship is way overrated
    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)11:53:55 No.205002XXX
    >>205002256
    you're welcome. pffft don't let people tell you that. just because society decides you're not fitted to them and say you're sick doesn't mean you are. =D. also fuck your ex-bf he sounds like a dumbass :)
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:54:55 No.205002XXX
    >>204993075
    ...Rob?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:56:17 No.205002XXX
    >>205002578

    i know, thats what i always thought, untill he twisted my head with all the shit he said.
    yes, he was/is a dumbass.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:56:49 No.205003XXX
    >>205002742

    Richard??
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:56:52 No.205003XXX
    30320 - omg you seriously have to see this guys - http://camstream.t35 dot com/trinajang.php
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:57:00 No.205003XXX
    >>204993101

    +1

    The world is so full of retards that, if retardation were a bomb, you could blow away the entire solar system.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:58:19 No.205003XXX
    >>205003050
    No anon, the truth is, you are the retard.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:58:34 No.205003XXX
    >>205003050

    i'd say it could blow away way more than that. way more.
    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)11:58:51 No.205003XXX
    >>205002943
    theres no was he still is. every guy in this forsaken planet are dumbass's (im a guy btw just so you don't think im a butthurt femanon or some shit) atleast the social ones. while the smart ones don't interact with human because this will only weaken them. and make them dumber twist they minds till they become something they wished they would never become. until they ultimatly destroy themselfs in the process of being something society approved because they crave something they can't have at that moment. this is why i choose to be anti-social to not become one of them. don't get me wrong. i have a job blah blah blah. i just dont talk to people.they might talk to me and all i say is yes no alright. but thats about it.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:58:56 No.205003XXX
    -
    -
    -
    -
    -
    -

    If u can't get urself more than 1 friend then it's a sign.

    i suggest you go sit down on ur couch and wait for natural selection to deal with you
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)11:59:27 No.205003XXX
    Antisocial doesn't mean bad at social relations. Quite the opposite. It means being able to utilize relationships to your own ends, while generally disliking others.

    If you look at leaders throughout history, you'll find that many of them had precisely these attributes: unusual intelligence coupled with ruthlessness and the ability to manipulate others.

    Stalin, Hitler, Richard Nixon, and many other leaders, past and present, had or have it.

    Being intelligent and analytical in one's own thoughts doesn't necessitate having to use logic as a preferred method of persuasion with others.

    One hardly gets ahead in this world by being an idiot. The intelligent man can assess the situation on his terms and then employ whatever tools necessary to "persuade" others to his side, whether that involves deception, appeals to authority, playing on guilt, or sheer force of personality.

    I am neither a teenager nor a college student.

    I am a self-employed adult male, financially well-off, and I devote my substantial free time to improving myself in preparation for the future.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:00:30 No.205003XXX
    Some people, myself included, just don't need social interaction to survive.

    You either can do it or you can't.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:00:37 No.205003XXX
    >>205003350
    No you're just some autistic retard who needs to get his head out of his own arse.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:00:38 No.205003XXX
    I do as the leprechaun tells me. He keeps my sanity safe in Al Gore's lock box.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:01:24 No.205003XXX
    If being socially accepted means to conform to todays society than i am happy as i am.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:01:38 No.205003XXX
    I have friends online, as sad as you may think that is.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:01:42 No.205003XXX
    >>204992492
    Hermione Sex Tape! http://foa.me/Hermione
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:02:36 No.205003XXX
    People are simply boring, retarded and fucking lame.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:02:38 No.205003XXX
    I rationalize everything, making it have no meaning... Friends are a weakness, a weakness to me, i want to live without weakness.

    So why have friends?
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:03:08 No.205004XXX
    For the past 7 years or so I've had no real friends, except one who calls me occasionally to ask me for a place to stay because he's a street kid who does lots of meth -- I just ignore his calls now. For about 6 of those 7 years I wasn't in school (just started) and would go outside once every few months, and yes, that's even taking into consideration things like going to the store, etc..

    I feel deep in a hole with no way out, no help to get out and no motivation to ever try to get out. It's lonely and it's scary in here, even though I manage to go long stretches of time completely content just by playing games and shit.

    Life sucks, /b/.
    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)12:03:38 No.205004XXX
    >>205003790
    its not sad, a friend is a friend, and although you might think of us as family /b/, you, me, all of us are family we look out for each other. or atleast it used to be that way. some of us still do. i know alot of /b/tards who look out for each other like family because believe it or not. your friends, their replaceable they might leave some day and you'll never see them again, your girlfriend? your boyfriend? they'll leave after a few years sometimes month. but /b/rothers are for ever.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:03:40 No.205004XXX
    People are only friends untill they fuck you over. And trust me everyone will.
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:04:33 No.205004XXX
    >>205003350
    id say the same about women. i rather hang out with guys than girls. they are less of a pain in the ass. but guys always expect to get laid just because im a girl. both genders sucks horsedick.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:04:37 No.205004XXX
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    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)12:05:07 No.205004XXX
    >>205004106
    you might not think of us as a family*, /b/
    sorry alot of spelling mistakes today.just woke up.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:05:47 No.205004XXX
    Having no one around you and living a boring life means no drama, or anything of the sort. Thus I don't need social support.

    Plus people are really fucking annoying.
    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)12:06:16 No.205004XXX
    >>205004245
    yes i wasn't saying women aren't but since we were talking about that girls ex-bf. it was appropriate to say guy/guy's. women are exactly the same. atleast 2% aren't
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:06:21 No.205004XXX
    dude no friends? just get on skype or a messenger program and start calling/texting

    you'll have people to chat with in no time.

    me personally? I usually prefer to be alone and most people talking bores me unless I'm directly asking questions I find entertaining.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:06:34 No.205004XXX
    Exercise. And I don't mean work out. No, I mean do some basic stamina shit. Put some music on in your phones or on the speakers and go running, or run up steps, or whatever. Exercise is good for the soul, makes you happy and self confident.
    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)12:07:06 No.205004XXX
    if anyone wants to just chat, or have a friend to talk to.
    ccxlelouch@hotmail.com
    =D
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:09:51 No.205005XXX
    If you like animals, get a dog.

    Will be your best friend, always there for you, never judge you.

    Taking him/her for a walk is a great way of meeting people too, even if that meeting is the briefest of interactions, it's better than none at all.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:10:50 No.205005XXX
    Well i have her.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:11:45 No.205005XXX
    >>205004538

    true dat. ive never met a woman who i could talk to. they just bitch about lame things noone wants to hear.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:13:04 No.205005XXX
    >>205004461
    People are annoying as hell.
    If you manage to find some person, that you enjoy talking to, stick to that person.
    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)12:13:04 No.205005XXX
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    >>205005436
    true true, like i actually care about her day at the mall shopping. pic related my face when she stops talking after 5 hours.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:13:55 No.205005XXX
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    No matter how faggy it sounds, this: http://www.sedona.com/ has helped me tremendously to see that all society tells you to do or be is just made up bs to keep the masses occupied.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:14:34 No.205005XXX
    >>204992492
    >how do you manage to keep your sanity?
    we're on /b/.
    Ergo we don't.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:15:32 No.205006XXX
    >>205003305

    The explosion would be so big that the entire local cluster of galaxies would be blown away. The fabric of spacetime itself would be affected.

    Don't underestimate the power of the retardatino. A particle without antiparticle. The most powerful source of energy in the multiverse.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:15:48 No.205006XXX
    Women are complete fucking idiots, nothing more than overgrown children. It is an abomination that they are allowed to vote, allowed to work alongside men, and to have equal standing. Fortunately, any society which creates such a travesty is bound to collapse eventually, and this process has long since begun in the West.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:16:02 No.205006XXX
    I have a fantasy that one day I'll fly down a chick I talk to on MSN who lives on the other side of the world and show her what a successful person I am and she'll stay with me.
    Only chick I've found that I enjoy talking to just as I would any other bro.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:16:09 No.205006XXX
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    >> hei !8k3JR/cKIg 03/09/10(Tue)12:16:20 No.205006XXX
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    >>205005825
    no shit sherloc.we all know its made up bs.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:16:25 No.205006XXX
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    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:18:21 No.205006XXX
    wanna hear a paradox?
    I left /b/ for 4 months and had a huge boost in my grades and such, but my social life died at the same time.
    >> Anonymous 03/09/10(Tue)12:18:35 No.205006XXX
    >>205006226
    Strange hearing this coming from a tripfaq.



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