bumping for advice.

>>11513653 (OP)
You could have bitten his dick off. You really should have said something before a cock went anywhere near your mouth since you were fully aware it was sensitive for you.

That was kinda hot to read.

>>11513653 (OP)
Speak to him again and tell him there were many times you thought about it and wanted to, but didnt know when the right time was as its such a touchy subject. And also didnt feel you were able to, (for obvious reasons) say you were so glad he felt he could intrust you with this information, but felt you couldnt let it out then. Just say look its out now, and its very hard for both of us but we need to move on from here and support eachother as much as possible. You do not deserve this anger and I dont blame you OP. Just because he told you something does NOT automatically mean you must tell him. Fuck that.

Sorry about what happened to you also.

>>11513653 (OP)

he'll stop doubting you if you have it in your to tell it to him straight.

thats how relationships work.

Men look at raped women differently. That's why you didn't tell him. It had nothing to do with his ability to share to you, and reciprocating. You were simply afraid to do it. And, you thought you were handling it well, anyway. But, you need to stop this accusation of you lying in the bud. Put your foot down about it. I wouldn't take that one lying down. It's a dealbreaker. Make him apologize.

>>11513737
>Make him apologize.

>>11513710
>Just because he told you something does NOT automatically mean you must tell him.

Cunts detected. Put your BF on OP, I need to tell him to get the fuck away from you.

I know it's not really relevant, but did you swallow, or spit, or kind of let it just drizzle out of your mouth?

Also did you grab like a immediate drink of water or use mouthwash or something? How did you deal with the aftereffects?

>>11513758
This is very important.

Also men can't be raped.

>>11513653 (OP)

Should of told him. Yes he has a right to be upset at you not telling him. Not quite so upset that it would warrant a huge catastrophe, but yeah. He confessed what is probably his darkest secret to you, and you kept a similar secret from him. Basically now, he believe you don't trust him and he clearly trusts you. If there was a time to say "Oh yeah, I got raped too." I imagine it's after your S/O tells you about their trauma. You could have been bonding over this. Hell this moment wouldn't have happened AT ALL had you just been as honest as your boyfriend.

I would be pissed too. He probably doesn't believe you because some people become so sympathetic towards another persons trauma that they make up their own story. I'd personally think that you made it up too, and you just don't like my cum or something.

Trust/Honesty. That's how you build a relationship. I hope he leaves you for a 10/10 not damaged girl and every b/f you have touches your neck, whispers and cums in your mouth during sex.

>>11513766
As a man who has been raped, I call bullshit on your staement.

>>11513653 (OP)
from his point of view it feels like you just pulled the rape card out of your ass to use as an excuse, and are possibly mocking him. you should have picked a better time to tell him, especially since you have such a big reaction to certain things

>>11513758
I started gagging and cough it out, then immediately ran to the bathroom sink while saying "Sorry, sorry, sorry" over and over again.

>>11513653 (OP)

He was probably just annoyed that you didn't tell him more than doubting it happened, the same thing happened with my girlfriend, she had been raped but didn't tell me, so when she started to 'freak' about sex when it came up i assumed that she was just embarrassed about the topic (she is shy at the best of times), so when she finally told me about it i was hurt that she hadn't told me before we had had sex more than anything, and it started to make be think i had forced it on her.

so i would say talk to him later when he has had a while to think about it, and explain how you just didn't want to recount it etc, things should be normal again soon enough.

Have you considered that maybe he finds it hard to believe you, not because he just doesn't trust you but because he trusts you so much that it is unfathomable to him that you would keep something like that from him, especially when he admitted that he was raped himself to you.

>>11513808
you may have been forcibly sodomized but as a man you can not be raped

wait... he finished in your mouth without telling you? that would freak any girl out, raped or not

Everyone's right. I really should have told him.

But it's important for me to stress that I really thought it would never come up, that I was 100% over it, and that there would be no reason for me to dredge up old shit. I felt so high and mighty that I got over it with little consequences, and then go and have a stupid breakdown years after it happened.

>>11513864
>that would freak any girl out
Maybe ones that aren't aware of the biological function of a penis. And then you shouldn't be having sex with them because they obviously can't consent due to their metal retardation.

>>11513796
>He probably doesn't believe you because some people become so sympathetic towards another persons trauma that they make up their own story.

OP here, do people actually do this?

>>11513848
When you tell a woman 'no' and she continues to have sex with you anyways it is rape.

>>11513879
so it's normal to goober a load of strongly salty tasting shit in your mouth uninformed?

>>11513983
Is your mouth on his FUCKING DICK?

Then YES, it is NORMAL. If you don't want semen in your mouth, DON'T PUT A DICK IN IT.