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>it's an important part of any adult relationship
>adult relationship
>adult

>>8812367
>16
>18
>>Adult

0/10

>>8812381
>>8812382
Fuck off

Just break it off.
>It's not everything, but I need to force her to give up everything she's been taught as a child and all her beliefs because fuck her shit.

>>8812403
Maybe instead of breaking it off, you could just postpone it for a while. Try and get her involved with more liberally minded people. You could be just friends for a while. Just don't force the issue, and keep your options open. I always tried for that one woman at a time, in high school. I lost out.

You aren't adults. You're exactly the situation her parents warned her about. If you want to pressure her into having sex with you anyway that's your call, but don't delude yourself into believing your own bullshit.

>>8812415
Okay fine, she's hot and I want to fuck her, what do?

you don't. just find some nice 20+ chick

>18
>16
>adult relationship
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>>8812427
What's the legal drinking age where you live? Get her a bit tipsy and fuck her before she figures out what's going on.

>>8812427
We have 1st of January
you just lost your first chance, next one: her birthday

>>8812415
woah, woah. Calm down. He never said that he was going to push her against a wall and give her an ultimatum. He just said that he wanted her to loosen up. Also, what is adult, for you? Do you really think that it can be expressed as a number? If kids never get the chance to experiment, when they are young, can they ever learn?
>>8812427
Try showing that you are a cool, caring, fun-loving guy who can pay attention to her needs. Don't take shit or be beta. Just show her that she can trust you.

>>8812403
This. Fuck you OP. You are not understanding.

>>8812438
That is considered rape, OP. If you want to do that, you might as well add statuatory to the charge.

>>8812463
It's not statutory rape if they're protected by Romeo and Juliet laws. It is rape, but OP clearly doesn't give a shit about her other than wanting to get in her pants. Hopefully she realizes this early on, before he ruins her life.

>>8812503
was OP not caring read between lines 2 and 3 or 4 and 5?
Check assumptions!

>16
>Adult relationship

Sorry, but I agree with her friends. Yes, sex is an important part of most adult relationships. You are not in an adult relationship. Her brain and emotions are still not fully developed. She's still trying to figure out who she is and her own personal values. It's not up to you to explain to her what an adult relationship consists of - that's up to her to learn and she doesn't need you pushing her into sex under the guise of it being "a normal part of an adult relationship."

The bottom line is, if she's not ready, she's not ready. Tell her your opinions and needs, but don't you dare try and push them on her. Just let her know your feelings, then she can decide what she wants to do for herself.

You also need to realize that not all adults want sex either and lots of people have low sex drives. Sex may actually not end up being important to her, in which case you'd be better off finding someone that matched you better instead of trying to change this girl.

>>8812520
He was asking for a way to whitewash his rape attempt so he could justify it as a good thing. Stop enabling him.

>>8812427
ok, now that you put it this way, the answer is simple: roofie

>>8812525
When do people fully develop, anyways? What were the people like, in your life, who decided that they were perfect and no more growth was required. I used to be almost at that point (I thought that everything would be easy). It ended horribly, for me. I refer to a previous post where I state that this could be a growing experience, for her.
>>8812529
You are trying to whitewash her family and friend's attempt to force their values on her by saying that she isn't ready. You don't even know her.

>>8812568
In their twenties, so you're not fully an adult either. It is fluid and there is no set age where it's, "Welp, I'm an adult now." It is a continuous growing process, but it's known that most of your growth is finished in your 20s.

I see what you're trying to say, but I really do think this is an attempt just to get into her panties. I'm standing by the rest of my statement, which you seem to have ignored: just tell her your opinions and let her make up her own mind. Don't try to "convince" her to YOUR way, then that would make you just as bad as the parents and friends you're complaining about. If you're so convinced this has the potential to be a learning experience, then let it be just that. Don't be upset with the results if she ends up deciding she agrees with her friends and parents and decides not to sleep with you.

It's an adult relationship since 16 is legal there, retard.

man logic: if she can't put out she is not worth it.
woman logic: if he can't wait he is not worth it.

grow up kids. there is nothing wrong with wanting sex.

>>8812600
That's not how it works, faggot.

>>8812609

age of consent = consenting adults.

consenting adults = adult realtionship.

>>8812620
>consenting adult, yet cannot vote, drive alone, drink or buy alcohol, get a bank loan, work a job without scale and school is still compulsory.

But hey, I guess they have to pay adult prices at the movie theatre so they must be adults.