/adv/ - Just so tired?

Anonymous
Just so tired? 08/06/13(Tue)00:50 No.12767780

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Just so tired? Anonymous 08/06/13(Tue)00:50 No.12767780

How do I bounce back /adv/? I think I am in a really bad slump.. Both of my parents are dead, I currently have a shitty job as a dish washer, I have a degree in computer science but I suck at job searching. I just feel so tired and banged up. It aches to even move. I miss my parents a lot, I miss being able to come home and show my mother my good grades in my college courses. Now no one really cares. I barely care.. I just want to live again. Right now I feel like I am hanging on but thats all. Not improving, not getting better. Just taking more and more hits. Hits to my character, hits to my body, hits to my mind. I don't know how to recover without my parents. I am 22 and I feel absolutely helpless.

How do you bounce back? This picture helps me keep hope though. Especially the flavor text. I try to remember it when I become critically doubtful and it helps me keep going for a bit longer.

Anonymous
08/06/13(Tue)01:04 No.12767887

Anonymous 08/06/13(Tue)01:04 No.12767887

bump

Anonymous
08/06/13(Tue)01:09 No.12767935

Anonymous 08/06/13(Tue)01:09 No.12767935

>>12767780 (OP)
There is always light at the end of the road. If you want change you gotta make it and stop feeling sorry for yourself.

Start job searching.. that's a big start to becoming something/someone with goals.

Anonymous
08/06/13(Tue)01:15 No.12767971

Anonymous 08/06/13(Tue)01:15 No.12767971

Don't give up on searching for that job if you have that degree there is a place that will hire you even if there is a 1/1000 chance you will be selected.I had a friend that works accounting and he had a very poor record barely got the degree got rejected a million times but finally got his job.Look at it as if you're starting your life anew again and besides if you're parents were alive they wouldnt want to to give up now.

Anonymous
08/06/13(Tue)01:15 No.12767974

Anonymous 08/06/13(Tue)01:15 No.12767974

Dishashing is not an easy job. My hands ache constantly. I hope you find a better job, OP, I'm thinking of quitting soon too.

Anonymous
08/06/13(Tue)01:18 No.12768002

Anonymous 08/06/13(Tue)01:18 No.12768002

OP here, thank you for the advice. I will try to take it.. I am just so sick of life hurting me so badly. Its not like my car broke down or something or my laptop burnt out. My parents are dead and the home we lived in is gone because I couldn't afford it.

I really do feel lost without my parents. Parents seem to help so much. I work with a few 17 year olds and their parents get them new cars and everything. They have more control over their life than I do. I feel I am at the mercy of everyone and I have to beg people for favors and help. I hate begging.