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Oh man, everything in that pic applies to me. Aspie as fuck

>that feel when you know you're not an asspie but can relate to a lot of shit in that pic

Do I need to go for an evaluation or something? Holy shit.

Anyway OP, what kind of stuff does he say that hurts you?

>>8691118
>>8691117
You could always take those online tests...

Also if you're personality type is INTJ you could definitely have Aspergers. Most people with aspergers syndrome are INTJs

>>8691117
>>8691130

> INTJ

oshi....

>>8691091
lol everything in that pic applies to anyone who doesn't get out much. sufficient =! necessary conditions

>>8691118
The thing about asperger's is the CLINICAL SEVERITY of those symptoms.

Everyone can relate to most of that pic to SOME degree.

Jesus, I realte with everything there other than eye contact.

>>8691091

Make it clear to him when he says something hurtful, he might not even realise it. Direct communication is key, as an aspie he's far less likely to pick up on subtleties

>>8691091

So what kind of shit does he say that is hurtful in your eyes.

I made friends with an Aspie once.
Oh he was fucking amazing with computers.
Eventually I lost pity for him.
God damn was he hard to work with.

OP here.
>>8691118
>>8691201

He just states some truths in hurtful ways, like 'oh why do you put on that purple lipstick, are you trying to look goth ? It doesn't suit you it's for pale girls...' or wear that when you are a bit slimmer...
Sometimes he is right but there's always other ways to go about it...

>>8691301
Stop being a little bitch.

>>8691147
The description in the pic is quite specific and if completely fit at least 8/10 I think you probably have aspergers. My boyfriend didn't know he had it until I pointed out all the undeniable similarities..

>>8691328
>I pointed out all the undeniable similarities.

This is fantastic. I lurk this thread nao for moar comedy gold.

>>8691308
I am not being a bitch those were lame examples but everyone that ever had a relationship with someone with aspergers knows what a struggle it is. That's why the rate of divorce, in couples where one of the partners has it, is 80%.
It's a constant struggle it's like trying to teach a chimp not to be aggressive.

OP I don't have any advice, but I was wondering how the relationship started? I'm interested in this girl that has asperger's, but I don't really know how to go about showing her that I like her.

>>8691342
and whats so funny about it -.-

>>8691396
Well I didn't know my boyfriend had when I meet him but it was obvious to me something was very ok.
The best thing for people with aspergers (at least my boyfriend) is to show them that you share passion for the something and, as they normally have some obsessive passion for something ,you should try to turn it into something you do together. Show her you are useful and if she mentions there is something she doesn't like and if it's something reasonable show her that you can change or adapt . One important advise give her space to think and time alone aspies tend to freak out when they are overwhelmed with info or ideas..

>>8691396
Oh and be VERY direct!!! Don't assume she will understand any kind of hidden meanings.. For ex. if you like her say I like you, if you want her to be your girlfriend ask her to be your girlfriend if you are not sure if she fancies you or not ask her 'do you fancy me?' because otherwise you won't get any results

People with Asperger's are rather direct; if you don't like brutal and unwanted honesty you should probably find someone else, no offense meant.

OP,

I was a roomate with 3 people

Woman was bipolar at times manic but this was under extreme circumstances

Her boyfriend "was" autistic asspie and used his disability as an excuse. He constantly thought i was trying to take his girl away from him when in fact all she and I were doing was talking and being friends.

He'd never leave his room and when my buddy and I tried to confront him to see what was wrong since he hadn't eaten, gone to the bathroom ect in three days he proceeded to punch holes in our apartment wall and threatened to stab me and my buddy with scissors.

He was so pissed off that when i walked in to their bedroom since his girlfriend asked me to get something my buddy wouldn't set foot in the room due to the feeling it gave both him and I.

My skin lit up with static electricity it seemed and nothing but feelings of hate, malice and contempt twords me was all i felt from entering the room. as if something wanted to attack me.

>>8691578
I have noticed that about my boyfriend too.. I mean that is extreme but what happened was one of my bestfriends was trying to convince me to have a threesome me her and my ex-boyfriend while I was on holiday back home and my boyfriend was in the country where I am living now... and I happen to mention that to him in a very dismissive way (because it was obvious that I wouldn't do it and even my best friend new that It was more of a joke ) but anyway he ended up hating her to death it was pure hate and I couldn't even mention her name, and one of the things he said was that he hated her because she was trying to take me away from him ...