>>9754325

GGG, I'm so stupid, on Monday I asked a girl for her number, put in in my phone's contacts, and today I got my phone stolen.

What should I do? Ask her again? What would I say?

thanks ggg

>>9754453
Yeah ask her again and just tell her the truth. Why would you lie man?

How do you initiate making out at lets say a movie theater?

>>9754476
You make her turn her head at you, lean in and kiss her.

>>9754464
Would it be beta to ask her friend for her number so I don't have to ask her again for it?

>>9754503
There no thing as "beta".
But I dont see why you couldnt ask her again, people lose their phones all the time.

Almost dated this guy about 1.5 years ago, we're still friends with some romantic feeling for each other, but not enough to leave our partners. He gets very jealous when I talk about other guys or spend a lot of time with a guy friend.

I could go on and on about the shit he's pulled (I have too) but how can I teach him a lesson? I'm not with him and he has no right to be jealous.

>>9754527
Well why should you teach him a lesson. Just tell him you feel it's stupid when he is jelous when you are just friends.

Punishing people for having emotions... where are we going with this society...

Girl I like just got out of a relationship. It wasn't a long relationship, but she seems pretty distressed. How do I handle this (how long do I wait? Comfort her? Etc.)? If it helps, we're friends but I don't think I'm close enough to her to be in the "friendzone."

>>9754549
I have, many times. He still acts like I belong to him. And trust me, for all the shit he's done to me, he deserves a little punishment. I want him to regret not dating me.

>>9754609
You dont need to wait, and comfort her by doing fun stuff with her.

>>9754612
I wont help you make anyone suffer.

There's this girl I'm pretty good friends with and she friendzoned me hard some months ago, but despite that we get around pretty well. The other day though she made hints that she wanted me to kiss her (such as mentioning it was National Kissing Day and texting me later that for some reason she thought I was going to kiss her because I had "that look in my eye" or someshit like that) but since I still remembered that feel when friendzoned and didn't really want to put up with and drama bullshit that might result, I didn't kiss her.

To build upon that, I also tend to help her out with homework and test studying and shit since I'm that one really smart guy who's a pushover and is willing to help anyone who asks. And since she's taking a math class online and sucks at math she wants me to help her with all her tests on that shit.

Anyways, what really rustles my jimmies is that despite how willing I am to help her and how much of a "great friend" I am to her, she doesn't care to tell me about this possible date she might have on Sunday and sometimes it feels like she barely even listens to me when I'm talking about something that I find interesting.

wat do ggg? Any general advice on anything?

>>9754687
What to do about what exactly?
And general advice. Live in the present and regret nothing.

>>9754704
It's like, wat do about her?

It's almost as if I'm only her friend because I keep her from failing class and because I'm a good wall to listen to her rants about life. I can listen to her go on and on and on about things and then when I try to talk about something she just goes off and either redirects the conversation towards her or goes and talks to someone else in our little group. And I don't like interrupting conversations so I usually just wait for an opening to come back into the conversation but none ever really come up.

And then she says that she trusts me and I'm one of her closest friends or whatever and she won't even tell me the name of the guy she's interested in. And I probably don't even know the guy, nor do I really care.

It's like fuck man what the hell am I supposed to be to you anyways?

>>9754752
And what are your intentions towards this girl?
You are not obligated to listen to her, you are not obligated to help her, all your decisions are made by you.

My little brother and his friends are obsessed with this site. I started shitposting on it and noticed that you're one of the "memes." How does that make you feel?

http://www.hsmemes.com/locale/7576/Northampton-High-School

I can't tell if one of my male friends hates me or loves me lately. If I were to read subtly it would seem as if maybe he was interested in me... but I'm trying to not do that and outwardly he seems apathetic and aloof. Maybe even mad at me...? Or maybe he is trying to get me to leave him alone. I don't know. So I'm trying not to bug him and it's confusing me. What do I do?

>>9754784
I'm one of those people who like helping other people so my intentions are really only to be a good friend. But it doesn't really feel like friendship when a person says something like "you're great and one of my best friends" and then can't even tell you something as simple as a person's name. Actions speak louder than words yo.

>>9754812
You realize I'm not the guy from the meme. Real picture of me is in OP.
>>9754816
And would you like to date him?

>>9754828
I'm almost proud of myself for not being up to date with the memes.

>>9754821
tell me what to do ggg ;_;

>>9754828
That question scares me and I don't know how to answer.

>>9754877
That's what I cant do. This needs to be your decision. You have to decide wheter you wan to be her friend or not.
>>9754908
Then how do you expect me to help you?

i have come to a point where everything is shit. getting a job is shit. doing nothing is shit. trying to follow my dreams is shit. trying to be happy is shit. trying to change my perspective just leads to me feeling worse than where I was. I feel like pawning all my belongings to purchase a gun and just going to sleep already. nothing seems important anymore. i feel so out of it all the time. i am crazy. what do i do. took anti depressants and that has left me insane now i feel weird. i dont think things are going to be the same. although i cant help but feel excited for whats going to come i get these waves of excruciating sadness and hate that one day I feel that its going to build up to the point where i snap and thatll be the end of me.

>>9754953
You should seek up a schrink.

>>9754962
i tried it before he just sat there quiet and all i did was talk, rarely did he ask questions. or was that a psychiatrist i dont know

>>9754940
I kind of just expected you to tell me he hates me and the rest was in my head to be honest. I don't know.

>>9754971
Well that's what he is supposed to do.
>>9754988
I'm not a mindreader lady, the eaisest way to get the information is to ask for them

Let's check this

I have a friend for few years. We met on the net and still communicate only by network. Month ago she broke with her bf so she again started write often to me (we have contacts all the time, but after break its almost everyday).
She felt really bad about what happened with her, so i decided go to her. She accepted that, but after few days she wrote that she isn't ready to meet a man. I was curious cause i wasn't trying to date her or anything. I wanted just make her feel better and that's all. How should i understand it?
In addition, she doesn't want to meet me irl, but she wants to chatt everyday. I have no idea what to think about it.

>>9754995
what good comes out of it? I don't understand the point of me blabbering on and on about stuff that bothers me. I can do that here for free.

>>9755002
Just was just making sure you also understand she doesnt want a relationship. Woman know man sometimes dont understand their signals correctly and the more clever ones will thus tell you straight.

>>9754325
GGG Is that you in the GGG picture? I'm starting to see it on facebook now and it must be something else to have to your picture floating around everyone's news feed.

>>9755010
Some people prefer talking to an actaull person and not just an anonymous crowd.
Also they can see mental diseases if you have one, and the doctors among them can prescribe pills for those.
And from your first post you sound like you have depression, but only a schrink can confirm that.

>>9755024

This is me. It's even it the OP, cant ou people read?

So i've been doing favours for a friend of mines (giving him my finished reports to take from, signing him in etc), he said in thanks he'll pay for my half of a dominos pizza next time we have it.
So we had the pizza, and now he doesn't remember saying that, and insists I owe him money, there are no texts to prove it, but it's likely he does remember (he said it about 3 weeks ago).
What do?

>>9755027
ive been bottling stuff since i can remember, im not one that can talk about things so easily to people.

>>9755045
That doesnt sound like a friend. Say to him, Fuck off.
>>9755050
Bottling emotions only makes the worse.

>>9755070
Pathetic as it is, he's my only friend. Is there anyway to solve this without losing somehow?

>>9755089
As I said, he doesnt sound like a friend. He is just using you.

bumo

>femanon, racist parents
>have wanted black guy for a while
>kissed black guy a few hours ago
>awesome lol
>what the fuck do with parents? do tell? do not tell? they're going to find out I want black dick eventually.
>they'd probably prefer me to be pregnant
>or dying

>>9755269
Ignore your parents. At a certain age they have no right to talk into your personal life.

There's a girl at my school who i think is checking me out, but i'm not sure....i'm a kind of awkward guy and I don't want to make a move until I know if she likes me or not....
P.S. We had the same class with each-other for a year so we hung out, so we kind of know eachother

>>9755542
If you want ot wait until you know for sure you will wait forever. Only way how to know for sure is to ask her out.

Just dropping in to say sup GGG, and keep up the good work... apparently I replied to a thread I shouldn't have somewhere around here the other day and have been MIA for two days... if you know what I mean...

>>9755568
I actaully have no idea what MIA means.

hello im 18 just finishing my first year of college in the u.s (i'm Jamaican)

i plan on staying here for the entire 4 years but i have no car , no money ( i have a job but its mostly goes to school) and no cellphone

is there any chance of me being able to date girls successfully in this country if so, can you give me some tips as to how ?

Thanks, GGG, I think shes out of my league, but thanks to you, I'm gonna grow some balls and talk to her

Hey GGG

So in the last few weeks things have been goin' pretty solid in terms of getting shit done, not worrying about shit, all that good stuff. I even found myself a new girl, one that's not batshit insane and one that actually seems genuine!

The thing is, I've been having this inner conflict with this other chick - my ex from a couple months ago -, and I thought we were cool at first, but to be honest, she's a real fuckin' bitch.

And I keep thinking about her, I don't fucking know why. There is absolutely no reason for me to go back, yet I think I'm sacrificing my devotion to my new gf when I constantly think about how bitchy my ex is...and it's in a way where I guess I want an apology er some shit.

She's constantly annoying/bitchy to me when she has the chance (our friend groups unfortunately interconnect, so I see her on a daily basis), and usually it starts off when she can't take a joke er some shit, and she blatantly insults me.

And to be quite honest, I don't know if I want to put up with it anymore...a huge part of me just wants to go up to her, yell "FUCK YOU" and just completely forget about her.

The sad thing is, I'm having dreams about her too.

What the fuck am I thinking/doing?

What should I say back to this? I'm on the top.

>>9755601
I'm not american just so you know.
Not having a cellphone will be brining you down, because it will be harder for people to contact you and for you to contact them.
Money is not really need when dating the right kind of girls.
Car is just optional.

And just keep asking girls out.

>Ask me anything

I have this friend and he was constantly asking me if there was a job opening at the delivery place I worked at. Now I know that the place doesnt easily hire I waited for a perfect opportunity to come along.

The day after a big holiday here my boss asked me if I was up to work because there was no one who could. I had plans for the big holiday, so I said I couldnt, but said I had a friend who might want to work there. So I arranged that he could work that day, I would show him the job a few days before and that was that, I thought.

I was wrong. This dude is a notorious backtracker. He backtracks on seriously fucking everything, but I thought this was different. The deliveries are on mopeds and it's sort-of illegal work. He knew this. His parents are now telling him he cant go because its dangerous and he doesnt get insurance when it's sort-of illegal(which is bullshit). He now tells me he cant do it, the dude is almost 20.

This is definitely going to look bad for me and I might have to work the day to make it up. What the fuck do I do?

>>9755605
Dont just talk to her (no girl is out of your league for just talking), ask her out for a date.
>>9755610
I think that emotions are strong and last for awhile. And if you really want to say to her fuck you, then tell it to her.
>>9755612
I'm gonna need more then just that.

>I went out yesterday in a big city
>saw these two girls from high school there
>one I always found incredibly cute
>dont say anything because I think they dont recognize me
>'hey arent you Anon! wow so nice to see you here, do you even know my name?'
>'yeah its Femanon'
>'wow really didnt think you knew who I was'

I thought she was drunk so I didnt think anything of it, but she added me on Facebook today. It has been a while since I did something like this, what do I do now?

I wont be seeing her in person unless I have a stroke of luck.

>>9755629
Either you force the guy to go there as he promised or you do his work.

>>9755651
then write her on facebook and ask her out. Nothing bad with it if you dont have other options.

>>9755646
Guy who posted the chatlog here.
This is a girl who I've known a little bit from one of my classes, but I talked to her quite a bit today at a going away party from one of my classes. She's really cool, and I messaged her later in the day.
Would it be ok to say something like
>I'll let you know if I'm ever in the area this summer!
I just don't want to seem creepy.

>>9755671

GGG Yesterday you gave me some advice and it gave me the courage to go ahead and ask a girl out. Just wanted to thank you for that.

>>9755673
Doesnt sound creepy to me.

I'd personally say something like "yeah, enjoy your summer too"

>>9755660
Am I right to be mad at the dude or should I understand where he's coming from?

I mean, what the fuck, I already told him he cant just bail now because he made a promise and a big boy has to be true to his promises, but he went into a huge whinefest about how his parents and him have been fighting a lot and that he doesnt want anymore trouble.

There's no way I can do the work. I made plans to be high on E that morning.

>>9755698
You dont have any obligations to understand his problems.
But you know, if you are gonna have problems if the work he should do doesnt get done, getting high isnt worth it.

>>9755671
>then write her on facebook and ask her out. Nothing bad with it if you dont have other options.

Ask her out? I'm already anxious thinking of that.

>>9755712
>getting high isnt worth it.

:( This holiday is the best day of the year. Fuck my friend. He's such a bitch to his parents. He's fucking 20 and he can't even make any decisions.

Ight GGG, check this shit out.

So I chilled with a girl (and my roommate and the girl's friend) about a week and a half ago and she was really similar to me so I was kind of into her. I expected us to make the occasion sort of a thing, so I did not ask her for her number or anything like that (I was also high, and I can't do any of that shit high). Eventually they left and her friend texted my roommate that the girl was into me as well. He asked if I wanted her number and I declined since I wanted to ask her in person since I thought we would see each other again in not that long of a time.

That didn't happen. So I hit her up on Facebook, right, and got an answer (with a smiley face fuckyeah.jpg) a day later and then I said "Hanging out was fun, we should do it again some time" ... This was about 5 days ago that I sent it. The bitch is like NEVER on Facebook either and I have yet to get an answer. Do I have something to worry about? What should I do?

>>9755714
But you would like to date her right?
>>9755726
Yeah. Shit happens man.

Hey GGG,

How can I find girls for relationships? I can hook up with girls, but that's the most I'll get from it.

I just want someone new to love since my ex-girlfriend.

>>9755740
You should ask the friend if he would give you the number and then call her.

>>9755750

But, like, after this amount of time, you don't think that'd be strange? Especially after messaging her on Facebook?

>>9755744
Keep looking though the pick-up. It may take some time. It took me 4 years since to fall in love again once.

>>9755742
>But you would like to date her right?

I think so, eventually. I would like it to go gradually, but I know this risks a big friendzone.

Just uttering those words to her and asking her out is so fucking scary. I'm a pussy, every girl I have ever dated/hooked up with was a sure thing and it was barely scary to do. Except for two girls.

>>9755612

Stop asking 4chan for advice. I think your overthinking it. Sometime, you just got to do it.

>>9755757
I dont think it would be strange. If I did I wouldnt suggest it.

Sup GGG.

Was good friends with a girl before I eventually 'fell' for her and she didn't feel the same way, so I severed ties but still have to see her until i'm finished with my classes (another month or so). Aaaanyways I feel like I have some...'unfinished' business I guess you could say, after ending our friendship (and her kind of friendzoning me) so abruptly, and it just keeps occupying my mind lately. What do?

>>9755759
But it seems that the girls that respond to my cocky/flirty side(which I fake somewhat) are horribly shallow and boring.

I havent had a decent conversation with a girl in over 6 months.

Is a relationship worth getting into when I'll be moving two hours away in four months?

If the answer to the above question is yes, good ways to get my intentions known?

Herro ggg,

Highschoolfag here. Looking for advice on how to approach girls in high school, in the halls, or in the classroom. I'm considered pretty good looking (I've seen girls eye me and some play footsie with me but I've always been too afraid of fucking something up to do anything about it) and I'm pretty confident but have shit social skills since I was ugly until fairly recently.

>>9755760
Friendzone is a place where only you can put yourself. I have girls as friends and I'm not in their "friendzone"
Trust me on this one and just ask her out right now, you'll have a lot more to talk about on dates when trying to find out stuff about each other.
>>9755770
You werent friendzoned, you were rejected as a boyfriend.
Why did your friendship end over this? Was it too hard for you?

But anyways, you cannot escape feeling, but they fade overtime or are overshined by new ones.

Hey GGG, I posted earlier in another thread about trying to date my TA.

>I talked to him about 1 on 1 study session
>He said he's open to it
>We're meeting tomorrow outside his office hours
>I play flirted with him while we talked and he played back but he does that with everyone
>I'm pretty sure he likes me

What do I do tomorrow to make a move?

>>9755800
High school parties, man. High school parties.

Also be the class badass. Girls will love you instantly and you can just hook up with them at the parties.

>>9755784
Then find friends for talking.
As I said, took me 4 years before I found a girl I wanted to stick with for longer then a few weeks or month at maximum.
>>9755800
Just go to her and ask her out. That's the whole trick.
>>9755804
I think it would be better if I could first know what's a TA.

>>9755824
TA = teaching assistant, he's a grad student who runs the lab section of my class.

>>9755824
>Then find friends for talking.

I have loads of friends to talk with. I dont want to be with a girl I dont click with.

Isn't the logical conclusion here that game is fucking useless for finding a good girlfriend?

>>9755854
Okey. Just want to check, isnt this somehow against what he signed in his contract?

>Know girl
>Wants me
>Want her
>Spend good time together do things normal friends don't do, guess I was too beta at the time to start a more serious relationship
>Changes schools
>Gets a boyfriend
>Still shows interest over me after these months of her with someone else, although it's been showing less because she's probably gotten closer to the other dude

Is she just promiscuous or do I really have a chance with her if the relationship doesn't last long? Mind you this isn't a random person, we've been childhood friends.

Thanks in advance mang, I haven't really gotten anyone to tell this to.

>>9755824

Won't it seem creepy if I just walk up to her and ask her out? What if she's with her friends?

And let me revise the previous statement, my social skills are decent, I just know fuck-all about talking to girls since I was too ugly to realistically hook up with any before.

I've got good enough social skills, I'm physically fit, I'm decently attractive and I've had multiple girlfriends in the past. Not as many as you, but enough to be considered normal.

I lost all my drive to out and meet new women or make new friends and spend a lot of my time lately indoors. I'd like to get back out there but with all the willpower to do so sucked out of me it makes it very difficult.

I don't like clubs or bars (bars I don't mind, but not my favourite thing to do). Any advice on how to break this spell?

>>9755863
The school policy is just against relationships between faculty and students.

He's a graduate student, not considered faculty. We'd just have to wait until after final grades are in for this semester before we could start dating openly.

>>9755770
Dats me
>>9755803
Sorry, guess I should have explained a bit more, but after a bunch of cuddling and our friends trying to get us to date she just explained that she didn't feel the same way, but still wanted me as a friend, hence the FZ I guess. Also, she started hanging out with me a lot more whenever she got into a LDR with some guy (which caught me by surprise), which led me to believe that she was just having me 'fill in' for his absence (this was before I developed any feelings for her). I also stayed around for the breakup, played the shoulder to cry on, blah blah which makes me think that I just fucked this all up anyways.

>>9755859
If you are talking about PUA then yes, that is almost totaly useless when looking for a GF. The only benefit it has is that introduces you to a ton of girls incrising the posibility.

But love just happens by itself. No book. No guideline for it.
Really, just keep seeing girls until you find a one that you click with.

What are the most important traits in a girl for you, maybe I can point you roughly where to look.
For instance I very much care if my GF will be listening to the similar kind of music as do I. Because I love to dance with my GFs. So when I was going out looking for a GF I'd do it on ska/punk/rock concerts.

>>9755893
-Sponteneous
-Open to new and fun things
-Loyal/trustworthy
-Honest
-Ambitious

>mfw I just described my ex-girlfriend
>I have no face

>>9755871
I dont think she is promiscuous. Just want to still be friends with you.
>>9755881
Not wierd. And it's actaully better when she is in a group when you ask her out, it shows you arent afraid.
>>9755885
Nobody says you need to be seeing girls if you dont feel like it.
>>9755891
Then I'd just kiss him.
>>9755892
That's still rejection man. Just not as a complet human being, she just doesnt see you as her boyfriend.
But the other part might be true, but I dont know her so it's hard to judge

>>9755951
Well we're meet tomorrow under the pretense of a finals review. I think a lot of people are doing it as well.

Should I just go for it or build it over time?

Is a relationship worth getting into when I'll be moving two hours away in four months?

If the answer to the above question is yes, good ways to get my intentions known?

>>9755919
You just described my ex too.

-Sponteneous
>So here I'd suggest looking for girls that are wiling to go out with you without making previous plans. Like you call her, say let's meet up now and she agrees.
-Open to new and fun things
>Try places where new and fun things happen in your opinion. Dont know what's new and fun for you.
-Loyal/trustworthy
>You can never tell before you find her
-Honest
>Same as previous
-Ambitious
>Same as previous

>>9755951

Well that's part of it. I miss the companionship, I miss having someone I care about who cares about me that I can be romantically involved with (I know my friends and my parents/siblings care about me but you know what I mean)

I've flirted with a few girls and it went to the point of dates but my interest would always burn out at an alarming rate which is what's getting to me, it's gotten to the point where I can't even bring myself to be that social with strangers.

Like I said, I miss it, but I lack the willpower or drive to do it, almost to the point of revulsion at the thought.

>>9755966
I'd just go for it.
>>9755967
Two hours isnt that far. And for clearing intentions. Just say them out loud.

>>9755982
I cant really make you want something. Sorry.

hey GGG I have a professor who is flirting with me. what do you suggest I do? I'm not at all opposed to having a thing with him

>>9756002
I'm here to give advice, not make decisions for you people

>>9756012
do you advice I sever the relationship or encourage him?

>>9756031
That's still making decisons for you. Semantics wont work on me.

>>9756012

If you were in my situation, what would you say? Let's say you meet a girl in the hall and you wanna ask her out.

Of course I'm not gonna copy it verbatim, I just want a rough idea of what you'd say, and use it to get a rough idea of what I'd say (I'm not gonna be one of those guys who plans the whole conversation before even approaching).

>>9756037
alright thanks anyway

>>9756039
If I see a girl I want to ask out I go to her and ask her out.

>>9756066

I was expecting something a little less laconic, but thanks for the tips. Means a lot to me bro. Maybe once I'm old enough to post without fear of ban (I'm 15 faggots, go ban me if you want) and I get some experience then I'll be able to repay the favor to /adv/.

Much obliged.

>>9756230

Greg actually just said the same to me the other day and I went balls deep and just did it. Granted I had danced with the girl at prom, but I just stalker her number off facebook and spoke to her and tomorrow we're having lunch.

Takes a hell of a lot of confidence if you've never done it before, but it pays off.

bump, anyone else want any other advice?

>>9756587
Here's one for ya GGG.
I feel in love with a friend a mine's girl, they're pretty serious but there's a lot he doesn't provide for her (namely a father figure for her kids) But she's completely in love with him, and I don't wanna muck around with there relationship since I like the both of them...So far my only solution is to run away cross country, cuz I know we'll cheat if I stay around. Crazy enough they both want me to move in with them for a while since they're gettin set up in a new place. Think I should keep being the good friend/uncle kind of guy and try to keep my hands of this girl (who really REALLY wants me, but backs off as soon as we get close to sex) or should I just turn tail and run?

>>9756689
I'm so sorry man, but as I said a few times in the thread I cannot make life decisions for you guys.